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I looked at a profile today to see that it was blocked. This surprised me as I couldn't remember blocking them. Then I saw that there was a private note, so I clicked it to see: "The guy's an absolute bell-end."
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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Counter blocks mostly! |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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Never blocked anyone
That’s more clicks than I’m willing to waste on something that (for me) achieves nothing |
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I block people I don't want to hear from generally  |
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By *ornycougaWoman 39 weeks ago
Wherever I lay my hat |
I usually only block guys that persistently message me despite no reply. Occasionally I'll block for other reasons but generally if they don't behave like a dick I'll leave them be |
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If they've got lots of veris or has met someone I think is rank. |
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I only block people when they delete my initial message. Prevents me messaging them accidentally |
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Normally, if they're hinting at "arrangements" or drugs.
Probably not going to meet them. And the constant posting of status updates gets annoying
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By *MCMan 39 weeks ago
London/EA |
Constantly begging for likes on their pics or supporter passes.
Posting like it’s Facebook 
Same statuses every day |
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By *929Man 39 weeks ago
newcastle |
Only blocked a few and it was just to avoid seeing their annoying repeat status updates Nowt against them personally |
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Stalky, pushy, lazy, grumpy.
Or any of the other vertically challenged alternatives. |
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If they can't take no for an answer, if they bore the hell out of me, or if they ask questions that I don't want to or don't know how to answer |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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I’ve only ever blocked people in the forums that have messaged me asking to join their clique |
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They're not someone I want to meet (for a variety of reasons) and/ or what they've said in messages |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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Guys get in touch with me when i say no they block me . |
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I generally only block if I’m sure I don’t want to have anything to do with them. |
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"I’ve only ever blocked people in the forums that have messaged me asking to join their clique "
I was joking  |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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I've only ever blocked 3 people.
1 guy messaged me to purely be abusive and insulting.
Another guy kept asking for gay sex after I repeatedly told him I was straight.
And a women replied quite abusive and insulting after I messaged her.
Filters went up for a long time after that. Took them all down recently. Not because I want messages from men etc, just I was having genuine, non swcual conversations with a few guys about the scene/advice on clubs etc |
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If they consistently talk pish or are generally just someone who I do not want to have an kind of interaction with based on forum posts or profile. |
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"Counter blocks mostly! "
This. Ones that delete messages straight away as well.
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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The single guy gets in touch when you say no you get blocked then called a time waster or fake. |
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If someone messages us, they get blocked. The bloody nerve. |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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So many different reasons…
They’ve sent a private message that was skirting the lines of seeing me as a sex worker.
General twattery of all sorts.
They made plans for a coffee and didn’t follow through to confirm. I lack patience with peole who make plans and still haven’t confirmed two days before. Either, you’ve got the time and will see to it that you make it to the coffee with me or you can fuck right off. I’ll help by blocking you.
Abusive messages after I’ve politely told them I’m not keen.
Non stop message senders.
Asking for pics.
Begging to be given a chance. Begging is never attractive.
Sent me their unwanted cock pics. Your cock alone does nothing to excite me. It’s a picture. I had no part in making it hard. I don’t know you. Your cock can’t be the most exciting thing about you, and if it is; you’re boring.
Goes around asking others about me. Ffs, if you want to know about me ask me not others.
They view my page excessively. Two hundred views from one person in two hours is bordering insanity.
I’m sure there’s more but those are reasons I’ve blocked most recently.
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When they offer money.
Blocked and reported |
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Usually because they behave in a way that makes me not want to have anything to do with them.
Sending genital pics
Counter blocks |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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We rarely block people tbh, only if they send multiple messages one after another or if they are rude to us.
Miss S x |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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"If someone messages us, they get blocked. The bloody nerve. "
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People who message repeatedly with zero replies, I'm sure Fab used to have a setting that warned them against this...
People we see on the forums and know we wouldn't get on with due to the nature of their posts, doesn't matter how good looking they are!
Only had to block a few over the years tbf |
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I use my block list instead of my hotlist… maybe  |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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I havnt blocked anyone yet but I might go through the people that didn't reply and block them.
Just so i don't message again. |
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Guys offering exclusive membership in a sad wankers' circle. |
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"I looked at a profile today to see that it was blocked. This surprised me as I couldn't remember blocking them. Then I saw that there was a private note, so I clicked it to see: "The guy's an absolute bell-end."
