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Hi all I have literally only ever cum once in my life from an actual blowjob. It's not for lack of trying though as I've tried a lot. Any tips please would be appreciated. Thanks x |
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"Hi all I have literally only ever cum once in my life from an actual blowjob. It's not for lack of trying though as I've tried a lot. Any tips please would be appreciated. Thanks x"
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"Hi all I have literally only ever cum once in my life from an actual blowjob. It's not for lack of trying though as I've tried a lot. Any tips please would be appreciated. Thanks x
She needs to go lower than the tip "
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"Hi all I have literally only ever cum once in my life from an actual blowjob. It's not for lack of trying though as I've tried a lot. Any tips please would be appreciated. Thanks x
She needs to go lower than the tip
I was gonna say similar "
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"Hi all I have literally only ever cum once in my life from an actual blowjob. It's not for lack of trying though as I've tried a lot. Any tips please would be appreciated. Thanks x"
I always thought it was a psychological thing with me. Don't get me wrong, it feels amazing, it feels intimate and I bloody love it. It's just finishing.
I've only had one person who could, and she went down on me for a fraction of the time others have.
The only thing that I felt was different is she just hit a spot that I'd never felt before.
All I'd suggest is if she can keep the same motion she has but you manoeuvre yourself into different positions to see what hits that spot for you.
Sorry that's all I have. |
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"Hi all I have literally only ever cum once in my life from an actual blowjob. It's not for lack of trying though as I've tried a lot. Any tips please would be appreciated. Thanks x"
The word trying sticks out for me.
The fact you already know you don’t usually cum from BJs and want to, means your brain is focused on “must cum!” Whereas you should perhaps instead find a way to uncouple those thoughts and enjoy it for what it is.
Have you found yourself closer with certain techniques over others? |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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"Hi all I have literally only ever cum once in my life from an actual blowjob. It's not for lack of trying though as I've tried a lot. Any tips please would be appreciated. Thanks x
The word trying sticks out for me.
The fact you already know you don’t usually cum from BJs and want to, means your brain is focused on “must cum!” Whereas you should perhaps instead find a way to uncouple those thoughts and enjoy it for what it is.
Have you found yourself closer with certain techniques over others?"
Actually that's a very good point!
You can get Into your own head trying to make it happen. |
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"Hi all I have literally only ever cum once in my life from an actual blowjob. It's not for lack of trying though as I've tried a lot. Any tips please would be appreciated. Thanks x
The word trying sticks out for me.
The fact you already know you don’t usually cum from BJs and want to, means your brain is focused on “must cum!” Whereas you should perhaps instead find a way to uncouple those thoughts and enjoy it for what it is.
Have you found yourself closer with certain techniques over others?"
Spot on. Take the pressure off yourself. Go into it just to enjoy someone pleasuring you and that’s all. Not as an end goal of having to cum.
Men who say they have never cum from oral have shared some intriguing things with me before after they’ve cummed for the first time from oral with me.
They have felt it feels good, great even but then the sucker changes something and it’s like all the feel good feeling comes to an end and they have to start their pleasure all over again. I hate this when I’m receiving oral sex and I try to not change what I’m doing when they’ve voiced it feels great, don’t stop, etc.
They are so bloody worried about how long it’s been or they feel the sucker feels they have been sucking for bloody ages. I try to make sure they know I’m enjoying it throughly and practice breathing through my nose only to not have to be without their cock in my mouth as much as possible during it.
Only sucking doesn’t get them beyond the ‘this feels good’ stage. Using a combination of hands and sucking in unison changed that for them.
I’ve approached it as if doesn’t matter how long it takes as I’m there to worship their cock. I am express we can explore this together and discover what they like and want more of, so communicating is vital.
I’ve had moments where I’m certain my jaw will fall off if I keep going but I manage to keep going because their body language shows me they are enjoying it and allowing themselves to relax without giving the cumming bit too much thought. It also helps I love challenge.
Maybe identify what feels good and relax. Do more of both and perhaps you’ll reach an orgasm too.
