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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
We all have to balance the (sometimes) conflicting demands on our time. Mine is probably 45% work, 30% home life, 5% CPD and the remaining 20% socialising, gym, hobbies etc. Right now I hava good balance but it has not alwyas been like that.
What is yours and what would you like to be different? |
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over a year ago
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"We all have to balance the (sometimes) conflicting demands on our time. Mine is probably 45% work, 30% home life, 5% CPD and the remaining 20% socialising, gym, hobbies etc. Right now I hava good balance but it has not alwyas been like that.
What is yours and what would you like to be different? "
Mine is 75% working away from home 15% away from home when not working, so not a lot left to be with the people I love. Need to change that soon. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Life just wobbles from one thing to the next.
Fail to plan, and its a lot more fun than being predictable.
Grand kids are lifes glue, and keep life all together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We all have to balance the (sometimes) conflicting demands on our time. Mine is probably 45% work, 30% home life, 5% CPD and the remaining 20% socialising, gym, hobbies etc. Right now I hava good balance but it has not alwyas been like that.
What is yours and what would you like to be different? "
I think your %'s are all wrong
For starters ur on here for about 12 bloody hours a day |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We all have to balance the (sometimes) conflicting demands on our time. Mine is probably 45% work, 30% home life, 5% CPD and the remaining 20% socialising, gym, hobbies etc. Right now I hava good balance but it has not alwyas been like that.
What is yours and what would you like to be different?
I think your %'s are all wrong
For starters ur on here for about 12 bloody hours a day "
Your point being ?????? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We all have to balance the (sometimes) conflicting demands on our time. Mine is probably 45% work, 30% home life, 5% CPD and the remaining 20% socialising, gym, hobbies etc. Right now I hava good balance but it has not alwyas been like that.
What is yours and what would you like to be different?
I think your %'s are all wrong
For starters ur on here for about 12 bloody hours a day
Your point being ??????"
For one it was aimed at the OP not you and for two, it was meant tongue in cheek |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry didnt realise it was a private forum;-)
But she multi tasks like all females.
So its probably spot on "
as i said, it was banter between friends (albeit in a public forum) and there was really no point in the comment other than that banter
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry didnt realise it was a private forum;-)
But she multi tasks like all females.
So its probably spot on
as i said, it was banter between friends (albeit in a public forum) and there was really no point in the comment other than that banter
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Hey its all fun, didnt mean to cause apologise genuinely. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Way too much work at the moment. Our workload is always higher in the winter, this year it's about 10% higher than last and on top of that increase out of a team of 6 we have 1 on longterm sick... Long hours and tiredness problem explain a winter of minor illnesses and injuries that have pretty much kept me off the bike and running distorting the work/life balance even further.
Just had a weeks holiday which was my first holiday in 13 months but aim to get the balance more inline over the next few weeks |
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"Sorry didnt realise it was a private forum;-)
But she multi tasks like all females.
So its probably spot on "
I don't multi task. That's a rumour put around by people who want stupid women to do more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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50hrs a week working = 30%
35hrs a week sleeping = 21%
So that leaves me 83hrs a week 49% to fit my household chores, family, hobbies and socialising in...plenty of time |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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Currently too many hours working and driving to work. Every hour being a mum. Not enough quality sleep.
Not enough free time and not enough time to do anything really.
My current balance is not good. When I start my new job and finish my current job it will be easier. Hoping for a little more child free time but chances are slim.
Barely eaten this week as get me and kids home then bath and bed.
Roll on free time and lots of naughtiness x |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
Last night I was having a few conversations off site about the topic of balance - what seems to me is that most of us, including people in the scene, lack the time to have fun. No, I dont mean sexy fun ... I mean clean fun to havea laugh, a giggle, a chat with people with no particular purpose.
