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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you have a pipeline of "prospects" from here (and other sites/apps)? And if so, how does your pipeline look at the moment? How many?
For example:
People on your hotlist
People you've just started chatting to
Flirtations on the forum
"sure things"
Red hot: meet is in the bag!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, not really. There are people I'd love to meet and probably flirt with but unless diaries align properly, it can be tough to have those prospective meets |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nope! I just chat on the forums and if I get chatting to someone like and it develops, great."
I chat on the forums too and men in my box. It's just there is usually more than one at any one time. Ok I'm feeling paranoid now about my pipeline!  |
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I don't use my hotlist for those reasons.
I'm not currently meeting so therefore not having those type of conversations.
Even when I am meeting I actively avoid pipelines or lists and networking.
I have a red hot friend so I don't need to concern myself with pipelining. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't use my hotlist for those reasons.
I'm not currently meeting so therefore not having those type of conversations.
Even when I am meeting I actively avoid pipelines or lists and networking.
I have a red hot friend so I don't need to concern myself with pipelining. "
Well it's only because I DON'T have a red hot friend that I am pipelining! |
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Good god no
I have people I talk to. Some I'd like to meet, some who know and others who don't. By meet I don't exclusively mean in the bedroom.
It's not organised or anything like that. It's just conversation until it's not. |
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"Do you have a pipeline of "prospects" from here (and other sites/apps)? And if so, how does your pipeline look at the moment? How many?
For example:
People on your hotlist
People you've just started chatting to
Flirtations on the forum
"sure things"
Red hot: meet is in the bag!
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Do you have a pipeline of "prospects" from here (and other sites/apps)? And if so, how does your pipeline look at the moment? How many?
For example:
People on your hotlist?
* 4 but all will drop out this week 99%.
* +1 myself, just to be on someone's hotlist.
People you've just started chatting to
Flirtations on the forum?
*2 until NYD, but friendship was the max they could have been. Turns out nothing due to my imperfection.
1 or 2 other on forum, but I might be wrong.
"sure things"?
* In my dreams.
Red hot: meet is in the bag! ?
* In my dreams.
***
0 chance for most things.
0 chance it will cause sleepless nights or admitting it in public.
It is what it is.
Accepted it.
I give 0.25 fuck about it, but sometimes 0.5.
Once a month I give a fuck, but get over it.
Still happy as I can be.
" Woah, I'm an alien, I'm a legal alien"
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" It takes a man to suffer ignorance and smile
Be yourself no matter what they say "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Good god no
I have people I talk to. Some I'd like to meet, some who know and others who don't. By meet I don't exclusively mean in the bedroom.
It's not organised or anything like that. It's just conversation until it's not."
It's kinda pipeliny? But clearly my choice of language doesn't appeal to people much I was just having fun with it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you have a pipeline of "prospects" from here (and other sites/apps)? And if so, how does your pipeline look at the moment? How many?
For example:
People on your hotlist
People you've just started chatting to
Flirtations on the forum
"sure things"
Red hot: meet is in the bag!
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Do you have a pipeline of "prospects" from here (and other sites/apps)? And if so, how does your pipeline look at the moment? How many?
For example:
People on your hotlist?
* 4 but all will drop out this week 99%.
* +1 myself, just to be on someone's hotlist.
People you've just started chatting to
Flirtations on the forum?
*2 until NYD, but friendship was the max they could have been. Turns out nothing due to my imperfection.
1 or 2 other on forum, but I might be wrong.
"sure things"?
* In my dreams.
Red hot: meet is in the bag! ?
* In my dreams.
***
0 chance for most things.
0 chance it will cause sleepless nights or admitting it in public.
It is what it is.
Accepted it.
I give 0.25 fuck about it, but sometimes 0.5.
Once a month I give a fuck, but get over it.
Still happy as I can be.
" Woah, I'm an alien, I'm a legal alien"
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" It takes a man to suffer ignorance and smile
Be yourself no matter what they say "
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Thanks for the detailed breakdown |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm not meeting. If I do happen to change my mind, there are at least 7 guys who I could arrange a meet with in very short order."
That's 7 more than me! |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Prospects/people in the pipeline?
No. I really don't think pipeline was taken in the way it was meant though.