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"Hi all I have literally only ever cum once in my life from an actual blowjob. It's not for lack of trying though as I've tried a lot. Any tips please would be appreciated. Thanks x"
Many women believe they give great BJs but unfortunately they just do not compare to most men.
Only had two very good BJs from women in my life and plenty have talked themselves up to it.
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"Hi all I have literally only ever cum once in my life from an actual blowjob. It's not for lack of trying though as I've tried a lot. Any tips please would be appreciated. Thanks x
The word trying sticks out for me.
The fact you already know you don’t usually cum from BJs and want to, means your brain is focused on “must cum!” Whereas you should perhaps instead find a way to uncouple those thoughts and enjoy it for what it is.
Have you found yourself closer with certain techniques over others?
Spot on. Take the pressure off yourself. Go into it just to enjoy someone pleasuring you and that’s all. Not as an end goal of having to cum.
Men who say they have never cum from oral have shared some intriguing things with me before after they’ve cummed for the first time from oral with me.
They have felt it feels good, great even but then the sucker changes something and it’s like all the feel good feeling comes to an end and they have to start their pleasure all over again. I hate this when I’m receiving oral sex and I try to not change what I’m doing when they’ve voiced it feels great, don’t stop, etc.
They are so bloody worried about how long it’s been or they feel the sucker feels they have been sucking for bloody ages. I try to make sure they know I’m enjoying it throughly and practice breathing through my nose only to not have to be without their cock in my mouth as much as possible during it.
Only sucking doesn’t get them beyond the ‘this feels good’ stage. Using a combination of hands and sucking in unison changed that for them.
I’ve approached it as if doesn’t matter how long it takes as I’m there to worship their cock. I am express we can explore this together and discover what they like and want more of, so communicating is vital.
I’ve had moments where I’m certain my jaw will fall off if I keep going but I manage to keep going because their body language shows me they are enjoying it and allowing themselves to relax without giving the cumming bit too much thought. It also helps I love challenge.
Maybe identify what feels good and relax. Do more of both and perhaps you’ll reach an orgasm too.
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All of these points definitely.
You've well thought this through. |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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Most women are shit at blowjobs
All the best blowjobs I’ve had are from guys because not only do they know what a guy likes, they haven’t had smoke blown up their arse they whole life
Either find people that are better, or don’t be afraid to tell her how to do it better
Communication is key |
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There needs to be ne a lot of tougue action, particularly around the frenulum, enthusiasm from the person sucking is also a big part of it nothing worse than someone just opening their mouth and jerking their head backwards and forwards unethusiastically. Variation in stroking the shaft, add a little twist when stroking and it doesn't hurt to give the balls some attention |
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"I’ve never cum from a blow job …."
That's what quite a few men have said to me... But I reassure them I love cock and the pleasure is all mine and do indulge me enjoying their cocks ...
It's rare I don't then get my creamy reward with 10 minutes. It takes two to tango. |
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Communication. Tell the person doing it what you like and what works for you. You will both enjoy the experience a lot more that way. Nothing worse than going down on someone and not being sure if they are really enjoying what you do. So you try different techniques, and they still give you no inkling of what is working.
Also relax. Don't put pressure on yourself to cum. Just enjoy the experience.
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"Most women are shit at blowjobs
All the best blowjobs I’ve had are from guys because not only do they know what a guy likes, they haven’t had smoke blown up their arse they whole life
Either find people that are better, or don’t be afraid to tell her how to do it better
Communication is key "
I trued to word it a little more carefully.
But really, this! |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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"Get rid of the concept that cumming is necessary to enjoy a good blowjob.
If you're stuck in your head about it, it ain't gonna happen 
This. Applies to the sex too. "
I’ve never cum from sex either…. |
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"Get rid of the concept that cumming is necessary to enjoy a good blowjob.
If you're stuck in your head about it, it ain't gonna happen
This. Applies to the sex too.
I’ve never cum from sex either…."
But.
But Woody.
I need the yummy cummies  |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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"Get rid of the concept that cumming is necessary to enjoy a good blowjob.
