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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have not.
I tend I to keep my perspective and expectations within a certain criteria and constraints, that I won’t go in to here.
However my wife also has a profile here and caught the feels a couple of times, and has been honest about them, and we’ve dealt with them. It might not be LOVE, but she recognised the signs and flags early enough.
I think it can be easy to do, if you’re not diligent. In this environment you’re getting (mainly) only the good perspectives, not the bad, the parts people want you to see, versus the parts they do not.
It’s the painted pictures & avatars of theirselves, and not necessarily a view of authenticity.
However that said, it’s my understanding The longer people are on here, they live more authentically here. I think maybe in a way the sites member do expect it.
I love those profiles that are 100% authentic and offer nothing but cold hard facts. Also The people I’m interacting with are typically the 1%.
Be diligent and frugal with your emotions, keep yourself boxed in and set your expectations appropriately. |
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