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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you have this on or off?
If off why? Is it so you can endlessly perve without coming across creepy or so you don't get an influx of messages
If on why? Is it so you can get someone's attention or let them know your endlessly perving
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have it off because I'd rather not get blocked for viewing a profile 5 times in a minute due to immediately forgetting what I was looking at their profile for  |
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The creepier the better 
I have thought about this once or twice ...... I tend to click on some profiles multiple times (subconsciously) because I always find the people attractive, and then think "oh s**t, I've looked at this profile 100 times today, they're going to think I'm a perve". But it's a genuine attraction ...... |
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"I have it off because I'd rather not get blocked for viewing a profile 5 times in a minute due to immediately forgetting what I was looking at their profile for*)"
Relief. I thought you were just ignoring me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I literally just found out about this feature and said I wouldn't use it.
But I am now.
Only reason is I don't think there's any positives to me showing up on someones profile.
So I just have a quick peek and leg it.
I'm trying to only interact with people that have shown me interest first now. |
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"Do you have this on or off?
If off why? Is it so you can endlessly perve without coming across creepy or so you don't get an influx of messages
If on why? Is it so you can get someone's attention or let them know your endlessly perving
Miss S x "
Yeah I hide mine. Both because so I can repeat perv. But also sometimes I accidentally click a profile that I've already read and isn't suitable or I click their profile while messaging and I reckon it will look weird.
For clarity Op, I have definitely stealth perved your profile! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have it off because I'd rather not get blocked for viewing a profile 5 times in a minute due to immediately forgetting what I was looking at their profile for "
Omg we do this all the time!
Brain like a goldfish 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you have this on or off?
If off why? Is it so you can endlessly perve without coming across creepy or so you don't get an influx of messages
If on why? Is it so you can get someone's attention or let them know your endlessly perving
Miss S x
Yeah I hide mine. Both because so I can repeat perv. But also sometimes I accidentally click a profile that I've already read and isn't suitable or I click their profile while messaging and I reckon it will look weird.
For clarity Op, I have definitely stealth perved your profile! "
The cheek 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you have this on or off?
If off why? Is it so you can endlessly perve without coming across creepy or so you don't get an influx of messages
If on why? Is it so you can get someone's attention or let them know your endlessly perving
Miss S x
Yeah I hide mine. Both because so I can repeat perv. But also sometimes I accidentally click a profile that I've already read and isn't suitable or I click their profile while messaging and I reckon it will look weird.
For clarity Op, I have definitely stealth perved your profile! "
That's another reason, clicking on a profile you've already seen that isn't suitable. |
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"Do you have this on or off?
If off why? Is it so you can endlessly perve without coming across creepy or so you don't get an influx of messages
If on why? Is it so you can get someone's attention or let them know your endlessly perving
Miss S x "
I mainly check the profiles of people in the forum, either to remind myself who I’m talking to (after name/picture changes) or to see if they are an occasional bellend or arrogant prick.
I don’t want my fellow loungers thinking I’m perving them, it’s just so I know who I’m yakking at. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have it off because I'd rather not get blocked for viewing a profile 5 times in a minute due to immediately forgetting what I was looking at their profile for
Omg we do this all the time!
Brain like a goldfish
Miss S x"
That memory retention thread is aging like milk |
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I have mine set to ninja mode to avoid the I saw you looking at me messages. I only use the who's looked at me to check for signs of a particular person I still have an active restraining order against.
If someone looked and didn't message, I obviously wasn't what they were looking to connect with, so there's no point reaching out  |
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By *pen2UMan
over a year ago
Telford |
"Do you have this on or off?
If off why? Is it so you can endlessly perve without coming across creepy or so you don't get an influx of messages
If on why? Is it so you can get someone's attention or let them know your endlessly perving
Miss S x "
I have now and my god you're both fantastic! X |
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"We used to have ours on, but it caused a lot of messages to come through so we now prefer stealth mode 
S xxx"
^ This is my reason for being stealthy too. I’m not a ninja, I just identify as one on here.  |
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By *tacy.TWoman
over a year ago
luton |
"We used to have ours on, but it caused a lot of messages to come through so we now prefer stealth mode
S xxx
^ This is my reason for being stealthy too. I’m not a ninja, I just identify as one on here. "
My reason too |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Always in ninja mode. I like to perve and I like to be horrified by some photos. And I like only me to know which is which.
J
Damn typo"
Omg yes this sums it up perfectly
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you have this on or off?
If off why? Is it so you can endlessly perve without coming across creepy or so you don't get an influx of messages
If on why? Is it so you can get someone's attention or let them know your endlessly perving
Miss S x
I have now and my god you're both fantastic! X"
Thank you 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We used to have ours on, but it caused a lot of messages to come through so we now prefer stealth mode
S xxx
^ This is my reason for being stealthy too. I’m not a ninja, I just identify as one on here. "
Who doesn't love a good
Miss S x |
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"I have it off because I'd rather not get blocked for viewing a profile 5 times in a minute due to immediately forgetting what I was looking at their profile for "
...I do snoop sometimes, it depends who I'm looking at lol |
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On.
An awful lot of reasons, but mostly it can help as a first "hello" if people see I've looked at them and they're mildly interested in me etc.
I don't really expect those who look at men to have it turned on - there are plenty of dicks on here who would hound them at the merest hint of interest, so it's very understandable not to have it on.
GlowUp's comment is sadly true in that regard too. |
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"Do you have this on or off?
If off why? Is it so you can endlessly perve without coming across creepy or so you don't get an influx of messages
If on why? Is it so you can get someone's attention or let them know your endlessly perving
Miss S x "
I will take any privacy I can get on this site. |
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I have it on probably a couple of months ago.
I hated the threads were asking about how many views you had today.
Women couples had 100 at least and posted it with a lot of happy emojis.
Most single guys had 0-30 and many sounded sad/depressed.
I was thinking what's the point for them to see I looked?
Nothing really.
I fab photos or send a message, if I want attention.
Also, my bio mentions it I'm in ninja mode.
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There is a glitch in the matrix.
I've had this facility turned off for years just because I'm not meeting and I don't search profiles and I'm not trying to catch anyone's eye.
However on at least a dozen occasions I've looked at a profile I've never seen before and within a short space of time they have looked at me.
It's too much of a coincidence that they would all randomly look at me when I'm in ninja mode so they can obviously see that I've looked at them which defeats the whole purpose. |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
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"Do you have this on or off?
If off why? Is it so you can endlessly perve without coming across creepy or so you don't get an influx of messages
If on why? Is it so you can get someone's attention or let them know your endlessly perving
Miss S x "
mines on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a single guy, I don't think it matters much that mine's off Might turn it back on just to check
What about your couples profile?
Miss S x"
That's off as well. Can't risk someone thinking we're creepy when both of us are opening the same profile multiple times within the same hour |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As a single guy, I don't think it matters much that mine's off Might turn it back on just to check
What about your couples profile?
Miss S x
That's off as well. Can't risk someone thinking we're creepy when both of us are opening the same profile multiple times within the same hour "
I thought so, same reason here
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By *rRiosMan
over a year ago
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"I have it off because I'd rather not get blocked for viewing a profile 5 times in a minute due to immediately forgetting what I was looking at their profile for "
This and so much this. I’m like “I’m not a horny coomer, I’m just a forgetful fool!”
Maybe a little of the former but much more the later… hard thing to prove though |
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I have it off, I look at random people off the forum and the blokes like to message if they notice you've looked, it's very annoying.
Plus I can perve in peace, I always find it odd when someone looks several times a day.
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I can’t be bothered to care about what that says about me lol 