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By *heoneandonly200 OP   Man  over a year ago

Wilmslow

Need some advice. Not long out of a 7 year relationship and now the ex before her started messaging me. We spoke for quite a bit but now I really want to fuck her. Go for it? Or avoid completely?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

What does she want?

*don’t ask cynical me for advice.

That’s my experience, when I get a phone call or text, they want something.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Avoid.. been there done that wasn't good lol he was an ex for a reason

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By *ink vixenCouple  over a year ago

Medway

There’s 8 billion people on the planet.

And this is your best shot?

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By *ames-77Man  over a year ago

milton keynes


"Need some advice. Not long out of a 7 year relationship and now the ex before her started messaging me. We spoke for quite a bit but now I really want to fuck her. Go for it? Or avoid completely?"

Do what you fancy doing mate you don't need advice for something like this

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By *amierebelMan  over a year ago

My own little world

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By *amierebelMan  over a year ago

My own little world

Most people will tell you to avoid or give you the whole theyre a ex for a reason spiel you do you pal can't lie ive been there 9 year relationship and went back for some purely for familiar sex is what it is

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By *rs grumpyWoman  over a year ago

motherwell

Think with your big head. Not the wee one.

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By *a LunaWoman  over a year ago

South Wales

It could be amazing, it could be a ball ache.

Don’t think with your cock.

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

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It depends on why things ended Op which is only something you'd know. For me personally, I wouldn't. The sex wouldn't be good enough to put up with their crappy behaviour after.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

That's marriage material. Go put a ring on her.

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By *ergus1000Man  over a year ago

Greenock

Fuck her.

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By *estYorkshireGentMan  over a year ago

Leeds

Completely depends on why you broke up. I get that she’s probably very attractive to you and you’ll be seriously tempted but it usually doesn’t lead to anything good

From my personal experience.. it wasn’t worth it

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By *onameyet2Man  over a year ago

chorley


"It depends on why things ended Op which is only something you'd know. For me personally, I wouldn't. The sex wouldn't be good enough to put up with their crappy behaviour after."

You’d be surprised (or probably not) what men will put up with for sex

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By *stellaWoman  over a year ago

London


"Fuck her."

Fuck her or *fuck* her?

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By *ackformore100Man  over a year ago

Tin town


"What does she want?

*don’t ask cynical me for advice.

That’s my experience, when I get a phone call or text, they want something. "

This ^

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If you make it clear youre not wanting a relationship and are just out enjoying yourself having fun and she wants a fuck, go for it. But play it carefully

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

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"It depends on why things ended Op which is only something you'd know. For me personally, I wouldn't. The sex wouldn't be good enough to put up with their crappy behaviour after.

You’d be surprised (or probably not) what men will put up with for sex "

You're right, I'm not.

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By *mf123Man  over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Iv never fucked your ex not guilty

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man  over a year ago

BRIDPORT

Fill yer boots and enjoy the ride, just keep her as an ex with benefits until you get yourself sorted with something more long term.

Relationship advice is my forte

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS  over a year ago

Chichester


"Need some advice. Not long out of a 7 year relationship and now the ex before her started messaging me. We spoke for quite a bit but now I really want to fuck her. Go for it? Or avoid completely?"

Swerve it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Don’t go digging through the bin for something that used to make you happy

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By *ighlander81Man  over a year ago

Hamilton

Only you know the reason why she’s an ex, do you regret the split? If so go for it or was it a bin fire?…then maybe stay clear and just hit tinder instead

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By *ames-77Man  over a year ago

milton keynes


"It depends on why things ended Op which is only something you'd know. For me personally, I wouldn't. The sex wouldn't be good enough to put up with their crappy behaviour after.

You’d be surprised (or probably not) what men will put up with for sex "

He definitely doesn't speak for all men

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

I have no idea what you should do.

It might end well or it might be disastrous if you do sleep with her. You might regret it if you don't or if you do.

It's only sex after all.

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By *ANDA!Man  over a year ago

DUMFRIES

If it's sex and just sex ...why not. I've fucked plenty of exes. They weren't exes because of bad sex. If anything ex sex is better imo

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By *utlongjohnMan  over a year ago

close

Cant see no harm in it personally after 7 years.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I went back to my ex after 20year relationship failed. Was the best sex!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I wouldn't go there, they are an ex for a reason. People rarely change. Whatever put you off them before will start rearing it's head around the corner within a few weeks once their facade drops.

Just sex is complicated enough with a stranger that you both agree it's "just sex" with that normally equates to one wanting more.

And now with an ex where there has been feelings involved before?

Nah, she's either lonely or she's realised she messed up before and possibly wants to make another go of it.

I wouldn't, but you do you.

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By *host63Man  over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham


"What does she want?

*don’t ask cynical me for advice.

That’s my experience, when I get a phone call or text, they want something. "

I agree women never get in touch with you unless they want something.

There is a reason someone is your ex and that won't change.

My advice is to steer well clear.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

WALK.AWAY NO DONT

RUN AWAY FAR FAR AWAY

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By *ames-77Man  over a year ago

milton keynes


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WALK.AWAY NO DONT

RUN AWAY FAR FAR AWAY "

Haha in the words of Kanye run away as fast as youuuu can!!!

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By *ylonlover87Man  over a year ago

Kent


"Need some advice. Not long out of a 7 year relationship and now the ex before her started messaging me. We spoke for quite a bit but now I really want to fuck her. Go for it? Or avoid completely?"

I personally wouldn't. It holds you back from moving on.

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman  over a year ago

Manchester

Go for me instead- ha!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Need some advice. Not long out of a 7 year relationship and now the ex before her started messaging me. We spoke for quite a bit but now I really want to fuck her. Go for it? Or avoid completely?"

It's a trap ffs

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By *TG3Man  over a year ago

Dorchester


"Need some advice. Not long out of a 7 year relationship and now the ex before her started messaging me. We spoke for quite a bit but now I really want to fuck her. Go for it? Or avoid completely?"
surely its better than waiting for a reply on here

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By *parkle1974Woman  over a year ago

Leeds

Doesnit really matter what answers people give you. At the end of the day, if you are both happy to do so, you will

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By *arlot o scaraWoman  over a year ago

Hell

Would you shove shit back up your arse?

Going back to your ex is essentially the same

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By *rispyDuckMan  over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

They are an Ex for a reason

But sometimes that toxic pussy is irresistible so I understand the struggle

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By *ecadent_DevonMan  over a year ago

Okehampton

I think it depends why she is your ex but fundamentally something didn’t “work” in your relationship before, have circumstances changed to the point that they would work.

If it’s just to get your dick wet, hell no. That way lies ruin

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