So, I'll play along. There are people I'm talking to. Looking forward to spending time with in whatever capacity unfolds. Things are good and I'm happy. |
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"Prospects/people in the pipeline?
No. I really don't think pipeline was taken in the way it was meant though.
So, I'll play along. There are people I'm talking to. Looking forward to spending time with in whatever capacity unfolds. Things are good and I'm happy."
Exàctly  You have to engage to eventually have friends, whatever definition of friend you choose. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Prospects/people in the pipeline?
No. I really don't think pipeline was taken in the way it was meant though.
So, I'll play along. There are people I'm talking to. Looking forward to spending time with in whatever capacity unfolds. Things are good and I'm happy."
Nobody understands ME, Meli! 
That's a quality pipeline full of WARM prospects |
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"Nope! I just chat on the forums and if I get chatting to someone like and it develops, great.
I chat on the forums too and men in my box. It's just there is usually more than one at any one time. Ok I'm feeling paranoid now about my pipeline! "
You absolutely shouldn’t feel paranoid about your pipelining! We all manage ourselves on fab differently and if it’s working for you, then great |
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"I do wonder how many hotlists I'm on and how utterly disgusted with themselves they are for doing so
That doesn't really answer my question "
Oh precise answers, alrighty then.
Two
One
Erm hi 
Does a social fundraiser count?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My pipeline is looking healthy. A few people to bring through still but I’m pretty happy with where it’s at. "
A healthy pipeline. We all aspire to that! I need to fill mine up. (Laughing as I type that  ) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I do wonder how many hotlists I'm on and how utterly disgusted with themselves they are for doing so
That doesn't really answer my question
Oh precise answers, alrighty then.
Two
One
Erm hi
Does a social fundraiser count?
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I do enjoy precision 
PS are you flirting at the fundraiser? If not, not it doesn't count! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nope! I just chat on the forums and if I get chatting to someone like and it develops, great.
I chat on the forums too and men in my box. It's just there is usually more than one at any one time. Ok I'm feeling paranoid now about my pipeline!
You absolutely shouldn’t feel paranoid about your pipelining! We all manage ourselves on fab differently and if it’s working for you, then great "
I guess I thought more people would relate to it. I usually have various levels of chat/flirting going on with several man and some may go the distance. Mebbe. |
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A potential pipeline yes, plenty of people we fancy on here and who contact/wink us. But we have little capacity to put these opportunities in bag. Work and family life means we generally find it easier to be swingers of opportunity. Generally why we dont message/wink others we fancy. We don’t want to hold peoples attention or communicate endlessly while they wait for us to find an opportunity to meet in the real world. Plus we're not allways on here or have the time to nurish a potential lead. Basically making plans with others is difficult so we meet people as we find them in clubs, parties and/or just out in the vanilla world. We can't really do the whole online thing unless with people of particular patience. |
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People I enjoy chatting to? Yep
New people I’d love to meet one day either at a group or 1:1 social for a coffee? Yep
People who are fun to flirt with? Yep
New people I’ll actually have sex with? Nope
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Not really, he's taken a break from here so not really been even thinking about things like that, I come on here for a distraction atm.
Hopefully we'll be changing that at some point and start looking and chatting again
Tinder |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you have a pipeline of "prospects" from here (and other sites/apps)? And if so, how does your pipeline look at the moment? How many?
For example:
People on your hotlist
People you've just started chatting to
Flirtations on the forum
"sure things"
Red hot: meet is in the bag!
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Yes, I've got a team constantly updating Salesforce for me |
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By *ags73Man
over a year ago
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I don’t think I think that way, maybe I’m too scatty, i like, I really like, I think no chance, I wonder on others.
Therefore, no system. Do I need a notepad and to put scores on doors or something? |
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OP, I have a ==pipeline== of prospects. It traverses through the undulations of my fields of flirts, criss-crossing my plateau of passion and terminating at the door of my battle-worn heart.
December ended well, January is already well-oiled for prospects and February will be enriched if all goes well.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My pipeline is looking healthy. A few people to bring through still but I’m pretty happy with where it’s at.
A healthy pipeline. We all aspire to that! I need to fill mine up. (Laughing as I type that )"
Get me in there |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you have a pipeline of "prospects" from here (and other sites/apps)? And if so, how does your pipeline look at the moment? How many?
For example:
People on your hotlist
People you've just started chatting to
Flirtations on the forum
"sure things"
Red hot: meet is in the bag!