What are some of the reasons that have caused you to block other profiles?"
Was it me? If so....... Fair. 
I'm not too handy with the block button. Usually thirsty blokes wanting to drain my balls.
Or fuckwits sending their anti vax/covid denial stupidity. |
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"If someone messages us, they get blocked. The bloody nerve. "
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By *ustBoWoman 39 weeks ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I don't block very often but when I do it's because I don't want to interact with the person or persons,and sometimes it is a counter block . |
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I don’t really block people unless they have offensive opinions or message me repeatedly wanting to suck me off in a nearby lay-by. Serves them right for getting my hopes up with a message. |
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When they know my real first and last name. everyone else gets a private note |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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Wow, some people take blocking very seriously  |
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When they cant'take the hint and start to pester you and pressure you to meet |
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I block lots. If I message and they say they're not interested, I block just so I don't hassle them again |
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Sometimes I block really hot people who aren’t in to me so I don’t keep clicking on their profile forgetting |
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By *phroditeWoman 39 weeks ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
1. When they keep messaging despite my saying I am not attracted to their profile.
2. When they send me cock pics (clearly not read profile)
3. When the message is rude or aggressive. |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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If they like mushrooms they're gone as well. Scumbags. |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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I don’t.  |
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"Never blocked anyone
That’s more clicks than I’m willing to waste on something that (for me) achieves nothing "
Oh, it *definitely* achieves something! |
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I think Ella has blocked someone for apostrophe misuse in the past....
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I use it as an extra filter - if I've looked at a profile and they're so far away from my wants and needs the block stops me looking again.
So it's only time management in my case.
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I block for several reasons including:
Body shaming
Meaness/rudeness (not only to me but in general interactions I've seen)
Also, if I know we are not going to get on etc
That doesn't mean I won't happily chatter away in the forums with people though. I just don't see the need to share our profile further with those blocked.
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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Because they want wonko and not me |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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"I looked at a profile today to see that it was blocked. This surprised me as I couldn't remember blocking them. Then I saw that there was a private note, so I clicked it to see: "The guy's an absolute bell-end."
What are some of the reasons that have caused you to block other profiles?"
Because they're sickenly ugly  |
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Lots of reasons, derogatory status updates or pics I don't like.
Pushy and won't take no for an answer.
I've seen them be rude or totally lacking in empathy in the forums more than once.
They send dick pics when I specifically ask for them not to be sent.
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Alos anyone offering drugs or repeatedly posting about wanting them. |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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I block for loads of reasons:
Too far
Cheating on a partner
Messaged me too much
If they're a straight man
If they're a weirdo on the forums.
If they're too far away.
If they're a druggie. |
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"I looked at a profile today to see that it was blocked. This surprised me as I couldn't remember blocking them. Then I saw that there was a private note, so I clicked it to see: "The guy's an absolute bell-end."
What are some of the reasons that have caused you to block other profiles?"
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Can you leave notes???
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"I looked at a profile today to see that it was blocked. This surprised me as I couldn't remember blocking them. Then I saw that there was a private note, so I clicked it to see: "The guy's an absolute bell-end."
What are some of the reasons that have caused you to block other profiles?
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Can you leave notes???
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Yes click on menu and there's an option called private notes there and you can write what you want in that bit. |
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"I looked at a profile today to see that it was blocked. This surprised me as I couldn't remember blocking them. Then I saw that there was a private note, so I clicked it to see: "The guy's an absolute bell-end."
What are some of the reasons that have caused you to block other profiles?
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Can you leave notes???
Yes click on menu and there's an option called private notes there and you can write what you want in that bit. "
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I found it straight, before you commented.
I am writing my notes, if I remember all.
" He was a cunt..."
" She had .... in her bio...."
" She thinks I'm a cunt..."
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By *inaTitzTV/TS 39 weeks ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
Transphobes, they get the block treatment. Whenever I accidentally stray into the politics or virus forums, I end up blocking Daily Heil readers or foil hat wearers. People who were looking to meet during the early days of Covid, when we didn't know how dangerous it was, they get blocked, too.  |
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Contrary to the popular approach the majority on my block list are "popular" women.
I have blocked some for inane status updates so it keeps that page tidy and relevant.
Some are there for stupid and aggravating forum contributions.
Some for contacting my verifications and asking for personal info on me and others for already having that info and sharing it with their circle.
