Men: have you ever used it with a casual partner?
Women: if you found out a partner used it, would it change anything for you?
Trans: does this ever… *ahem* come up for you?
Also - women who suffer from libido issues - if there was an equivalent to sort female sexual dysfunction, would you take it?
Men, would that change anything for you? |
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over a year ago
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Went through a phase in my mid 20s where I got in my own head and every time I was about to have sex, I just could not stay hard.
Used Viagra and it did the trick and after a while all became natural again. |
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By *ddie1966Man
over a year ago
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Never used it. Never had to.
There may come a day when it might assist, but I've been told it only works if you're in the mood in yhe first place
And i wouldn't be offended if there was a female version that a partner took.
What's sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander after all. |
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I take it because, after treatment for prostate cancer, I need to; just not producing eneough testosterone to keep going for any length of time. It wouldn't bother me if a woman took an equivalent if she needed to; why should it? |
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Tried it once and it was bloody good to be fair.
Felt a bit rough the morning after but I had been drinking too.
Not in a rush to use it again but I don't have anything against people using it for what ever reasons.
Maybe the closest women have to it is lube. Wouldn't feel offended if they used that |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
I’d never encountered anybody who had been open about using it before, then someone told me they’d taken it and I must confess I just assumed that I wasn’t quite doing it for them and they needed help.
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"Tried it once and it was bloody good to be fair.
Felt a bit rough the morning after but I had been drinking too.
Not in a rush to use it again but I don't have anything against people using it for what ever reasons.
Maybe the closest women have to it is lube. Wouldn't feel offended if they used that"
Rough in what way? |
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"Tried it once and it was bloody good to be fair.
Felt a bit rough the morning after but I had been drinking too.
Not in a rush to use it again but I don't have anything against people using it for what ever reasons.
Maybe the closest women have to it is lube. Wouldn't feel offended if they used that
Rough in what way?"
It was a bit like a mild hangover |
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Mr uses it semi-regular.
He has zero problems, he had his testosterone levels checked before he bought it.
He just likes to occasionally have it to hand when we go to clubs on nights he's feeling a little tired or his backs hurting from a busy week at work etc.
Tip for those prescribed Tramadol who may look to use Viagra. It heightens it lol makes it last longer, makes it even harder. Speak to your GP first! |
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"Tried it once and it was bloody good to be fair.
Felt a bit rough the morning after but I had been drinking too.
Not in a rush to use it again but I don't have anything against people using it for what ever reasons.
Maybe the closest women have to it is lube. Wouldn't feel offended if they used that
Rough in what way?
It was a bit like a mild hangover "
Out of interest, were you prescribed it by a doctor?
Most pills are 40mg, I think you can get 20 too
Guys without serious issues can get great results with 5mg and none of the next day negative effects
40 mg is for much older guys with serious ED
If you wanted, you could try breaking a pill into 1/4s to see how you get on
40mg blow my head off. Stuffy nose, headache etc
5/10mg is hard but in the right way |
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"I’d never encountered anybody who had been open about using it before, then someone told me they’d taken it and I must confess I just assumed that I wasn’t quite doing it for them and they needed help.
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My friend who this recently happened to with a casual someone thought this. She got really upset about it.
I don’t know how I would feel but it also would depend on how I found out. The guy told her while he was finishing with her. Which I think is really mean. |
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Not Viagra per se, but other stuff yes.
Usually when I'm with a new partner, when/if I'm anxious.
100% won't have half past 6 without any effort, so no attention taken away from the partner.
Only bad thing is, that sometimes my nose gets blocked and get slight heartburn.
It's not a regular thing anyway. |
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"Tried it once and it was bloody good to be fair.
Felt a bit rough the morning after but I had been drinking too.
Not in a rush to use it again but I don't have anything against people using it for what ever reasons.
Maybe the closest women have to it is lube. Wouldn't feel offended if they used that
Rough in what way?
It was a bit like a mild hangover
Out of interest, were you prescribed it by a doctor?
