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I love the site but a few little things for someone with a logical mind like mine just dont make sene. For example status updates saying wanting a guy or a big cock or something similar from a woman or couple but have blocked men.
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They might have some men on their friends list and their status is aimed at them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When people don't read my profile and then get arsey. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Majority of people on here who have no intentions of ever meeting.and those who post they are after a meet but then don't bother replying to you when you message them.the most annoying is people who ask if you are up for a meet ,then go offline straight after!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just wish the site was modernised |
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"They might have some men on their friends list and their status is aimed at them."
In which case maybe put on the update, "those on our friends list get in touch, no interested in someone new" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The amount of status updates from the same people……continually complaining about Fab’.
Don’t like the place……delete your account.
Nothing to complain about. |
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The amount of guys that want me to let them fuck my hole, without even a date  |
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"Just wish the site was modernised "
I actually think the mobile site is really user friendly. |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
People who ignore posters in rate/fab/comment on previous poster threads to try to impress someone further up the thread.  |
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Men who complain about a lack of meets in the forums. I like the forums but it's just constant, sooooo many threads, all the advice is the same why do they keep posting these?
How old the site is. We were generally shocked, I don't think we're really old enough to remember sites like this though |
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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago
Chinese Takeaway near you |
Lack of gifs & limited emojis  |
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"People who ignore posters in rate/fab/comment on previous poster threads to try to impress someone further up the thread. "
I did not think of that and that is annoying. Some I am sure do it on purpose too.  |
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"When people don't read my profile and then get arsey."
Or say they've read it, when it's very obvious they haven't. |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
"People who ignore posters in rate/fab/comment on previous poster threads to try to impress someone further up the thread.
I did not think of that and that is annoying. Some I am sure do it on purpose too. "
It's understandable on a fast moving thread, but when it's 10 minutes since someone's last post, it's obvious that it's deliberate.
Damn it, I should be hoovering up all of that sweet validation that comes from getting the fabs or comments   |
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By *mf123Man
over a year ago
with one foot out the door |
When all the women beg for my penis in that whiney voice they do |
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The amount of profiles that appear with "looking for men, women and couples" and then disappear. If they are bots, what's the point, and if they disappear because the site gets rid of them very well done
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The amount of status updates from the same people……continually complaining about Fab’.
Don’t like the place……delete your account.
Nothing to complain about. "
Mate this is the most jarring thing ever. And the people that post them, Jesus lol no wonder ‘big curvy bbw’ doesn’t get any serious messages, or gets junkies penis pictures, because the delusional profile has more commandments than the Old Testament. No one cares ‘if you’re leaving fab, having a meltdown, deleted all messages, trigger happy on the block button, sick of men not being able to read the bio, having the best time at a club on the weekend.’
lol sign off go feed your multiple felines and wax your tash girl x |
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"People who ignore posters in rate/fab/comment on previous poster threads to try to impress someone further up the thread.
I did not think of that and that is annoying. Some I am sure do it on purpose too. "
That's a good point MB. I'm sure they do it on purpose too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being fab straight does my head in.
No1 worth your time cares what your sexuality is. This place should always be a safe and welcoming place.
Recently guy got caught out with a tv veri in his summary after choosing to not show it in his published veris. Rather than just own it, blames others and claims it’s fake. Why? Again, no-one worth your time cares.
It’s 2024 folks, be who you want to be  |
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"People who ignore posters in rate/fab/comment on previous poster threads to try to impress someone further up the thread. "
Yep, or worse when you comment on a thread and someone dm's you to tell you how amazing you are yet the same person is fawning over others in the same thread publicly. Makes you feel like the troll under the bridge that does |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All the whiny forum posts about how annoying fabs is are pretty annoying  |
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Forum posts from men crying about how nobody replies to their messages
The messages
Corrr id suck a fart out your arse |
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Nothing annoys me at all about FAB
cept maybe the people, and the layout ....... the colour. Maybe the chat rooms and the forums ........... uhmmmmm definitely that ads..... the links , did I say the people ? Lounge topics.... they annoy me......
It's fine really ........just those few things and maybe the search facilities and the pics ...... messaging isn' what it could be ...... but other than that it's okay by me ...... |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"Forum posts from men crying about how nobody replies to their messages
The messages
Corrr id suck a fart out your arse "
Agreed. And yes, you may |
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"The amount of status updates from the same people……continually complaining about Fab’.
Don’t like the place……delete your account.
Nothing to complain about.
