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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How to feel attractive when a bigger girl I'm really struggling "
Confidence can be a horrid thing when you have a lack of it but in all honesty, you look amazing. If you have trouble then im absolutely stuffed 
In all seriousness though , no one can tell you how good you look if you’re not feeling it. Sometimes I have to take that time and force myself to make an effort even when all I want to do is slob around at home. I really hope you can see the beauty and n yourself soon as I promise you its there for all of us to see x |
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I think confidence is key.
I'm not particularly confident, but I take a deep breath, tits out, smile on and fake it til you make it.
Pretty soon the smile will become second nature.
And try to love yourself. That can be really hard too, especially when you're used to being or hearing negative things about yourself. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"How to feel attractive when a bigger girl I'm really struggling "
Men like women of all shapes and sizes. Everyone has their preferences but there's honestly someone for everyone.
Some have more 'hard and fast' ideas of body shapes and sizes they're attracted to, others honestly don't care.
People will always say 'you don't fuck a personality' but to many people that's far more important than a perfect figure.
Everyone has flaws and imperfections. Even slimmer, more athletic people worry about body image.
It's not as if you're hiding how you look in your images so well done for not going down the vague body part route that some take to hide their size/shape.
Sexy is a mindset, not a shape.
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I get the rationale behind the post and I think everyone suffers with lack of confidence in some way at some point.
This said you look great, and shouldn't feel unconfident. Next time I'm at the Salthouse I'd be chuffed to go for a drink with you on my arm |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
Wear outfits that you feel comfortable in and that you look great in. I found that wearing a multi strap suspender belt covered my stomach more than the think suspender belts and it’s very popular. Having some basic items helped me to feel more confident. Guys love my ass and I hate it, it’s too big and nothing fits. I’ve not got much of a bust but I make more of my narrower waste.
Make the most of the attributes that you like about yourself. You are gorgeous. |
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"Wear outfits that you feel comfortable in and that you look great in. I found that wearing a multi strap suspender belt covered my stomach more than the think suspender belts and it’s very popular. Having some basic items helped me to feel more confident. Guys love my ass and I hate it, it’s too big and nothing fits. I’ve not got much of a bust but I make more of my narrower waste.
Make the most of the attributes that you like about yourself. You are gorgeous. "
thank u hun good tips |
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Some do, some don't, some pretend they do just to get their dick wet.
There are lots of threads where men shoe their appreciation for larger ladies. If you are in to clubs then most clubs will do a night aimed at bigger ladies that can be great fun.
Evie |
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I think you look great.
Everyone has their own preferences - I certainly find woman "above average" in figure terms much more attractive than those "below average".
Don't worry about those who don't like the way you look - as long as you're happy with it and others find you attractive (and by the responses they clearly do) you have nothing to worry about. |
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
London |
OP, I understand the lack of confidence, and I struggle with body hang ups - I think the important thing is when someone you like expresses interest to not shut them down and enjoy it and build your confidence and have fun. Once it’s clear it’s “on”, I relax and enjoy every moment and I’m super confident once naked with someone as I’m damned if I’m going to let anything stop me having all the positive feels. And that can be intoxicating for everyone involved.  |
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"OP, I understand the lack of confidence, and I struggle with body hang ups - I think the important thing is when someone you like expresses interest to not shut them down and enjoy it and build your confidence and have fun. Once it’s clear it’s “on”, I relax and enjoy every moment and I’m super confident once naked with someone as I’m damned if I’m going to let anything stop me having all the positive feels. And that can be intoxicating for everyone involved. "
What a brilliant response. If only I could write so eloquently. |
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"Some do, some don't, some pretend they do just to get their dick wet.
There are lots of threads where men shoe their appreciation for larger ladies. If you are in to clubs then most clubs will do a night aimed at bigger ladies that can be great fun.
