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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. I have had a couple. The first I would genuinely rate as one of the best experiences I have had.
I would highly recommend it.
I learned so much and use quite a few of the techniques now (having studied it a little since). I recently achieved Yoni ‘ninja’ status apparently. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. But I’d love to get to a point with someone where I could give or receive. I think I’d really need a connection, rather than just paying someone I don’t know.
There’s a difference between touching me and stroking my soul.
It’s just my opinion, but I think for me, Tantric is something special between two people, I’m a spiritual type of person, so it’s always interested me. I reckon I could climax an orgasm without being touched. And I reckon a woman that had that type of connection with me, possibly a loving connection, could too. 
Anyone can get me off by stroking my cock   |
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By *loydyMan
over a year ago
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"Yes. I have had a couple. The first I would genuinely rate as one of the best experiences I have had.
I would highly recommend it.
I learned so much and use quite a few of the techniques now (having studied it a little since). I recently achieved Yoni ‘ninja’ status apparently. "
is that an air fryer lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes they are anazibg but only if the masseur has control of themselves.
Make me think that the massuer will go beyond a massage or/and cum over you  "
I’d like to massage a woman slowly and sensualy leading to an orgasm. But can I call it Tantric? |
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I have had a couple and they are amazing. The touch can be incredibly sensual and erotic. The whole process takes quite a long time and I could imagine having full tantric sex would be mind blowing with the buildup. Definitely one to try. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some of these comments are making me think I should take up one or two of the tantric massage requests I have in my inbox "
May I ask…… to give or receive x |
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Not alot of people know what tantra is and just say "tantric massage", which tends to be just sensual massage.
A really tantrica will be an expert energy worker too.
I've had a few "tantric massages" and one Tantric massage, there is a difference  |
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"Some of these comments are making me think I should take up one or two of the tantric massage requests I have in my inbox "
Choose wisely, many of them want to give you a 5 min massage then have sex. A full body massage with yoni should last at least 30 mins and doesn't require penis penetration, that's an after choice, if wanted |
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"Some of these comments are making me think I should take up one or two of the tantric massage requests I have in my inbox
Choose wisely, many of them want to give you a 5 min massage then have sex. A full body massage with yoni should last at least 30 mins and doesn't require penis penetration, that's an after choice, if wanted "
Was just about to make a similar comment. If you really want to experience it then go to someone who really knows what they are doing as opposed to some random from Fab.
My massages were 90mins and I am not sure even that was long enough. |
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"No. But I’d love to get to a point with someone where I could give or receive. I think I’d really need a connection, rather than just paying someone I don’t know.
There’s a difference between touching me and stroking my soul.
It’s just my opinion, but I think for me, Tantric is something special between two people, I’m a spiritual type of person, so it’s always interested me. I reckon I could climax an orgasm without being touched. And I reckon a woman that had that type of connection with me, possibly a loving connection, could too.
Anyone can get me off by stroking my cock "
For some audiences may be easier if you clarofy the options as A, B and C. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some of these comments are making me think I should take up one or two of the tantric massage requests I have in my inbox "
I’ve been hinting and asking in here for a massage for the past couple of weeks. And you’re getting offers in your inbox. How the other half live |
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"Some of these comments are making me think I should take up one or two of the tantric massage requests I have in my inbox
I’ve been hinting and asking in here for a massage for the past couple of weeks. And you’re getting offers in your inbox. How the other half live "
Sorry Woody I’ve got carpal tunnel so I can’t even offer my massage services up to you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. And I've no desire to. I don't even like normal massage. I think I'm allergic. adding spirituality/energy whatever to the mix just makes me tense. I'm the wrong kinda person for it and it makes me laugh when men offer it to me as though I should bow down in gratitude. |
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By *adgerMan
over a year ago
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I had my first tantric massage in Australia prob 20 years ago…. What an eye opener. I was also lucky enough to have a previous gf who taught yoga and tantric. As folk say there’s a world of difference between a “stroke and a poke” a massage and a trantic massage! |
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"No. But I’d love to get to a point with someone where I could give or receive. I think I’d really need a connection, rather than just paying someone I don’t know.
