*Enjoy it?
*Just necessary?
*Somewhere in between?
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*Special/unusual way of masurbation.
Is it for exploring sexuality/kink?
Is it just to make your own pleasure better/less boring? |
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"You bored today Roland?  "
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My last 50 - 100 threads (Simple,funny  , educational, music, provocative...etc.) were either ignored or attracted the wrong crowd.
Felt I'm wasted my time making them.
So I though I go deeper today and make people think a little bit.
(Not that much with this one)
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"Could we have your take on it Roland please?
For me it’s sometimes all of those things. However it is an empty orgasm. It serves a purpose rather than being enjoyable. "
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It's not that simple for me either.
*
*Simple wank watching porn.
Depending on the porn I find for that day. (Almost never the same scene, unless I'm lazy to search)
1. Enjoying it, but nowhere close to sex (30 - 60 Min/Edging)
2. Needed it and sometimes makes me sad after. I mean I'm 43 and wanking more than in my teenage years, while I'm regular on a fuck site. (10-30 Min/get over with it)
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*Special way/chasing hands free O with toys.
While watching porn (in past) it was okay/good, but took too long. Play and wank. (3-4 hours)
*
No porn and some wank in the end.
Kind of enjoying it, but can't have a 100% hands free O. I had a quite few combo orgasms recently. I managed it in less than an hour yesterday.
Really good orgasm, but not something I can do all the time.
Too long time to prep.
Not doing it when working next day.
Sometimes I set speed to high and that's a bit of pain in the arse.
*
I guess I went into too much details, but...
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"Could we have your take on it Roland please?
For me it’s sometimes all of those things. However it is an empty orgasm. It serves a purpose rather than being enjoyable.
***
It's not that simple for me either.
*
*Simple wank watching porn.
Depending on the porn I find for that day. (Almost never the same scene, unless I'm lazy to search)
1. Enjoying it, but nowhere close to sex (30 - 60 Min/Edging)
2. Needed it and sometimes makes me sad after. I mean I'm 43 and wanking more than in my teenage years, while I'm regular on a fuck site. (10-30 Min/get over with it)
***
*Special way/chasing hands free O with toys.
While watching porn (in past) it was okay/good, but took too long. Play and wank. (3-4 hours)
*
No porn and some wank in the end.
Kind of enjoying it, but can't have a 100% hands free O. I had a quite few combo orgasms recently. I managed it in less than an hour yesterday.
Really good orgasm, but not something I can do all the time.
Too long time to prep.
Not doing it when working next day.
Sometimes I set speed to high and that's a bit of pain in the arse.
*
I guess I went into too much details, but...
"
The details are awesome 
Thank you for sharing.
It really is weird sometimes what we all need to do to get our kicks isn’t it? |
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"Could we have your take on it Roland please?
For me it’s sometimes all of those things. However it is an empty orgasm. It serves a purpose rather than being enjoyable.
***
It's not that simple for me either.
*
*Simple wank watching porn.
Depending on the porn I find for that day. (Almost never the same scene, unless I'm lazy to search)
1. Enjoying it, but nowhere close to sex (30 - 60 Min/Edging)
2. Needed it and sometimes makes me sad after. I mean I'm 43 and wanking more than in my teenage years, while I'm regular on a fuck site. (10-30 Min/get over with it)
***
*Special way/chasing hands free O with toys.
While watching porn (in past) it was okay/good, but took too long. Play and wank. (3-4 hours)
*
No porn and some wank in the end.
Kind of enjoying it, but can't have a 100% hands free O. I had a quite few combo orgasms recently. I managed it in less than an hour yesterday.
Really good orgasm, but not something I can do all the time.
Too long time to prep.
Not doing it when working next day.
Sometimes I set speed to high and that's a bit of pain in the arse.
*
I guess I went into too much details, but...
The details are awesome
Thank you for sharing.