Most pills are 40mg, I think you can get 20 too
Guys without serious issues can get great results with 5mg and none of the next day negative effects
40 mg is for much older guys with serious ED
If you wanted, you could try breaking a pill into 1/4s to see how you get on
40mg blow my head off. Stuffy nose, headache etc
5/10mg is hard but in the right way "
I was given it by someone I know who advised only to take half a tablet so I would of had about 20mg.
I just wanted to try it to be honest to see what the fuss was about. It was good if you're planning a session |
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"I’ll admit that I’m curious. I’d like to try it sometime, just recreationally.
There will be plenty on here who have tried it but won't admit it  "
Is it something to be ashamed of? I take cold medicine and aspirin… |
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"I’ll admit that I’m curious. I’d like to try it sometime, just recreationally.
There will be plenty on here who have tried it but won't admit it
Is it something to be ashamed of? I take cold medicine and aspirin… "
No.
But there's male egos at stake. |
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"I’ll admit that I’m curious. I’d like to try it sometime, just recreationally.
There will be plenty on here who have tried it but won't admit it
Is it something to be ashamed of? I take cold medicine and aspirin…
No.
But there's male egos at stake."
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"I’ll admit that I’m curious. I’d like to try it sometime, just recreationally.
There will be plenty on here who have tried it but won't admit it
Is it something to be ashamed of? I take cold medicine and aspirin…
No.
But there's male egos at stake.
*gulp*"
Be more than a gulp with viagra involved |
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"I’ll admit that I’m curious. I’d like to try it sometime, just recreationally.
There will be plenty on here who have tried it but won't admit it
Is it something to be ashamed of? I take cold medicine and aspirin…
No.
But there's male egos at stake.
*gulp*
Be more than a gulp with viagra involved "
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over a year ago
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"Also - women who suffer from libido issues - if there was an equivalent to sort female sexual dysfunction, would you take it?"
For anyone that needs to know, there are two equivalents for women who may need help with their libidos. Flibanserin and Bremelanotide. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
I have used it, Just about every sex mad guy I know has used it, just in case, or to guarantee an all nighter , more so when young and a little bit worried about performance.
Now…. I think I’d take embarrassment vs side effects |
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By *andyrod1Man
over a year ago
St Margaret's at Cliffe |
I take it after being put on blood pressure medication, l only take a 20mg tablet but usually cut it in half, it certainly does the job and the side effects are usually a stuffy nose and reddening of the face. |
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We've been to parties where their are bowls of viagra and people are taking them like smarties.
Some people need them due to medication age etc others use them in group situations it's definitely nothing to be ashamed of tho and has absolutely nothing to do with the women their sleeping with.
I took one years ago as i was told it gave women a wide on it did absolutely nothing to me.
Theirs a lot of bullshit medication that supposedly helps women with their libido during menopause but if they had something that was medically proven then I wouldn't have no issues using it and I definitely wouldn't be ashamed. |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago
Transsexual Transylvania |
I've never used it. I've never been with someone who's used it (that I'm aware of). I tend to be soft when I'm bottoming, but it doesn't bother me, and there are guys who like it if their tgirl isn't hard.
I sometimes enjoy using p0ppers, and the advice is not to use both, so I wouldn't use it. Probably.
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"I've never used it. I've never been with someone who's used it (that I'm aware of). I tend to be soft when I'm bottoming, but it doesn't bother me, and there are guys who like it if their tgirl isn't hard.
I sometimes enjoy using p0ppers, and the advice is not to use both, so I wouldn't use it. Probably.
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I thought everyone is mostly soft when bottoming. Maybe not?
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"Also - women who suffer from libido issues - if there was an equivalent to sort female sexual dysfunction, would you take it?
For anyone that needs to know, there are two equivalents for women who may need help with their libidos. Flibanserin and Bremelanotide. "
I’ve never heard of either so thank you for the PSA… time for Google |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago
Transsexual Transylvania |
"I've never used it. I've never been with someone who's used it (that I'm aware of). I tend to be soft when I'm bottoming, but it doesn't bother me, and there are guys who like it if their tgirl isn't hard.
I sometimes enjoy using p0ppers, and the advice is not to use both, so I wouldn't use it. Probably.
