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By *arkliverpool OP   Man  over a year ago

whiston / the lakes sometimes

How far would you travel for a meet

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman  over a year ago

Carlisle usually

A first meet has to be basically somewhere I'm already going.

After that it depends on how much connection I feel as to how far I'd travel for them

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By *arlot o scaraWoman  over a year ago

Hell

I drove for 5 hours to meet someone once

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Probably as far as Preston. So like 3 hours on the train.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Max 30 mins

But I’m near London, so there’s probably like a million people within 30 mins

If you can’t find a meet amongst a million people, I’d just hang my coat up for the day

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Probably as far as Preston. So like 3 hours on the train. "
longer if all the trains from Euston get cancelled

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Max 30 mins

But I’m near London, so there’s probably like a million people within 30 mins

If you can’t find a meet amongst a million people, I’d just hang my coat up for the day "

The trick for me when I’m struggling to find local people on fab is to download the dating apps

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By *toC Thats MeWoman  over a year ago

Sheffield

Don’t mind a road trip to a club.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Max 30 mins

But I’m near London, so there’s probably like a million people within 30 mins

If you can’t find a meet amongst a million people, I’d just hang my coat up for the day

The trick for me when I’m struggling to find local people on fab is to download the dating apps"

Definitely much easier and a much bigger pool of people with decent pics

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

.

It depends how invested I am in someone. If I'm interested, we get along really well regardless of if we have sex or not, I'm happy to travel a few hours.

I wouldn't do that if I wasn't staying overnight (alone) somewhere though. A six hour round trip is far too much effort, even for me.

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By *arkliverpool OP   Man  over a year ago

whiston / the lakes sometimes

That’s a long drive was it worth it

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By *hunky ChefMan  over a year ago

Norwich

Realistically 20 miles radius.

I'd go 100 miles for a few.

I'd travel more for maybe 2 angels (YKWYA), but they aren't the "fuck me now" types, so technically it would be a social.

I just realize how stupid that sounds to travel to Foggy Bottom for a coffee.

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By *arkliverpool OP   Man  over a year ago

whiston / the lakes sometimes

So in a club or something first then that your going to

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By *riar BelisseWoman  over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

200 miles one way, but I always make it a weekend adventure with lots to do

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By *ustin666666Man  over a year ago

Nottingham

Depends on what kind of meet.

Social upto 45 mins

Naughty fun with female 60 mins

Naughty fun with couple 90 mins

Weekend of naughtyness 120 mins

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By *gent CoulsonMan  over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I've done. 5 hour round trip before now

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I drove for 5 hours to meet someone once "

The roads in and out of hell do get busy, they need a bypass

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By *mber81Woman  over a year ago

Chorley, Eng

Very occasionally I will travel a few hours just to see one person and not have it combined with another reason that I am in their area. They will be special though.

On one occasion I also did a two and a half hour round trip after having already driven 3 and half hours that day just to pick someone up at a train station after thier train to my local station was cancelled. I would happily do it again. And again and again for that person.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Very occasionally I will travel a few hours just to see one person and not have it combined with another reason that I am in their area. They will be special though.

On one occasion I also did a two and a half hour round trip after having already driven 3 and half hours that day just to pick someone up at a train station after thier train to my local station was cancelled. I would happily do it again. And again and again for that person. "

That’s like 6 hours driving in one day

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By *a LunaWoman  over a year ago

South Wales

Not far. Got two kids (School run) 3 dogs and a doddery ma to get back to!

And I’m not fond of motorway driving.

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By *TG3Man  over a year ago

Dorchester

Nowhere is too far for the right person

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

That is a good question. There are a lot of sexy people within an hour or so of me. I travel a little anyway but I would certainly travel a few hours for the right person/people and experience.

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By *he Silver FuxMan  over a year ago

Uttoxeter

Staffordshire to Cornwall. She’s worth it

I did fly out to Switzerland for a meet but it did include some skiing.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

As far as I need to.

