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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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That you like but is too far away for the regular sex your looking for? But you only get to meet them just the once? Or a few times maybe? But no more than handful?
Or would you rather never meet them? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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There feels like something romantic about the whole thing. Knowing that it is what it is. And having that happy time then going back to just being pen pals  |
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I've been in this situation. Travelled a long way to meet her a few times. I knew it couldn't be a regular thing, but it was worth it to spend some time with her. To me that was better than spending no time with her. |
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"That you like but is too far away for the regular sex your looking for? But you only get to meet them just the once? Or a few times maybe? But no more than handful?
Or would you rather never meet them? "
I think I'd rather meet them  |
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"That you like but is too far away for the regular sex your looking for? But you only get to meet them just the once? Or a few times maybe? But no more than handful?
Or would you rather never meet them? "
I would meet for a one off. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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I’d meet them. Even if just for a hot drink.
Otherwise you’d spend forever wondering “what if”.
As they say, better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.
Just don’t place any massive expectations on it and then can’t be too dissapointed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. No. Maybe.
Probably  I think hook up sex can be fun with someone you really fancy and get along with, and it can get alsorts if exciting has the time you finally will meet becomes closer and closer. And the fact you might not get a chance to be together again for a long time makes that moment a lot more intense and meaningful maybe. 
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By *ewcatWoman
over a year ago
Berkshire |
"That you like but is too far away for the regular sex your looking for? But you only get to meet them just the once? Or a few times maybe? But no more than handful?
Or would you rather never meet them? "
I guess it depends on how strong the connection is. A 3.5 hour drive might fly by and only feel like 13 minutes if you really desire someone and need that physical connection.
I would always work out how to do the meet if there is a strong enough connection. Even if it’s just one filthy weekend or only a few times a year.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've been in this situation. Travelled a long way to meet her a few times. I knew it couldn't be a regular thing, but it was worth it to spend some time with her. To me that was better than spending no time with her."
Awww this! I want this to be in the stories section so I can live through you |
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"I've been in this situation. Travelled a long way to meet her a few times. I knew it couldn't be a regular thing, but it was worth it to spend some time with her. To me that was better than spending no time with her.
Awww this! I want this to be in the stories section so I can live through you "
Haha I've never really used the stories section. Is it supposed to be fictional stories? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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100% it’s a bit like the better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.
We would always have memories of our passionate night to look back on  |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"That you like but is too far away for the regular sex your looking for? But you only get to meet them just the once? Or a few times maybe? But no more than handful?
Or would you rather never meet them? "
I'd meet them. Why not? Any interaction with them doesn't prevent any interactions with anyone else, so what's stopping you finding that regular sex you're looking from elsewhere?
Why can't both happen?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've been in this situation. Travelled a long way to meet her a few times. I knew it couldn't be a regular thing, but it was worth it to spend some time with her. To me that was better than spending no time with her.
Awww this! I want this to be in the stories section so I can live through you
Haha I've never really used the stories section. Is it supposed to be fictional stories?"
I think there’s fiction in there that’s based on truth |
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"That you like but is too far away for the regular sex your looking for? But you only get to meet them just the once? Or a few times maybe? But no more than handful?
Or would you rather never meet them? "
100% would like to meet them |
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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago
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Sure! Why the hell not? Life is short to not try things if you are curious. In whole lifetime ago, pre-fab I once made a 4 hour journey to go on a dinner date with a guy I’d never met before. Was I a little naive, sure but I also planned my weekend around what I wanted to do by myself just in case it didn’t work out |
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I definitely would if I fancied him that much! I'd like to hope I could keep it in perspective and not get hurt that it was just a one off etc. But I'd still take the risk of being hurt just to experience that night! Lol |
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Ordinarily no because of the insurmountable legwork required to make a social or a meet like this sufficiently viable. However...