Yes, I've got a team constantly updating Salesforce for me"
He gets it! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No comment
Spoilsport
I'm trying to remain cryptic and mysterious, it drives people wild "
As long as you never talk about your horn level, this is a recipe for success! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you have a pipeline of "prospects" from here (and other sites/apps)? And if so, how does your pipeline look at the moment? How many?
For example:
People on your hotlist
People you've just started chatting to
Flirtations on the forum
"sure things"
Red hot: meet is in the bag!
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I have people I talk with on various apps, all different types of conversations.
I wouldn't say any of it is a "sure thing" |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don’t think I think that way, maybe I’m too scatty, i like, I really like, I think no chance, I wonder on others.
Therefore, no system. Do I need a notepad and to put scores on doors or something?"
A notepad is oldskool. Respect |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No expectations, I even know in one case what the expectations are (having been told we're just talking and nothing more.)
I have a hotlist and there's always the locals feed. These are more for eye candy than anything serious. I do enjoy the candy. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"OP, I have a ==pipeline== of prospects. It traverses through the undulations of my fields of flirts, criss-crossing my plateau of passion and terminating at the door of my battle-worn heart.
December ended well, January is already well-oiled for prospects and February will be enriched if all goes well.
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Sounds very organised , Are you using Zoho or Dynamics CRM ?
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"Do you have a pipeline of "prospects" from here (and other sites/apps)? And if so, how does your pipeline look at the moment? How many?
For example:
People on your hotlist
People you've just started chatting to
Flirtations on the forum
"sure things"
Red hot: meet is in the bag!
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I don’t have a Pipeline. But I do have an empty Waiting Room |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP, I have a ==pipeline== of prospects. It traverses through the undulations of my fields of flirts, criss-crossing my plateau of passion and terminating at the door of my battle-worn heart.
December ended well, January is already well-oiled for prospects and February will be enriched if all goes well.
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My man, I think your conversion rate must be rocking! What's your secret? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What’s your pipeline saying, OP?
Projections are looking positive for this quarter, Stephen
If you need, I’ll be available. "
Shocking news from the South |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"People I enjoy chatting to? Yep
New people I’d love to meet one day either at a group or 1:1 social for a coffee? Yep
People who are fun to flirt with? Yep
New people I’ll actually have sex with? Nope
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What do leads have to do to move to the final stage?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A potential pipeline yes, plenty of people we fancy on here and who contact/wink us. But we have little capacity to put these opportunities in bag. Work and family life means we generally find it easier to be swingers of opportunity. Generally why we dont message/wink others we fancy. We don’t want to hold peoples attention or communicate endlessly while they wait for us to find an opportunity to meet in the real world. Plus we're not allways on here or have the time to nurish a potential lead. Basically making plans with others is difficult so we meet people as we find them in clubs, parties and/or just out in the vanilla world. We can't really do the whole online thing unless with people of particular patience."
"Nourish a potential lead" music to my ears, people! Go well  |
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Our pipeline is feast or famine - we chat to a few people and then sometimes things work out where we might meet a couple of people within a short space of time but then nothing for a while or we continue meeting those people.
Being in a couple we know singles aren’t going to want to always be with a couple so it pays to have a pipeline.
Currently we are hopefully going to have a feast month  and we are actively ensuring we have as much fun as possible this year
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Our pipeline is feast or famine - we chat to a few people and then sometimes things work out where we might meet a couple of people within a short space of time but then nothing for a while or we continue meeting those people.
Being in a couple we know singles aren’t going to want to always be with a couple so it pays to have a pipeline.
Currently we are hopefully going to have a feast month and we are actively ensuring we have as much fun as possible this year
K"
Wishing you many warm prospects across ALL quarters! |
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"People I enjoy chatting to? Yep
New people I’d love to meet one day either at a group or 1:1 social for a coffee? Yep
People who are fun to flirt with? Yep
New people I’ll actually have sex with? Nope
What do leads have to do to move to the final stage? "
Im not sure. I’m a terrible swinger and already have someone amazing to have sex with |
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Although I'm on here (mostly for the forums) I've mostly shut down the pipeline for meeting new people recently - got rid of apps, etc. I wasn't in the right headspace. Not that I wouldn't meet if things were right - I'm always open to meeting interesting people. But less actively looking than previously. This might be changing soon, it might not. I'm playing it all by ear. |
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Started a few new online conversations and got the ball rolling. Connections with those people are still brewing so nothing “set in stone” on that front. More so just seeing how it goes.