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I thought everyone is mostly soft when bottoming. Maybe not?
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Nooooooooo lol
Some of the gurls here stay hard as a rock.  |
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"I've never used it. I've never been with someone who's used it (that I'm aware of). I tend to be soft when I'm bottoming, but it doesn't bother me, and there are guys who like it if their tgirl isn't hard.
I sometimes enjoy using p0ppers, and the advice is not to use both, so I wouldn't use it. Probably.
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I thought everyone is mostly soft when bottoming. Maybe not?
Nooooooooo lol
Some of the gurls here stay hard as a rock. "
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Great!
Then I'm not good with that either. |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"I’ll admit that I’m curious. I’d like to try it sometime, just recreationally.
There will be plenty on here who have tried it but won't admit it
Is it something to be ashamed of? I take cold medicine and aspirin… "
it absolutely is forbidden to admit you take it  |
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"I’d never encountered anybody who had been open about using it before, then someone told me they’d taken it and I must confess I just assumed that I wasn’t quite doing it for them and they needed help.
No. When you've had certain types of operation, it screws your ability to get erect. I'm always upfront about it, and it only ever caused an issue once
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"I’ll admit that I’m curious. I’d like to try it sometime, just recreationally.
There will be plenty on here who have tried it but won't admit it
Is it something to be ashamed of? I take cold medicine and aspirin… it absolutely is forbidden to admit you take it "
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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago
Transsexual Transylvania |
"I've never used it. I've never been with someone who's used it (that I'm aware of). I tend to be soft when I'm bottoming, but it doesn't bother me, and there are guys who like it if their tgirl isn't hard.
I sometimes enjoy using p0ppers, and the advice is not to use both, so I wouldn't use it. Probably.
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I thought everyone is mostly soft when bottoming. Maybe not?
Nooooooooo lol
Some of the gurls here stay hard as a rock.
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Great!
Then I'm not good with that either."
It's really not a competition, hun.  . Be yourself - that's the most attractive thing you can do, if you ask me. |
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I’ve took cialis when going to clubs. I don’t need it all but it’s just a little bit of reassurance that I’m not going to flop and have to stand in the corner while my wife has the time of her life. |
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I need pills for other stuff, so what if a guy needs Viagra? Wouldn't bat an eyelid if I knew about it.
Would be fun to give it to him knowing what was going to happen, especially if he made me wait and sit on my hands  |
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"I need pills for other stuff, so what if a guy needs Viagra? Wouldn't bat an eyelid if I knew about it.
Would be fun to give it to him knowing what was going to happen, especially if he made me wait and sit on my hands "
Or use your hands to perform the hardening trick |
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"I have to use occasionally due to medication I am on plus stupid diabetes.
I hate taking them, they make me feel awful.
*hugs* like emotionally, or are there physical side effects? "
Side effects.
Nausea, pounding headache for a couple of days after, dizzy,face like a beetroot, blocked sinuses.
It makes taking it a waste of time as even with an hard on I don't feel remotely sexy.
And that's just taking a quarter of a tablet I think if I took a whole tablet my head would explode scanners style. |
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By *host63Man
over a year ago
Bedfont Feltham |
I have used it to good effect at greedy girl parties I have been to But it's true it's not the magic pill people think.
You.really do have to be
in th mood in the first place.
First time I used it I had bad headaches and just felt unwell. Not had any since. I use it very infrequently though.
And as someone said the Female equivalent is Lube and that doesn't bother me much either so if there was a pill for women it's not a problem |
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"I've never used it. I've never been with someone who's used it (that I'm aware of). I tend to be soft when I'm bottoming, but it doesn't bother me, and there are guys who like it if their tgirl isn't hard.
I sometimes enjoy using p0ppers, and the advice is not to use both, so I wouldn't use it. Probably.
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I thought everyone is mostly soft when bottoming. Maybe not?
Nooooooooo lol
Some of the gurls here stay hard as a rock.
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Great!
Then I'm not good with that either.
It's really not a competition, hun. . Be yourself - that's the most attractive thing you can do, if you ask me. "
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That's working out really well.
