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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi everyone hope you are all good! Just a quick question I’d like to ask.
I know I’m one of many single guys on here which of course makes it much harder.
But in the past 3 weeks I’ve been here, I’ve had a good few couples (verified with pics) and a couple women make plans then either go AWOL, ignore you or block you for no reason?
So it begs the question, is this a real swinger site where people love meeting and making new friends, or is it just a place for fantasy? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The couples are usually just men. Fake men. "
So the couples who are fake cause they’re men are in fact fake men so women pretending to be men pretending to be a couple? Explains a lot.  |
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It is what it is. It works for some and doesn't work for others.
Have no expectations and you'll have no disappointments.
I honestly don't expect to meet anyone off here, I just count myself lucky when I do, because my friends list is full of hotties |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The couples are usually just men. Fake men.
So the couples who are fake cause they’re men are in fact fake men so women pretending to be men pretending to be a couple? Explains a lot. "
I said what I just said |
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We actually meet if we arrange to and that's the only promise we do make though ! but some on here are living a fantasy and the old saying is just as true today as ever ...If it seems to good to be true ....  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It is what it is. It works for some and doesn't work for others.
Have no expectations and you'll have no disappointments.
I honestly don't expect to meet anyone off here, I just count myself lucky when I do, because my friends list is full of hotties "
Very good point. I have been chilled, as you say some are attracted some aren’t that’s life. It just seems everytime you have a meaningful fun chat and organise plans, it’s instant backtracking. |
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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago
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"It is what it is. It works for some and doesn't work for others.
Have no expectations and you'll have no disappointments.
I honestly don't expect to meet anyone off here, I just count myself lucky when I do, because my friends list is full of hotties
Very good point. I have been chilled, as you say some are attracted some aren’t that’s life. It just seems everytime you have a meaningful fun chat and organise plans, it’s instant backtracking. "
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May I ask... What sort of fun chat? Sextalk? Explicit? Erotically charged? Explicit innuendo?
That's what these profiles are looking for. Next time try not to engage into that. The fakes lose interest quickly. The real couples that want to meet are usually more business like and won't bother with chit chat. Quick exchange of face pics, one or two questions about the profile, and then arrange a social meet. |
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Fab is entirely real.
Not all the people on fab are entirely real.
My advice OP… make connections first. Don’t rush into arranging meets and always do a social one first to make sure the person is who they say they are. My advice is always the same to everyone not just because you’re a newbie.
Hope you find what you’re looking for and have fun  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fab is entirely real.
Not all the people on fab are entirely real.
My advice OP… make connections first. Don’t rush into arranging meets and always do a social one first to make sure the person is who they say they are. My advice is always the same to everyone not just because you’re a newbie.
Hope you find what you’re looking for and have fun "
Don’t listen to a word of this  |
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It works for some guys and doesn't for others. Depends if you are what folk are looking for and how you approach the interactions...
I have had more than a few meets over the years. I would still say I get 50% no shows. So try not to make special arrangements. And have a Plan B (and C & D).
And that's not to say back up meets... but the plan to just have a night out if folk don't turn up!
Happy Fabbing! |
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Fab is real and people really meet.
However, it has the same problem that any part of the internet does - some people are all talk and no trousers. And love winding people up.
I think this is exacerbated by the nature of the site - sexual fantasies that people have, but less people are willing to go through with them. So people love to talk about a thirty man gangbang with a marching band and having their boss and family member walk in, ending in a river of golden shower, but can most people actually go through with even one part of that, no matter how much it turns them on? No. |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
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"Hi everyone hope you are all good! Just a quick question I’d like to ask.
I know I’m one of many single guys on here which of course makes it much harder.
But in the past 3 weeks I’ve been here, I’ve had a good few couples (verified with pics) and a couple women make plans then either go AWOL, ignore you or block you for no reason?
So it begs the question, is this a real swinger site where people love meeting and making new friends, or is it just a place for fantasy?"
fantasy  |
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I think a lot of people use the site because they like the idea but never follow it through...
I see a lot more activity at this time of year - presumably people make a NY resolution to have more fun, but when push comes to shove, they revert back to sitting on the sidelines. |
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It's a mixture of both, but you get a lot of guys just tossing themselves off over correspondence. This is either as themselves, masquerading as women or as the make component of a couple.
We would like the site to be a bit more insistent about photo-verification, as it would out some of the bullshitters. |
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"I think a lot of people use the site because they like the idea but never follow it through...
I see a lot more activity at this time of year - presumably people make a NY resolution to have more fun, but when push comes to shove, they revert back to sitting on the sidelines."
It's one NY resolution they never talk about in the media.
Get fit, eat better, do yoga, gangbangs, journalling habit, tend to that garden... |
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"Hi everyone hope you are all good! Just a quick question I’d like to ask.
I know I’m one of many single guys on here which of course makes it much harder.
But in the past 3 weeks I’ve been here, I’ve had a good few couples (verified with pics) and a couple women make plans then either go AWOL, ignore you or block you for no reason?
So it begs the question, is this a real swinger site where people love meeting and making new friends, or is it just a place for fantasy?"
We are very real, our veris speak for themselves. We see real people in clubs or at homes or hotels. But, there are a lot of fantasists who chat, wank, then disappear.
Club meets are way more reliable as they are already there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's my fantasy to be fucked and pegged by females and passed around in company. And sucking cocks for the females fun. So this site is good for sharing fetishes. If it comes true, awesome xx |
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"Hi everyone hope you are all good! Just a quick question I’d like to ask.
I know I’m one of many single guys on here which of course makes it much harder.
But in the past 3 weeks I’ve been here, I’ve had a good few couples (verified with pics) and a couple women make plans then either go AWOL, ignore you or block you for no reason?
So it begs the question, is this a real swinger site where people love meeting and making new friends, or is it just a place for fantasy?"
Both and neither at the same time
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like any online place people are here with very different motivations.
The common denominator in your experiences however, is you. And it's the only thing you have any control over. A different approach might be needed to vet those you're talking to. If the pattern continues look at how the conversations went and try something different next time. |
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