Its hard to break free from a negative relationship.
But for your own sanity its a must. Dont be rash. Be very sure and formulate a plan first.
Squirrel some savings away for a deposit for a cheap flat. Play the long haul game, 6 months, even a year..
Get a good lawyer.
When your prepared, make it swift and sharp, without hesitation.
Have everything moved within a couple of hours. Serve the papers, Break the ties, break the bonds, block the phones, emails, straight after.
Been there, bought the t shirt, hat and pen on this one.
3 years of courts and thousands of pounds pocketed by lawyers, just so I could get access to my children, an ex scorned because I left her and found the arms of another, tried everything to stop me being apart of their lives...
Be careful and smart. Good luck.  |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"Walk out of my home away from marriage but nowhere to go "
Look up EMMAUS the charity has a branch in Sefton, so only over the water. They'll sort out a bed and work on their site if space allows.
They are a french based charity, that helped me out in 1993, so I am qualified to say go-for-it.
0151 928 1588
42-44 Sandy Road, Seaforth, Sefton, L21 3TW
Hope the mods don't block me for posting charity details.
Good luck/bon chance!
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Walk out of my home away from marriage but nowhere to go "
Hopefully you can work out where to go with your partner - deciding together to split up isn’t walking out
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s tough pal.
It took me nearly a year to find my own place. And that was after 6 months of trying to live under the same roof after a marriage ended,… which was after 4years of trying to ‘make it work’
My advice, when you KNOW it’s over and irreversible, do everything you can to get in a space where you can rebuild yourself. It’s easier than being around the things that are keeping you down. *just my opinion.
Good luck op, I hope you found (or find) somewhere.  |
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