If you're stuck in your head about it, it ain't gonna happen
This. Applies to the sex too.
I’ve never cum from sex either….
But.
But Woody.
I need the yummy cummies "
I can try…. |
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If you got in head you not come you won't. It like thinking you might go soft start over thinking and you will.
I cannot explain how one ladies blow jobs makes you start to feel over stimulated almost ticklish
And other just great
I once met a lady fish site had meal out drink kiss good night couple days late near her house she said call in coffee made it clear she did not have sex till been lot of dates as leaving bit heavy kissing as I put my had on her door went down her knees sucked me had me coming in mins totaly unexpected. Another lady once spent all night telling me how good her oral was left me sore and not coming lol. |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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"Most women are shit at blowjobs
All the best blowjobs I’ve had are from guys because not only do they know what a guy likes, they haven’t had smoke blown up their arse they whole life
Either find people that are better, or don’t be afraid to tell her how to do it better
Communication is key "
Curious to know what what the difference is / what girls need to do different! |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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"Most women are shit at blowjobs
All the best blowjobs I’ve had are from guys because not only do they know what a guy likes, they haven’t had smoke blown up their arse they whole life
Either find people that are better, or don’t be afraid to tell her how to do it better
Communication is key
Curious to know what what the difference is / what girls need to do different!"
Just be better. That’s all you need to know to be inspired. |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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"Most women are shit at blowjobs
All the best blowjobs I’ve had are from guys because not only do they know what a guy likes, they haven’t had smoke blown up their arse they whole life
Either find people that are better, or don’t be afraid to tell her how to do it better
Communication is key
Curious to know what what the difference is / what girls need to do different!"
To be honest, it’s not even women’s fault
It’s men’s, because most are so desperate for literally anything sexual they’ll say even the worst blowjob is the best they’d ever had
As a woman all you need to be is enthusiastic and willing to listen/communicate with your partner about what they like. If the guys can’t do the same it’s on them for getting sub par
Guys just seem to be better in my experience because they truly love doing it and kinda know what they themselves would like, which will get you 90% of the way there with 90% of guys |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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"Most women are shit at blowjobs
All the best blowjobs I’ve had are from guys because not only do they know what a guy likes, they haven’t had smoke blown up their arse they whole life
Either find people that are better, or don’t be afraid to tell her how to do it better
Communication is key
Curious to know what what the difference is / what girls need to do different!
Just be better. That’s all you need to know to be inspired. "
Happy to report I’ve never personally had any complaints and have definitely made my lovers cum! But just curious - and never miss an opportunity for a tip! |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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"Most women are shit at blowjobs
All the best blowjobs I’ve had are from guys because not only do they know what a guy likes, they haven’t had smoke blown up their arse they whole life
Either find people that are better, or don’t be afraid to tell her how to do it better
Communication is key
Curious to know what what the difference is / what girls need to do different!
To be honest, it’s not even women’s fault
It’s men’s, because most are so desperate for literally anything sexual they’ll say even the worst blowjob is the best they’d ever had
As a woman all you need to be is enthusiastic and willing to listen/communicate with your partner about what they like. If the guys can’t do the same it’s on them for getting sub par
Guys just seem to be better in my experience because they truly love doing it and kinda know what they themselves would like, which will get you 90% of the way there with 90% of guys "
Fair enough!! I think generally it’s about reacting to body language and communicating in sex isn’t it! |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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"Most women are shit at blowjobs
All the best blowjobs I’ve had are from guys because not only do they know what a guy likes, they haven’t had smoke blown up their arse they whole life
Either find people that are better, or don’t be afraid to tell her how to do it better
Communication is key
Curious to know what what the difference is / what girls need to do different!
To be honest, it’s not even women’s fault
It’s men’s, because most are so desperate for literally anything sexual they’ll say even the worst blowjob is the best they’d ever had
As a woman all you need to be is enthusiastic and willing to listen/communicate with your partner about what they like. If the guys can’t do the same it’s on them for getting sub par
Guys just seem to be better in my experience because they truly love doing it and kinda know what they themselves would like, which will get you 90% of the way there with 90% of guys
Fair enough!! I think generally it’s about reacting to body language and communicating in sex isn’t it!"
