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If someone sends you a face pic and the attraction isn’t there how do you end it?
Stop replying
Say sorry you’re not for me
Keep it going for a while in pretence then let it Peter out
In for a penny in for a pound? |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
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"If someone sends you a face pic and the attraction isn’t there how do you end it?
Stop replying
Say sorry you’re not for me
Keep it going for a while in pretence then let it Peter out
In for a penny in for a pound? "
women just block so i suggest if they aren't for you you do the same  |
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"If someone sends you a face pic and the attraction isn’t there how do you end it?
Stop replying
Say sorry you’re not for me
Keep it going for a while in pretence then let it Peter out
In for a penny in for a pound? "
I always say there’s no attraction for me and wish them happy fabbing.
That is if we have conversed. If there’s no attraction then it’s as simple as that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont mind what form the rejection takes. I get that I may be an acquired taste, and I’m not so egotistical to think that everyone’s gonna fancy a piece of this prime Stoke beefcake.
I’ll always let anyone down with sensitivity and thoughts for the feelings of the person on the receiving end. |
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I hate when people send me face pictures and then want an immediate response on if I want to fuck them.
Aesthetics aren't particularly important to me. No-one has a face so stunning I'd overlook the rest of them. |
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"I hate when people send me face pictures and then want an immediate response on if I want to fuck them.
Aesthetics aren't particularly important to me. No-one has a face so stunning I'd overlook the rest of them."
Good point but there’s bound to be a level that’s a hard no right? |
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"I hate when people send me face pictures and then want an immediate response on if I want to fuck them.
Aesthetics aren't particularly important to me. No-one has a face so stunning I'd overlook the rest of them.
Good point but there’s bound to be a level that’s a hard no right? "
Possibly? I can appreciate when someone is conventionally attractive, and I can recognise when someone has features that most would find unappealing. But how attracted I actually am to someone is generally far more dependant on how they excite me in all ways, not just the visual. |
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""Not for me thanks"
And if they're cute, but it's still a no
"Cute! But not for me thanks"
Wait why would they be cute but still no?"
Because I can appreciate someone being nice looking, but not quite to my taste |
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I just don't talk to people here like its a dating site, in honesty.
So if I see a face after a bit of chat, I just assume they're flexing about having eyes or something.
Which is pretty weird and therefore probably my type of friend.
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""Not for me thanks"
And if they're cute, but it's still a no
"Cute! But not for me thanks"
Wait why would they be cute but still no?
Because I can appreciate someone being nice looking, but not quite to my taste"
Ah yes of course I’m with you now |
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"I hate when people send me face pictures and then want an immediate response on if I want to fuck them.
Aesthetics aren't particularly important to me. No-one has a face so stunning I'd overlook the rest of them.
Good point but there’s bound to be a level that’s a hard no right?
Possibly? I can appreciate when someone is conventionally attractive, and I can recognise when someone has features that most would find unappealing. But how attracted I actually am to someone is generally far more dependant on how they excite me in all ways, not just the visual. "
Definitely agree that it’s not all about the visual |
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"If someone sends you a face pic and the attraction isn’t there how do you end it?
Stop replying
Say sorry you’re not for me
Keep it going for a while in pretence then let it Peter out
In for a penny in for a pound? "
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You forgot the "Block them" option. Many does that. |
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"Find it very awkward tbh! X
Me too
Me three. I just hate the thought of making someone feel bad about themselves or knocking their confidence. I hate it "
But you said to me you'd seen potatoes that looked better  |
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"Find it very awkward tbh! X
Me too
Me three. I just hate the thought of making someone feel bad about themselves or knocking their confidence. I hate it
But you said to me you'd seen potatoes that looked better "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My go to is ‘Thanks for the photo. You have nice x; however, I’m looking for someone a bit different than you. All the best. ‘
When I’ve said you’re not my type, in the past, the never ending messages of how they could be if I gave them a go did my head in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Last time this happened I said sorry you’re not for me, wishing you well.
Two days of pleading, begging, bribing, negging followed. Eventually I blocked  |
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"My go to is ‘Thanks for the photo. You have nice x; however, I’m looking for someone a bit different than you. All the best. ‘
When I’ve said you’re not my type, in the past, the never ending messages of how they could be if I gave them a go did my head in. "
Yes you raise a good point because a lot of men can’t actually accept and handle rejection |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Last time this happened I said sorry you’re not for me, wishing you well.
Two days of pleading, begging, bribing, negging followed. Eventually I blocked
You left it 2 days to long to block…  "
Was seeing how far he’d go! |
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Men often take bad pictures so if the conversation is going well I'll usually keep going with it. If after a social the attraction isn't there then i just tell them the chemistry wasnt there. They usually felt the same so it works out well. |
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over a year ago
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"Last time this happened I said sorry you’re not for me, wishing you well.
Two days of pleading, begging, bribing, negging followed. Eventually I blocked
You left it 2 days to long to block…
Was seeing how far he’d go!"
I’d go all the way fluffy, I always do  |
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"Last time this happened I said sorry you’re not for me, wishing you well.
Two days of pleading, begging, bribing, negging followed. Eventually I blocked
You left it 2 days to long to block…
Was seeing how far he’d go!"
All the way fingers crossed. Did you laugh hard? I love to laugh at that kind of shit. You’re supposed to be an adult mate. A no is a no |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Last time this happened I said sorry you’re not for me, wishing you well.
Two days of pleading, begging, bribing, negging followed. Eventually I blocked
You left it 2 days to long to block…
Was seeing how far he’d go!