Mate this is the most jarring thing ever. And the people that post them, Jesus lol no wonder ‘big curvy bbw’ doesn’t get any serious messages, or gets junkies penis pictures, because the delusional profile has more commandments than the Old Testament. No one cares ‘if you’re leaving fab, having a meltdown, deleted all messages, trigger happy on the block button, sick of men not being able to read the bio, having the best time at a club on the weekend.’
lol sign off go feed your multiple felines and wax your tash girl x"
^^^Catty |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When you write a post in the forum that takes up the entire line apart from the emoji you add which goes onto the next one  |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
They're doing their own search and only announced it  |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"They're doing their own search and only announced it "
A sign to get your lunch box out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't pick one
Lurkers that message off threads they've not commented on.
The fact that when you block people they can still see your pics in updates, hot pics etc and they can still read your status in their block list.
People that message again after being told they don't for what you're looking for, as if you might have changed your mind or were wrong the first time you told them, or they think you forgot you said it. And probably have written on their profile 'manners don't cost a thing' or some shite about how not replying with a no is fucking rude
Dickheads, the behaviour of the ones you rejected, or caught out, or you dared to express a distaste of their actions to.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's near gravitational pull, that always causes me to drift back again when I've been determined to stay away |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wouldn’t mind a push notification on messages. |
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"Nope. I'm fine with it all. "
I think it's brilliant, just the little things that irk, I put it down to my OCD |
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In the typeface used you can't tell the difference between I and l
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The small letters in white phone screen
Triggers head aches n migraines |
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Only thing that annoys me a little bit is if someone has blocked you, you have to hold your phone really close to your face to get a good look at their tits |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ll tell you what I hate- fucking women.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wait no I didn’t mean it like that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love having sex with women |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nvm |
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"People who ignore posters in rate/fab/comment on previous poster threads to try to impress someone further up the thread.
Yep, or worse when you comment on a thread and someone dm's you to tell you how amazing you are yet the same person is fawning over others in the same thread publicly. Makes you feel like the troll under the bridge that does "
High five from under my bridge to under yours!
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Men that continue to pester even after we said no.
People that don't read our profile
Trolls in the chatrooms |
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"People who ignore posters in rate/fab/comment on previous poster threads to try to impress someone further up the thread.
I did not think of that and that is annoying. Some I am sure do it on purpose too.
That's a good point MB. I'm sure they do it on purpose too "
Surely you have not experienced that though. I will be surprised |
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The data that we have all entered into profile details that we can't search and filter for  . This should have been a much more important site update than stuff like videos. We already have the data, it's fairly bog standard to want to find the right matches and we have the functionality to search on some user data, such as age, etc. |
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Who was that said don't sweat the little things? Perhaps not that important if they are little. |
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"I’ll tell you what I hate- fucking women.
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Sorry, Steve. I'll try harder *sex chromosomes weep* |
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"I’ll tell you what I hate- fucking women.
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Send them this way. I love fucking women  |
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"People who ignore posters in rate/fab/comment on previous poster threads to try to impress someone further up the thread.
I did not think of that and that is annoying. Some I am sure do it on purpose too.
That's a good point MB. I'm sure they do it on purpose too
Surely you have not experienced that though. I will be surprised "
When Kai is lurking, you just sit patiently |
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"People who ignore posters in rate/fab/comment on previous poster threads to try to impress someone further up the thread.
I did not think of that and that is annoying. Some I am sure do it on purpose too.
That's a good point MB. I'm sure they do it on purpose too
Surely you have not experienced that though. I will be surprised
When Kai is lurking, you just sit patiently "
As Brucie said, you are my favourite |
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"People who ignore posters in rate/fab/comment on previous poster threads to try to impress someone further up the thread.
I did not think of that and that is annoying. Some I am sure do it on purpose too.
That's a good point MB. I'm sure they do it on purpose too
Surely you have not experienced that though. I will be surprised
When Kai is lurking, you just sit patiently
As Brucie said, you are my favourite "
Ps, not the Brucie here. Brucie Forcyth used to say that |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"I love the site but a few little things for someone with a logical mind like mine just dont make sene. For example status updates saying wanting a guy or a big cock or something similar from a woman or couple but have blocked men.
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they look for the guy at their pace and approach him |
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"Forum posts from men crying about how nobody replies to their messages
The messages
Corrr id suck a fart out your arse "
This made me laugh, reminds me of a similar message I had the other day….. was it you? On a serious note it does amuse me that they think it deserves a decent response. Surely they realise it isn’t good messaging etiquette |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ll tell you what I hate- fucking women.
