Hi all don't really know how to start but I'm completly new to this but want to enjoy it however as it is I can't Evan get a reply to a simple message let alone get to know someone enough to get a meet amni doing somthing wrong? Any advice cheers |
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Unsuccessful it seams lmao I'm shit at what to write as a interesting message so that dosnt help. But iv been browsing find a couple of single that really peaks my interest and send them a message but never get a reply |
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"Unsuccessful it seams lmao I'm shit at what to write as a interesting message so that dosnt help. But iv been browsing find a couple of single that really peaks my interest and send them a message but never get a reply "
So, you know your messages aren't good. Your profile writeup is likely similar. But you're just asking other people to confirm that for you?
Women get a lot of messages every day. If you don't stand out you won't get a reply. If you don't stand out in a positive way, you won't get a positive reply. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Welcome to the forums
It's your first thread so I'll be gentle lol
Use the search forums and read the many threads from newbies and what advice they've been given
Learn how to use the forums and get stuck in, use reply+ quote to respond to an individual post
Be patient |
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Hey OP, welcome to fab and best of luck. Bear in mind you have joined a huge club and women/couples have lots of choice.
Be yourself, be patient and resilient - just keep at it. Consider going to socials or clubs with no agenda other than to meet new people.
Eventually things will start to fall into place.
If you don’t any verifications as genuine yet, you can always get one from clubs/socials/cam rooms.
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Fab can be difficult for guys - there are a lot of you and a lot fewer of those you seek.
Be the best you can be in both profile (text and pictures) and messages. It helps some (maybe most) if you're verified (green tick not flag) - the easiest way to accomplish that is by going to a group social or a club (even if they're not your scene, it's a hurdle to jump over, having that tick).
You're not useless, it's about presenting yourself as best you can and learning about how this game is played. |
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Don't expect a reply. As has been covered multiple times it would be a full time job answering all the messages couples and single ladies get.
Comment in the forums, don't be a twat and get yourself along to socials and clubs.  |
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Hi OP
It’s hard for many at the start I found that the forums gave us better insight into how to manage a profile; join in the fun games on here.
As to the detail in profile we got some great advice from an experienced couple who said put details into your profile so that people will know exactly what you want as well as the details into ‘looking to meet’ as to what you want. Another helpful piece of advice was that Someone also advised us to look up the swing world lingo as we had spoken to her about mmf; she advised that we want mfm as hubby wasn’t bi as for some the layout of the wording indicates our interests. Try to get a few more pics on your profile too and we found thatattending social events help too.
Mostly be patient and be you  good luck  |
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I'm sure you're not useless.
Be yourself, don't try too hard, and keep Fab in perspective (this is a tiny piece of the world). There's no magic formula to chatting to people, just like the real world. You help with some and not others. Good luck! |
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Your profile says 'can't accommodate' and looking for 'discreet'
Most people will assume that you have a partner who you are cheating on.
Some will not like that, others will (less chance of turning into a stalker)
But explain more. No shame in living with parents or shared house in this economy.
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
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"Hi all don't really know how to start but I'm completly new to this but want to enjoy it however as it is I can't Evan get a reply to a simple message let alone get to know someone enough to get a meet amni doing somthing wrong? Any advice cheers"
You are competing with so many guys think of things that make you stand out in a crowd and thats not your penis, if you can't think of things that make you stand out then think am i in the right place  |
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"Your profile says 'can't accommodate' and looking for 'discreet'
Most people will assume that you have a partner who you are cheating on.
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I thought this too. It screams “I’m married”. A lot of people stay away from married members as there’s too many potential issues |
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Never looked at it like that and is deffo not the intention of that but can see that it would come across that way now so thanks for that detail is deffo not my strongest suit but will take all advice on board |
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"Don't expect a reply. As has been covered multiple times it would be a full time job answering all the messages couples and single ladies get.
Comment in the forums, don't be a twat and get yourself along to socials and clubs. "
Please can fab employ you to write this to every new member.  |
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"Don't expect a reply. As has been covered multiple times it would be a full time job answering all the messages couples and single ladies get.
Comment in the forums, don't be a twat and get yourself along to socials and clubs.
Please can fab employ you to write this to every new member. "
I think that would be a full time thankless task.
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