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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Been living with daughters Mam for years and she's just decided to end the relationship. It was pretty much an unloving and sexless relationship but I still loved her. A bit lost as what to do with my life going forward. Currently still living together in different rooms until we find other places/sell the house. How do people get on with their lives? Heartbroken and very sexually frustrated |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Been living with daughters Mam for years and she's just decided to end the relationship. It was pretty much an unloving and sexless relationship but I still loved her. A bit lost as what to do with my life going forward. Currently still living together in different rooms until we find other places/sell the house. How do people get on with their lives? Heartbroken and very sexually frustrated "
I've been there myself and it's certainly not easy.
Won't go into details but I will say that things get better with time.
Hang in there.   |
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Also remember that your not alone , there are other people around you that can support you.
Pain does subside eventually and you might never get over it but its better having others to help you through it , wish you the best |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hard to see it getting any easier at the moment. The future of not seeing daughter every day and losing the house is tough and hearing the words she doesn't love me anymore was horrible |
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"Been living with daughters Mam for years and she's just decided to end the relationship. It was pretty much an unloving and sexless relationship but I still loved her. A bit lost as what to do with my life going forward. Currently still living together in different rooms until we find other places/sell the house. How do people get on with their lives? Heartbroken and very sexually frustrated "
You need to take advice from the vaccines and post break up sex to help you forget your ex |
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By *hrimper36Couple
over a year ago
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Been there done that op and I was devastated when my wife of 25 years left me and was just going to end my life when she told me in the September that she was leaving in the December but I didn’t.
That was two years ago and now Eve is girlfriend number 7 and I’ve never been happier in my life.
Look up and enjoy life.
You can still live her but love yourself as well.
Live your life for your daughter and yourself.
Don’t feel sorry for yourself but instead feel sorry for her.
Good luck
Live your best life.
T |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Been living with daughters Mam for years and she's just decided to end the relationship. It was pretty much an unloving and sexless relationship but I still loved her. A bit lost as what to do with my life going forward. Currently still living together in different rooms until we find other places/sell the house. How do people get on with their lives? Heartbroken and very sexually frustrated
You need to take advice from the vaccines and post break up sex to help you forget your ex "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Been there done that op and I was devastated when my wife of 25 years left me and was just going to end my life when she told me in the September that she was leaving in the December but I didn’t.
That was two years ago and now Eve is girlfriend number 7 and I’ve never been happier in my life.
Look up and enjoy life.
You can still live her but love yourself as well.
Live your life for your daughter and yourself.
Don’t feel sorry for yourself but instead feel sorry for her.
Good luck
Live your best life.
T"
Thankyou so much. Feels like I am alone when so many others have been through it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Time can be a great healer.
You guys will work something out, the fact you have a daughter together too means a friendship can still be an option too "
I know lets hope so |
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Been there. My 28 year relationship fell apart when my husband decided he didn't love me. It was news to me. 2 years on, I've moved out and live nearer to my family and am happier than I ever thought I'd be 2 years ago. You'll get through it and find a new direction for your life. Despite what you think now. |
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Sorry to hear your news OP. It has been said several times on the thread already but things do get better with time and you will discover things in life you didn’t realise were available. Don’t rush into anything is my one piece of advice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Lots of people have been through it
My ex ended our relationship and stayed while looking for somewhere to live. Which would have been fine (house is big enough that I never had to see him), but every evening he went to see the woman he was leaving me for. Then to add insult to injury, he tried to come back when his flat fell through last minute
We've all felt the pain, but sometimes, it's self inflicted |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lots of people have been through it
My ex ended our relationship and stayed while looking for somewhere to live. Which would have been fine (house is big enough that I never had to see him), but every evening he went to see the woman he was leaving me for. Then to add insult to injury, he tried to come back when his flat fell through last minute
We've all felt the pain, but sometimes, it's self inflicted"
That sounds awful. He doesn't sound like he was a very nice person |
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"Been living with daughters Mam for years and she's just decided to end the relationship. It was pretty much an unloving and sexless relationship but I still loved her. A bit lost as what to do with my life going forward. Currently still living together in different rooms until we find other places/sell the house. How do people get on with their lives? Heartbroken and very sexually frustrated "
She’s just decided to end the relationship but you’ve been on here for over a year. I wonder why she decided to end it  |
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Sorry to hear OP.
Been there, can be incredibly hard and sad but there will be better times again in the future!
If you feel like seeking advice...Lots out there on the internet to support you mentally and with practical advice.
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Sorry to hear mate, I've been there and it's a horrible horrible place to be.
You have to do what's best for you now, and once you've accepted its over with your ex and you can break away, the clouds will start to dissapate and you'll start to rebuild.
Whatever you do, please don't think you have nobody to talk to, friends, family, work mates, professionals.. All will help but, look forward, and you'll soon see that there's a big wide world out there and now you can do as you please...... Within reason.... Once you've relayed the grade patio and thrown away all evidence.. Haha
JOKING of course! Humour is a good way to get through it. Keep you chin up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Been living with daughters Mam for years and she's just decided to end the relationship. It was pretty much an unloving and sexless relationship but I still loved her. A bit lost as what to do with my life going forward. Currently still living together in different rooms until we find other places/sell the house. How do people get on with their lives? Heartbroken and very sexually frustrated "
If you struggling see your Gp if not try talking to your wife. If you feel low reach out to family or friends. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Been living with daughters Mam for years and she's just decided to end the relationship. It was pretty much an unloving and sexless relationship but I still loved her. A bit lost as what to do with my life going forward. Currently still living together in different rooms until we find other places/sell the house. How do people get on with their lives? Heartbroken and very sexually frustrated
If you struggling see your Gp if not try talking to your wife. If you feel low reach out to family or friends. "
Thankyou I have seen a GP |
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I know this feeling all too well OP and unfortunately I don’t have much advice other than give it time. It took me months to start seeing through the gloom but I got there and I’m a stronger person for it.
Don’t rush things, feel everything and talk to people when it gets overwhelming hopefully you’ll have a whole new life and a new outlook in a couple of months when the pain subsides. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Been there done that op and I was devastated when my wife of 25 years left me and was just going to end my life when she told me in the September that she was leaving in the December but I didn’t.
That was two years ago and now Eve is girlfriend number 7 and I’ve never been happier in my life.
Look up and enjoy life.
You can still live her but love yourself as well.
Live your life for your daughter and yourself.
Don’t feel sorry for yourself but instead feel sorry for her.
Good luck
Live your best life.
T"
WELL SAID I |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
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"Been living with daughters Mam for years and she's just decided to end the relationship. It was pretty much an unloving and sexless relationship but I still loved her. A bit lost as what to do with my life going forward. Currently still living together in different rooms until we find other places/sell the house. How do people get on with their lives? Heartbroken and very sexually frustrated "
awwww hey its tough man but time is a great healer.
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