It seems a lot of us are caught in being too adult too much of the time? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Last night I was having a few conversations off site about the topic of balance - what seems to me is that most of us, including people in the scene, lack the time to have fun. No, I dont mean sexy fun ... I mean clean fun to havea laugh, a giggle, a chat with people with no particular purpose.
It seems a lot of us are caught in being too adult too much of the time? "
Mine's a perfect balance. I plan in advance, got a few outings and meets booked. In fact I'm off on an adventure right now. Just having a coffee break.
We're a long time dead. Every day has to have something good in it or what's the point...? |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Last night I was having a few conversations off site about the topic of balance - what seems to me is that most of us, including people in the scene, lack the time to have fun. No, I dont mean sexy fun ... I mean clean fun to havea laugh, a giggle, a chat with people with no particular purpose.
It seems a lot of us are caught in being too adult too much of the time?
Mine's a perfect balance. I plan in advance, got a few outings and meets booked. In fact I'm off on an adventure right now. Just having a coffee break.
We're a long time dead. Every day has to have something good in it or what's the point...? "
That is great to hear, Scarlet - hope you have a lovely time. And yes, I agree life is short and we need to make the best of those hours we are given on a daily basis - they are like a credit in the bank that you loose at the end of the day unless you spent them. |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"On the whole, my life is about 50% work, 25% sleep, 10% family duties, leaving 15% for eating and relaxing" Sounds quite good to me.. and it sounds as if you are happy with it, whcih is the main thing |
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"On the whole, my life is about 50% work, 25% sleep, 10% family duties, leaving 15% for eating and relaxingSounds quite good to me.. and it sounds as if you are happy with it, whcih is the main thing "
I am very happy with it today, I am balanced horzontally on my sofa |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"On the whole, my life is about 50% work, 25% sleep, 10% family duties, leaving 15% for eating and relaxingSounds quite good to me.. and it sounds as if you are happy with it, whcih is the main thing
I am very happy with it today, I am balanced horzontally on my sofa"
Now that sounds quite inviting |
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"On the whole, my life is about 50% work, 25% sleep, 10% family duties, leaving 15% for eating and relaxingSounds quite good to me.. and it sounds as if you are happy with it, whcih is the main thing
I am very happy with it today, I am balanced horzontally on my sofa
Now that sounds quite inviting "
you're welcome anytime |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"On the whole, my life is about 50% work, 25% sleep, 10% family duties, leaving 15% for eating and relaxingSounds quite good to me.. and it sounds as if you are happy with it, whcih is the main thing
I am very happy with it today, I am balanced horzontally on my sofa
Now that sounds quite inviting
you're welcome anytime"
Makes note in diary |
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"On the whole, my life is about 50% work, 25% sleep, 10% family duties, leaving 15% for eating and relaxingSounds quite good to me.. and it sounds as if you are happy with it, whcih is the main thing
I am very happy with it today, I am balanced horzontally on my sofa
Now that sounds quite inviting
you're welcome anytime
Makes note in diary "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My life balance? "
thats a good question .......... do u think she means are u alive or dead ......... I am 100% alive !!!! although parts feel aged!!!! lol |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"My life balance?
Not great, 70pc work 20pc recovery time 10pc social " If you intend to spend some of the social time in a meaningful way that you will never ever forget - speak to Minxie! |
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"My life balance?
thats a good question .......... do u think she means are u alive or dead ......... I am 100% alive !!!! although parts feel aged!!!! lol "
All my bits are alive could do with a couple of new eyes though lol x |
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"My life balance?
Not great, 70pc work 20pc recovery time 10pc social If you intend to spend some of the social time in a meaningful way that you will never ever forget - speak to Minxie! "
where's Leighton Buzzard anyone? lol I dont think I have created any chaos and mayhem close to there recently lol!!!!! |
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"My life balance?
Not great, 70pc work 20pc recovery time 10pc social If you intend to spend some of the social time in a meaningful way that you will never ever forget - speak to Minxie!
where's Leighton Buzzard anyone? lol I dont think I have created any chaos and mayhem close to there recently lol!!!!! "
I know where it is lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My life balance?