Some just because they aren't used to being blocked so I thought it might be a new experience for them. |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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"I usually only block guys that persistently message me despite no reply. Occasionally I'll block for other reasons but generally if they don't behave like a dick I'll leave them be"
Ditto. I try to reply but after the 7th or 8th message a block is all that's left! |
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"I looked at a profile today to see that it was blocked. This surprised me as I couldn't remember blocking them. Then I saw that there was a private note, so I clicked it to see: "The guy's an absolute bell-end."
What are some of the reasons that have caused you to block other profiles?
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Can you leave notes???
Yes click on menu and there's an option called private notes there and you can write what you want in that bit.
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I found it straight, before you commented.
I am writing my notes, if I remember all.
" He was a cunt..."
" She had .... in her bio...."
" She thinks I'm a cunt..."
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Are you writing "talks a lot, lives a million miles away but is harmless" on mine?
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"Contrary to the popular approach the majority on my block list are "popular" women.
I have blocked some for inane status updates so it keeps that page tidy and relevant.
Some are there for stupid and aggravating forum contributions.
Some for contacting my verifications and asking for personal info on me and others for already having that info and sharing it with their circle.
Some just because they aren't used to being blocked so I thought it might be a new experience for them. "
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" Some just because they aren't used to being blocked so I thought it might be a new experience for them. "
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Are you evil or a genius?
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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"I only block people when they delete my initial message. Prevents me messaging them accidentally"
I do that
.. there's a silly childish glee in doing it too, wish there wasn't... having pure motives would be so nice 
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"I looked at a profile today to see that it was blocked. This surprised me as I couldn't remember blocking them. Then I saw that there was a private note, so I clicked it to see: "The guy's an absolute bell-end."
What are some of the reasons that have caused you to block other profiles?
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Can you leave notes???
Yes click on menu and there's an option called private notes there and you can write what you want in that bit.
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I found it straight, before you commented.
I am writing my notes, if I remember all.
" He was a cunt..."
" She had .... in her bio...."
" She thinks I'm a cunt..."
Are you writing "talks a lot, lives a million miles away but is harmless" on mine?
MrsAbz"
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I would never block you.
I'm quite confident you can't upset me, and likely you would apologize if it would happen.
I don't think I'd ever deserved to be blocked by you, so no counter blocking either.
(Women have really quick fingers on the trigger though)
* Doesn't know Taylor Swift??? Blocked!
* Like rock music??? Animal! Blocked!
* Doesn't like pink? Blocked!
* Have different opinion on 1 thing while we are chatting? Blocked!
* Giving the heads up the girls are laughing ABOUT me, so joining is not nice. Blocked!
Don't like marmite? Blocked!
I don't like the P.M. of the country you left in 2007. Blocked!
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Yes, I have examples for most, but some I toned down a little bit.
I counter block them, so...
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Block people who can’t be bothered to read our profile and still contact us obviously not what we are looking for , ie age range or sexual preference |
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If they don't fit our criteria, age, height, hobbies etc, but mostly the dilusional and those that don't take No for an answer.
We find it just saves all of the hassle and wasted time. |
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Once I had a chat with a woman about food.
She knew I'm a chef, so asked me if I could cook Roast Diner for her.
I said I can cook much better than that.
Roast Dinner is boring, overrated and doesn't even have a proper name.
She blocked me!
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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"I think Ella has blocked someone for apostrophe misuse in the past....
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More power to he'r.
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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I’ve not blocked a soul on here……..yet |
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I never used to. Now I have started to do it much more often.
People I have zero interest in interacting with ever.
Those I have no interest in
Those I have shown interest in but they none in me. |
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People who disparage the user I’m in thrall to… maybe |
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"I’ve not blocked a soul on here……..yet"
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I thought you blocked yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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"I’ve not blocked a soul on here……..yet
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I thought you blocked yourself."
I’m giving myself a 2nd chance. I’m way too handsome to stay mad at myself. |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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Personally I'd rather get a block than an unread.
That way you know they arnt interested rather than sitting there thinking they could get back to you. |
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"I’ve not blocked a soul on here……..yet
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I thought you blocked yourself.
I’m giving myself a 2nd chance. I’m way too handsome to stay mad at myself. "
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Usually if they disagree with me on a football thread  |
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"I looked at a profile today to see that it was blocked. This surprised me as I couldn't remember blocking them. Then I saw that there was a private note, so I clicked it to see: "The guy's an absolute bell-end."