There’s someone on here distance would never be too far. She knows

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Under an hour ideally

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By *ornycougaWoman  over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

London to Edinburgh would be the furthest I have travelled but I'm impulsive so not averse to jumping on a plane or train anywhere for the right person

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Catterick to Portsmouth

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple  over a year ago

Southampton


"Staffordshire to Cornwall. She’s worth it

I did fly out to Switzerland for a meet but it did include some skiing. "

I travelled to Glasgow, but I was going anyway, social was an added bonus and we're the other meets while I was there lol

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By *rHotNottsMan  over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Max 30 mins

But I’m near London, so there’s probably like a million people within 30 mins

If you can’t find a meet amongst a million people, I’d just hang my coat up for the day

The trick for me when I’m struggling to find local people on fab is to download the dating apps

Definitely much easier and a much bigger pool of people with decent pics "

I’ve had good results on the NextDoor app too. As well as some great sex I’ve had lost keys returned and found a gardner

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By *WINGStars23Couple  over a year ago

Northwest UK

Personally we’ve met that many fakes that I’d panic that we’d travel a fair distance just to be stood up. I’d say 10 miles at most

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By *BWLOVER1965Man  over a year ago

Ipswich

Home and back

Liverpool probably the furthest I’d go

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere else

https://youtu.be/2y1TZXc5DiY?si=fjlrQXzBRyb7Zf30

I have done this.

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I might go down and unlock the front gate if you're lucky

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I might go down and unlock the front gate if you're lucky"

When did you gain a heart!?

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By *ornLordMan  over a year ago

Wiltshire and London


"I might go down and unlock the front gate if you're lucky"

Ooh matron!

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I might go down and unlock the front gate if you're lucky

When did you gain a heart!? "

I didn't. I'm a medical miracle

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"https://youtu.be/2y1TZXc5DiY?si=fjlrQXzBRyb7Zf30

I have done this. "

Is this the Proclaimers? my fingers are too fat and cold to copy the link!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I might go down and unlock the front gate if you're lucky

When did you gain a heart!?

I didn't. I'm a medical miracle"

TOO THE VIRUS FORUMS YOU GO

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I might go down and unlock the front gate if you're lucky

When did you gain a heart!?

I didn't. I'm a medical miracle

TOO THE VIRUS FORUMS YOU GO "

I said "medical miracle", not "unvaccinated snowflake wake up sheeple"

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

An hour or so

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By *wannafreakyouMan  over a year ago

london

1 hour max

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Under an hour ideally"

How far would you travel to meet me

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By *arkliverpool OP   Man  over a year ago

whiston / the lakes sometimes

I did a 120 mile round trip to be blocked when I got to address so it’s 30 miles max now

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I did a 120 mile round trip to be blocked when I got to address so it’s 30 miles max now "

And that’s why it takes so much trust in here. Damn, sorry pal, that must suck.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Furthest I've travelled was down to London which is only a couple of hours on the train but I wouldn't rule out any distance for the right person and if I felt we had a connection

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I did a 120 mile round trip to be blocked when I got to address so it’s 30 miles max now "

Yes, that's totally fair, and why a lot of people don't travel.

My serious answer is that how far I'll travel depends on how invested I am - someone new, local (but I won't accommodate). Someone I've been talking to for a long time, potentially hundreds of miles (and I may accommodate).

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Under an hour ideally

How far would you travel to meet me"

Why are you up north any time soon?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

With quite a lot of socials, average is about 5-10 miles. I have travelled as far as 50 miles in the past, and as little as 1 mile too.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple  over a year ago

Southampton


"Furthest I've travelled was down to London which is only a couple of hours on the train but I wouldn't rule out any distance for the right person and if I felt we had a connection "

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By *issmorganWoman  over a year ago

Calderdale innit

A first meet, not that far given how many threads are started about people not showing up to meet lately.

Local only, if I'd met someone a few times before, I'd be much more likely to travel further.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire

I would travel a short distance for a social. Quite a distance for a club but for 1 on 1 sex meet 90% at my house although I did travel on a couple of occasions

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By *olfandtazCouple  over a year ago

Bristol

We would drive the length of the country for a meet and make a weekend break of it... a nice hotel and get away from life

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By *arkliverpool OP   Man  over a year ago

whiston / the lakes sometimes


"I did a 120 mile round trip to be blocked when I got to address so it’s 30 miles max now

And that’s why it takes so much trust in here. Damn, sorry pal, that must suck. "

Yeah it did but on the plus side I was in the work van so didn’t cost me haha

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By *erkshire8299Man  over a year ago

slough

My first time with a couple was a drive London to Birmingham and the second was London to Bournemouth...both def worth it...don't think I would do that now...maybe 60 to 90 mins each way

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By *ittlekinks38Woman  over a year ago

outside belfast x

Depends if the option was to stay over somewhere and travel back the next day a good couple of hrs I suppose...but then if meeting them again would they make such a effort?

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By *eliusMan  over a year ago

Henlow


"I drove for 5 hours to meet someone once "

Wow! I suppose if you’re prepared then nowhere is too far, fair play!