Not great, 70pc work 20pc recovery time 10pc social If you intend to spend some of the social time in a meaningful way that you will never ever forget - speak to Minxie!
where's Leighton Buzzard anyone? lol I dont think I have created any chaos and mayhem close to there recently lol!!!!!
I know where it is lol "
Really !!!!! u surprise me !!!! |
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"My life balance?
Not great, 70pc work 20pc recovery time 10pc social If you intend to spend some of the social time in a meaningful way that you will never ever forget - speak to Minxie!
where's Leighton Buzzard anyone? lol I dont think I have created any chaos and mayhem close to there recently lol!!!!!
I know where it is lol
Really !!!!! u surprise me !!!! "
I'm not as silly as you thought ha ha ha
It's Bedfordshire. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My life balance?
Not great, 70pc work 20pc recovery time 10pc social If you intend to spend some of the social time in a meaningful way that you will never ever forget - speak to Minxie!
where's Leighton Buzzard anyone? lol I dont think I have created any chaos and mayhem close to there recently lol!!!!!
I know where it is lol
Really !!!!! u surprise me !!!!
I'm not as silly as you thought ha ha ha
It's Bedfordshire. "
Its not u that's silly !!!!!! where is Bedfordshire ............???? lol |
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"An interesting question as ever..
would say of late very different to the past..
must'nt grumble..
And yet we tend to always complain, dont we "
think its an easy option for some, its 'their fault' and they will be many many different reasons..
not easy to take a good hard look at oneself and take stock, accept one may have gotten things wrong and then sort it..
seen too many retire and within a cpl of yrs your stood in a pub after their funeral reminiscing..
work to live not the other way round.. |
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"My life balance?
Not great, 70pc work 20pc recovery time 10pc social If you intend to spend some of the social time in a meaningful way that you will never ever forget - speak to Minxie!
where's Leighton Buzzard anyone? lol I dont think I have created any chaos and mayhem close to there recently lol!!!!!
I know where it is lol "
always handy to know where one lives.. |
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"My life balance?
Not great, 70pc work 20pc recovery time 10pc social If you intend to spend some of the social time in a meaningful way that you will never ever forget - speak to Minxie!
where's Leighton Buzzard anyone? lol I dont think I have created any chaos and mayhem close to there recently lol!!!!!
I know where it is lol
always handy to know where one lives.."
Sat nav sorts it out for me lol |
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"My life balance?
Not great, 70pc work 20pc recovery time 10pc social If you intend to spend some of the social time in a meaningful way that you will never ever forget - speak to Minxie!
where's Leighton Buzzard anyone? lol I dont think I have created any chaos and mayhem close to there recently lol!!!!!
I know where it is lol
always handy to know where one lives..
Sat nav sorts it out for me lol "
an absolute must to avoid getting lost in MK..!!
rumour has it there are as yet undiscovered tribes wandering about MK looking for a way out.. |
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"My life balance?
Not great, 70pc work 20pc recovery time 10pc social If you intend to spend some of the social time in a meaningful way that you will never ever forget - speak to Minxie!
where's Leighton Buzzard anyone? lol I dont think I have created any chaos and mayhem close to there recently lol!!!!!
I know where it is lol
always handy to know where one lives..
Sat nav sorts it out for me lol
an absolute must to avoid getting lost in MK..!!
rumour has it there are as yet undiscovered tribes wandering about MK looking for a way out.."
Don't be silly, they're all dead by now.. Anyway it's a simple system |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Where would you know? Not too far from Milton Keynes xx
Yep I know where that one is ......... bingo !!!!!!! lol
Now that you know!!!
yeah .................... and???
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"Where would you know? Not too far from Milton Keynes xx
Yep I know where that one is ......... bingo !!!!!!! lol
Now that you know!!!
yeah .................... and???