What are some of the reasons that have caused you to block other profiles?
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Can you leave notes???
Yes click on menu and there's an option called private notes there and you can write what you want in that bit.
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I found it straight, before you commented.
I am writing my notes, if I remember all.
" He was a cunt..."
" She had .... in her bio...."
" She thinks I'm a cunt..."
Are you writing "talks a lot, lives a million miles away but is harmless" on mine?
MrsAbz
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I would never block you.
I'm quite confident you can't upset me, and likely you would apologize if it would happen.
I don't think I'd ever deserved to be blocked by you, so no counter blocking either.
(Women have really quick fingers on the trigger though)
* Doesn't know Taylor Swift??? Blocked!
* Like rock music??? Animal! Blocked!
* Doesn't like pink? Blocked!
* Have different opinion on 1 thing while we are chatting? Blocked!
* Giving the heads up the girls are laughing ABOUT me, so joining is not nice. Blocked!
Don't like marmite? Blocked!
I don't like the P.M. of the country you left in 2007. Blocked!
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Yes, I have examples for most, but some I toned down a little bit.
I counter block them, so...
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Well the marmite one... it is awfully yucky stuff
Haha, nah I won't block ya even if you do like marmite.
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"Usually if they disagree with me on a football thread "
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I hate football.
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"Usually if they disagree with me on a football thread
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I hate football.
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And that's completely fine! At least you have an excuse to know nothing about it |
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"I never used to. Now I have started to do it much more often.
People I have zero interest in interacting with ever.
Those I have no interest in
Those I have shown interest in but they none in me."
... ... I only generally block if they've been obnoxious to me... last time I checked there were about 15 on my block list |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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"Usually if they disagree with me on a football thread
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I hate football.
And that's completely fine! At least you have an excuse to know nothing about it "
That football thread is quite amusing |
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Mostly saves hassle. They’ve been one liners. Abusive (only two so far to be fair, the majority are really nice) or clearly not types phishing (always single girls). K x |
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Many reasons…
They send dick pics
They repeatedly message
They send abusive or dirty messages
Their pictures make me feel queasy
I’m certain that I would have no interest in chatting with them
They’ve offered money
Their comments on the forum are particularly rude or irritating
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By *r_PinkMan 39 weeks ago
london stratford |
I tend to be the one that gets blocked!
I sometimes click on a profile and see I am blocked and sometimes wonder why when I have not even spoken to the person/couple before. |
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By *red333Man 39 weeks ago
Dorchester |
"I looked at a profile today to see that it was blocked. This surprised me as I couldn't remember blocking them. Then I saw that there was a private note, so I clicked it to see: "The guy's an absolute bell-end."
What are some of the reasons that have caused you to block other profiles?"
mostly counter blocks |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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Pests
Annoying
Grim pics
Status updates
Various other reasons |
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Not limited to, but Generally consists of - Incompatible locals, fab like beggars, the local bike, and people that post gibberish on the forums. |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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Dick photos cringe
Or irrelevant interests
Example : bbc only , clubs only etc .... |
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By *avexxMan 39 weeks ago
cheshire |
i dont block many people tbh only if they really get on my tits |
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Block "Chunky"......... surely not. |
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People in the forums who exposed themselves as unpleasant
People i know in real life who i dont want to see my pics/acitivity
Single guys who message repeatedly even though im straight and have sent a "no thanks but good luck" reply to already (i think i always reply - luxury of rarely getting messages) |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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Counterblocks FR
People who spam local feeds.
'Club organisers' who spam feeds.
Men who reach out to me in ways I haven't suggested they do.
Abusive people.
People who read, but don't reply to messages. |
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...baa....baa....baa
***Goats running through*** |
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By *mf123Man 39 weeks ago
with one foot out the door |
Gives me something to do i suppose |
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"Counter blocks mostly! "
How do you counter block when you can’t see their profile? |
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If I message someone and they say “ not for me” I block them.
I don’t want to message them in the future and look like a dick. |
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The cunts
The stirrers
Verbal abusers
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Variety of reasons. Normally if they’re not my kind of people… or just generally a cunt. |
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"I looked at a profile today to see that it was blocked. This surprised me as I couldn't remember blocking them. Then I saw that there was a private note, so I clicked it to see: "The guy's an absolute bell-end."