Send them this way. I love fucking women "
For the love of Jesus will someone please shag our Jamie here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ll tell you what I hate- fucking women.
Sorry, Steve. I'll try harder *sex chromosomes weep*"
I like you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ll tell you what I hate- fucking women.
Send them this way. I love fucking women
For the love of Jesus will someone please shag our Jamie here"
Go on then, I'll take one for the team I guess |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A couple that posted a meet , wanting a single guy, bit blocked single men contacting them |
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"I’ll tell you what I hate- fucking women.
Send them this way. I love fucking women
For the love of Jesus will someone please shag our Jamie here
Go on then, I'll take one for the team I guess "
You’re very generous. If you want to keep shirts on, lights off and no kissing I understand. |
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Lack of people living in the US on this site? ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ll tell you what I hate- fucking women.
Send them this way. I love fucking women
For the love of Jesus will someone please shag our Jamie here
Go on then, I'll take one for the team I guess
You’re very generous. If you want to keep shirts on, lights off and no kissing I understand. "
Absolutely not! If I'm going to shag you, the light will be on, shirts will be off and I'll kiss you like the gentleman I am. What do you take me for, Hants? |
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Just seen a couple update looking for a guy over 60...but profile has blocked single males. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A couple that posted a meet , wanting a single guy, bit blocked single men contacting them "
And anytime any person on here with a penis, speaks something accurate, the whole forum go attack mode and say bitter for no messages. Il probably get banned for 2 days on here, but legitimately, a percentage of people on here have let the winks get to their head, and then bite saying it’s because no replies/meets etc, obviously creeps will send stupid/parhetic dick pictures, whilst watching 50 shades on repeat in the attic, but don’t presume that’s everyone, and to the ‘sour/bitter/sad as no messages - as if you’re getting any person who’s life isn’t on fab 24/7 would be messaging you anyway…. |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"Lack of people living in the US on this site? ??"
surely they have a US site? |
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Grown men crying like a spoilt child.
The mr |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Peoples hypocrisy.
Nothing else realy annoys me. |
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When I'm not the thread-killer.
Annoys the fuck out of me when others dare challenge my mighty thread-killing persona. |
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When people chase you across fab accounts, other websites and even social media....take the bloody hint!!! Even worse when they use different/alternate accounts and wait for you to guess who they are. |
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Not being able to post status updates. Send several messages to Fab, but no response. |
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Advice threads full of ideas from hidden profiles or those who have been here since the dawn of time and haven't mastered the art of taking their own advice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When people read my profile and send I know your not into (thing I am) but make a exception.
Guys (because it's often my experience with men) who when you respond a polite no thanks. Then spend ages trying to convince you. |
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CD/TV as a category; Its old fashioned for a modern world.
Many trans individuals will not put themselves into just a male or female category as, though they feel they are a single gender, they physically possess genitalia that put then in a middle ground and they don't feel its fair to others on the site to miss gender themselves.
But trans individuals are definitely not cd/TV and it is completely inappropriate to be labeled that way.
Trans is category all in its own and should be respected appropriately.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wonko!! |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"Not being able to post status updates. Send several messages to Fab, but no response. "
if you can't post a status update fab has taken your ability to do it away, you've maybe infringed their rules at some point |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate that there’s so much focus on guys send nasty messages
Not that it doesn’t happen, it’s the fact it gets focused on
Back when I used to meet women on here, I never sent a lazy message. Always read the bio. Always included face pics. Most go unopened
Women and couples seem to hyper focus on the shitty messages, completely ignoring that you all have perfectly good messages, with perfectly good men behind them, unopened or ignored in your inbox.
I had a couples profile for a very short while a very long time ago and I found the same thing from her. She would show me some of the awful messages she’d receive, and as she was showing me, she’d be scrolling past a sea of unopened, completely fine messages. Why don’t you open that, put some effort into having a conversation with them? I’ve never understood it
A little more effort from everyone would make fabs a better place |
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"People who ignore posters in rate/fab/comment on previous poster threads to try to impress someone further up the thread.
I did not think of that and that is annoying. Some I am sure do it on purpose too.
That's a good point MB. I'm sure they do it on purpose too
Surely you have not experienced that though. I will be surprised
When Kai is lurking, you just sit patiently "
He ignores me full stop  ... |
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"Not being able to post status updates. Send several messages to Fab, but no response. if you can't post a status update fab has taken your ability to do it away, you've maybe infringed their rules at some point "
Oooh ! That explains it ! oops |
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Local updates and pictures that automatically show up on the home page.
The option not to show these would be good. |
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"They might have some men on their friends list and their status is aimed at them."
