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I’ve kinda been wondering why when receiving a new message or wink from another couple and you go and look at their profile and there’s public pictures and videos 90% of the time it’s just the female half in them? Don’t get me wrong that’s great for me (M) but my other half would like to see as well but the men nearly all of the time are behind the camera. If we’re looking through profiles to send a message then she wants to see who she could potentially shagging  |
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A commonly raised point. And one that will never be truly resolved.
When straight couples message and ask if I'm interested, when there's only pictures of the straight girl and maybe a single sad cock shot to go on.
They always seem so huffy when I ask what I'm supposed to be interested in  |
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"A commonly raised point. And one that will never be truly resolved.
When straight couples message and ask if I'm interested, when there's only pictures of the straight girl and maybe a single sad cock shot to go on.
They always seem so huffy when I ask what I'm supposed to be interested in "
It’s only really dawned on me that this is the case and I find it a bit odd |
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"A commonly raised point. And one that will never be truly resolved.
When straight couples message and ask if I'm interested, when there's only pictures of the straight girl and maybe a single sad cock shot to go on.
They always seem so huffy when I ask what I'm supposed to be interested in
It’s only really dawned on me that this is the case and I find it a bit odd "
It's when they say they don't want to scare people off with pictures of the Mr.
That always tickles me |
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over a year ago
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Think it greatly depends on what the couple are looking for.
Would imagine if they are looking for either a single male or bi woman, mainly for the female to play with, then they would try to attract people using pictures of the female  |
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By *istr3ssWoman
over a year ago
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"A commonly raised point. And one that will never be truly resolved.
When straight couples message and ask if I'm interested, when there's only pictures of the straight girl and maybe a single sad cock shot to go on.
They always seem so huffy when I ask what I'm supposed to be interested in "
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It's something raised often, it bugs me too, as much as I like the ladies I want to see if there's any attraction to the man I'm expected to sleep with.
I've done with the whole try get pics via inbox it's like pulling teeth at times, I just ignore profiles with no pics of the man and assume there isn't any for a reason.
We meet together our photos are together what you see is what you get.
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
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If only the lady meets I totally get why they just show her, otherwise I think even one or two of him should be there.
I'm straight and half a couple and have found this frustrating for years.
Now if a couple messages us and they don't have any pics of him and don't attach one, we delete the message.
Harsh? Maybebut past experience has shown it can then take ages to see him and then I often there's no attraction.
Obviously people are free to run their profile however they choose, but i see many profiles who just show her moaning they can't attract women/couples or that men just address her and not him.
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Do what we do and don't interact with them. We're sure they have genuine reasons but on the occasions we've agreed to meet couples after we've had to ask for a photo of the guy he's turned out to be a very reluctant participant, only wants to watch his partner with another guy or on one particularly depressing occasion with another woman which considering I'm straight and had emphasised that fact was very awkward. |
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With us, it's a case of hubby only really functions as voyeur and bodyguard, so there is no real need to put photos of him on there.
He is also rather camera-shy, but there are a couple with him in, OK, he has a gimp-mask on in one of them, but there are a couple.  |
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We don’t bother chatting to couples profiles with just the ladies pics and occasionally they’ll have a cock pic of the guy.
If they are both meeting you would think pics of both would be useful but if we suggest sending more pics of Mr, the conversation turns into an epic adventure to obtain said pics.
It’s a useful filtering tool.
K
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We're guilty of this and it's actually really frustrating for me (Mrs/Miss) that he is so camera shy when it comes to posting pictures here. I'm lucky he was happy to let me post the one bodyshot we do have on our profile (plus one other of his cock in my mouth).
I love his body and wish he'd let me show it off more. Especially since we are looking to meet women only at the moment. I'll always send a face pic of both of us when messaging, but I'm well aware of the need for more public photos of him. He puts his reluctance down to his work and "you never know who's looking"  Unless he gets naked with everyone he comes in to contact with I doubt he's obviously recognisable from the neck down.
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"We're guilty of this and it's actually really frustrating for me (Mrs/Miss) that he is so camera shy when it comes to posting pictures here. I'm lucky he was happy to let me post the one bodyshot we do have on our profile (plus one other of his cock in my mouth).
I love his body and wish he'd let me show it off more. Especially since we are looking to meet women only at the moment. I'll always send a face pic of both of us when messaging, but I'm well aware of the need for more public photos of him. He puts his reluctance down to his work and "you never know who's looking" Unless he gets naked with everyone he comes in to contact with I doubt he's obviously recognisable from the neck down.
