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What do you think of me?
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
It’s been a little while since I posted this thread, so let’s bring a moment of self reflection, introspection and non reactive thought about others to the forums, as it can be helpful.
It might seem a strange idea but at it’s heart is the intent for us to be more rounded and understanding people.
Self reflection is an important tool in understanding what, why and how we act but so is how others honestly see us.
Post that you’re in on the thread, then respond to others via private message with honest opinions about people. Not nasty, not sycophantic, honest appraisals of how you feel about them, this isn’t a chance to try to ‘get in’ with that hottie, this should be a self improvement exercise.
The intent is to honestly see how others view us, if you give criticism, then please be constructive with it. Remember to be kind folks. Let’s see how this goes...
Remember to respect filters, if you can’t directly message someone, then don’t post it on the thread, it’s meant to be private and personal.
Please also do send messages, passivity only lessens the interaction and those that often complain about not receiving messages, also tend to be the ones that didn’t send any.
Away you go folks |
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I know it's supposed to be private and personal but others should know.
Pickle and the gatekeeper are both very nice chaps who are friendly and easy to talk to. Ladies would not be disappointed in their company and guys would find them equally good socially.
Sorry if this goes against the spirit of the thread OP.
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Hey OP....nice idea. I'm in
Curious, what are we basing these "what I think of you's" (don't want to call them judgements or opinions), on?
Is this a thread for members who know each other a bit more intimately rather than words and photos? 
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Prey… you need more dresses with pockets in your life gorgeous.
Scottish Guy - you need to look after yourself a little better and let your friends help more often.
PW - you’re gorgeous inside and out. I wish you could see that.
Tea Monkey - my thoughts for you are private and not suitable for the forum  I think you know those already.
Now I must really go off on my travels. Be back later.
Ps. My list is not exhaustive just some ramblings of a LB x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not in (although if anyone has any negative criticism they want to fire into my inbox your are more than welcome). But I'm just here to say everyone I've interacted with in here has seemed pretty lovely.
I joined to be a shagger and seduce all the locals in the northeast with what i believed was charm and wit.
I got rejected by all the locals in the North East due to my lack of charm and wit. 
I stayed because of you guys, you lot are alright you know  |
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Last time I took part in one of these I was both surprised and embarrassed.
A few people were very complimentary about my forum contributions but I don't pay enough attention to individual posters to be able to reciprocate. |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
In and will participate.
Btw Op, even though we're on opposite ends of the ideological spectrum I respect you and think you're an all round good guy who's insightful and introspective. Good thread  |
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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago
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Oh and for others in the thread, I’m sorry but I’ve not been around for a while so I don’t really know any of you but if you are here, especially in the forums, then I already know you are fascinating people who one day I might get to know better. Until then, have a spectacular week  |
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In! I'm in introspective mood right now.
Mrs TMN x
