FabSwingers.com
 

FabSwingers.com > Forums > The Lounge > Purpose

Purpose

Jump to: Newest in thread

 

By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Just using this place to vent rn. I need purpose in my life and I never feel it. Work is shit cos everyone just moans and it feels like everyone is always behind the curve and unhappy about it which makes it feel like an impossible job. Anyone else feel like they’re just working their ass off and doing technically great but missing a great end goal or vision that is so necessary. I’m not necessarily moaning massively but there’s something missing, no? Much love xx

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *elix SightedMan  over a year ago

Cloud 8

I understand your frustration, joey. I think there’s a lot to be said for accepting what you can and can’t change.

At work there will always be moany, lazy pricks who spend more time and energy doing so than actually doing the job. But you won’t ever change that so maybe you could find a technique that helps you accept them at their level?

You could look to change jobs but the grass isn’t always greener and you’ll probably just meet new moany pricks.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *elix SightedMan  over a year ago

Cloud 8

And maybe there’s an opportunity for you to find a hobby that allows you to channel your frustration? That could help you vent and distract you from ‘life’

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"And maybe there’s an opportunity for you to find a hobby that allows you to channel your frustration? That could help you vent and distract you from ‘life’"

I don’t wanna be distracted from life. And it’s something I’ve experienced in a number of jobs now.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

Is your work your life?

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *arley QuimWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere

All you can do is your bit... Stop worrying about the bits you cannot control

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

  

By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I think we find our own purpose. Family, religion, social causes, learning. For some, it might be hedonism.

Focusing on purpose has its own headaches and frustrations too.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

» Add a new message to this topic

0.0156

0