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By *arkliverpool OP   Man  over a year ago

whiston / the lakes sometimes


"I did a 120 mile round trip to be blocked when I got to address so it’s 30 miles max now

Yes, that's totally fair, and why a lot of people don't travel.

My serious answer is that how far I'll travel depends on how invested I am - someone new, local (but I won't accommodate). Someone I've been talking to for a long time, potentially hundreds of miles (and I may accommodate)."

That’s fair enough and if you been talking a while their more likely to turn up

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By *ookie46Woman  over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

For the friendships I already have I’d travel as far is needed

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman  over a year ago

Basingstoke

Generally no more than 30 minutes for a social - maybe an hour/90 min drive for established friends.

But I have travelled 200 miles for a weekend meet - onky ever having chat through Fab and on the phone first. It was the best leap of faith I ever took and have a true friend for life as a result.

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By *elix SightedMan  over a year ago

Cloud 8

Meeting someone with whom I’m not already acquainted (ie social or lounge chat) then not far. Too much risk of first date disappointment or no show.

There are some in here for whom I would fly to other countries for a snog.

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By *uzie69xTV/TS  over a year ago

Maidstone

Zero... They always cum to me.

I would also turn them down if they are more than half an hour away... The pressure not to turn them away if I didn't like them. I tell them as much when they ask for a meet.

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By *ittlebirdWoman  over a year ago

The Big Smoke

180 miles each way. It was so worth it

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By *xfordjohnMan  over a year ago

Oxford

For this year, I've decided to go asfar as it needs, as I don't seem to be ble to find any really compatible couples locally. As I am retired and free, I guess I could go anywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I see these posts and think - how desperate are you for a shag?

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By *igboobstCouple  over a year ago

barrow

We've travelled a couple of hours but would travel longer if we had that feeling it was going to be worth it.we love a road trip and if there is a naughty meet at the other end all the better

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By *atnip make me purrWoman  over a year ago

Reading

Local only for a first meet. After that if there was a good connection I'd travel an hour or so.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

That's a hard one. If there was sexual chemistry and compatibility there and I knew we were gonna have a day/weekend to play I'd go a few hours.

I don't mind travelling. I travel down south a few times a year so there's plenty of opportunities to stop off places on my way

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I see these posts and think - how desperate are you for a shag?"

I'm not desperate, I just enjoy a damn good reason to have a weekend away, and if anything sexual happens then that's just the icing on the cake. It's just good to get away and enjoy yourself. Life is for experiencing and living

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By *asycouple1971Couple  over a year ago

midlands

We have a 1hr drive in a few weeks time to meet a couple. Thats about the max we will drive.

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By *lder.Woman  over a year ago

Not Local

I used to drive hours. Now I'd like something under an hour really so it can become more regular. My car is knackered and doesn't need the extra miles on it.

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By *amie HantsWoman  over a year ago

Atlantis

no more than 15 minutes would be ideal but ip to an hour is more realistic

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By *quirrel!Man  over a year ago

L

All the way round the world for the right one!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Is a 400 mile trip crazy bonkers? (7 hours round trip)

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By *hriscooperMan  over a year ago

Warrington

I'm happy to drive anywhere really as long as I really find the woman attractive and we could maybe make a weekend out of it to make the travel worthwhile.

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By *arkus1812Man  over a year ago

Finedon ,

Have restricted myself to 30 miles radius from my house for a social or a meet.

After 67 years and close on 2 million miles my heart is not in driving any more.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't mind going the distance, as I usually like to play something else with it, like a national trust visit or something.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple  over a year ago

Southampton


"I don't mind going the distance, as I usually like to play something else with it, like a national trust visit or something."

Well I'd certainly travel to you

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've travelled 2.5 hrs 1 way.... but I liked the destination so did other stuff while there too....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't mind going the distance, as I usually like to play something else with it, like a national trust visit or something.

Well I'd certainly travel to you "

You are too kind and flatter me

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By *ookingforfun9970Man  over a year ago

wilts

Looking to fly someone out to Germany for a naughty weekend/long weekend if a anyone’s game

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple  over a year ago

Southampton


"I don't mind going the distance, as I usually like to play something else with it, like a national trust visit or something.

Well I'd certainly travel to you

You are too kind and flatter me "

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By *ouple24669Couple  over a year ago

Brechin

First time we ever met a couple from here we did a 5 hour drive followed by a 2.5 hour ferry trip to meet them. At that point we never imagined people would cancel on you last minute…..luckily they didn’t but knowing what we do now we wouldn’t do that now unless we had met them previously.

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By *TG3Man  over a year ago

Dorchester


"How far would you travel for a meet

"

500 miles

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