Absolutely and that’s a 2 way street. If men and woman want to lie about how good a blowjob was or fake orgasms, no one’s gonna get what they want
Sadly it takes a level of maturity/confidence to openly communicate your needs and wants that many people are lacking |
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By *TG3Man 47 weeks ago
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"Hi all I have literally only ever cum once in my life from an actual blowjob. It's not for lack of trying though as I've tried a lot. Any tips please would be appreciated. Thanks x"
get her sucking until you cum |
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"Hi all I have literally only ever cum once in my life from an actual blowjob. It's not for lack of trying though as I've tried a lot. Any tips please would be appreciated. Thanks x
The word trying sticks out for me.
The fact you already know you don’t usually cum from BJs and want to, means your brain is focused on “must cum!” Whereas you should perhaps instead find a way to uncouple those thoughts and enjoy it for what it is.
Have you found yourself closer with certain techniques over others?
Spot on. Take the pressure off yourself. Go into it just to enjoy someone pleasuring you and that’s all. Not as an end goal of having to cum.
Men who say they have never cum from oral have shared some intriguing things with me before after they’ve cummed for the first time from oral with me.
They have felt it feels good, great even but then the sucker changes something and it’s like all the feel good feeling comes to an end and they have to start their pleasure all over again. I hate this when I’m receiving oral sex and I try to not change what I’m doing when they’ve voiced it feels great, don’t stop, etc.
They are so bloody worried about how long it’s been or they feel the sucker feels they have been sucking for bloody ages. I try to make sure they know I’m enjoying it throughly and practice breathing through my nose only to not have to be without their cock in my mouth as much as possible during it.
Only sucking doesn’t get them beyond the ‘this feels good’ stage. Using a combination of hands and sucking in unison changed that for them.
I’ve approached it as if doesn’t matter how long it takes as I’m there to worship their cock. I am express we can explore this together and discover what they like and want more of, so communicating is vital.
I’ve had moments where I’m certain my jaw will fall off if I keep going but I manage to keep going because their body language shows me they are enjoying it and allowing themselves to relax without giving the cumming bit too much thought. It also helps I love challenge.
Maybe identify what feels good and relax. Do more of both and perhaps you’ll reach an orgasm too.
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Your answer sounds fabulous in theory. But I won't believe it works until you come here and demonstrate it in practice. |
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I can only cum if the person performing oral on me enjoys doing it, wants me to cum and in these circumstances I ejaculate very quickly whereas my wife did try sucking me when we first got together but she doesn’t really enjoy it as she gags and doesn’t enjoy the texture of semen in her mouth, hence, I’ve never orgasmed when she sucks me without her masturbating me at the same time. As she doesn’t enjoy it I don’t ask. |
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"Communication. Tell the person doing it what you like and what works for you. You will both enjoy the experience a lot more that way. Nothing worse than going down on someone and not being sure if they are really enjoying what you do. So you try different techniques, and they still give you no inkling of what is working.
Also relax. Don't put pressure on yourself to cum. Just enjoy the experience.
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This, and also don't focus on what's happening to you, focus in the sexiness of the person that you're with, what turns you on about them, let your mind wander into fantasy realm etc.... |
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I find the wife wanking my cock whilst the head is in her mouth works. She runs her tongue around and around and makes her mouth wet and warm.
She stops occasionally to Bob up and down then goes again. Doesn’t take me long before I shoot my load. |
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"Hi all I have literally only ever cum once in my life from an actual blowjob. It's not for lack of trying though as I've tried a lot. Any tips please would be appreciated. Thanks x"
if Karen gave you a blow job you would definitely cum I've never had anything like it
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I try not to cum from a bj prefer cummin havin full sex
But once I was havin a mmf and the fella started blowing me I did all I could not to cum
Where as he was determined I would I couldn't hold any longer and exploded was so intense prob best bj ever had |
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The key is, the wetter the better.
