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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I drank a whole bottle of rum and threw up in my bed 
But I did also get dumped just before my birthday so I was drowning my sorrows for that, and for spending my birthday alone "
Oh Christ, I was looking for ideas. Although I've got one already but that wasn't quite what I expected. Shame it wasn't your ex's bed you threw up in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was driving around crying. Seems so long ago now., and that was when I was in a really bad place. I suspect this year will go past like just another day, but still a lot better than last year  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Mine's today. Took my little girl to a farm. But tonight marking exam papers. Fun  "
Happy birthday!!! That wasn't sarcasm either although it probably reads that way. |
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"I drank a whole bottle of rum and threw up in my bed
But I did also get dumped just before my birthday so I was drowning my sorrows for that, and for spending my birthday alone "
This sounds all too relatable..! |
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By *ddie1966Man
over a year ago
Paper Town Central, Essex. |
Happy birthday!
Birthdays are for the young and I do very little. Mines up for renewal soon.
I love to celebrate others but I hate people putting themselves out for me.
I make a nice meal and enjoy a nice bottle of red. |
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"I was driving around crying. Seems so long ago now., and that was when I was in a really bad place. I suspect this year will go past like just another day, but still a lot better than last year "
Me too bud, me too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Took my camera to shoot photos for the personal project I'm working on. Had loads of good sex before and after so not a big deal to not celebrate my birthday  |
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"My last was my 50th and I did absolutely nothing.
Another day, another dollar.
Not on a big one  nooooo!!"
You learn to look at things differently when there’s no one to share them with.
I always thought my 50th birthday will be special.
It wasn’t and the world still goes on. |
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Went for a really long walk.
Listened to my favourite music.
Took myself out for dinner.
Drank my favourite wine.
Had one or more ladywanks, and overall thanked my lucky stars I wasn’t spending it with people who really didn’t give a shit after all…
I really enjoyed it but it would be lovely to have something different next time  |
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I haven’t celebrated my birthday for years. I suppose it would be different if i was with someone, but that hasn’t been the case for about 15 years (at the same time, I mean).
Last year I worked, didn’t tell anyone, bought my boss lunch then stayed at home! |
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"Mine's today. Took my little girl to a farm. But tonight marking exam papers. Fun "
Happy birthday Zuri!! Did you have a birthday stroke? (at the farm haha). Are your kids getting better or worse grades than normal because you’re marking on your birthday?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was driving around crying. Seems so long ago now., and that was when I was in a really bad place. I suspect this year will go past like just another day, but still a lot better than last year
Me too bud, me too "
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"Mine's today. Took my little girl to a farm. But tonight marking exam papers. Fun
Happy birthday!!! That wasn't sarcasm either although it probably reads that way."
Ha, thanks. To be honest I hadn't really thought about it until I saw this post! |
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Yes! I booked the day off work and had breakfast in bed then changed the sheets. Then I went to a spa for the day, came home and had a takeaway before crawling into fresh sheets. I wanted a me day and it was perfect. I’m going to do the same this year |
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"Mine's today. Took my little girl to a farm. But tonight marking exam papers. Fun
Happy birthday Zuri!! Did you have a birthday stroke? (at the farm haha). Are your kids getting better or worse grades than normal because you’re marking on your birthday?!"
I've not started yet, it will be after 10 From what I've seen i don't think I could make the grades much worse unfortunately!  |
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Actually makes me feel better knowing I'm not alone with no birthday celebrations. My actual birthday I went to work and in the evening went to teach my jiu jitsu class. Normal day. I was lucky enough to have my best friend take me out at the weekend and spoil me rotten with the presents she bought me. Not ashamed to admit her incredible generosity brought me to tears. She bought me more carefully thought out presents in one go then I have received in my 50 years of life. Tried to hold it together but cracked when she hugged me. |
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"Actually makes me feel better knowing I'm not alone with no birthday celebrations. My actual birthday I went to work and in the evening went to teach my jiu jitsu class. Normal day. I was lucky enough to have my best friend take me out at the weekend and spoil me rotten with the presents she bought me. Not ashamed to admit her incredible generosity brought me to tears. She bought me more carefully thought out presents in one go then I have received in my 50 years of life. Tried to hold it together but cracked when she hugged me."
That's actually really sweet |
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I tend to go on holiday for my birthday. At least then I know I'm doing something in a place I want to be. I often go on guided your type holidays and often the hotel or tour guide organise a cake or balloons (or local equivalent) to mark the occasion. I've had some awesome birthdays like this actually! |
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"Mine's today. Took my little girl to a farm. But tonight marking exam papers. Fun
Happy birthday!!! That wasn't sarcasm either although it probably reads that way.