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
‘Fab for this or that’ plastered over photos gives me the ick! |
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"When people don't read my profile and then get arsey.
Or say they've read it, when it's very obvious they haven't."
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Time wasters and fake profiles are the worst.
And some people are too picky lol I am 6 days in to my 51st year on this planet but because I wasn't 50 wouldn't chat and blocked me ultimately it's the person's choice and gotta respect that though. |
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When people state they will only reply to "meet verified people ". Have they forgotten that they were themselves not meet verified once upon a time before soneone gave them a chance and met them.?
EVERYONE had no verifications when they joined Fab , yet some people seem to have forgotten this.
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Nothing annoys me about fab. 100% |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can't post pics in the forum,
Some people are just rude
More men look at my profile than the girls |
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The people who put a status updates like this!
"that's it I'm done I'm leaving Fab!"
No need to announce it, just do it.
Oh yes, you won't do it, because you are just attention seeking!! |
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The people who create negative drama
K |
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*laughing my firm round NY ass off* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't post pics in the forum,
Some people are just rude
More men look at my profile than the girls "
I think if you could post pictures on the forums, I would stop using the forums |
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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago
Market Harborough/ Kettering |
Too many attention seekers! "Fab my picture and I will post more" |
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Better geographical areas for searches etc would be nice |
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The site is outdated and missing a lot of features, but cheap.
I rather pay 5£/m than 30£/m to not get laid.
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People complaining not getting laid isn't bothering me, even would feel sympathy if I would be popular.
People complaining about people complaining is more annoying.
Funnily those ^ are usually couples or successful singles, so they're not in the same shoes.
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Never the site, it's always the people.
Especially people, who are convinced the other people have less right to be here, comment, complain, express themself or went sometimes.
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Complaining about other people complaining = Wenting
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Expressing your dislike about things = Wenting
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Saying you're better than other people, when you're really not = Wenting + Hypocrisy
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1- People think they can judge you by a photo.
2- Have a long list of dos and don’ts , can’t respect your privacy, insist on a face pic and if you do share they go to 1 and your never be good enough. |
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"Can't post pics in the forum,
Some people are just rude
More men look at my profile than the girls
I think if you could post pictures on the forums, I would stop using the forums"
Thank heavens we can't post pictures in the forums! |
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The men folk.
I know it's not all of them, some are good little eggs, and genuine etc.
But a good 99% of the messages I get from men are pointless shitty 1 liners,
Include a dick pic,
Blatantly show they haven't read the profile,
Or are just downright bizarre!
Then leading to people thinking all messages from men are gonna be pointless.
The vast majority spoil it for the decent genuine ones! |
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Nothing annoys me. I’m a simple creature, I love Fab  |
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"Nothing annoys me. I’m a simple creature, I love Fab "
Great boobies too |
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"Nothing annoys me. I’m a simple creature, I love Fab
Great boobies too "
We are SO having that threesome.
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
Sending cringe graphic messages or attaching 3 pics of a cock in a message, when we have never spoken before.
Also asking to meet "now" without sending any face pic or having any conversation. |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
Platinum membership has gone up so much |
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"Lack of gifs & limited emojis "
How did anyone live without the bloody things? |
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Just wished the message filters worked
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"I can't pick one
Lurkers that message off threads they've not commented on.
The fact that when you block people they can still see your pics in updates, hot pics etc and they can still read your status in their block list.
People that message again after being told they don't for what you're looking for, as if you might have changed your mind or were wrong the first time you told them, or they think you forgot you said it. And probably have written on their profile 'manners don't cost a thing' or some shite about how not replying with a no is fucking rude
Dickheads, the behaviour of the ones you rejected, or caught out, or you dared to express a distaste of their actions to.
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THIS place is Ted Bundy’s wet dream.
And others like him. |
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This site, like most things in life, is what it is. I get my amusement out of being here. And if I didn’t anymore, I’d leave through the back door as quietly as I slithered in. |
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"In the typeface used you can't tell the difference between I and l
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L don't find that to be a problem. L'm perfectly happy with the typeface. |
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"Can't post pics in the forum,
Some people are just rude
More men look at my profile than the girls
I think if you could post pictures on the forums, I would stop using the forums"
Dear Christ. I’m with you on this one. |
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"In the typeface used you can't tell the difference between I and l
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L don't find that to be a problem. L'm perfectly happy with the typeface."