My popularity is a 1 figure number.
My attractiveness here could be explained as second to none, but not in a pretty way.
I'm just being real now, not looking for pity, or being moody.
See? ^
***I bet I will lose my superpower in a second. (Invisibility)*** |
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"I have to use occasionally due to medication I am on plus stupid diabetes.
I hate taking them, they make me feel awful.
*hugs* like emotionally, or are there physical side effects? "
According to my Heart Consultant physical effects for me if I use Viagra would be a Stroke at best or a Cardiac Arrest at worst.
As I have a desire to live a few more years I will not be taking viagra which ultimately means no penetrative sex  |
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over a year ago
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I wonder how much porn has had a role to play in the use of Viagra in men with men feeling like they need to stay rock hard for ages in order to please and whether women expect the same of men. |
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By *oe11109Man
over a year ago
Barrow in Furness |
I took it a few times with my FWB, it gave me irregular hear beats and to be honest it didnt have any effect with my erections, but at least i can say ive tried it. A good woman is all that is required  |
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A quarter of one keeps me hard as fuck and can repeat too , dunno if I should take any now coz I'm on heart meds but fuck it ain't nothing bad happened yet , also I'd never take a full one as it ain't needed ?? |
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"A quarter of one keeps me hard as fuck and can repeat too , dunno if I should take any now coz I'm on heart meds but fuck it ain't nothing bad happened yet , also I'd never take a full one as it ain't needed ??"
I’d consult with your GP, but ye good luck. |
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over a year ago
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I took it with one woman because I was desperate not to disappoint her and wanted to ensure I stayed erect for as long as possible for her.
Gave me a headache and I needed have worried anyway as she always had me so turned on it wasn't necessary. |
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over a year ago
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I used it about 3 or 4 times with a former fwb. We had been chatting about it and we both agreed it would be fun to try and see if it was any different from sex without it.
The 2 things I noticed were I could go a little bit harder without cumming and I recovered quicker between "rounds". So it was a win-win for both of us. |
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never taken it as i don't need to bottoming, but plenty of men i have been with take it especially when they come to sauna and for me its good as they are harder for longer which mean more pleasure for me
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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago
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Due to diabetes problems I sometimes have to.
Wish it was not the case but it is what it is.
If a woman where to turn her nose up at me because i use, They would disappoint me as its no harm to them. |
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"I wonder how much porn has had a role to play in the use of Viagra in men with men feeling like they need to stay rock hard for ages in order to please and whether women expect the same of men."
This is a proper question. |
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"I’d never encountered anybody who had been open about using it before, then someone told me they’d taken it and I must confess I just assumed that I wasn’t quite doing it for them and they needed help.
My friend who this recently happened to with a casual someone thought this. She got really upset about it.
I don’t know how I would feel but it also would depend on how I found out. The guy told her while he was finishing with her. Which I think is really mean."
For anyone else wondering about this be assured that if the guy doesn't fancy you then no amount of Viagra will get him hard. |
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over a year ago
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"I’d never encountered anybody who had been open about using it before, then someone told me they’d taken it and I must confess I just assumed that I wasn’t quite doing it for them and they needed help.
My friend who this recently happened to with a casual someone thought this. She got really upset about it.
I don’t know how I would feel but it also would depend on how I found out. The guy told her while he was finishing with her. Which I think is really mean.
For anyone else wondering about this be assured that if the guy doesn't fancy you then no amount of Viagra will get him hard. "
Exactly. Some women seem to think that's how it works and feel insulted if you take it. |
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"I wouldn't want to meet a guy who's taken it just to try and be some kind of sport fucker
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How would you know it???
Same erection with or without."
Potentially not, I found it was a lot harder when taking it. |
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"I’d never encountered anybody who had been open about using it before, then someone told me they’d taken it and I must confess I just assumed that I wasn’t quite doing it for them and they needed help.
My friend who this recently happened to with a casual someone thought this. She got really upset about it.
I don’t know how I would feel but it also would depend on how I found out. The guy told her while he was finishing with her. Which I think is really mean.
