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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a new year, a new me. I've failed at dry January already, but I also promised myself I'd try to get better at the sexual stuff.
So my question to you all is...
What's your one sex tip for me?"
Don't take your ego into the bedroom, take direction without getting offended, find out what your partner likes, create a relaxed atmosphere of no judgment and communicate. |
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By *enk15Man
over a year ago
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"It's a new year, a new me. I've failed at dry January already, but I also promised myself I'd try to get better at the sexual stuff.
So my question to you all is...
What's your one sex tip for me?"
Learn how to give a great sensual massage. |
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"It's a new year, a new me. I've failed at dry January already, but I also promised myself I'd try to get better at the sexual stuff.
So my question to you all is...
What's your one sex tip for me?
Don't take your ego into the bedroom, take direction without getting offended, find out what your partner likes, create a relaxed atmosphere of no judgment and communicate."
I like this one |
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"It's a new year, a new me. I've failed at dry January already, but I also promised myself I'd try to get better at the sexual stuff.
So my question to you all is...
What's your one sex tip for me?"
Keep the lights off and pull out the stud from the wardrobe.   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don’t change positions if it’s working!
This is a great tip Fluffy 
I would add just learn what yours and their body responds to. And do more of that "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a new year, a new me. I've failed at dry January already, but I also promised myself I'd try to get better at the sexual stuff.
So my question to you all is...
What's your one sex tip for me?
Don't take your ego into the bedroom, take direction without getting offended, find out what your partner likes, create a relaxed atmosphere of no judgment and communicate.
I like this one"
I wernt sure if the post was serious or not but I got all super serious with the response.
I think some fellas think what's worked for one partner will work for the rest and it can hurt their ego if the reception isn't what they hoped for.
Yeh the human body is relatively the same in regards to certain stimulus, but, psychology plays a major part sexually. And I think alot of guys don't realise/care for this aspect.
As long as your partner enjoys your company, feels relaxed and confident enough to tell you their needs and you pay attention and take direction then there isn't a reason for anybody out here to be having bad sexy time.
Imo. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Read body language
Em x"
And this! Listen to their breathing, moans, pay attention to the signals.
My thing is always "don't fake anything with me, let me learn what you like" |
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"Read body language
Em x
And this! Listen to their breathing, moans, pay attention to the signals.
My thing is always "don't fake anything with me, let me learn what you like""
So grab the inhaler if they're moaning about their asthma. Got it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Read body language
Em x
And this! Listen to their breathing, moans, pay attention to the signals.
My thing is always "don't fake anything with me, let me learn what you like"
So grab the inhaler if they're moaning about their asthma. Got it "
Na, just tell them to shh because you can't hear the footy. |
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"It's a new year, a new me. I've failed at dry January already, but I also promised myself I'd try to get better at the sexual stuff.
So my question to you all is...
What's your one sex tip for me?
Don't take your ego into the bedroom, take direction without getting offended, find out what your partner likes, create a relaxed atmosphere of no judgment and communicate.
I like this one
I wernt sure if the post was serious or not but I got all super serious with the response.
I think some fellas think what's worked for one partner will work for the rest and it can hurt their ego if the reception isn't what they hoped for.
Yeh the human body is relatively the same in regards to certain stimulus, but, psychology plays a major part sexually. And I think alot of guys don't realise/care for this aspect.
As long as your partner enjoys your company, feels relaxed and confident enough to tell you their needs and you pay attention and take direction then there isn't a reason for anybody out here to be having bad sexy time.
Imo."
It's a very good point. I think good communication is huge. My best experiences have usually come from people who aren't afraid to say what they do and don't like. |
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"Read body language
Em x
And this! Listen to their breathing, moans, pay attention to the signals.
My thing is always "don't fake anything with me, let me learn what you like"
So grab the inhaler if they're moaning about their asthma. Got it
Na, just tell them to shh because you can't hear the footy."
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"Read body language
Em x
And this! Listen to their breathing, moans, pay attention to the signals.
My thing is always "don't fake anything with me, let me learn what you like""
I prefer to show them with actions unless words are necessary as some don't like to be told it isn't working for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't talk 
How did I know you would put this "
Coz you know I'm still looking for cock with no taking.
Also....about the no talking. Should I ask what you said? I got the hello. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Don't be too enthusiastic, don't make too much effort.
People always work harder to impress you if they think you're not that fussed. Plus they'll definitely want to meet you again if you don't show all your party tricks at once.
Tl;dr? Only put in 40% effort. |
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"Read body language
Em x
And this! Listen to their breathing, moans, pay attention to the signals.
My thing is always "don't fake anything with me, let me learn what you like"
I prefer to show them with actions unless words are necessary as some don't like to be told it isn't working for you"
Teach me, teach me  |
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"Don't be too enthusiastic, don't make too much effort.
People always work harder to impress you if they think you're not that fussed. Plus they'll definitely want to meet you again if you don't show all your party tricks at once.
Tl;dr? Only put in 40% effort."
Maybe I'll message you, maybe I won't  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Read body language
Em x
And this! Listen to their breathing, moans, pay attention to the signals.
My thing is always "don't fake anything with me, let me learn what you like"
I prefer to show them with actions unless words are necessary as some don't like to be told it isn't working for you"
This is why I mentioned leaving the ego at the door.
You can be confident in the bedroom but still be able to listen to what your partner likes.
Imo. |
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"It's a new year, a new me. I've failed at dry January already, but I also promised myself I'd try to get better at the sexual stuff.
So my question to you all is...
What's your one sex tip for me?"
Be bi and experience sex both ways, then you know what is nice for the other person to do in either position. |
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