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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
On here I can be a filthy mare...and talk about sex quite openly...Yet when I was speaking to a guy on a dating site I am on he started to talk about his sex life it was off putting to me...I thought 5 minutes into the conversation and you are talking about sex already... It kind of put me off..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm with you on that! It's disrespectful (I think) on a dating site. You're there for dating, sex is secondary and surely you need to get to know each other first. On here it's obviously more up front.
I hate sex talk when it's out of the blue like that. Turns me right off.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well lets be fair most dating sites are full of swingers and visa versa and if your on the one you need a fishing rod for id say 30% of em are on here as I recognise a few form many yrs ago...  |
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I was chatting to a guy on POF a while back and within about 3 messages he was asking for more pics. I had 8 photos all very clear face and full length shots clothed obviously. So I said no and ignored him after that. A few weeks later when I joined here I got a message from the same guy.. I responded and told him I'd spoken to him on POF and now he could see the pics he wanted on there!!! Lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"dating sites attract as many guys looking for sex as this place does i reckon
But then join here....lol "
looking for more sex  its good to have options  |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
"I don't even usually talk sex on here until I've got to know a lady. Doing that on a dating site is disrespectful - they are probably just testing the water for a shag I'd say. "
Well I have a 6 date rule...lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't even usually talk sex on here until I've got to know a lady. Doing that on a dating site is disrespectful - they are probably just testing the water for a shag I'd say. "
Yeah I don't even like to talk about sex on here straight off. Make of that what you will. |
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"I don't even usually talk sex on here until I've got to know a lady. Doing that on a dating site is disrespectful - they are probably just testing the water for a shag I'd say.
Well I have a 6 date rule...lol. "
Before you talk about it  |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
"I don't even usually talk sex on here until I've got to know a lady. Doing that on a dating site is disrespectful - they are probably just testing the water for a shag I'd say.
Well I have a 6 date rule...lol.
Before you talk about it "
No!!! Before he gets in my knickers.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For the majority that are on FAB, they are here for sexual fun, and it is natural to dive into talking about sex right away with other like-minded people.
However, on vanilla dating sites, I personally believe the emphasis is more on friendship, companionship and romance, and sex is not expected to be that high on the list for some, myself included.
All IMHO, of course.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I must be easyer than you cheeky as mine is a 3 date rual lol
I am on the fishing site also and guys on there that chat for a few mins then start getting sexual are a pain but the ones that really piss me off are the ones that talk for a few days and swap phone numbers and get your hopes up , only then to start with the sexual stuff . Why wast there time and mine !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But it's the same on here form me , when guys start talking about wanting a relashiop and comitmemt from me in messages before we have even meet up a run a mile lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On here I can be a filthy mare...and talk about sex quite openly...Yet when I was speaking to a guy on a dating site I am on he started to talk about his sex life it was off putting to me...I thought 5 minutes into the conversation and you are talking about sex already... It kind of put me off.. "
Time, occasion and location are the factors that make many derisions swing one way or another. If a guy approached you in a club and asked you for a fuck your reaction would be very different to him doing it in ASDA.  |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
"So is the conclusion that a lot of the guys on dating sites are actually using them more as a swinging site i wonder purely for sex?"
Some are... then there are the genuine ones that are using it for its purpose to date...!! I am here for sex and on a dating site for dating....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So is the conclusion that a lot of the guys on dating sites are actually using them more as a swinging site i wonder purely for sex?
Some are... then there are the genuine ones that are using it for its purpose to date...!! I am here for sex and on a dating site for dating.... "
Snap x |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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"So is the conclusion that a lot of the guys on dating sites are actually using them more as a swinging site i wonder purely for sex?
Some are... then there are the genuine ones that are using it for its purpose to date...!! I am here for sex and on a dating site for dating....
Snap x "
I'm just on here for sex - and when I was on POF I made it clear I was not looking for a relationship. Got tons of messages but so many idiots and timewasters. |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"Come off the dating site then Cheekychops,try speed dating, heard its fun.
I would love to try speed dating but no were round here does it  "
Thats a pity, my mates tell me its a great night out and one of them met her now boyfriend. |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
"Come off the dating site then Cheekychops,try speed dating, heard its fun.
I would love to try speed dating but no were round here does it Thats a pity, my mates tell me its a great night out and one of them met her now boyfriend."
Only if you come with me for moral support lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"On here I can be a filthy mare...and talk about sex quite openly...Yet when I was speaking to a guy on a dating site I am on he started to talk about his sex life it was off putting to me...I thought 5 minutes into the conversation and you are talking about sex already... It kind of put me off.. "
I agree totally, a dating site should be treated differently.
On here anything is fair game, in fact some ladies on here are straight in with the sex chat...makes me blush  |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"Come off the dating site then Cheekychops,try speed dating, heard its fun.
I would love to try speed dating but no were round here does it Thats a pity, my mates tell me its a great night out and one of them met her now boyfriend.
Only if you come with me for moral support lol "
I would no problem, im happy to prop the bar up, they used to do speed dating nights at the Art Gallery in Brum. |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
"Come off the dating site then Cheekychops,try speed dating, heard its fun.
I would love to try speed dating but no were round here does it Thats a pity, my mates tell me its a great night out and one of them met her now boyfriend.
Only if you come with me for moral support lol I would no problem, im happy to prop the bar up, they used to do speed dating nights at the Art Gallery in Brum."
Ok I'll do some googling and get back to you with where it is at... |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
"On here I can be a filthy mare...and talk about sex quite openly...Yet when I was speaking to a guy on a dating site I am on he started to talk about his sex life it was off putting to me...I thought 5 minutes into the conversation and you are talking about sex already... It kind of put me off..
I agree totally, a dating site should be treated differently.
On here anything is fair game, in fact some ladies on here are straight in with the sex chat...makes me blush "
lol yeah right |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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cos if ur on a dating site u will have dofferent expectations into what ur looking for..
if you want to date someone then talking about sex straight away shows thats not their intentions |
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