I’m against I anyway |
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By *enk15Man
over a year ago
Evesham |
The fact that everyone doesn't just drop their pants at the mere sight of me
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"Can't post pics in the forum,
Some people are just rude
More men look at my profile than the girls
I think if you could post pictures on the forums, I would stop using the forums
Thank heavens we can't post pictures in the forums! "
Agreed. it is bad enough having posts littered with superfluous emojis.
Some people would not understand self control if pictures were allowed.
Threads would get bloated. They already do from needless re-quoting in full. 'thread got too big' is a ludicrous statement when it refers only to the number of posts and not the space it took up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The lack of emojis, that's it!
I havnt served enough time here yet to know anything else |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This site, like most things in life, is what it is. I get my amusement out of being here. And if I didn’t anymore, I’d leave through the back door as quietly as I slithered in."
spot on |
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I really want a like button on forum comments |
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Nothing I don't let it annoy me, but then I'm not a swinger anymore just like the forum |
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"The fact that everyone doesn't just drop their pants at the mere sight of me
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I can’t understand why not… you wear a bow tie and bracers   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People who keep losing their goats. How hard can it be to hang onto them? |
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About little things.
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Once I wanted to upload a kind of before and after dick pic.
(Cold then happy)
Just to demonstrate how much it grows, but I changed my mind..
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By *istr3ssWoman
over a year ago
Stockton-on-Tees |
"When people don't read my profile and then get arsey."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having to put that stupid code in sometimes when you log in wtf! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When people don't read my profile and then get arsey.
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What if you’re illiterate? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I really want a like button on forum comments"
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"The site is outdated and missing a lot of features, but cheap.
I rather pay 5£/m than 30£/m to not get laid.
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People complaining not getting laid isn't bothering me, even would feel sympathy if I would be popular.
People complaining about people complaining is more annoying.
Funnily those ^ are usually couples or successful singles, so they're not in the same shoes.
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Never the site, it's always the people.
Especially people, who are convinced the other people have less right to be here, comment, complain, express themself or went sometimes.
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Complaining about other people complaining = Wenting
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Expressing your dislike about things = Wenting
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Saying you're better than other people, when you're really not = Wenting + Hypocrisy
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^^^^
This 100% |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When a profile read "fill in later" and has been like that for weeks. |
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You see lot of repetition after a while. |
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People complaining not getting laid isn't bothering me, even would feel sympathy if I would be popular.
People complaining about people complaining is more annoying.
Funnily those ^ are usually couples or successful singles, so they're not in the same shoes.
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Couples and single women will always hold the upper hand ,that's understandable ,along with maybe the 1% of single men who are successful on here ,the 1% who are lucky enough to have meets.
We would all love to be in the tiny,tiny minority of single blokes who get meets,and have any success on here ,but that ain't ever going to happen because couples and single women will always choose from the single blokes with meet verifications when they decide which messages to reply to ,and meet with .
I saw a post from a couple yesterday, and they said when they get a message, the first thing they do is check to see if he has any meet verifications.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"
People complaining not getting laid isn't bothering me, even would feel sympathy if I would be popular.
People complaining about people complaining is more annoying.
Funnily those ^ are usually couples or successful singles, so they're not in the same shoes.
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Couples and single women will always hold the upper hand ,that's understandable ,along with maybe the 1% of single men who are successful on here ,the 1% who are lucky enough to have meets.
We would all love to be in the tiny,tiny minority of single blokes who get meets,and have any success on here ,but that ain't ever going to happen because couples and single women will always choose from the single blokes with meet verifications when they decide which messages to reply to ,and meet with .
I saw a post from a couple yesterday, and they said when they get a message, the first thing they do is check to see if he has any meet verifications.
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So people aren't allowed to have that preference? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People complaining not getting laid isn't bothering me, even would feel sympathy if I would be popular.
People complaining about people complaining is more annoying.
Funnily those ^ are usually couples or successful singles, so they're not in the same shoes.
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Couples and single women will always hold the upper hand ,that's understandable ,along with maybe the 1% of single men who are successful on here ,the 1% who are lucky enough to have meets.
We would all love to be in the tiny,tiny minority of single blokes who get meets,and have any success on here ,but that ain't ever going to happen because couples and single women will always choose from the single blokes with meet verifications when they decide which messages to reply to ,and meet with .
I saw a post from a couple yesterday, and they said when they get a message, the first thing they do is check to see if he has any meet verifications
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Complaining or being upset about that does nothing though
Fab ratio is crazy. If you walked into a pub with 200 guys and 1 woman, would you complain that you can’t get her attention or just go somewhere else with a better ratio?