What are some of the reasons that have caused you to block other profiles?"
I don't really block people thankfully not too many people who have forced my hand if at all |
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By *lex46TV/TS 39 weeks ago
Near Wells |
I block people that lie to me, don’t arrive for meets and guys that send messages that I don’t understand. I usually tell them I don’t know what they’re trying to say and they reply with more gibberish. |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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Rude, pushy, arrogant, describing themselves as 'alpha' etc.
When Ive already said 'no thanks' but they still keep trying.
Offering or asking for payment
All immediate blocks
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Majority of profiles I blocked are just because I know their needs and my needs don't match. Unfortunately that's the only way on fab to hide them from search results. |
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"Variety of reasons. Normally if they’re not my kind of people… or just generally a cunt. "
I wonder how many people read your post and then clicked on your profile to find out if they were a cunt! |
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We block accounts who offer drugs or money |
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If the profile mentions 420, etc. If they send a copy and paste message, people that don't take no for an answer, if they blocked me. |
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By *istr3ssWoman 39 weeks ago
Stockton-on-Tees |
"They're not someone I want to meet (for a variety of reasons) and/ or what they've said in messages"
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"Variety of reasons. Normally if they’re not my kind of people… or just generally a cunt.
I wonder how many people read your post and then clicked on your profile to find out if they were a cunt! "
Many |
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Mostly so I don’t bother them again if I’ve sent a message and they haven’t responded |
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I don't block. The only person is an ex partner I met on here. He creates a profile, pisses women off (also messages me pretending not to be him), then creates a new one when the profile inevitably gets shut down. I recognise him a mile off. He's the only block ever. Random people, I don't care enough to. |
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By *glyBettyTV/TS 39 weeks ago
About 3 feet away from the fence |
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By *glyBettyTV/TS 39 weeks ago
About 3 feet away from the fence |
If they message me with a proposition I absolutely will not entertain under any circumstance.
Anyone messaging me about something I said in the forum that they didn't like. Whatevs, bye felisha.
Absolute randoms messaging me asking when they're coming round to my house. How about never?
Absolute randoms or people from miles away demanding a meet right now. |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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Mine is quite long; I tend to block if
- they have a profile pic that looks like an axe scene from ‘Vikings’ (come on ladies, I want to savour it, not be eaten by it).
- they live very very close or I know them (discretion assured though)
- they are not interested (so I don’t message again)
- they can’t take no for an answer or get abusive just because they don’t meet my preferences (we are all allowed preferences).
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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I tend not to block, with the exception of ex BFs (2 haha), someone being a total idiot to me (like offering to pay, being very insulting, harassing me after being asked to stop) or the rare very horrid person based on their forum posts |
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"We block accounts who offer drugs or money "
Offered drugs?! We've never had that!
We've been offered money, but that was off the back of a forum thread where someone misunderstood what Alice was saying. But I can't say it happens a lot, at least not as much as it seems some people experience it.
Never been offered drugs, but at our age it would only tempt us if it was strong painkillers. I'd prefer a nice jar of posh coffee, tbh! |
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I don’t block people unless they won’t take no for an answer. |
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I block everyone ha.
Every profile who messages and clearly hasn’t read my profile
Everyone I don’t find attractive
Everyone who has something on their profile I don’t like, who I disagree with in forums….
Loads of stuff ha |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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We do, if we feel they're timewasters. |
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I'm wearing a green T shirt, black joggers, black flip flops, black compression shorts and black socks today.
Didn't shave in a week and I had only custard today.
Also I'm a smoker and drink a lot of coffee.
Could you block me please?
( This was the first "block" thread I found to post. Just wanted to point out, that some people blocking for silly reasons. Sorry!) |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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i block people for being brainless dickheads |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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"I use my block list instead of my hotlist… maybe "
I shall take my block.as a compliment then !
(And if did deserve it... Oops. ) |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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"If I message someone and they say “ not for me” I block them.
I don’t want to message them in the future and look like a dick. "
On the profile where it says you cant see it the menu is still there just select block |
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By *aked_magicMan 38 weeks ago
the gutter looking at the stars (UAE) |
I sometimes pre-emptively block, for example...
