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Does love makes us do crazy things?
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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago
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I was watching a woman talking about it in a program about love and relationship and she mentioned how love makes us do crazy things
things.
She added the reason was because love makes us feel and do things we usually wouldnt do under any other cirumstances, because love affects the brain in a way similar to any other addiction and not only that, it also affects us psychologically and behaviorally as well.
That makes me wonder, what kind of things would we do and ro you agree with that? One fun example was going to get a pedicure with your girlfriend  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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True love makes you do sensible things. When you really love someone you’ll do what’s good for them. Entirely selfless.
The only love that makes you do silly things is the possessive type. The obsessive. The compulsive.
If we all stopped looking for love in others and chose to truly love ourselves first, we’d do what’s right first. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I don't think love makes us do crazy things.
Limerence perhaps. Even those early stages of infatuation when you find yourself falling for someone. Sure.
But love? Real love? Love makes us takes risks. Do things we wouldn't normally dream of doing, it makes us brave and give us a reason to fight for something. Someone.
Love makes us vulnerable, open up even though it might hurt. Believe in people again. Ourselves for being deservering of it. It makes us think of another, not always put ourselves first. Hope.
I wouldn't say that's crazy. I'd say love makes us brave. Stronger. More who we really are. |
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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago
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"I do things because I want to do them. Do I sometimes want to do them for the sake of seeing someone else light up? Sure. But I do that for my friends as well as the people I love  "
Yes, that is good that you do things because you want to do them too |
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"I was watching a woman talking about it in a program about love and relationship and she mentioned how love makes us do crazy things
things.
She added the reason was because love makes us feel and do things we usually wouldnt do under any other cirumstances, because love affects the brain in a way similar to any other addiction and not only that, it also affects us psychologically and behaviorally as well.
That makes me wonder, what kind of things would we do and ro you agree with that? One fun example was going to get a pedicure with your girlfriend "
No chance
Draw the line at pedicures
Next it will be sack back and crack
No way Jose
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is no such thing as love.
People use it as an excuse to get other people I.e partner to do something that they would not normally do. It is used to guilt trip people. |
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I'm by no means an authority on the subject. I can see why people say the last or obsession side of it, and the doing things because you think you should argument aswell.
But I do think love can make you do crazy things. Bacuse if it dident what's the point. Just existing with somone that makes you meals? I think it's the safety and security that comes with knowing somone and being at peace,and being able to say anything and not have to worry about it.
Well that's my 2 cents lol |
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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago
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"When I was young and didn't really understand what love was I probably did some crazy things thinking it was for love. Nowadays I don't. "
Yes, love could mean different things when one is younger and another thing when one is older too |
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I stayed in an abusive relationship to long because I thought I was in love.
But you here of incredible revenge tactics people have done. Completely crazy things. These arnt an act of love but from an obsession and very scary.
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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago
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"Not love. But lust, has done that to me, becoming lust blinkered is scary and you have no idea you are in it, I'm lucky to have friends who pulled me out of it "
Hi beatrice and yes, it can be lust too and it is good that your friends pulled you out of it too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was watching a woman talking about it in a program about love and relationship and she mentioned how love makes us do crazy things
things.
She added the reason was because love makes us feel and do things we usually wouldnt do under any other cirumstances, because love affects the brain in a way similar to any other addiction and not only that, it also affects us psychologically and behaviorally as well.
That makes me wonder, what kind of things would we do and ro you agree with that? One fun example was going to get a pedicure with your girlfriend "
Erogenous you mean Shag.
What you on x
Oh it is
getting near valentines 
Testosterone not Toblerone |
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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago
From the land of haribos. |
"I was watching a woman talking about it in a program about love and relationship and she mentioned how love makes us do crazy things
things.
She added the reason was because love makes us feel and do things we usually wouldnt do under any other cirumstances, because love affects the brain in a way similar to any other addiction and not only that, it also affects us psychologically and behaviorally as well.
That makes me wonder, what kind of things would we do and ro you agree with that? One fun example was going to get a pedicure with your girlfriend
Erogenous you mean Shag.
What you on x
Oh it is
getting near valentines
Testosterone not Toblerone "
Hi becs yes. I did mean erogenous too, yes it is getting near valentines, that was fun with the testosterone and not the toblerone too |
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"...since when is a pedicure crazy?
Fuckin' spoil yourselves, lads.
I was wondering the same  "
There's a podiatrist in Wales that uses a foot file the size of a tennis bat. She dances around with it to the sound of whale music.
Crazy. |
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By *hagTonight OP Man
over a year ago
From the land of haribos. |
"I stayed in an abusive relationship to long because I thought I was in love.
But you here of incredible revenge tactics people have done. Completely crazy things. These arnt an act of love but from an obsession and very scary.
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Hi diamondsmiles, it is good that you got out of it too and you are right there, that isnt love, but yes more of an obsession too. |
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"I do things because I want to do them. Do I sometimes want to do them for the sake of seeing someone else light up? Sure. But I do that for my friends as well as the people I love "
Well, we all think that!  . The illusion of freedom is strong. |
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