Don’t waste your energy on stuff you can’t change |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
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People complaining not getting laid isn't bothering me, even would feel sympathy if I would be popular.
People complaining about people complaining is more annoying.
Funnily those ^ are usually couples or successful singles, so they're not in the same shoes.
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Couples and single women will always hold the upper hand ,that's understandable ,along with maybe the 1% of single men who are successful on here ,the 1% who are lucky enough to have meets.
We would all love to be in the tiny,tiny minority of single blokes who get meets,and have any success on here ,but that ain't ever going to happen because couples and single women will always choose from the single blokes with meet verifications when they decide which messages to reply to ,and meet with .
I saw a post from a couple yesterday, and they said when they get a message, the first thing they do is check to see if he has any meet verifications
Complaining or being upset about that does nothing though
Fab ratio is crazy. If you walked into a pub with 200 guys and 1 woman, would you complain that you can’t get her attention or just go somewhere else with a better ratio?
Don’t waste your energy on stuff you can’t change "
great example, you've just described a fab social |
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People complaining . getting laid isn't bothering me, even would feel sympathy if I would be popular.
People complaining about people complaining is more annoying.
Funnily those ^ are usually couples or successful singles, so they're not in the same shoes.
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Couples and single women will always hold the upper hand ,that's understandable ,along with maybe the 1% of single men who are successful on here ,the 1% who are lucky enough to have meets.
We would all love to be in the tiny,tiny minority of single blokes who get meets,and have any success on here ,but that ain't ever going to happen because couples and single women will always choose from the single blokes with meet verifications when they decide which messages to reply to ,and meet with .
I saw a post from a couple yesterday, and they said when they get a message, the first thing they do is check to see if he has any meet verifications.
So people aren't allowed to have that preference? "
Of course they are. I'm merely pointing out that EVERYONE started on Fab with zero verifications until someone gave them a chance ,singles and couples, but from reading a lot of profiles ,it seems that most people with verifications arnt prepared to give anyone with no verifications a chance .
When the verified members joined and had no verifications, they wouldn't be in the lucky position they are now of having verifications if someone hadn't given them a chance.
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"Just wish the site was modernised "
Modernised !! Like fir those who have been on the site for 12 mth and given the option to go to the higher level where you pay a yearly fee and that fee is reduced we very year .. this cutting out all the timewasters .. count me in for that . There's so many timewasters on here due to fact that the site is completely free to join and use .
We'd happily pay £150 a year if this was the case .. pay that fee would 100% wipe out the messers from the genuine folk |
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By *ocktowerMan
over a year ago
north Wales and Bulgaria. |
People who have just joined
saying fun couple aren't others the best judge of this ? |
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"Just wish the site was modernised "
Modernised !! Like for those who have been on the site for 12 mth and given the option to go to the higher level where you pay a yearly fee and that fee is reduced every year .. thus cutting out all the timewasters .. count me in for that . There's so many timewasters on here due to fact that the site is completely free to join and use .
We'd happily pay £150 a year if this was the case .. paying that fee would 100% wipe out the messers from the genuine folk |
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By *ocktowerMan
over a year ago
north Wales and Bulgaria. |
"Just wish the site was modernised
Modernised !! Like fir those who have been on the site for 12 mth and given the option to go to the higher level where you pay a yearly fee and that fee is reduced we very year .. this cutting out all the timewasters .. count me in for that . There's so many timewasters on here due to fact that the site is completely free to join and use .
We'd happily pay £150 a year if this was the case .. pay that fee would 100% wipe out the messers from the genuine folk "
not true. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"
People complaining . getting laid isn't bothering me, even would feel sympathy if I would be popular.
People complaining about people complaining is more annoying.
Funnily those ^ are usually couples or successful singles, so they're not in the same shoes.
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Couples and single women will always hold the upper hand ,that's understandable ,along with maybe the 1% of single men who are successful on here ,the 1% who are lucky enough to have meets.
We would all love to be in the tiny,tiny minority of single blokes who get meets,and have any success on here ,but that ain't ever going to happen because couples and single women will always choose from the single blokes with meet verifications when they decide which messages to reply to ,and meet with .
I saw a post from a couple yesterday, and they said when they get a message, the first thing they do is check to see if he has any meet verifications.
So people aren't allowed to have that preference?
Of course they are. I'm merely pointing out that EVERYONE started on Fab with zero verifications until someone gave them a chance ,singles and couples, but from reading a lot of profiles ,it seems that most people with verifications arnt prepared to give anyone with no verifications a chance .
When the verified members joined and had no verifications, they wouldn't be in the lucky position they are now of having verifications if someone hadn't given them a chance.