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No excuse not finding it lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Where would you know? Not too far from Milton Keynes xx
Yep I know where that one is ......... bingo !!!!!!! lol
Now that you know!!!
yeah .................... and???
No excuse not finding it lol "
I could think of plenty of excuses .........lol |
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"Where would you know? Not too far from Milton Keynes xx
Yep I know where that one is ......... bingo !!!!!!! lol
Now that you know!!!
yeah .................... and???
No excuse not finding it lol
I could think of plenty of excuses .........lol " oh thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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my life is 100% daughter..
3/7 days im working (12 hour days)
4/7 days im purely a 'mum'
its the right balance for us.
my own time is in the evenings, at night or when she has afternoon naps (like now) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"juggle balls and spin plates lol
At the same time?
u would be surprised wot I can do ...........
I love surprises "
really .............. am laughing now |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"juggle balls and spin plates lol
At the same time?
u would be surprised wot I can do ...........
I love surprises
really .............. am laughing now
I'm not surprised!!"
Where's Aphro ........... I really think u need rescuing ......... lol |
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"juggle balls and spin plates lol
At the same time?
u would be surprised wot I can do ...........
I love surprises
really .............. am laughing now
I'm not surprised!!
Where's Aphro ........... I really think u need rescuing ......... lol "
From what? Am I at risk? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"juggle balls and spin plates lol
At the same time?
u would be surprised wot I can do ...........
I love surprises
really .............. am laughing now
I'm not surprised!!
Where's Aphro ........... I really think u need rescuing ......... lol
From what? Am I at risk? "
Errrrrrrrrr some on here think I should come with a safety warning !!!!!!! lol |
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"juggle balls and spin plates lol
At the same time?
u would be surprised wot I can do ...........
I love surprises
really .............. am laughing now
I'm not surprised!!
Where's Aphro ........... I really think u need rescuing ......... lol
From what? Am I at risk?
Errrrrrrrrr some on here think I should come with a safety warning !!!!!!! lol "
I've had a decent run, if I have to go, best to go smiling... |
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"juggle balls and spin plates lol
At the same time?
u would be surprised wot I can do ...........
I love surprises
really .............. am laughing now
I'm not surprised!!
Where's Aphro ........... I really think u need rescuing ......... lol
From what? Am I at risk?
Errrrrrrrrr some on here think I should come with a safety warning !!!!!!! lol
I've had a decent run, if I have to go, best to go smiling..."
Do you know ventnor villas on hove? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"juggle balls and spin plates lol
At the same time?
u would be surprised wot I can do ...........
I love surprises
really .............. am laughing now
I'm not surprised!!
Where's Aphro ........... I really think u need rescuing ......... lol
From what? Am I at risk?
Errrrrrrrrr some on here think I should come with a safety warning !!!!!!! lol
I've had a decent run, if I have to go, best to go smiling..."
ure brave !!!!! lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"juggle balls and spin plates lol
At the same time?
u would be surprised wot I can do ...........
I love surprises
really .............. am laughing now
I'm not surprised!!
Where's Aphro ........... I really think u need rescuing ......... lol
From what? Am I at risk?
Errrrrrrrrr some on here think I should come with a safety warning !!!!!!! lol
I've had a decent run, if I have to go, best to go smiling...
Do you know ventnor villas on hove? "
I know where it is but not what goes on there??? .............. |
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"juggle balls and spin plates lol
At the same time?
u would be surprised wot I can do ...........
I love surprises
really .............. am laughing now
I'm not surprised!!
Where's Aphro ........... I really think u need rescuing ......... lol
From what? Am I at risk?
Errrrrrrrrr some on here think I should come with a safety warning !!!!!!! lol
I've had a decent run, if I have to go, best to go smiling...
Do you know ventnor villas on hove?
I know where it is but not what goes on there??? .............. "
I have friends there, least I think they're still there... |
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