Filling my feed with dodgy pics? Blocked
Repetitively posting the same status update in my feed? Blocked
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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Because they're knobs who won't stop messaging me |
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By *ossannCouple 38 weeks ago
London |
I've mostly blocked forum members for their repulsive views. Sometimes spam messagers |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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Because we not compatible one way or another. |
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We only tend to block those that want to meet Jane as a solo meet, or refuse to have public pictures ( giving various ‘reasons’) or ‘couples’ that the male has been permission to play solo . |
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When they have been offensive or won't take no for an answer. |
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Lack of respect covers just about every reason we block |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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"Drama llamas "
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"Drama llamas
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She just called you a, llama.
I assumed more alpacha |
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I block rude people.
People who write utter shit onnthe forum
Some people that view my profile to much.
Some people i have messaged that have turned me down (saves me double messaging) |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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"Drama llamas
She just called you a, llama.
I assumed more alpacha"
Rude. Rude, K.
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Usually people who won't take no for an answer.
Also people that annoy me.
Em x |
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When they come on WAY too strong on the first message. It's when getting such poetic gems as:
"Suk mi kok". [sic. Very sic, in fact].
Yes, that was the whole message. Block city for him.
We're not looking for hearts & flowers, but a simple "hi, how are you" helps butter the sodding bread. |
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I don't.
I didn't know you blocked peeeeeeeple.
I don't
I didn't know you blocked peeeeeeeeple.
I don't. |
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Yesterday I was blocked, because I reassured someone I like older women.
I've done it nicely presenting I had an ex GF, who was 22 years older. It was almost the best time of my life.
I've been blocked.
*It's not a quote mods, it's a story* |
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By *phroditeWoman 38 weeks ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"Yesterday I was blocked, because I reassured someone I like older women.
I've done it nicely presenting I had an ex GF, who was 22 years older. It was almost the best time of my life.
I've been blocked.
*It's not a quote mods, it's a story*"
I recognise and acknowledge you meant well in what you said to the person concerned.
I would not block you for saying that but I would lose interest in you if you had said that to me.
The statement you used unfortunately does not convey what you are trying to say. Just for starters, I would not want to be chosen. approached based on being older, I might want to be approached for being interesting, different, smart, witty, funny... any of those are great.... being "older", "mature" etc is not a compliment.
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"Yesterday I was blocked, because I reassured someone I like older women.
I've done it nicely presenting I had an ex GF, who was 22 years older. It was almost the best time of my life.
I've been blocked.
*It's not a quote mods, it's a story*
I recognise and acknowledge you meant well in what you said to the person concerned.
I would not block you for saying that but I would lose interest in you if you had said that to me.
The statement you used unfortunately does not convey what you are trying to say. Just for starters, I would not want to be chosen. approached based on being older, I might want to be approached for being interesting, different, smart, witty, funny... any of those are great.... being "older", "mature" etc is not a compliment.
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I understand your point, but she approached me.
As you see my age range is quite wide, so I'm into women I see as attractive regardless to age within my limits.
Sometimes even out of my specific age range.
It was a much nicer message, than I described here, but I'm not allowed to quote. |
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You can see THEIR notes, or that was your note about them? |
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By *phroditeWoman 38 weeks ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"Yesterday I was blocked, because I reassured someone I like older women.
I've done it nicely presenting I had an ex GF, who was 22 years older. It was almost the best time of my life.
I've been blocked.
*It's not a quote mods, it's a story*
I recognise and acknowledge you meant well in what you said to the person concerned.
I would not block you for saying that but I would lose interest in you if you had said that to me.
The statement you used unfortunately does not convey what you are trying to say. Just for starters, I would not want to be chosen. approached based on being older, I might want to be approached for being interesting, different, smart, witty, funny... any of those are great.... being "older", "mature" etc is not a compliment.
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I understand your point, but she approached me.
As you see my age range is quite wide, so I'm into women I see as attractive regardless to age within my limits.
Sometimes even out of my specific age range.
It was a much nicer message, than I described here, but I'm not allowed to quote."
Understand, fair enough.
I was incidentally not criticising, just trying to convey what might work better |
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"Yesterday I was blocked, because I reassured someone I like older women.
I've done it nicely presenting I had an ex GF, who was 22 years older. It was almost the best time of my life.
I've been blocked.
*It's not a quote mods, it's a story*
I recognise and acknowledge you meant well in what you said to the person concerned.
I would not block you for saying that but I would lose interest in you if you had said that to me.