5 times the amount of spit an drool you think, sliding hands and lips like the juiciest mouth pussy, guaranteed to have the pop like a geyser every time.
Lots of dirty talk and eye contact too. |
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By (user no longer on site) 46 weeks ago
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"When will women learn that we don't just orgasm on command! We are not performing seals!
We are not going to fake orgasms just to satisfy their egos!"
Haha.
I actually had an ex who could do exactly that. He could fuck all night and cum on command in an instant. |
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By (user no longer on site) 46 weeks ago
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"I try not to cum from a bj prefer cummin havin full sex
But once I was havin a mmf and the fella started blowing me I did all I could not to cum
Where as he was determined I would I couldn't hold any longer and exploded was so intense prob best bj ever had"
My suggestion to OP was going to be to flip his thinking and try NOT to cum and see if the reverse psychology works. When you let go of the pressure to cum it's a different headspace.
That, and communicating with his partner about what feels good so they can keep at it for long enough. |
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By (user no longer on site) 46 weeks ago
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I'm the same, I'm not a fan of them whatsoever, I don't care what the person does, deepthroat, eye contact, all the eagerness in the world or whatever else..I just accepted I didn't like them particularly and moved on in the end and avoided them and could happily never get one again. |
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By (user no longer on site) 46 weeks ago
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"I try not to cum from a bj prefer cummin havin full sex
But once I was havin a mmf and the fella started blowing me I did all I could not to cum
Where as he was determined I would I couldn't hold any longer and exploded was so intense prob best bj ever had
My suggestion to OP was going to be to flip his thinking and try NOT to cum and see if the reverse psychology works. When you let go of the pressure to cum it's a different headspace.
That, and communicating with his partner about what feels good so they can keep at it for long enough."
I have literally only cum from a bj 3 times in my life due to ladies iv been with didn't want me to hence I didn't
So new experience someone wanting me to and bigger shock was a man and his wife wanted me to have to admit was a turn on |
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"Hi all I have literally only ever cum once in my life from an actual blowjob. It's not for lack of trying though as I've tried a lot. Any tips please would be appreciated. Thanks x
The word trying sticks out for me.
The fact you already know you don’t usually cum from BJs and want to, means your brain is focused on “must cum!” Whereas you should perhaps instead find a way to uncouple those thoughts and enjoy it for what it is.
Have you found yourself closer with certain techniques over others?
Spot on. Take the pressure off yourself. Go into it just to enjoy someone pleasuring you and that’s all. Not as an end goal of having to cum.
Men who say they have never cum from oral have shared some intriguing things with me before after they’ve cummed for the first time from oral with me.
They have felt it feels good, great even but then the sucker changes something and it’s like all the feel good feeling comes to an end and they have to start their pleasure all over again. I hate this when I’m receiving oral sex and I try to not change what I’m doing when they’ve voiced it feels great, don’t stop, etc.
They are so bloody worried about how long it’s been or they feel the sucker feels they have been sucking for bloody ages. I try to make sure they know I’m enjoying it throughly and practice breathing through my nose only to not have to be without their cock in my mouth as much as possible during it.
Only sucking doesn’t get them beyond the ‘this feels good’ stage. Using a combination of hands and sucking in unison changed that for them.
I’ve approached it as if doesn’t matter how long it takes as I’m there to worship their cock. I am express we can explore this together and discover what they like and want more of, so communicating is vital.
I’ve had moments where I’m certain my jaw will fall off if I keep going but I manage to keep going because their body language shows me they are enjoying it and allowing themselves to relax without giving the cumming bit too much thought. It also helps I love challenge.
Maybe identify what feels good and relax. Do more of both and perhaps you’ll reach an orgasm too.
