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Very roughly, what’s the split of your Fab sexual conquests:
1) Searched for and set up by you
2) As a result of being searched for and set up by them
3) Lounge chat / socials / clubs etc
I’d say I’m about 60/30/10, but that’s over the whole seven years. The ratio has tipped massively the other way in the last two. |
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"I would say 10/20/70. I mostly go out to socials and clubs to try and just meet people and very rarely do the chase on here as it can get very tiring, very quickly so any sexual meets I have had, have pretty much been as a result of them messaging first."
Snap! 
It does work well, doesn’t it? |
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I would say 5/10/85. I mostly go out to socials and clubs to try and just meet people and very rarely do the chase on here as it can get very tiring, very quickly so any sexual meets I have had, have pretty much been as a result of them messaging first. |
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"I would say 5/10/85. I mostly go out to socials and clubs to try and just meet people and very rarely do the chase on here as it can get very tiring, very quickly so any sexual meets I have had, have pretty much been as a result of them messaging first."
Blimey Joe, that changed quickly! Have you been to a social in the last three minutes?!!  |
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"I would say 10/20/70. I mostly go out to socials and clubs to try and just meet people and very rarely do the chase on here as it can get very tiring, very quickly so any sexual meets I have had, have pretty much been as a result of them messaging first.
Snap!
It does work well, doesn’t it? "
Ooooops! I adjusted the ratios as compared to other, I underestimated how many socials I go to but the same rule applies |
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"I would say 5/10/85. I mostly go out to socials and clubs to try and just meet people and very rarely do the chase on here as it can get very tiring, very quickly so any sexual meets I have had, have pretty much been as a result of them messaging first.
Blimey Joe, that changed quickly! Have you been to a social in the last three minutes?!! "
Haha I saw everyone else's ratios and underestimated how social I am compared to having private meets |
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My ratio has changed to what it used to be. I used to meet more from me messaging people but it seems much harder work these days.
I find clubs and socials are a lot easier way to meet people. |
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"I would say 10/20/70. I mostly go out to socials and clubs to try and just meet people and very rarely do the chase on here as it can get very tiring, very quickly so any sexual meets I have had, have pretty much been as a result of them messaging first.
Snap!
It does work well, doesn’t it?
Ooooops! I adjusted the ratios as compared to other, I underestimated how many socials I go to but the same rule applies "
I see! Still makes sense to me, and great it works for you too. |
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Mainly initiated by me.
A couple of times i was approached.
And a couple of times I was approached when I popped up on someone’s “near me” list … quite brilliantly in one case it was a lady who I had approached, she said she wasn’t interested, and then she approached me when she realised I was nearby. I chose not to mention the previous rejection … |
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"I would say 10/20/70. I mostly go out to socials and clubs to try and just meet people and very rarely do the chase on here as it can get very tiring, very quickly so any sexual meets I have had, have pretty much been as a result of them messaging first.
Snap!
It does work well, doesn’t it?
Ooooops! I adjusted the ratios as compared to other, I underestimated how many socials I go to but the same rule applies
I see! Still makes sense to me, and great it works for you too."
It definitely does, I have to travel further and probably make more of an effort but it's worth it as opposed to moaning about not getting any meets |
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"My ratio has changed to what it used to be. I used to meet more from me messaging people but it seems much harder work these days.
I find clubs and socials are a lot easier way to meet people."
Same here and that’s why I mentioned the change in the past couple of years. It used to be that it was 100% me chasing. Now I’m more social in the forums and at organised socials, I find good things come out of that. |
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"My ratio has changed to what it used to be. I used to meet more from me messaging people but it seems much harder work these days.
I find clubs and socials are a lot easier way to meet people.
Same here and that’s why I mentioned the change in the past couple of years. It used to be that it was 100% me chasing. Now I’m more social in the forums and at organised socials, I find good things come out of that."
It's just so much easier face to face isn't it. |
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"0/0/100
All via organised socials and clubs. Some of that was discovering real life chemistry with people we'd chatted to on here though.
J"
Oh, and that other time but I wasn't there for that one and I know B will be silent on that. 
J |
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1) 0%. Nobody replied to my messages.
2) 12.5% (I’ve had one meet)
3) 87.5%. All but one is from the forums. That one was my first ever meet and from the chatrooms before I discovered the forums.