There’s a difference between touching me and stroking my soul.
It’s just my opinion, but I think for me, Tantric is something special between two people, I’m a spiritual type of person, so it’s always interested me. I reckon I could climax an orgasm without being touched. And I reckon a woman that had that type of connection with me, possibly a loving connection, could too.
Anyone can get me off by stroking my cock "
In tantra, semen retention is a common practice - the orgasm is had without ejaculation. It's supposed to help you move the energy from the genital areas to the rest of the body for a full blown body orgasm. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some of these comments are making me think I should take up one or two of the tantric massage requests I have in my inbox
I’ve been hinting and asking in here for a massage for the past couple of weeks. And you’re getting offers in your inbox. How the other half live
Sorry Woody I’ve got carpal tunnel so I can’t even offer my massage services up to you "
It’s okay. I’ll just keep rubbing my back up against the door jams.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Anyone can get me off by stroking my cock
In tantra, semen retention is a common practice - the orgasm is had without ejaculation. It's supposed to help you move the energy from the genital areas to the rest of the body for a full blown body orgasm."
And that’s how I imagine it. |
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Anyone can get me off by stroking my cock
In tantra, semen retention is a common practice - the orgasm is had without ejaculation. It's supposed to help you move the energy from the genital areas to the rest of the body for a full blown body orgasm.
And that’s how I imagine it. "
I hope you find it  |
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"Some of these comments are making me think I should take up one or two of the tantric massage requests I have in my inbox
I’ve been hinting and asking in here for a massage for the past couple of weeks. And you’re getting offers in your inbox. How the other half live
Sorry Woody I’ve got carpal tunnel so I can’t even offer my massage services up to you
It’s okay. I’ll just keep rubbing my back up against the door jams. "
Like Baloo! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes they are anazibg but only if the masseur has control of themselves.
Make me think that the massuer will go beyond a massage or/and cum over you "
Tantric massage is not about orgasm- that is not the end state for either the recipient or the masseur/masseuse. The recipient has to be able to relax without any expectation of having to give anything back. Breathing is important (I can talk you through that). The giver is just there for one purpose and that is NOT self gratification.
A sensual massage is something different and yep, you can end that how ever you like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some of these comments are making me think I should take up one or two of the tantric massage requests I have in my inbox
I’ve been hinting and asking in here for a massage for the past couple of weeks. And you’re getting offers in your inbox. How the other half live
Sorry Woody I’ve got carpal tunnel so I can’t even offer my massage services up to you
It’s okay. I’ll just keep rubbing my back up against the door jams.
Like Baloo!"
oobie Doo. I’ve actually got a funny story about that. |
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A sensual massage is something different and yep, you can end that how ever you like."
That's what many tantric massages turn into, letting go 100% in a tantric massage, is quite hard for some people and a sensual massage is easier to go with |
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"Yes they are anazibg but only if the masseur has control of themselves.
Make me think that the massuer will go beyond a massage or/and cum over you
I’d like to massage a woman slowly and sensualy leading to an orgasm. But can I call it Tantric? "
No. It's not the speed or orgasm that makes it tantric. |
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By *lueseasWoman
over a year ago
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"I've thought about having one.
After seeing so many that offer this on here, I'm very wary on who can't actually do a massage correctly.
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Quite. Does anyone know how to identify a properly qualified masseur? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes they are anazibg but only if the masseur has control of themselves.
Make me think that the massuer will go beyond a massage or/and cum over you
I’d like to massage a woman slowly and sensualy leading to an orgasm. But can I call it Tantric?
No. It's not the speed or orgasm that makes it tantric."
