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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Leeds

Who do you turn to when you need a shoulder to cry on??

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By *stellaWoman  over a year ago

London

My mum.

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By *ake_or_deathMan  over a year ago

Manchester

I don't. I just turn my head and wet my own shoulder.

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By *hrek101Man  over a year ago

Herts

Wait, what?...you mean we can turn to others? Who knew?

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple  over a year ago

kent

Only Ailsa. I have friends, but nobody I could properly open up too.

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By *ittlebirdWoman  over a year ago

The Big Smoke

My friends

They are my family

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan  over a year ago

Bradford


"Who do you turn to when you need a shoulder to cry on?? "

I don't

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By *a LunaWoman  over a year ago

South Wales

My mum

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman  over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Honestly? Mostly myself.

Once I've got the tears out and started to straighten it in my own head, I'll reach out to someone I trust to help me figure it out

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By *anManCoolMan  over a year ago

Camborne

I dont have that option, so just me to myself

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By *aseylee324Couple  over a year ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

Himself of course, who else?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My cousin. She's my bestie

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By *arlot o scaraWoman  over a year ago

Hell

My friend, affectionately known as big Mike

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The Almighty Odin.

If he's not available, then my mammy.

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By *inxy777Woman  over a year ago

essex

No one, well just me.

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By *lueLotusWoman  over a year ago

the wilderness

The Cat.

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By *mf123Man  over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Hope your okay you are good people

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman  over a year ago

Wherever

No one. I’m completely on my own.

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By *mf123Man  over a year ago

with one foot out the door

[Removed by poster at 16/01/24 22:38:30]

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By *ornyhappyCouple  over a year ago

perth

Depends on why I'm crying.

Mostly I just keep it inside or sob into my pillow.

K

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By *ust RachelTV/TS  over a year ago

Horsham

No one.

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By *eroLondonMan  over a year ago

Mayfair

No one. Just myself. It's tormenting, this realism. My coping and consoling mechanisms go into overdrive.

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By *he Vital SparkMan  over a year ago

Preston

No one, I'll always figure it out somehow

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have two. But each have their own expertise so I go there to sanity check what I am thinking, am I being unreasonable, is there anything I could have done or how can I plan going forward?

I tend to massively overthink and it can be like having a pin ball in my head pinging from side to side. So yes, I do sometimes need that outlet.

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By * and R cple4Couple  over a year ago

swansea

My husband.. X

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By *ophieslutTV/TS  over a year ago

Central

Family or friends

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By *atnip make me purrWoman  over a year ago

Reading

My daughters aged 25 and 30.

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By *orraine999Woman  over a year ago

Somewhere

A friend. He’s always been a good listener even though we’re thousands of miles apart.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Don't cry mate, I've trained my tears to reverse back inwards and exit via the next avalible sweat gland.

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman  over a year ago

Schitts Creek

It truly depends on the reason I need a shoulder, a lot of times I just withdraw into myself

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By *rHotNottsMan  over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

No one.

If I’m crying I’m either grieving a death or watching a movie and I don’t need assistance for either.

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By *uzie69xTV/TS  over a year ago

Maidstone

My Therapist...

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By *nigmatic x DivinityCouple  over a year ago

Up town top ranking

I'm the one that's always there for others.

I don't have anyone but my dogs.

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By *esthetic21Man  over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

I don't I just deal with it. I've found telling people doesn't make it better it can sometimes make it worse because now I'm worried about them worrying about me.

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By *esthetic21Man  over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

Apart from my doggos

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By *ANDA!Man  over a year ago

DUMFRIES

Absolutely no one. I keep all my shit bottled up cos everyone else around d me has enough of their own shit to deal with

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

sadly nobody, I’ve been amazed at the amount of stuff I’ve been able to deal with alone when that was the only option given to me now.

I hope your okay op, nobody deserves to feel sad.

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By *icolasHidalgoDeCorazonMan  over a year ago

St Leonards


"[Former shoulder to cry on no longer trusted by poster at around the age of 6]"

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By *riar BelisseWoman  over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Myself.

Wine, men in black 3 and lots of tissues

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By *ean counterMan  over a year ago

Market Harborough/ Kettering

The mirror !

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By *he ass man 666Man  over a year ago

paradise city

No one

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By *ngelLordCouple  over a year ago

Newport

Wife

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My friends and my dad

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By *ife NinjaMan  over a year ago

Dunfermline

I'm afraid, I have nobody. I can't lay it on my kids

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I work it through myself... once it's rationalised, it depends what it is, as to who i might tell

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My fiancé. She’s been there when I’ve seen no way out.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I work it through myself... once it's rationalised, it depends what it is, as to who i might tell "

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By *assy69Man  over a year ago

West Sussex and Wales


"Who do you turn to when you need a shoulder to cry on?? "

There’s no one I trust enough to turn to them, so still struggle through in my own and hope that, one day, I will be able to share…….. having said that, I have started to open up …… a little …… to someone so watch this space I guess

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple  over a year ago

Ryde

My husband.

Swears like NAFFI with piles, makes breathtakingly rude jokes and farts like a trooper (speciality: a note-perfect alien greeting from Close Encounters of the Third Kind), but wonderfully attentive and you can tell him anything.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Nobody, I don’t like to burden others with my troubles.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Nobody usually

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By *weetiepie99Woman  over a year ago

cardiff

Usually my mum, sisters or friends

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

"If you cry in the shower no one can see your tears "

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By *ortney CocksWoman  over a year ago

fab land


"The Cat. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Find a gravestone with ‘sympathy’ on it and get digging. I won’t stand for false advertising.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My best friend

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman  over a year ago

Schitts Creek


"Find a gravestone with ‘sympathy’ on it and get digging. I won’t stand for false advertising. "

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire

my mum

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By *GermanInLondonMan  over a year ago

London

Friends and my parents.

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By *orny-DJMan  over a year ago

Leigh-on-Sea

Unfortunately, nobody as nobody seems to give a shit about my feelings or mental health.

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By *ullyMan  over a year ago

Near Clacton

I only have my little dog. So I just bottle things up till I get over it.

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By *ools and the brainCouple  over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"Unfortunately, nobody as nobody seems to give a shit about my feelings or mental health."

Don't say that bro,we give a shit.

Man hugs

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By *xploringgentMan  over a year ago

London &


"I work it through myself... once it's rationalised, it depends what it is, as to who i might tell "

I’m the same, I’m a private person I have friends and family but it’s very rare I speak to anyone about an issue or something I’m going through…

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By *allerthanaverage79Man  over a year ago

Ayrshire

Is this not what the forums are for?

"I'm still waiting on first meet!"

"Does my bum look big in this?"

And my favourite -

"Why did a do something to B just to c what would happen!"

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By *affron40Woman  over a year ago

manchester

My best mate.

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