I'm actually germinating the seeds of this type of encounter right now. Up until now it's been 15 months of flirtatious friendship based on long-distance penmanship, with the remote possiblity of just meeting for drinks if our well-trodden paths ever aligned somewhere in middle-England.
Now it's something 'more' and imminent: a 'romantic date' in every conceivable way, despite the vast distance between us and the unpalatable notion of it being a one-off encounter (I absolutely hope not!). It's almost mythical and whimsical. |
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"Ordinarily no because of the insurmountable legwork required to make a social or a meet like this sufficiently viable. However...
I'm actually germinating the seeds of this type of encounter right now. Up until now it's been 15 months of flirtatious friendship based on long-distance penmanship, with the remote possiblity of just meeting for drinks if our well-trodden paths ever aligned somewhere in middle-England.
Now it's something 'more' and imminent: a 'romantic date' in every conceivable way, despite the vast distance between us and the unpalatable notion of it being a one-off encounter (I absolutely hope not!). It's almost mythical and whimsical."
Bugger I've missed the boat  lol |
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Unsure. I don’t often fancy people who live really far away. I will talk to them as friends but I think distance stops me from being really attracted to them. I can honestly say I’m not pining for anyone that doesn’t live near me.
Never say never though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Unsure. I don’t often fancy people who live really far away. I will talk to them as friends but I think distance stops me from being really attracted to them. I can honestly say I’m not pining for anyone that doesn’t live near me.
Never say never though. "
I know what you mean! There’s an Element of well it’s so unlikely to happen my brain won’t let me get excited about it |
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Fuck yes. Because I’m not romantic. I go for what I want.
And some meets you know it may only be once or twice so you pack months worth into those precious hours. You take chances. Make moves. Waste no time. It’s exhilarating. It’s reminded me to live in the moment. Take every shot. |
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By *lueseasWoman
over a year ago
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"There feels like something romantic about the whole thing. Knowing that it is what it is. And having that happy time then going back to just being pen pals "
Definitely very romantic, in a desperately maudlin way… basically irresistible!! |
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"Ordinarily no because of the insurmountable legwork required to make a social or a meet like this sufficiently viable. However...
I'm actually germinating the seeds of this type of encounter right now. Up until now it's been 15 months of flirtatious friendship based on long-distance penmanship, with the remote possiblity of just meeting for drinks if our well-trodden paths ever aligned somewhere in middle-England.
Now it's something 'more' and imminent: a 'romantic date' in every conceivable way, despite the vast distance between us and the unpalatable notion of it being a one-off encounter (I absolutely hope not!). It's almost mythical and whimsical.
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Bugger I've missed the boat lol"
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I've got you a better boat.  |
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"Ordinarily no because of the insurmountable legwork required to make a social or a meet like this sufficiently viable. However...
I'm actually germinating the seeds of this type of encounter right now. Up until now it's been 15 months of flirtatious friendship based on long-distance penmanship, with the remote possiblity of just meeting for drinks if our well-trodden paths ever aligned somewhere in middle-England.
Now it's something 'more' and imminent: a 'romantic date' in every conceivable way, despite the vast distance between us and the unpalatable notion of it being a one-off encounter (I absolutely hope not!). It's almost mythical and whimsical.
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Bugger I've missed the boat lol
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I've got you a better boat. "
Oh my |
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"That you like but is too far away for the regular sex your looking for? But you only get to meet them just the once? Or a few times maybe? But no more than handful?
Or would you rather never meet them? "
Absolutely I would! It sounds like a holiday romance and who doesn’t enjoy those given the chance?
As long as no one gets the real feels and ends up getting hurt, it’s two adults who (really really) enjoy each other’s company and want to do sexing. No harm in that and it would be a wonderful memory. If I didn’t, I would always wonder. |
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
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Yes. I got chatting to an unfeasibly hot guy in Edinburgh and would fly/take the train up from London on an occasional basis because he was so worth it. I'd make a long weekend of it and do vanilla stuff too so I absolutely would - for the right people. |
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"Fuck yes. Because I’m not romantic. I go for what I want.