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That’s a fantastic reply! Thank you for sharing this insight from a woman who actually wants to give a man pleasure this way xx |
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"I'm the same, I'm not a fan of them whatsoever, I don't care what the person does, deepthroat, eye contact, all the eagerness in the world or whatever else..I just accepted I didn't like them particularly and moved on in the end and avoided them and could happily never get one again. "
I reached the ‘acceptance’ stage a good while ago too mate. I accepted that women only suck cock to get it hard for penetration, which is fine! Nothing wrong with that, as it means I’m getting sex after all  |
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"Hi all I have literally only ever cum once in my life from an actual blowjob. It's not for lack of trying though as I've tried a lot. Any tips please would be appreciated. Thanks x"
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"I'm the same, I'm not a fan of them whatsoever, I don't care what the person does, deepthroat, eye contact, all the eagerness in the world or whatever else..I just accepted I didn't like them particularly and moved on in the end and avoided them and could happily never get one again.
I reached the ‘acceptance’ stage a good while ago too mate. I accepted that women only suck cock to get it hard for penetration, which is fine! Nothing wrong with that, as it means I’m getting sex after all "
That’s a lie…. Some of us suck cock because we enjoy it x |
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"Hi all I have literally only ever cum once in my life from an actual blowjob. It's not for lack of trying though as I've tried a lot. Any tips please would be appreciated. Thanks x
The word trying sticks out for me.
The fact you already know you don’t usually cum from BJs and want to, means your brain is focused on “must cum!” Whereas you should perhaps instead find a way to uncouple those thoughts and enjoy it for what it is.
Have you found yourself closer with certain techniques over others?
Spot on. Take the pressure off yourself. Go into it just to enjoy someone pleasuring you and that’s all. Not as an end goal of having to cum.
Men who say they have never cum from oral have shared some intriguing things with me before after they’ve cummed for the first time from oral with me.
They have felt it feels good, great even but then the sucker changes something and it’s like all the feel good feeling comes to an end and they have to start their pleasure all over again. I hate this when I’m receiving oral sex and I try to not change what I’m doing when they’ve voiced it feels great, don’t stop, etc.
They are so bloody worried about how long it’s been or they feel the sucker feels they have been sucking for bloody ages. I try to make sure they know I’m enjoying it throughly and practice breathing through my nose only to not have to be without their cock in my mouth as much as possible during it.
Only sucking doesn’t get them beyond the ‘this feels good’ stage. Using a combination of hands and sucking in unison changed that for them.
I’ve approached it as if doesn’t matter how long it takes as I’m there to worship their cock. I am express we can explore this together and discover what they like and want more of, so communicating is vital.
I’ve had moments where I’m certain my jaw will fall off if I keep going but I manage to keep going because their body language shows me they are enjoying it and allowing themselves to relax without giving the cumming bit too much thought. It also helps I love challenge.
Maybe identify what feels good and relax. Do more of both and perhaps you’ll reach an orgasm too.
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You have nailed it!! I struggled with thisno one was ever able to make me cum. Because I was thinking shit like oh her jaw must ache by now. I communicated this she said don't worry I use my hands to give it a rest.
I think hand and mouth combo works for me. And she genuinely enjoys doing it. If she's enjoying doing it it makes the world of difference |
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"Hi all I have literally only ever cum once in my life from an actual blowjob. It's not for lack of trying though as I've tried a lot. Any tips please would be appreciated. Thanks x"
As someone who receives and gives blow jobs, I know this problem.
If you are fucking someone then you control the rhythm and as you get close to cumming you can increase the speed if you want to cum, or slow down if you don't.
With a blow job it's the giver that is in control.
So, maybe you are almost there and the giver changes the rhythm or style and instead of pushing you past the edge it drops away.
I've found that keeping to one style and one rhythm, especially towards the end, works well.
Oh and don't try so hard, just relax and enjoy. |
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"Hi all I have literally only ever cum once in my life from an actual blowjob. It's not for lack of trying though as I've tried a lot. Any tips please would be appreciated. Thanks x
As someone who receives and gives blow jobs, I know this problem.
If you are fucking someone then you control the rhythm and as you get close to cumming you can increase the speed if you want to cum, or slow down if you don't.
With a blow job it's the giver that is in control.