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No-one is going to give you a veri because all you do is complain. (And plenty of people will meet without veris) |
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"‘Fab for this or that’ plastered over photos gives me the ick! "
We're with you on that .. fab my pic for a lick ... men are worse that the women lol |
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"When people state they will only reply to "meet verified people ". Have they forgotten that they were themselves not meet verified once upon a time before soneone gave them a chance and met them.?
EVERYONE had no verifications when they joined Fab , yet some people seem to have forgotten this.
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Fab needs a broken record emoji.
The power to fix this is in your hands. No one else is responsible for your success here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How did the first meet verification happen if you can’t verify someone without being verified yourself?
The fab version of the chicken and the egg |
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"Just wish the site was modernised
Modernised !! Like for those who have been on the site for 12 mth and given the option to go to the higher level where you pay a yearly fee and that fee is reduced every year .. thus cutting out all the timewasters .. count me in for that . There's so many timewasters on here due to fact that the site is completely free to join and use .
We'd happily pay £150 a year if this was the case .. paying that fee would 100% wipe out the messers from the genuine folk "
It would more likely wipe out 99% of the membership. |
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"When people state they will only reply to "meet verified people ". Have they forgotten that they were themselves not meet verified once upon a time before soneone gave them a chance and met them.?
EVERYONE had no verifications when they joined Fab , yet some people seem to have forgotten this.
Fab needs a broken record emoji.
The power to fix this is in your hands. No one else is responsible for your success here."
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Couples not thinking there's any point in putting photos of the man in their gallery. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You see lot of repetition after a while. "
I agree you do see a lot of repetition after a while. |
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"You see lot of repetition after a while.
I agree you do see a lot of repetition after a while. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You see lot of repetition after a while.
I agree you do see a lot of repetition after a while.
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By *enk15Man
over a year ago
Evesham |
"The fact that everyone doesn't just drop their pants at the mere sight of me
I can’t understand why not… you wear a bow tie and bracers "
Only on Tuesdays |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
That folk expect you to be horny or DTF at any given moment.
That a fuck is the answer to all your woes.
Feeling blue? “Oh a good shag will sort that out?”
Full up with flu? “Sit on my face that’ll sort you out!”
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The constant virtue signalling.
We get it, if you one the lottery you’d buy world peace and start charities and not spend a penny on yourself and we know you donate 99% of your salary already to visually impaired orphaned kittens. I’d get a jet ski but you do you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dislike this assumption I see constantly that women only like men with HUGE dicks and six packs. Every time women on the forums say anything otherwise, they're dismissed. Like we don't know what we find attractive. |
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"The constant virtue signalling.
We get it, if you one the lottery you’d buy world peace and start charities and not spend a penny on yourself and we know you donate 99% of your salary already to visually impaired orphaned kittens. I’d get a jet ski but you do you. "
I’d never go near a jet ski after some of those Florida stories. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some of the smol people annoy me |
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"I dislike this assumption I see constantly that women only like men with HUGE dicks and six packs. Every time women on the forums say anything otherwise, they're dismissed. Like we don't know what we find attractive. "
I need a man to tell me I’m attracted to him. Especially if he is nothing like what I describe I like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dislike this assumption I see constantly that women only like men with HUGE dicks and six packs. Every time women on the forums say anything otherwise, they're dismissed. Like we don't know what we find attractive. "
Yeah but be for real, I guy that looks like me isn’t desired at all on here. |
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"The constant virtue signalling.
We get it, if you one the lottery you’d buy world peace and start charities and not spend a penny on yourself and we know you donate 99% of your salary already to visually impaired orphaned kittens. I’d get a jet ski but you do you.
I’d never go near a jet ski after some of those Florida stories. "
Don’t know about them. Don’t live in Florida. I bloody love zooming around on them so much fun! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dislike this assumption I see constantly that women only like men with HUGE dicks and six packs. Every time women on the forums say anything otherwise, they're dismissed. Like we don't know what we find attractive.
I need a man to tell me I’m attracted to him. Especially if he is nothing like what I describe I like. "
Noted |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The constant virtue signalling.
We get it, if you one the lottery you’d buy world peace and start charities and not spend a penny on yourself and we know you donate 99% of your salary already to visually impaired orphaned kittens. I’d get a jet ski but you do you. "
I’d get you an Elvis sex doll like in that Margaret Atwood book. |
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"The constant virtue signalling.
We get it, if you one the lottery you’d buy world peace and start charities and not spend a penny on yourself and we know you donate 99% of your salary already to visually impaired orphaned kittens. I’d get a jet ski but you do you.