And some meets you know it may only be once or twice so you pack months worth into those precious hours. You take chances. Make moves. Waste no time. It’s exhilarating. It’s reminded me to live in the moment. Take every shot. "
I knew you had the hots for me, you eastern counties goddess |
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"Fuck yes. Because I’m not romantic. I go for what I want.
And some meets you know it may only be once or twice so you pack months worth into those precious hours. You take chances. Make moves. Waste no time. It’s exhilarating. It’s reminded me to live in the moment. Take every shot.
I knew you had the hots for me, you eastern counties goddess "
Get back in the van!!!
Also - I’m not an Essex girl. |
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"Fuck yes. Because I’m not romantic. I go for what I want.
And some meets you know it may only be once or twice so you pack months worth into those precious hours. You take chances. Make moves. Waste no time. It’s exhilarating. It’s reminded me to live in the moment. Take every shot.
I knew you had the hots for me, you eastern counties goddess
Get back in the van!!!
Also - I’m not an Essex girl. "
Yes mistress! I said eastern counties......christ, this chloroform is overp.....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fuck yes. Because I’m not romantic. I go for what I want.
And some meets you know it may only be once or twice so you pack months worth into those precious hours. You take chances. Make moves. Waste no time. It’s exhilarating. It’s reminded me to live in the moment. Take every shot.
I knew you had the hots for me, you eastern counties goddess
Get back in the van!!!
Also - I’m not an Essex girl. "
I would meet you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Fuck yes. Because I’m not romantic. I go for what I want.
And some meets you know it may only be once or twice so you pack months worth into those precious hours. You take chances. Make moves. Waste no time. It’s exhilarating. It’s reminded me to live in the moment. Take every shot.
I knew you had the hots for me, you eastern counties goddess
Get back in the van!!!
Also - I’m not an Essex girl. "
Where’s your accent from? |
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"Fuck yes. Because I’m not romantic. I go for what I want.
And some meets you know it may only be once or twice so you pack months worth into those precious hours. You take chances. Make moves. Waste no time. It’s exhilarating. It’s reminded me to live in the moment. Take every shot.
I knew you had the hots for me, you eastern counties goddess
Get back in the van!!!
Also - I’m not an Essex girl.
Where’s your accent from? "
Staffordshire |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Fuck yes. Because I’m not romantic. I go for what I want.
And some meets you know it may only be once or twice so you pack months worth into those precious hours. You take chances. Make moves. Waste no time. It’s exhilarating. It’s reminded me to live in the moment. Take every shot.
I knew you had the hots for me, you eastern counties goddess
Get back in the van!!!
Also - I’m not an Essex girl.
Where’s your accent from?
Staffordshire "
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At the end of the day fab is a site for sex and not really a dating site. However I'm sure relationships have been formed from being on here but initially I'm sure a first meet is just either a social or for sex not necessarily a relationship. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I rather never meet them so I don’t know what I’m missing
But you’d always wonder, right? "
No. Sweet is right, some things are best left unknown.
Bit the ending of a film "night of the demon" when the lead character says that  |
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"That you like but is too far away for the regular sex your looking for? But you only get to meet them just the once? Or a few times maybe? But no more than handful?
Or would you rather never meet them? "
I'd meet them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone is too far away for me at the moment but yes absolutely I will travel to meet a special person.
If a connection is there (and not just travel wise ) then it’s always worth some effort. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The last time I was on here, I became friendly with 3 ladies. 1 was over in Ireland, 1 in Essex and 1 nearer Manchester. We ended up just being pen pals, so to speak, but of there was ever an opportunity, I would have loved to have met them for fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Def meet.
Better to have and lost than never have it at all. To finally experience and have fun with that person that loves too far would be a dream. Would still be in touch after anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely I would. I'm here to swing with fun people and have new experiences and make memories. I've travelled for one offs, it's why cars were invented |
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