Frustrated Beth x"
I don’t get this. You are looking to meet a single woman. Presumably to fuck both.
Would I just be expected to guess what he looks like?
I’d just ignore your messages and not even entertain a conversation. It’s not blind date.
So tell him to get over his shyness  |
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Hopefully we have a good mix of both. Admittedly, there’s more pictures of me in the friends only album.
Always surprises me that people would expect to meet up without knowing what the guy looks like. |
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"We're guilty of this and it's actually really frustrating for me (Mrs/Miss) that he is so camera shy when it comes to posting pictures here. I'm lucky he was happy to let me post the one bodyshot we do have on our profile (plus one other of his cock in my mouth).
I love his body and wish he'd let me show it off more. Especially since we are looking to meet women only at the moment. I'll always send a face pic of both of us when messaging, but I'm well aware of the need for more public photos of him. He puts his reluctance down to his work and "you never know who's looking" Unless he gets naked with everyone he comes in to contact with I doubt he's obviously recognisable from the neck down.
Frustrated Beth x"
Does he actually want to do this? |
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Yep. Recurring issue. We actually mention this on our profile description. If contacting, please make sure the male half can provide pics if little to none are in public photos of profile. |
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"We're guilty of this and it's actually really frustrating for me (Mrs/Miss) that he is so camera shy when it comes to posting pictures here. I'm lucky he was happy to let me post the one bodyshot we do have on our profile (plus one other of his cock in my mouth).
I love his body and wish he'd let me show it off more. Especially since we are looking to meet women only at the moment. I'll always send a face pic of both of us when messaging, but I'm well aware of the need for more public photos of him. He puts his reluctance down to his work and "you never know who's looking" Unless he gets naked with everyone he comes in to contact with I doubt he's obviously recognisable from the neck down.
Frustrated Beth x
I don’t get this. You are looking to meet a single woman. Presumably to fuck both.
Would I just be expected to guess what he looks like?
I’d just ignore your messages and not even entertain a conversation. It’s not blind date.
So tell him to get over his shyness "
Exactly! If I was here on a singles profile I'd do the same. Told him this a hundred times.
What's mad is he's not shy in any other way. Just these damn pictures  |
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"We're guilty of this and it's actually really frustrating for me (Mrs/Miss) that he is so camera shy when it comes to posting pictures here. I'm lucky he was happy to let me post the one bodyshot we do have on our profile (plus one other of his cock in my mouth).
I love his body and wish he'd let me show it off more. Especially since we are looking to meet women only at the moment. I'll always send a face pic of both of us when messaging, but I'm well aware of the need for more public photos of him. He puts his reluctance down to his work and "you never know who's looking" Unless he gets naked with everyone he comes in to contact with I doubt he's obviously recognisable from the neck down.
Frustrated Beth x
Does he actually want to do this?"
It was his idea and I was the one who was a bit reluctant in the beginning. Now I'm the one who's developed a real taste for it  |
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By *J_OuizziCouple
over a year ago
Nottingham |
This is something that we picked up on when we joined Fab.
It's great seeing pictures of the ladies, but we both want to see the men too! It's really important to be able to say "Yeah, they are *both* hotties!"
We try to have a reasonable mix of both of us on show for that reason. |
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"We're guilty of this and it's actually really frustrating for me (Mrs/Miss) that he is so camera shy when it comes to posting pictures here. I'm lucky he was happy to let me post the one bodyshot we do have on our profile (plus one other of his cock in my mouth).
I love his body and wish he'd let me show it off more. Especially since we are looking to meet women only at the moment. I'll always send a face pic of both of us when messaging, but I'm well aware of the need for more public photos of him. He puts his reluctance down to his work and "you never know who's looking" Unless he gets naked with everyone he comes in to contact with I doubt he's obviously recognisable from the neck down.
Frustrated Beth x
I don’t get this. You are looking to meet a single woman. Presumably to fuck both.
Would I just be expected to guess what he looks like?
I’d just ignore your messages and not even entertain a conversation. It’s not blind date.
So tell him to get over his shyness
Exactly! If I was here on a singles profile I'd do the same. Told him this a hundred times.
What's mad is he's not shy in any other way. Just these damn pictures "
Tell him to get his cock out the ladies demand it |
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