I’d get you an Elvis sex doll like in that Margaret Atwood book. "
I’d comfort hump it after I had a bad day and would think of you. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
Oh! I know the answer to this one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The constant virtue signalling.
We get it, if you one the lottery you’d buy world peace and start charities and not spend a penny on yourself and we know you donate 99% of your salary already to visually impaired orphaned kittens. I’d get a jet ski but you do you.
I’d get you an Elvis sex doll like in that Margaret Atwood book.
I’d comfort hump it after I had a bad day and would think of you. "
And you could play So Sick by Neyo at the same time. And sing along while crying and grinding when he says ‘I’m so fed up with my thoughts of you’ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dislike this assumption I see constantly that women only like men with HUGE dicks and six packs. Every time women on the forums say anything otherwise, they're dismissed. Like we don't know what we find attractive.
Yeah but be for real, I guy that looks like me isn’t desired at all on here. "
Really, no success at all? Don't believe you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dislike this assumption I see constantly that women only like men with HUGE dicks and six packs. Every time women on the forums say anything otherwise, they're dismissed. Like we don't know what we find attractive.
I need a man to tell me I’m attracted to him. Especially if he is nothing like what I describe I like. "
And don't forget a man to tell you what you like sexually |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dislike this assumption I see constantly that women only like men with HUGE dicks and six packs. Every time women on the forums say anything otherwise, they're dismissed. Like we don't know what we find attractive.
Yeah but be for real, I guy that looks like me isn’t desired at all on here.
Really, no success at all? Don't believe you "
None! Well other than the forum babes I’ve banged but that’s because #Personality |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dislike this assumption I see constantly that women only like men with HUGE dicks and six packs. Every time women on the forums say anything otherwise, they're dismissed. Like we don't know what we find attractive. "
Define attraction? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dislike this assumption I see constantly that women only like men with HUGE dicks and six packs. Every time women on the forums say anything otherwise, they're dismissed. Like we don't know what we find attractive.
Yeah but be for real, I guy that looks like me isn’t desired at all on here.
Really, no success at all? Don't believe you
None! Well other than the forum babes I’ve banged but that’s because #Personality "
None doesn't seem to mean what it used to... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dislike this assumption I see constantly that women only like men with HUGE dicks and six packs. Every time women on the forums say anything otherwise, they're dismissed. Like we don't know what we find attractive.
Define attraction?"
Why? Everyone here knows what it means! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dislike this assumption I see constantly that women only like men with HUGE dicks and six packs. Every time women on the forums say anything otherwise, they're dismissed. Like we don't know what we find attractive.
Yeah but be for real, I guy that looks like me isn’t desired at all on here.
Really, no success at all? Don't believe you
None! Well other than the forum babes I’ve banged but that’s because #Personality
None doesn't seem to mean what it used to..."
Keep up with the lingo of the streets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dislike this assumption I see constantly that women only like men with HUGE dicks and six packs. Every time women on the forums say anything otherwise, they're dismissed. Like we don't know what we find attractive.
Define attraction?
Why? Everyone here knows what it means!"
Big penis. Six pack. |
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"I dislike this assumption I see constantly that women only like men with HUGE dicks and six packs. Every time women on the forums say anything otherwise, they're dismissed. Like we don't know what we find attractive.
Define attraction?
Why? Everyone here knows what it means!
Big penis. Six pack. "
But, but, but, BUT!!!!!!!
That's not what I'm here for |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dislike this assumption I see constantly that women only like men with HUGE dicks and six packs. Every time women on the forums say anything otherwise, they're dismissed. Like we don't know what we find attractive.
Define attraction?
Why? Everyone here knows what it means!
Big penis. Six pack.
But, but, but, BUT!!!!!!!
That's not what I'm here for "
Big penis. Six pack. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dislike this assumption I see constantly that women only like men with HUGE dicks and six packs. Every time women on the forums say anything otherwise, they're dismissed. Like we don't know what we find attractive.
Define attraction?
Why? Everyone here knows what it means!"
Really?
Taking your painting analogy when I look at a Picasso I see little by way of inspiration or beauty. However if you are talking Pollocks then I would suggest attraction is borne from the mind? |
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Thread killers (just the nasty ones) |
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"I love the site but a few little things for someone with a logical mind like mine just dont make sene. For example status updates saying wanting a guy or a big cock or something similar from a woman or couple but have blocked men.
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We may want big cock from the man in a couple, we don't block singles but I can see why some do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Six pack. |
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