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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Does anyone have an instance where you met someone on here years ago who was just the most amazing person.
Over time you lost contact (probably because you were a bit of a dick), now they are no where to be found on here.
Give me some reassurance that I'm not the only sad bastard on here. |
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Yes, although it was actually someone I recognised personally - we got over the fact that we were both on here and had a lot of fun ….. and then she was gone! Doesnt feel right to contact her any other way as she needed discretion. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Oh wow that's really hard.
So they were local to you.
See mine is like 90 miles away, remember their fab name and their first name, but we never exchanged surnames. |
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"Does anyone have an instance where you met someone on here years ago who was just the most amazing person.
Over time you lost contact (probably because you were a bit of a dick), now they are no where to be found on here.
Give me some reassurance that I'm not the only sad bastard on here. "
Nope, in my case I was a bit of an idiot but also he met someone on here and now they've shacked up together ... they had a couples profile for a while but have now vanished altogether... oh well... |
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"Does anyone have an instance where you met someone on here years ago who was just the most amazing person.
Over time you lost contact (probably because you were a bit of a dick), now they are no where to be found on here.
Give me some reassurance that I'm not the only sad bastard on here. "
Yes.
On Fab of all places I finally found her. Knew she was special, because I hadn’t felt that way in over a decade.
Beautiful
Made me laugh
Finally, the one I’d be willing to get down on a knee for but...
The feelings were unrequited 
And she already has a partner
AND she lives 300miles away
AAAAAND her parents wouldn’t have accepted me 
I have the best luck in the world |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone have an instance where you met someone on here years ago who was just the most amazing person.
Over time you lost contact (probably because you were a bit of a dick), now they are no where to be found on here.
Give me some reassurance that I'm not the only sad bastard on here. "
Just a heads up buddy
If you were a dick, she isn’t “the one that got away” in that sense
She’s the one that escaped
Don’t be a dick then expect sympathy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does anyone have an instance where you met someone on here years ago who was just the most amazing person.
Over time you lost contact (probably because you were a bit of a dick), now they are no where to be found on here.
Give me some reassurance that I'm not the only sad bastard on here.
Just a heads up buddy
If you were a dick, she isn’t “the one that got away” in that sense
She’s the one that escaped
Don’t be a dick then expect sympathy "
Everyone has the ability to be a dick dude, give certain circumstances. Your reply being perfect proof of that.
But everyone has their opinion. And everyone likes to be the hero.
Good to hear that there is one person on this planet who has never done one dickish thing. Good on you. When do you become a saint? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone have an instance where you met someone on here years ago who was just the most amazing person.
Over time you lost contact (probably because you were a bit of a dick), now they are no where to be found on here.
Give me some reassurance that I'm not the only sad bastard on here.
Just a heads up buddy
If you were a dick, she isn’t “the one that got away” in that sense
She’s the one that escaped
Don’t be a dick then expect sympathy
Everyone has the ability to be a dick dude, give certain circumstances. Your reply being perfect proof of that.
But everyone has their opinion. And everyone likes to be the hero.
Good to hear that there is one person on this planet who has never done one dickish thing. Good on you. When do you become a saint? "
Sorry if the dose of reality hit a little hard than the plate of sympathy you wanted
She escaped. Lesson learned. Don’t be a dick |
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"Does anyone have an instance where you met someone on here years ago who was just the most amazing person.
Over time you lost contact (probably because you were a bit of a dick), now they are no where to be found on here.
Give me some reassurance that I'm not the only sad bastard on here.
Just a heads up buddy
If you were a dick, she isn’t “the one that got away” in that sense
She’s the one that escaped
Don’t be a dick then expect sympathy "
People do make mistakes we are human after all |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does anyone have an instance where you met someone on here years ago who was just the most amazing person.
Over time you lost contact (probably because you were a bit of a dick), now they are no where to be found on here.
Give me some reassurance that I'm not the only sad bastard on here.
Just a heads up buddy
If you were a dick, she isn’t “the one that got away” in that sense
She’s the one that escaped
Don’t be a dick then expect sympathy
Everyone has the ability to be a dick dude, give certain circumstances. Your reply being perfect proof of that.