The statement you used unfortunately does not convey what you are trying to say. Just for starters, I would not want to be chosen. approached based on being older, I might want to be approached for being interesting, different, smart, witty, funny... any of those are great.... being "older", "mature" etc is not a compliment.
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I understand your point, but she approached me.
As you see my age range is quite wide, so I'm into women I see as attractive regardless to age within my limits.
Sometimes even out of my specific age range.
It was a much nicer message, than I described here, but I'm not allowed to quote.Understand, fair enough.
I was incidentally not criticising, just trying to convey what might work better "
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I didn't take it in the wrong way, actually the opposite.
Any advice from a woman might get me closer to know what women want.
I just made it clear I don't think like that.
It wasn't just a message.
We were kind of chatting (She approached me) and the chat got a bit meh.
So I made it clear the ange gap isn't an issue, then suddenly I was blocked and returned the favor straight away.
I think it was more like "wearing hat, not wearing hat" scenario.
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Bunny and the bear joke?
*In a nutshell*
Bear beats up the bunny, because he's wearing a stupid hat.
Next day the bunny isn't wearing the stupid hat, but still gets the beating.
No reason, just because the bear could.
(High chance the bear was a twunt.) |
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By *edJulyCouple 38 weeks ago
Glasgow |
When we’re a few messages in and you haven’t asked me any questions, but I’ve already asked you several. I’d never meet that person, find it really unattractive and it’s very very common. |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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"Lack of respect covers just about every reason we block"
on which case I apologise (although not sure for what!)
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Ooh, I've got a new one - people who worship Andrew Tate |
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We may hold the record for the number on our block list, would guess its probably around the 20K mark now.
A lot will be repeat offenders who spring back up with a new profile only to be blocked again! |
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Because they are annoying cunts a lot of the time. |
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By *errocaWoman 38 weeks ago
Shropshire |
Multitude of reasons....my block list is huge |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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Anyone with a Dyson hoover in their pictures, over 5 years old gets blocked as well. |
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By *errocaWoman 38 weeks ago
Shropshire |
"Anyone with a Dyson hoover in their pictures, over 5 years old gets blocked as well."
All about the shark are you? |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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"Anyone with a Dyson hoover in their pictures, over 5 years old gets blocked as well.
All about the shark are you?"
They can't be beaten!! |
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By *errocaWoman 38 weeks ago
Shropshire |
"Anyone with a Dyson hoover in their pictures, over 5 years old gets blocked as well.
All about the shark are you?
They can't be beaten!!"
Cordless too... |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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"Anyone with a Dyson hoover in their pictures, over 5 years old gets blocked as well.
All about the shark are you?
They can't be beaten!!
Cordless too... "
Don't talk dirty to me |
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By *errocaWoman 38 weeks ago
Shropshire |
"Anyone with a Dyson hoover in their pictures, over 5 years old gets blocked as well.
All about the shark are you?
They can't be beaten!!
Cordless too...
Don't talk dirty to me "
 sorry.. I'll behave. |
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"Anyone with a Dyson hoover in their pictures, over 5 years old gets blocked as well.
All about the shark are you?
They can't be beaten!!
Cordless too... "
Anti hair wrap? |
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Either we didnt meet their research or they didnt fancy us.
Or
And most likely their sexaul preferences simply are not ours and they have not read our profile or ignored our research.
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Just the abusive ones. My block list is very long unfortunately. |
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Blocked very few people. Its generally over particularly creepy behaviour/messages. |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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We are not compatible for some reason. |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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When they copy and paste.. The same message every couple of days/weeks.
Mainly their not my type, save a lot of bothering around! |
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"i block people for being brainless dickheads"
You must have a long block list then. |
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When they haven't read the profile correctly and while chatting you know there lieing |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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Physically unattractive
Self adoration
Arrogance
Pestering
Ignorance
Mostly self adoration,, a vile trait |
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our block list is a long one... idiots, pests and rude folk, especially those seeking what we dont want. |
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By *luffyrabitCouple 38 weeks ago
Catterick Garrison/ Stockton |
"our block list is a long one... idiots, pests and rude folk, especially those seeking what we dont want."
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We have yet to find reason to block anyone |
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By (user no longer on site) 24 weeks ago
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Ignorance
Arrogance
Self adoration |
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By *agatoXXXMan 24 weeks ago
A Place Where Time Runs Slow |
Incompatability, mostly. |
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I got blocked for my new picture recently. I was blocked by a lady who I chatted to numerous times |
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