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How do I make my profile more appealing?
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By *iuLiu OP Man
over a year ago
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As the title says, how would i make my profile better and perhaps make it so it gets more attention. I have no idea where should i begin, i do know my bio is not the best but honestly idk what should i even put there. All the help is appreciated. |
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over a year ago
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"As the title says, how would i make my profile better and perhaps make it so it gets more attention. I have no idea where should i begin, i do know my bio is not the best but honestly idk what should i even put there. All the help is appreciated. "
You've answered your own question with saying your bio is not the best.
Look at profiles on the forums, they have content, they have humour, they give good info on the person without giving too much away. Your bio is.....nothing
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"As the title says, how would i make my profile better and perhaps make it so it gets more attention. I have no idea where should i begin, i do know my bio is not the best but honestly idk what should i even put there. All the help is appreciated.
You've answered your own question with saying your bio is not the best.
Look at profiles on the forums, they have content, they have humour, they give good info on the person without giving too much away. Your bio is.....nothing
I hate being a bitch but sometimes being harsh can help newbies"
It's not being g bitchy though - just honest.
A profile should be crafted by the owner, otherwise it becomes a mish mash of suggestions, created by committee and put together based on what others suggest would be good 'bait' to attract the target audience, rather than a true representation of the personality and traits of the person behind the words and pictures.
Nobody wants to read a profile, become invested and then discover that the person they're chatting to is fuck all like the shop window they found intriguing.
That's just false advertising.
Likewise there's no point just copying someone else's because you see them as in some way successful.
You'll end up looking like the Aldi knock off of their M&S masterpiece.  |
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If you sift through the nonsense, there is some good tips on this thread OP
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1559539
As mentioned above, do read a few mens profiles on here and pinch a few ideas |
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"As the title says, how would i make my profile better and perhaps make it so it gets more attention. I have no idea where should i begin, i do know my bio is not the best but honestly idk what should i even put there. All the help is appreciated.
You've answered your own question with saying your bio is not the best.
Look at profiles on the forums, they have content, they have humour, they give good info on the person without giving too much away. Your bio is.....nothing
I hate being a bitch but sometimes being harsh can help newbies
It's not being g bitchy though - just honest.
A profile should be crafted by the owner, otherwise it becomes a mish mash of suggestions, created by committee and put together based on what others suggest would be good 'bait' to attract the target audience, rather than a true representation of the personality and traits of the person behind the words and pictures.
Nobody wants to read a profile, become invested and then discover that the person they're chatting to is fuck all like the shop window they found intriguing.
That's just false advertising.
Likewise there's no point just copying someone else's because you see them as in some way successful.
You'll end up looking like the Aldi knock off of their M&S masterpiece. "
Maybe we disagree  |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
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Hiya op
Firstly you only have one picture
Start by little bit about yourselves hobbies interests etc then lead on fantasies and what you can offer what you are looking for, things that you might want to explore |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As the title says, how would i make my profile better and perhaps make it so it gets more attention. I have no idea where should i begin, i do know my bio is not the best but honestly idk what should i even put there. All the help is appreciated. "
Have a look around and see what else people have put. Maybe some of the more successful ones, get an idea of what sort of things need to go on be it a bit of personality, a few jokes etc
Also look through the forum as there are a few threads like this in the distant and near past. They may have top tips too  |
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Would you be curious about shagging you? How definite could you be, from seeing it? There's little to go on. Your pic doesn't give you much of a chance for anyone to know if they're more attracted to you than someone else. And there are a lot of others, so you'll get overlooked. People look at the profile of anyone who messages them, so focus your attention on having it give them what they need to be able to make a fair assessment of you.
We're not mutually compatible with most other people but if they don't know, it'll err towards no. |
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