For anyone else wondering about this be assured that if the guy doesn't fancy you then no amount of Viagra will get him hard. "
I will tell her that. She was in quite a state, her mental health took a huge dive. |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"I wonder how much porn has had a role to play in the use of Viagra in men with men feeling like they need to stay rock hard for ages in order to please and whether women expect the same of men.
This is a proper question."
proper proper? |
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"I wouldn't want to meet a guy who's taken it just to try and be some kind of sport fucker
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How would you know it???
Same erection with or without.
Potentially not, I found it was a lot harder when taking it."
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Apparently (hearsay waiting for confirmation) massive cocks don't get as hard as not massive cocks.
Might be the only benefit of not being hung 
I'm always hard as a rock, but without an effort if something's taken.
No difference at all, but no distraction can deflate the excitement.
(Willy might have stage fright before the performance of a lifetime?)
As I said I rarely take it, as it's interfering with my airways slightly, if taken too early. |
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Wouldn't bother me in the slightest. From speaking to men though, I think some guys use it when they perhaps don't really need it. Just want a wee bit of reassurance or the confidence boost of appearing rock solid. |
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over a year ago
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"Men: have you ever used it with a casual partner?
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Not yet. But I guy gave me some taking the piss about my age. I don’t quite know what they’ll do
Is it to get harder? Or go longer?
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"I’d never encountered anybody who had been open about using it before, then someone told me they’d taken it and I must confess I just assumed that I wasn’t quite doing it for them and they needed help.
My friend who this recently happened to with a casual someone thought this. She got really upset about it.
I don’t know how I would feel but it also would depend on how I found out. The guy told her while he was finishing with her. Which I think is really mean.
For anyone else wondering about this be assured that if the guy doesn't fancy you then no amount of Viagra will get him hard.
I will tell her that. She was in quite a state, her mental health took a huge dive."
I hope she feels better, trashing someone's self esteem to make yourself feel good is a cuntish thing to do. |
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By *lder.Woman
over a year ago
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Ive had a partner who would take it as he was affected by anti depressants. Ive met people from here who said they may need to take it when we meet, as far as I know they didnt in the end. It does make the hard
-on harder. If its a cock I know well, I could tell if he had taken a pill. The only thing that irked me about it a bit was, his cock was almost too hard and it made him go on for too long. I dont mind the up and down of a cock in general, if it slacks off whilst we do other things it is nice to get it risen again.
At the moment I would swallow anything if it helped me to feel a bit hornier yes. |
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"I’d never encountered anybody who had been open about using it before, then someone told me they’d taken it and I must confess I just assumed that I wasn’t quite doing it for them and they needed help.
My friend who this recently happened to with a casual someone thought this. She got really upset about it.
I don’t know how I would feel but it also would depend on how I found out. The guy told her while he was finishing with her. Which I think is really mean.
For anyone else wondering about this be assured that if the guy doesn't fancy you then no amount of Viagra will get him hard.
I will tell her that. She was in quite a state, her mental health took a huge dive.
I hope she feels better, trashing someone's self esteem to make yourself feel good is a cuntish thing to do. "
What makes you assume they tried to trash anyone’s self esteem? Sounds more like a misunderstanding |
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"Not Viagra per se, but other stuff yes.
Usually when I'm with a new partner, when/if I'm anxious.
100% won't have half past 6 without any effort, so no attention taken away from the partner.
Only bad thing is, that sometimes my nose gets blocked and get slight heartburn.
It's not a regular thing anyway. "
can I ask what other stuff you use please as Viagra no longer works for me Steve |
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"I have used it. Once. Wild night and it was needed as there are a few substances out there that ruin your boner.
Ah what a great night tho.  "
That's one time a casual has used it with me,I never judged ha ha
The certain substance made for great sex just needed a hand getting the tool right for it.
Again several years ago now |
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By *adgerMan
over a year ago
york |
I’ve used it when having long meets (4hrs plus) …. I’ve no problem getting hard but it certainly helps me to get hard again quicker after I’ve cum but doesn’t make me harder
No real side effects apart from feeling a bit flushed occasionally |
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