But everyone has their opinion. And everyone likes to be the hero.
Good to hear that there is one person on this planet who has never done one dickish thing. Good on you. When do you become a saint?
Sorry if the dose of reality hit a little hard than the plate of sympathy you wanted
She escaped. Lesson learned. Don’t be a dick "
Thank you. Your a very helpful human.
I appreciate you being my Monday morning teacher.
I expect your wisdom will help many many people. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does anyone have an instance where you met someone on here years ago who was just the most amazing person.
Over time you lost contact (probably because you were a bit of a dick), now they are no where to be found on here.
Give me some reassurance that I'm not the only sad bastard on here.
Just a heads up buddy
If you were a dick, she isn’t “the one that got away” in that sense
She’s the one that escaped
Don’t be a dick then expect sympathy
People do make mistakes we are human after all "
Absolutely right, |
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Yup - absolutely dynamite young woman from another site. 8-months of regular fun but then she met someone for something more serious. Quite right too - not as if that was what I was offering.
However, I know someone like that is unlikely to happen again - not only was I punching above my weight I bb the looks department, but the sex was amazing, & I don’t tend to interest women on Fab, haha. Not a complaint - I’ve seen some of the exceptional guys they meet, so fair play. |
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If you were a dick, she probably made a run for it. And might well still be on here with different details so you can't go looking... It's really annoying when men come sniffing round after months/years of no contact, because they think you were "the one". |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Not on here but yes
First girl I went out with after I got divorced
She was perfect but my head was not in the right place for a long term relationship
Wish I had met her a bit later after the divorce
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If you were a dick, she probably made a run for it. And might well still be on here with different details so you can't go looking... It's really annoying when men come sniffing round after months/years of no contact, because they think you were "the one"."
I completely agree, I imagine that would be a horrible situation to be out in. I don't intend to do that.
I'm sure they are on here.
It's one of those situations where you learn a lot about them and from the things I know I'd just love to know they are okay. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Not on here but yes
First girl I went out with after I got divorced
She was perfect but my head was not in the right place for a long term relationship
Wish I had met her a bit later after the divorce
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That was very very similar to my situation.
That is what I meant by being a dick. |
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"If you were a dick, she probably made a run for it. And might well still be on here with different details so you can't go looking... It's really annoying when men come sniffing round after months/years of no contact, because they think you were "the one".
I completely agree, I imagine that would be a horrible situation to be out in. I don't intend to do that.
I'm sure they are on here.
It's one of those situations where you learn a lot about them and from the things I know I'd just love to know they are okay. "
So I said the same thing as the guy above, yet you answered me perfectly nicely and him you were confrontational. Who's the dick? |
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I met someone great via another site last year, but she had a family crisis and we stopped seeing each other. We used to chat on Telegram which she has since deleted so I guess she has moved on - fair enough, but I think about her a lot and (sad sod that I am) hope that she may get back in touch. Adam |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
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"Does anyone have an instance where you met someone on here years ago who was just the most amazing person.
Over time you lost contact (probably because you were a bit of a dick), now they are no where to be found on here.
Give me some reassurance that I'm not the only sad bastard on here. "
sorry you are, all the ones i like are chained up in my dungeon  |
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"Not on here but yes
First girl I went out with after I got divorced
She was perfect but my head was not in the right place for a long term relationship
Wish I had met her a bit later after the divorce
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Same ... hindsight a wonderful but sometimes painful thing |
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"Does anyone have an instance where you met someone on here years ago who was just the most amazing person.
Over time you lost contact (probably because you were a bit of a dick), now they are no where to be found on here.
Give me some reassurance that I'm not the only sad bastard on here. "
Happens to the best of us mate. You meet someone hot and fun, have some mind blowing times, then one or both of you cocks it up somehow, and now it's just a memory in the wank bank. I shed a tear just typing that, and used it for wank lube |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Summer after high school, when we first met
Sounds like the intro to Grease "
We’d make out in your mustang to Radiohead
And for my eighteenth birthday, we got matching tattoos
-That’s less like grease |
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