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Confident or have a massive EGO?
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"Where is the line between the two in your opinion?"
I think I fall on a 3rd option, im not too worried about how people veiw me so I come across as extremely confident, but really, im just very chilled and I'm not affected in the same way by things that I'd call trivial that would wind others up. |
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"Confidence relies on yourself, ego relies on other people. "
This
& I think both are generally judged by others.
Am I confident - not really, do people/friends think I am purely because I post pics here - yep, apparently it takes confidence to do that.
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"Confidence relies on yourself, ego relies on other people.
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Somewhat agree, but people can fuel or crush both."
Confidence thrives on salad days, ego has a voracious appetite. |
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"How attractive you are to the person deciding "
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I've seen people generally considered extremely hot with no confidence at all.
Also seen people the opposite with massive ego.
Yes, attractiveness is subjective, but everyone knows what/who attractive to the everyday people. |
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"I don’t know. Do you think I’m confident it have a massive ego? "
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This thread is about how you judge other people without naming anyone.
In general I would say.
You can write how you feel about yourself if you want, but I won't.
I don't know you enough to judge, but yes I have opinions about all the regulars.
Can't see the point to share opinions/thoughts about anyone.
Pretty sure it's against the rules anyway.
Usually interactions (back and forth) show more than words. |
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"I don’t know. Do you think I’m confident it have a massive ego?
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This thread is about how you judge other people without naming anyone.
In general I would say.
You can write how you feel about yourself if you want, but I won't.
I don't know you enough to judge, but yes I have opinions about all the regulars.
Can't see the point to share opinions/thoughts about anyone.
Pretty sure it's against the rules anyway.
Usually interactions (back and forth) show more than words."
I think that you think that I have a massive ego based on that politicians answer but I could be wrong! Tell me I’m wrong  please |
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"I don’t know. Do you think I’m confident it have a massive ego?
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This thread is about how you judge other people without naming anyone.
In general I would say.
You can write how you feel about yourself if you want, but I won't.
I don't know you enough to judge, but yes I have opinions about all the regulars.
Can't see the point to share opinions/thoughts about anyone.
Pretty sure it's against the rules anyway.
Usually interactions (back and forth) show more than words.
I think that you think that I have a massive ego based on that politicians answer but I could be wrong! Tell me I’m wrong please "
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I can't deny, nor confirm. |
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"There's no line they're completely different things.
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Explain please how you see it."
Not much to explain really. Confidence and a huge ego are different to my way of thinking. A confident person knows their capability and doesn't display faux modesty someone with a massive ego just has a massive ego. It's the same with arrogance and confidence. They're two entirely separate qualities in my opinion but people often say there's a thin line between the two
That's no help at all is it  |
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"There's no line they're completely different things.
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Explain please how you see it.
Not much to explain really. Confidence and a huge ego are different to my way of thinking. A confident person knows their capability and doesn't display faux modesty someone with a massive ego just has a massive ego. It's the same with arrogance and confidence. They're two entirely separate qualities in my opinion but people often say there's a thin line between the two
That's no help at all is it "
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Yes, often people on that thin line.
Some do it for the show, but some honesty self absorbed.
I thought you will shine a light, but just made me more uncertain what is what.
I take back the heart emoji what I gave you on the other thread please.
Expected a little bit more from you. I still love you, but your reply was half hearted. I want half of mine back please.
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"There's no line they're completely different things.
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Explain please how you see it.
Not much to explain really. Confidence and a huge ego are different to my way of thinking. A confident person knows their capability and doesn't display faux modesty someone with a massive ego just has a massive ego. It's the same with arrogance and confidence. They're two entirely separate qualities in my opinion but people often say there's a thin line between the two
That's no help at all is it
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Yes, often people on that thin line.
Some do it for the show, but some honesty self absorbed.
I thought you will shine a light, but just made me more uncertain what is what.
I take back the heart emoji what I gave you on the other thread please.
Expected a little bit more from you. I still love you, but your reply was half hearted. I want half of mine back please.
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Fair enough. Duly returned ... |
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The thing about ego is its just a sense of self. Maybe some people do have an overinflated sense of self worth, but how much do you actually know about them to decide that they're unjustified?
People should have high self worth. I hate that it's treated like it's a bad thing  |
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"The thing about ego is its just a sense of self. Maybe some people do have an overinflated sense of self worth, but how much do you actually know about them to decide that they're unjustified?
People should have high self worth. I hate that it's treated like it's a bad thing "
I agree but I think people often use the phrase huge or massive ego to describe arrogance. That's partly why I say that confidence and massive egos aren't the same thing. |
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"The thing about ego is its just a sense of self. Maybe some people do have an overinflated sense of self worth, but how much do you actually know about them to decide that they're unjustified?
People should have high self worth. I hate that it's treated like it's a bad thing
I agree but I think people often use the phrase huge or massive ego to describe arrogance. That's partly why I say that confidence and massive egos aren't the same thing. "
That's exactly it though. It shouldn't be considered an insult.
Same as selfish. Everyone should be putting their own needs first. Not at thr excessive detriment of the needs of others, empathy is needed too.
But people should be selfish. People should have decent sized egos. People shouldn't spend their entire lives catering and bowing to others for the sake of appearing more polite and acceptable |
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"The thing about ego is its just a sense of self. Maybe some people do have an overinflated sense of self worth, but how much do you actually know about them to decide that they're unjustified?
People should have high self worth. I hate that it's treated like it's a bad thing
I agree but I think people often use the phrase huge or massive ego to describe arrogance. That's partly why I say that confidence and massive egos aren't the same thing. "
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Now you explained it.
Here is the my heart back.
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"The thing about ego is its just a sense of self. Maybe some people do have an overinflated sense of self worth, but how much do you actually know about them to decide that they're unjustified?
People should have high self worth. I hate that it's treated like it's a bad thing "
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You can have a massive ego, as long as you don't use it to belittle others.
Massive ego comes with arrogance in most casas, but not always.
Everyone is selfish on some level.
Even in love or sex you can be selfish when you're not really.
You are with someone for yourself, not just because of them.
You do most things, because you like it, not because of anyone else.
It changes when you have kids/family, because then you can't/shouldn't put yourself first.
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"You can have a massive ego, as long as you don't use it to belittle others.
Massive ego comes with arrogance in most casas, but not always.
Everyone is selfish on some level.
Even in love or sex you can be selfish when you're not really.
You are with someone for yourself, not just because of them.
You do most things, because you like it, not because of anyone else.
It changes when you have kids/family, because then you can't/shouldn't put yourself first.
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Is the ego used to belittle others or just facts and opinions, which can be held with or without a massive ego?
I like being able to focus on myself. Hence voiding the whole family/kids commitment |
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