Howeverrrrrr…. There are folk I’ve met before, still talk to, have hooked up with previously and we’ve discussed repeating this again.
In a nutshell, I’m in a pretty good place on that front |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Only with people I have met or spoken to and that I am sure would also want to fuck me. I am a stickler for conversion rates. "
I'm sure you have an EPIC conversation rate |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have a few, generally move them to snap or WhatsApp when I’m interested enough to arrange a meet. Otherwise just have them hot listed until I’m ready x"
I'm loving this process - you know where they are in the pipeline/funnel from where you talk to them. Efficient. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"People I enjoy chatting to? Yep
New people I’d love to meet one day either at a group or 1:1 social for a coffee? Yep
People who are fun to flirt with? Yep
New people I’ll actually have sex with? Nope
What do leads have to do to move to the final stage?
Im not sure. I’m a terrible swinger and already have someone amazing to have sex with "
Stealth boasting. Ok I'm on board with that. (I'm starting to write like Pickle.  ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you have a pipeline of "prospects" from here (and other sites/apps)? And if so, how does your pipeline look at the moment? How many?
For example:
People on your hotlist
People you've just started chatting to
Flirtations on the forum
"sure things"
Red hot: meet is in the bag!
Yes, I've got a team constantly updating Salesforce for me
He gets it! "
It's important to take such things seriously, else one might not get laid before the renewal date |
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"Do you have a pipeline of "prospects" from here (and other sites/apps)? And if so, how does your pipeline look at the moment? How many?
For example:
People on your hotlist
People you've just started chatting to
Flirtations on the forum
"sure things"
Red hot: meet is in the bag!"
I don't use any other apps or sites, mainly as I don't know any. People feel free to mention them in private to me.
As for here I mainly just chat on the forums or the few friends I have. Single guys have a rather quiet time generally on here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ooh like a funnel? There's a few prospects, but only 1 sure thing at the moment.
Just started a new round of "interviews" for '24. "
Oh, to be a fly in the wall! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No expectations, I even know in one case what the expectations are (having been told we're just talking and nothing more.)
I have a hotlist and there's always the locals feed. These are more for eye candy than anything serious. I do enjoy the candy."
Christ, my local feed is revolting! I wouldn't put any of that candy in my mouth.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Our pipeline is feast or famine - we chat to a few people and then sometimes things work out where we might meet a couple of people within a short space of time but then nothing for a while or we continue meeting those people.
Being in a couple we know singles aren’t going to want to always be with a couple so it pays to have a pipeline.
Currently we are hopefully going to have a feast month and we are actively ensuring we have as much fun as possible this year
K"
I find it's feast or famine for me too - I like to have options. Enjoy your feast!  |
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No pipeline.
I dedicate a lot of time messaging but to no avail.
Without any chats, nothing happens.
So I keep searching, keep messaging and keep waiting for something to happen. Hopefully something might happen this year
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By *nt1845Man
over a year ago
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Yeah, my pipeline has been:
Great sex with my Mrs Friday and Saturday whilst away in London.
Hopefully seeing my mistress this week.
Seeing an old flame on Friday.
A gangbang at a hotel in Leeds next Saturday.
That’s it for now! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Started a few new online conversations and got the ball rolling. Connections with those people are still brewing so nothing “set in stone” on that front. More so just seeing how it goes.
Howeverrrrrr…. There are folk I’ve met before, still talk to, have hooked up with previously and we’ve discussed repeating this again.
In a nutshell, I’m in a pretty good place on that front "
Excellent pipelining |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No pipeline.
I dedicate a lot of time messaging but to no avail.
Without any chats, nothing happens.
So I keep searching, keep messaging and keep waiting for something to happen. Hopefully something might happen this year
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Mate, if it hasn't worked so far, maybe try a different approach? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yeah, my pipeline has been:
Great sex with my Mrs Friday and Saturday whilst away in London.
Hopefully seeing my mistress this week.
Seeing an old flame on Friday.
A gangbang at a hotel in Leeds next Saturday.
That’s it for now!"
How do you keep it up? |
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