It really is weird sometimes what we all need to do to get our kicks isn’t it? "
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Orgasms alone = patching the scars on my soul
Good orgasm alone = Quick fix with weak stitches
Give and get orgasms with someone =
I will end wars and hunger on this planet |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS
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I do enjoy it, but I wouldn't say it's necessary and I sometimes go days or weeks without it.
If I'm particularly aroused, a nice session with my toys is wonderful. 
It's an accessory to my life, rather than being an imperative.
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"I do enjoy it, but I wouldn't say it's necessary and I sometimes go days or weeks without it.
If I'm particularly aroused, a nice session with my toys is wonderful.
It's an accessory to my life, rather than being an imperative.
"
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Sometimes I go without it for 10 days, then I start to worry. I know what's my masturbation habits, so I know when something isn't right. |
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"Could we have your take on it Roland please?
For me it’s sometimes all of those things. However it is an empty orgasm. It serves a purpose rather than being enjoyable.
***
It's not that simple for me either.
*
*Simple wank watching porn.
Depending on the porn I find for that day. (Almost never the same scene, unless I'm lazy to search)
1. Enjoying it, but nowhere close to sex (30 - 60 Min/Edging)
2. Needed it and sometimes makes me sad after. I mean I'm 43 and wanking more than in my teenage years, while I'm regular on a fuck site. (10-30 Min/get over with it)
***
*Special way/chasing hands free O with toys.
While watching porn (in past) it was okay/good, but took too long. Play and wank. (3-4 hours)
*
No porn and some wank in the end.
Kind of enjoying it, but can't have a 100% hands free O. I had a quite few combo orgasms recently. I managed it in less than an hour yesterday.
Really good orgasm, but not something I can do all the time.
Too long time to prep.
Not doing it when working next day.
Sometimes I set speed to high and that's a bit of pain in the arse.
*
I guess I went into too much details, but...
The details are awesome
Thank you for sharing.
It really is weird sometimes what we all need to do to get our kicks isn’t it? "
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"When I’m in the mood (and alone) I love it. But I’m rarely in the mood unless I’ve been talking with someone I fancy.
Don’t think I’ve had a yank since before crimbo."
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So you are definitely not a wanker then.
Before Christmas?
I wasn't really in the mood / not my usual self, but still had at least 3.
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"When I’m in the mood (and alone) I love it. But I’m rarely in the mood unless I’ve been talking with someone I fancy.
Don’t think I’ve had a yank since before crimbo.
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So you are definitely not a wanker then.
Before Christmas?
I wasn't really in the mood / not my usual self, but still had at least 3.
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Yea see I can’t see the point of doing it just coz. I’d rather go out. |
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"*Enjoy it?
*Just necessary?
*Somewhere in between?
************************************
*Special/unusual way of masurbation.
Is it for exploring sexuality/kink?
Is it just to make your own pleasure better/less boring?"
Somewhere in between.
Like most perimenopausal women, I've gone off the boil..so often can't be bothered.....Also a lot of neurodivergent people have peaks and troughs and some are asexual.
masturbation is a reminder for me to connect to myself, to my body, to others and to the rest of the world. I unfortunately disconnect easily. It also helps when playing with a partner and we need some "extra help"
Nothing really special. Toys, female friendly porn, Use my overactive imagination.
Side note: Men don't realize this but I can tell when a man overuses porn. I suspect that women who are sexually connected can tell too. |
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"When I’m in the mood (and alone) I love it. But I’m rarely in the mood unless I’ve been talking with someone I fancy.
Don’t think I’ve had a yank since before crimbo.
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So you are definitely not a wanker then.
Before Christmas?
I wasn't really in the mood / not my usual self, but still had at least 3.
Yea see I can’t see the point of doing it just coz. I’d rather go out."
Some people are introverted and use porn/sex for the same reason some of us need to get out of the house!
I try not to do that because I know it's bad for me and my neurodivergent brain ..and....sex alone doesn't always work for me in the way I want it to. It usually works when I'm with a man...I'd say 90% of the time. |
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