Ha, thanks. To be honest I hadn't really thought about it until I saw this post!"
Useless fun fact, you share your birthday with Elvis and I share mine with his passing  |
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"Mine's today. Took my little girl to a farm. But tonight marking exam papers. Fun
Happy birthday!!! That wasn't sarcasm either although it probably reads that way.
Ha, thanks. To be honest I hadn't really thought about it until I saw this post!
Useless fun fact, you share your birthday with Elvis and I share mine with his passing "
Yes, also David Bowie! Although yours is unlikely to be his death too : ) |
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"My last was my 50th and I did absolutely nothing.
Another day, another dollar.
Oh you should have gone to Hawaii for your Five O... !"
Ha ha.... and had a Hawaiian pizza that was burnt because you should have cooked it on aloha setting |
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"Last year. Likely this year
And is that what you want to do? I mean does it make you happy?
Nothing. I don't particularly mind, I see people but don't celebrate it with the. "
That’s not too bad then. As long as you are comfortable with it darling  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I fee like I should sit in and do absolutely nothing as a mark for all those that do theirs alone.
But I didn't do my first 17 birthdays in life and this will the first time since where I don't do anything. There's a part of me that doesn't want to go back 'there'.
And my birthday is on a weekend that I'm as free as a bird on. |
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"What did you do for yours last?
If you were with other people you're disqualified from answering.
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During the day, I took myself out for a day in a hotel swimming pool and sat reading a book, had an ice cream (in November) and wangled a free breakfast. Then I took myself for a late lunch (on my own too) and then to the bank! I sat at home and did some work in the evening. Mr KC didn't get back from a business trip until almost midnight and had departed the previous evening. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Same as last few years. Sat there hoping the phone or doorbell would ring.... it didn't
Oh this makes me sad
I hope you can find something fulfilling for yourself on your next birthday "
Very little chance of that happening unfortunately same as xmas etc.
Oh well life goes on |
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I spent a lovely birthday alone a few years ago, I went to a shepherd's hut on a horse farm for a couple of nights, took some nice food, a bottle of wine, and a good book...it was lovely, walking round the farm, watching the horses, completely relaxing, and curling up with my book at night.I've |
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in a another fecking hotel on my own, yes my lifes like the film trains,planes and automobiles i need a fecking better job, rant over
ps my birthday the 23rd of this month and i bet im alone for that lol |
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By *rMemberMan
over a year ago
Wimbledon |
"Mine's today. Took my little girl to a farm. But tonight marking exam papers. Fun "
Happy birthday Zuri, it's my birthday today too and I spent most of it working and eating cakes from the bakery. |
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"Mine's today. Took my little girl to a farm. But tonight marking exam papers. Fun
Happy birthday Zuri, it's my birthday today too and I spent most of it working and eating cakes from the bakery."
It involved cake, not so bad. Happy birthday! |
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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago
Whitley Bay |
I had my 50th on my own in Ibiza. Flew out, hired a car, drove north. Visited tons of beaches, snorkeled in the wilds, went hiking, did a cacao ceremony and ecstatic dance, partied, ate gorgeous food, chatted to strangers. I trusted that it would be great.. And it was!
I stayed in finca on a communal land and two others had birthdays too. They had organised a party with djs under the fig trees and I danced all night wooo!
I definitely had a little cry on my actual birthday and felt a bit lonesome..until I remembered where I was!
It's not for everyone but I love a solo adventure. Somehow it's easier and more simple. |
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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago
Whitley Bay |
I should add that I had planned to climb mountains in Scotland but the weather in August was horrendous.. I peeped at skyscanner and found a super cheap flight and made it up from there.
Just put in your date and destination everywhere.. See where it takes you.
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
Jusr checked my phone photos last one alone was 2021. I checked into an AirBnB, got up around 5am, drove to the coast and photographed the sun rising over Dunstanburg castle. Then walked along the Coast to Bamburg & took a small boat to Farne and photographed thousands of seals |
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"What did you do for yours last?
If you were with other people you're disqualified from answering.
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Got hammered and decided my birthday, like Christmas, is just another day to let pass without ceremony. We put too much emphasis on "big" days. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What did you do for yours last?
If you were with other people you're disqualified from answering.
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Went to Turtle Bay had all three courses and a couple of cocktails then went to some pubs. Loved every minute. |
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