(if my maths is correct but I’ve basically forgotten percentages and most of my GCSE) |
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"Very roughly, what’s the split of your Fab sexual conquests:
1) Searched for and set up by you
2) As a result of being searched for and set up by them
3) Lounge chat / socials / clubs etc
I’d say I’m about 60/30/10, but that’s over the whole seven years. The ratio has tipped massively the other way in the last two."
BFZ.
Big.
Fat.
Zero.
*tears of sadness emoji...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"1) 0% - I don't search
2) 10% - set up mutually though
3) 90% - easier to chat in person socially
Especially as I hear you’re not *that* off putting in real life…."
Exactly what's wrong with online, people like to listen to others FAR too much!
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"I would say 10/20/70. I mostly go out to socials and clubs to try and just meet people and very rarely do the chase on here as it can get very tiring, very quickly so any sexual meets I have had, have pretty much been as a result of them messaging first.
Snap!
It does work well, doesn’t it?
Ooooops! I adjusted the ratios as compared to other, I underestimated how many socials I go to but the same rule applies
I see! Still makes sense to me, and great it works for you too.
It definitely does, I have to travel further and probably make more of an effort but it's worth it as opposed to moaning about not getting any meets"
I was about to add that.
I think this is a great thread to get people to understand that the usual advice given “go to clubs or organised socials” actually works. |
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"1) 0%. Nobody replied to my messages.
2) 12.5% (I’ve had one meet)
3) 87.5%. All but one is from the forums. That one was my first ever meet and from the chatrooms before I discovered the forums.
(if my maths is correct but I’ve basically forgotten percentages and most of my GCSE)"
Well done Mr Pickle, you dunn addin up good.
Believe me I checked mine about eight times before posting otherwise I’d never have heard the end of it!!! |
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"I would say 10/20/70. I mostly go out to socials and clubs to try and just meet people and very rarely do the chase on here as it can get very tiring, very quickly so any sexual meets I have had, have pretty much been as a result of them messaging first.
Snap!
It does work well, doesn’t it?
Ooooops! I adjusted the ratios as compared to other, I underestimated how many socials I go to but the same rule applies
I see! Still makes sense to me, and great it works for you too.
It definitely does, I have to travel further and probably make more of an effort but it's worth it as opposed to moaning about not getting any meets
I was about to add that.
I think this is a great thread to get people to understand that the usual advice given “go to clubs or organised socials” actually works. "
It really does, doesn’t it. I think once you can be in front of someone in an informal setting where the ultimate goal (for right then) isn’t necessarily sex, people relax and be more themselves. We find it easier to assess whether they suit us or not and get to form a connection which would probably never be formed by text.
Then you can bang like animals |
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1) Searched for and set up by you - 40%
2) As a result of being searched for and set up by them 50%
3) Lounge chat / socials / clubs etc - 10% (to be) 
Miss S x |
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"I would say 10/20/70. I mostly go out to socials and clubs to try and just meet people and very rarely do the chase on here as it can get very tiring, very quickly so any sexual meets I have had, have pretty much been as a result of them messaging first.
Snap!
It does work well, doesn’t it?
Ooooops! I adjusted the ratios as compared to other, I underestimated how many socials I go to but the same rule applies
I see! Still makes sense to me, and great it works for you too.
It definitely does, I have to travel further and probably make more of an effort but it's worth it as opposed to moaning about not getting any meets
I was about to add that.
I think this is a great thread to get people to understand that the usual advice given “go to clubs or organised socials” actually works.
It really does, doesn’t it. I think once you can be in front of someone in an informal setting where the ultimate goal (for right then) isn’t necessarily sex, people relax and be more themselves. We find it easier to assess whether they suit us or not and get to form a connection which would probably never be formed by text.
Then you can bang like animals "
That’s indeed, very true.
And we do |
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"1) 0%. Nobody replied to my messages.
2) 12.5% (I’ve had one meet)
3) 87.5%. All but one is from the forums. That one was my first ever meet and from the chatrooms before I discovered the forums.
(if my maths is correct but I’ve basically forgotten percentages and most of my GCSE)
Well done Mr Pickle, you dunn addin up good.
Believe me I checked mine about eight times before posting otherwise I’d never have heard the end of it!!!"