That’s how I see it. I’ve read loads, I’m really interested in this. |
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By *lueseasWoman
over a year ago
Leamington Spa |
"Someone last week gave me the details of where to go for one and I'm definitely going to check that out."
Would you mind sharing this info, please? I’ve been thinking about trying this but not sure how to find a reputable masseur. TIA! |
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"I've thought about having one.
After seeing so many that offer this on here, I'm very wary on who can't actually do a massage correctly.
Quite. Does anyone know how to identify a properly qualified masseur?"
The problem is that there's no nationally recognised board. So even if someone has a certificate, that could be a correspondence course they did, or even a 'Training School' that they and their brother started in the garage. No regulation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Someone last week gave me the details of where to go for one and I'm definitely going to check that out.
Would you mind sharing this info, please? I’ve been thinking about trying this but not sure how to find a reputable masseur. TIA!"
Same here |
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"I'd rather just have sex "
I think that's kinda like someone saying they'd prefer sex to a long soak in a hot bath, or they'd prefer a blowjob to going for a cosy walk hand-in-hand. They're not as comparable as an 'I'd rather have' statement might suggest. |
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By *lueseasWoman
over a year ago
Leamington Spa |
"I've thought about having one.
After seeing so many that offer this on here, I'm very wary on who can't actually do a massage correctly.
Quite. Does anyone know how to identify a properly qualified masseur?
The problem is that there's no nationally recognised board. So even if someone has a certificate, that could be a correspondence course they did, or even a 'Training School' that they and their brother started in the garage. No regulation. "
Exactly! Hence why word of mouth seems the best way… |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes. I have had a couple. The first I would genuinely rate as one of the best experiences I have had.
I would highly recommend it.
I learned so much and use quite a few of the techniques now (having studied it a little since). I recently achieved Yoni ‘ninja’ status apparently. "
Sounds your first one was lovely. What made it the best experience you’ve had? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No. But I’d love to get to a point with someone where I could give or receive. I think I’d really need a connection, rather than just paying someone I don’t know.
There’s a difference between touching me and stroking my soul.
It’s just my opinion, but I think for me, Tantric is something special between two people, I’m a spiritual type of person, so it’s always interested me. I reckon I could climax an orgasm without being touched. And I reckon a woman that had that type of connection with me, possibly a loving connection, could too.
Anyone can get me off by stroking my cock "
Tantra itself and the connection that can be shared between two people is said to be orgasmic. Imagine sharing that with someone you’re deeply connected to. I see this as different from most tantric massages.
May your future find you with the experience of someone who can do more than get you off by stroking your cock. |
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By *lder.Woman
over a year ago
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I always thought tantric sex was a 'hands off' thing all about building energy, but I confess to never having looked at it in detail.
I used to be fabulous at giving naked and slow massages, its quite meditative to be the giver. I think actually, something like this is probably more what I am looking for now, but as the receiver too. Im well used to being the receiver of the stroke and poke mentioned above , but like the idea of the more spiritual side of things rather than the usual in and outs of sex.
I need a thumb through my yellow pages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes. I have had a couple. The first I would genuinely rate as one of the best experiences I have had.
I would highly recommend it.
I learned so much and use quite a few of the techniques now (having studied it a little since). I recently achieved Yoni ‘ninja’ status apparently.
Sounds your first one was lovely. What made it the best experience you’ve had? "
It was just a complete eye opener. I have always focused on giving rather than receiving. He made to just lie back and enjoy was a revelation. But actually, the breathing technique I was taught made an amazing difference. It really was amazing and I floated for hours afterwards. I use a lot of those techniques now with others:
Always happy to share |
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"I'd rather just have sex
I think that's kinda like someone saying they'd prefer sex to a long soak in a hot bath, or they'd prefer a blowjob to going for a cosy walk hand-in-hand. They're not as comparable as an 'I'd rather have' statement might suggest. "
I think often a tantra massage is portrayed than being ' more than ' just being touched intimately or having sex.
For me, it's not |
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