So, maybe you are almost there and the giver changes the rhythm or style and instead of pushing you past the edge it drops away.
I've found that keeping to one style and one rhythm, especially towards the end, works well.
Oh and don't try so hard, just relax and enjoy."
This can actually help, if they are in control you by definition are not. It may help to resist them, if you cum they have made you, forced you, playing out your own CNC BJ fantasy. |
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What you want to do, right, is grab their head and just properly fuck their face/ throat. You'll cum in no time  And women love it... if they don't you might end up in A&E but you've got to be innit to winnit
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"I'm the same, I'm not a fan of them whatsoever, I don't care what the person does, deepthroat, eye contact, all the eagerness in the world or whatever else..I just accepted I didn't like them particularly and moved on in the end and avoided them and could happily never get one again.
I reached the ‘acceptance’ stage a good while ago too mate. I accepted that women only suck cock to get it hard for penetration, which is fine! Nothing wrong with that, as it means I’m getting sex after all
That’s a lie…. Some of us suck cock because we enjoy it x "
Unfortunately the ladies who are happy to perform a bj to completion are just too few and far between! I can honestly say, that 2017 was the last time I cum from a bj…… |
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Maybe visit somewhere where there are several gloryholes and suckers. They can each give you a taste of their skills, with you moving between them, as appropriate. With several sucking, you should be able to increase the potential to cumm
In sexual engagement, you can switch things up too, including the order that you sequence sex etc. have you had 2 suck you simultaneously? |
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I hadn't cum from a blowjob until last year. First time was with a woman after a long period of foreplay for both of us. Unfortunately it was with a condom, so I didn't get the opportunity to watch her swallow.
Second time was with a guy, long period of watching porn together and then he knelt between my legs and sucked as I was watching porn. He swallowed, as did I when I returned the favour a few minutes later.
I am hoping that it will happen more often now I have broken my duck. |
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I think that as others have said, maybe you're too focused on the orgasm rather than enjoying the whole experience.
I never rush a bj. I take my time & concentrate on giving a sensual experience, taking note of exactly what motion of mouth & tongue is giving the most pleasure. It's not something to be rushed. Slow & sloppy, lots of eye contact & stroking his body with my free hand all builds the excitement until I feel his balls tighten...
Apparently, I'm rather good at it |
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"I think that as others have said, maybe you're too focused on the orgasm rather than enjoying the whole experience.
I never rush a bj. I take my time & concentrate on giving a sensual experience, taking note of exactly what motion of mouth & tongue is giving the most pleasure. It's not something to be rushed. Slow & sloppy, lots of eye contact & stroking his body with my free hand all builds the excitement until I feel his balls tighten...
Apparently, I'm rather good at it"
sounds great and most enjoyable aspect to receive a bj defo . As I don’t like when someone goes full on crazy hard at it . I’d imagine if you find the lady ( or man pending ) very sexy that will ramp up your mood and possibilities of coming . I love coming from a bj . Actually prefer it . The visual of the lady doing it |
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I never had great experiences with BJ's I til I met Berry..the first time she did I cried after it was sooo good needless to say I'm a huge fan now and if all the BJ's I've received since she's still my number 1 by far |
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By *orny PTMan 42 weeks ago
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Women need lube, men need friction, too much saliva can take away the sensation.
Have you ever tried to have a scratch under water?
That's why it's difficult to stimulate those particular nerve endings.
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By *orny PTMan 42 weeks ago
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"I never had great experiences with BJ's I til I met Berry..the first time she did I cried after it was sooo good needless to say I'm a huge fan now and if all the BJ's I've received since she's still my number 1 by far"
Well done Berry. You should arrange classes in a club. |
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"Hi all I have literally only ever cum once in my life from an actual blowjob. It's not for lack of trying though as I've tried a lot. Any tips please would be appreciated. Thanks x"
Pretty sure I could get you cumming  |
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" Men need to keep downstair's trimmed amd so the female giving the blow job can go lower on the males shaft without hair getting in the way !! .....xxx"
I have it well trimmed for a very long time, but not made any difference !!! |
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