All the way fingers crossed. Did you laugh hard? I love to laugh at that kind of shit. You’re supposed to be an adult mate. A no is a no "
He suggested I might lower my standards after a few drinks |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Men often take bad pictures so if the conversation is going well I'll usually keep going with it. If after a social the attraction isn't there then i just tell them the chemistry wasnt there. They usually felt the same so it works out well. "
Not me man I look peng in 100% of pictures I upload |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Last time this happened I said sorry you’re not for me, wishing you well.
Two days of pleading, begging, bribing, negging followed. Eventually I blocked
You left it 2 days to long to block…
Was seeing how far he’d go!
All the way fingers crossed. Did you laugh hard? I love to laugh at that kind of shit. You’re supposed to be an adult mate. A no is a no
He suggested I might lower my standards after a few drinks "
And , just out of curiosity, what was your answer to that question?….you know, like, would you? |
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"Last time this happened I said sorry you’re not for me, wishing you well.
Two days of pleading, begging, bribing, negging followed. Eventually I blocked
You left it 2 days to long to block…
Was seeing how far he’d go!
All the way fingers crossed. Did you laugh hard? I love to laugh at that kind of shit. You’re supposed to be an adult mate. A no is a no
He suggested I might lower my standards after a few drinks "
Ooh… don’t you just love those red flags
They fucking rock my world |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Last time this happened I said sorry you’re not for me, wishing you well.
Two days of pleading, begging, bribing, negging followed. Eventually I blocked
You left it 2 days to long to block…
Was seeing how far he’d go!
All the way fingers crossed. Did you laugh hard? I love to laugh at that kind of shit. You’re supposed to be an adult mate. A no is a no
He suggested I might lower my standards after a few drinks
Ooh… don’t you just love those red flags
They fucking rock my world "
Not forgetting ‘other woman don’t need an attraction to have sex’. Go shag them then |
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"Last time this happened I said sorry you’re not for me, wishing you well.
Two days of pleading, begging, bribing, negging followed. Eventually I blocked
You left it 2 days to long to block…
Was seeing how far he’d go!
All the way fingers crossed. Did you laugh hard? I love to laugh at that kind of shit. You’re supposed to be an adult mate. A no is a no
He suggested I might lower my standards after a few drinks
Ooh… don’t you just love those red flags
They fucking rock my world
Not forgetting ‘other woman don’t need an attraction to have sex’. Go shag them then "
This was awesome. Should go down in the Fab archive. It just had everything |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Last time this happened I said sorry you’re not for me, wishing you well.
Two days of pleading, begging, bribing, negging followed. Eventually I blocked
You left it 2 days to long to block…
Was seeing how far he’d go!
All the way fingers crossed. Did you laugh hard? I love to laugh at that kind of shit. You’re supposed to be an adult mate. A no is a no
He suggested I might lower my standards after a few drinks
Ooh… don’t you just love those red flags
They fucking rock my world
Not forgetting ‘other woman don’t need an attraction to have sex’. Go shag them then
This was awesome. Should go down in the Fab archive. It just had everything "
That’s why I kept it open so long |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I usually just say " sorry Fluffy, but you're just not for me""
That’s not what you said. You said I had a face only a mother could love. Then I told you she abandoned me to the wolves and you never messaged me again  |
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"I usually just say " sorry Fluffy, but you're just not for me"
That’s not what you said. You said I had a face only a mother could love. Then I told you she abandoned me to the wolves and you never messaged me again "
I'm allergic to dog hair
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By *edgirlWoman
over a year ago
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"But how attracted I actually am to someone is generally far more dependant on how they excite me in all ways, not just the visual."
100%! And even someone u think is attractive can be quite the opposite when u meet IRL. Sooo many factors! |
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"If someone sends you a face pic and the attraction isn’t there how do you end it?
Stop replying
Say sorry you’re not for me
Keep it going for a while in pretence then let it Peter out
In for a penny in for a pound? "
Just reply
Then block it's the decent thing to do  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just "I'm sorry but there's no attraction for me. Best of luck" or something like that. If it's the first messages I just say not what I'm looking for, so they don't assume it's their looks.
I've said no thanks to some decent looking chaps this week. They just didn't float my boat. And I won't float plenty of boats. It's life. |
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By *ags73Man
over a year ago
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"If someone sends you a face pic and the attraction isn’t there how do you end it?
Stop replying
Say sorry you’re not for me
Keep it going for a while in pretence then let it Peter out
In for a penny in for a pound? "
Is there a nearby office supplies store that sells paper bags at a reasonable price?
Hopefully you’ve got sharpies for the faces
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We range from saying sorry you aren’t for us to just ignoring our message box and hope they never message again 
Most of the time we are honest as there’s no point keeping the chat going with no interest.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I like a face pic early on and will say ' you dont fit what I'm looking for'. Most of the time they dont know if I meant I was not attracted to them. It could mean anything I've seen on their profile doesn't fit. Or their first message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like a face pic early on and will say ' you dont fit what I'm looking for'. Most of the time they dont know if I meant I was not attracted to them. It could mean anything I've seen on their profile doesn't fit. Or their first message."
The last time I wrote this, he said he had legs, arms, a head and a dick and what else could I possibly want? (Paraphrased) |
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"I like a face pic early on and will say ' you dont fit what I'm looking for'. Most of the time they dont know if I meant I was not attracted to them. It could mean anything I've seen on their profile doesn't fit. Or their first message.
The last time I wrote this, he said he had legs, arms, a head and a dick and what else could I possibly want? (Paraphrased) "
And then what did you say?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like a face pic early on and will say ' you dont fit what I'm looking for'. Most of the time they dont know if I meant I was not attracted to them. It could mean anything I've seen on their profile doesn't fit. Or their first message.
The last time I wrote this, he said he had legs, arms, a head and a dick and what else could I possibly want? (Paraphrased)
And then what did you say? "
By his reckoning I should sleep with every guy on the site! |
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