I got a B  |
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"Very roughly, what’s the split of your Fab sexual conquests …"
I really don’t know, but the massive majority over the past couple of years have been from forum chat.
Even when women have contacted me out of the blue, it usually turns out to be because they’ve seen me around on the forums. |
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"Very roughly, what’s the split of your Fab sexual conquests:
1) Searched for and set up by you
2) As a result of being searched for and set up by them
3) Lounge chat / socials / clubs etc
I’d say I’m about 60/30/10, but that’s over the whole seven years. The ratio has tipped massively the other way in the last two."
0/0/0
So undefeated.. technically |
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"Very roughly, what’s the split of your Fab sexual conquests:
1) Searched for and set up by you
2) As a result of being searched for and set up by them
3) Lounge chat / socials / clubs etc
I’d say I’m about 60/30/10, but that’s over the whole seven years. The ratio has tipped massively the other way in the last two.
0/0/0
So undefeated.. technically "
Booooo!! The wins are so much sweeter after a few defeats. Go for it my son.
(I’m not your real dad). |
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"Very roughly, what’s the split of your Fab sexual conquests …
I really don’t know, but the massive majority over the past couple of years have been from forum chat.
Even when women have contacted me out of the blue, it usually turns out to be because they’ve seen me around on the forums."
Laying on the couch… do you ever think you may spend too much time on the Fab Forum darling? |
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"Very roughly, what’s the split of your Fab sexual conquests:
1) Searched for and set up by you
2) As a result of being searched for and set up by them
3) Lounge chat / socials / clubs etc
I’d say I’m about 60/30/10, but that’s over the whole seven years. The ratio has tipped massively the other way in the last two.
0/0/0
So undefeated.. technically
Booooo!! The wins are so much sweeter after a few defeats. Go for it my son.
(I’m not your real dad)."
They need to read your reply to even start this game
I'm rarely reaching out to people anymore on here.
I just check in, chat some shit and do one. |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
the abyss |
"0/0/50
Mainly just here to say hi Felix 
Hello gorgeous lady!!! It’s been too long, I hope everything is good with you xx
Ps your maths is shit "
Nope - because I very often don't get anywhere 
Very good but would be better with a lick 
Hope you are well?x |
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"0/0/50
Mainly just here to say hi Felix
Hello gorgeous lady!!! It’s been too long, I hope everything is good with you xx
Ps your maths is shit
Nope - because I very often don't get anywhere
Very good but would be better with a lick
Hope you are well?x"
I can lick… just saying  |
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"0/0/50
Mainly just here to say hi Felix
Hello gorgeous lady!!! It’s been too long, I hope everything is good with you xx
Ps your maths is shit
Nope - because I very often don't get anywhere
Very good but would be better with a lick
Hope you are well?x"
I refuse to believe you rarely get anywhere!
I am good thanks but would love a good lickin. Even you up and do the other side. And maybe the middle…. |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
the abyss |
"0/0/50
Mainly just here to say hi Felix
Hello gorgeous lady!!! It’s been too long, I hope everything is good with you xx
Ps your maths is shit
Nope - because I very often don't get anywhere
Very good but would be better with a lick
Hope you are well?x
I can lick… just saying "
Do I only get one lick? If so you I get to choose the place |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
the abyss |
"0/0/50
Mainly just here to say hi Felix
Hello gorgeous lady!!! It’s been too long, I hope everything is good with you xx
Ps your maths is shit
Nope - because I very often don't get anywhere
Very good but would be better with a lick
Hope you are well?x
I refuse to believe you rarely get anywhere!
I am good thanks but would love a good lickin. Even you up and do the other side. And maybe the middle…."
Yes!! I feel very out of balance and it's been ruining me if I'm honest! You just jilted me after one |
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"0/0/50
Mainly just here to say hi Felix
Hello gorgeous lady!!! It’s been too long, I hope everything is good with you xx
Ps your maths is shit
Nope - because I very often don't get anywhere
Very good but would be better with a lick
Hope you are well?x
I can lick… just saying
Do I only get one lick? If so you I get to choose the place "
I would like to lick you all over darling… constantly |
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
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"Ooh interesting question. I would say 1/95/4
That’s very specific HC!! But I’m not surprised to see you are sought after. You’re not bad looking for a 45 year old  "
45?! The Specsavers voucher is in the post! |
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