Evie "
Agree with the clubs part. Lots of events aimed at bbw and curvy ladies. They do wonders for your confidence
Mindset for me plays a big part. Also buying half of shein’s lingerie  x |
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"Girls are girls, it's what's between the ears that counts, that's where the sexiness (is that a word?) comes from  doesn't matter what shape, size, colour etc "
To some it does to be fair. To me it does. If I’m not physically attracted it doesn’t matter what’s between the ears. |
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I love all shapes and sizes of women but I have got to admit that I do have a preference for the bigger lady for me it's not really about size it's more about how nice and friendly a woman is can you go out and have fun together or just sit on the sofa with each other and have a decent conversation together confidence is all in the mind you might think you don't look attractive because you are a bit big but trust me you all look fantastic and just need someone to give you a compliment and to let you know how desirable you are. xx |
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By *t72Man
over a year ago
Faversham |
There’s nothing sexier than a lady with all the right curves, and a game changer if she knows how to use them.
if you want a challenge,Its harder guessing if a woman likes a guy with a few extra pounds. As everyone one seems to want the six pack and tan at the mo. |
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"There’s nothing sexier than a lady with all the right curves, and a game changer if she knows how to use them.
if you want a challenge,Its harder guessing if a woman likes a guy with a few extra pounds. As everyone one seems to want the six pack and tan at the mo."
That is categorically untrue |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
Just a thought: Do we really, REALLY need to cover up parts that are not sexy (in whose opinion anyway?)
Would we ever ask a guy to cover up his belly?
I think we should celebrate who we are, with bellies, boobs and everything we have got. Definitely not try to cover up. Confidence is also rather sexy, more so than a perfect (in whose opinion anyway) body!
Good luck OP, you look terrific and very sexy!
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"How to feel attractive when a bigger girl I'm really struggling "
Confidence can be hard sometimes I am a big man and have good days and bad I do get abuse on here and think about deleting my account and then you get random messages from up and down this lovely island of ours being so kind with messages of support that's is what gets me through.
And more to the point you are absolutely stunning really hot and sexy body and very good looking face I would be proud to know you as a friend or partner your man is very lucky |
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By *ags73Man
over a year ago
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"Just a thought: Do we really, REALLY need to cover up parts that are not sexy (in whose opinion anyway?)
Would we ever ask a guy to cover up his belly?
I think we should celebrate who we are, with bellies, boobs and everything we have got. Definitely not try to cover up. Confidence is also rather sexy, more so than a perfect (in whose opinion anyway) body!
Good luck OP, you look terrific and very sexy!
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Good shout. Fully agree |
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"How to feel attractive when a bigger girl I'm really struggling "
Struggle no longer…. yes we do like bigger girls.
Your curves are great, embrace them
The media construct a vision of beauty, that is fake, distorted by filters.. not real. Its a disservice to women.
Natural and real is sexier than fake.
Keep rocking the lingerie !!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There’s nothing sexier than a lady with all the right curves, and a game changer if she knows how to use them.
if you want a challenge,Its harder guessing if a woman likes a guy with a few extra pounds. As everyone one seems to want the six pack and tan at the mo.
That is categorically untrue "
Definitely for me I cant do tanned, waxed and preening gent, certainly for first impressions. Its just not my preference. |
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As others have said, men like all shapes and sizes of women, with lots appreciating a larger lady.
Having looked at your photos, I would guess that you're a similar size to me. I'm a 16 but don't consider myself to be large, as this is pretty average.
However, I also understand that many women lack confidence and are unhappy with their body. I reckon you should give a club a try on a night aimed at curvier ladies. Hopefully this will help you feel more comfortable and confident, as you won't feel big or out of place.
I love being able to strut my stuff in sexy outfits in clubs... it really is great for the ego 
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"Its harder guessing if a woman likes a guy with a few extra pounds. As everyone one seems to want the six pack and tan at the mo."
Not at all. Sorry, but this is just a cop out.
I don't like the body builder, over tanned look at all. Negativity is also not attractive.
What I do find attractive is positively, a sense of humour, a cheeky smile and intelligence. Many women will agree with me.
Nita |
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And besides LOTS of men like larger ladies 