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By *andPextra OP Couple
over a year ago
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We spent a fair while writing ours and I’d say the majority, based on the messages we get would appear not to have read it.
Obvs, the option is there to delete most of it.
My question is has anyone ever had a detailed profile and replaced it? Id be interested to hear if it made any difference. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get lots of messages referencing certain phrases i had in mine - I've actually just tidied it up a bit, but cornflakes, Alice and shit show were frequently mentioned 
So on reflection its probably 50 : 50 between the wuu22nbb and those who read it /reference something. |
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I used to get stupid messages from people who didn't read mine so I changed it to make it simple for them.
I've still had a few messages mostly from couples telling me they knew I didn't believe a word of what I'd written and this was how it would actually go down..... |
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"We spent a fair while writing ours and I’d say the majority, based on the messages we get would appear not to have read it.
Obvs, the option is there to delete most of it.
My question is has anyone ever had a detailed profile and replaced it? Id be interested to hear if it made any difference. "
It's long. Most men would give up, but that might be what you want |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think most people read profile bios honestly. About 95 percent of the messages I get are just wuu2 or its some 30 year old masc/straight dude. I have shortened mine down a bit to try and make it more concise, it hasn't done much. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are no where near 50% reading it. If its 5%i’d be amazed. Im wondering if the photos need toning down or reducing to see if that makes a difference? "
OP you can hit 'reply and quote' on the comment and then we'll be able to track replies  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was always taught that words are cheap, judge people by their actions
Which is why I ignore the bio and just assume theyre gagging for it from anyone. Why else would they be on a sex site |
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By *andPextra OP Couple
over a year ago
North West |
"We spent a fair while writing ours and I’d say the majority, based on the messages we get would appear not to have read it.
Obvs, the option is there to delete most of it.
My question is has anyone ever had a detailed profile and replaced it? Id be interested to hear if it made any difference.
It's long. Most men would give up, but that might be what you want"
Thanks- we thought explaining what we like once would sabe having to repeat it over and over |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are no where near 50% reading it. If its 5%i’d be amazed. Im wondering if the photos need toning down or reducing to see if that makes a difference? "
Wait, there was a profile written? All I got to were the photos which I duly fabbed. |
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We read profiles, more than once usually as we want to make sure we only engage with who we think there will be a chance of taking things further.
Length of profile doesn't bother us much as much as coherence and fluidity.
There are some very interesting long profiles on here full of fab anecdotes and funny one liners. |
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By *andPextra OP Couple
over a year ago
North West |
"We are no where near 50% reading it. If its 5%i’d be amazed. Im wondering if the photos need toning down or reducing to see if that makes a difference?
OP you can hit 'reply and quote' on the comment and then we'll be able to track replies "
Thank you. Forum virgin. If you hadnt guessed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are no where near 50% reading it. If its 5%i’d be amazed. Im wondering if the photos need toning down or reducing to see if that makes a difference?
OP you can hit 'reply and quote' on the comment and then we'll be able to track replies
Thank you. Forum virgin. If you hadnt guessed "
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By *ags73Man
over a year ago
glasgow-ish |
"We are no where near 50% reading it. If its 5%i’d be amazed. Im wondering if the photos need toning down or reducing to see if that makes a difference? "
Pictures are great. Maybe more of mister and together and reduce the number.
It’s the lowest base that is generating the messages, guys bored and likely masturbating as they go through profiles. (Sorry) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Instead of asking do people read profiles the better question is why should people read profiles? If the first few lines or paragraph aren’t enough to convey who you and what you’re about complete strangers aren’t going to read the rest. |
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"My question is has anyone ever had a detailed profile and replaced it? Id be interested to hear if it made any difference. "
Yes, we had a longer profile (no way near long enough as yours though and since trimming it down and making it more punchy, we are getting contacts from folks more on our wavelength. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think most folk just look at the pictures. The first line of our profile asks people not to wink as we don't respond to them, yet we seem to mostly get winks. 
MrWho. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Instead of asking do people read profiles the better question is why should people read profiles? If the first few lines or paragraph aren’t enough to convey who you and what you’re about complete strangers aren’t going to read the rest. "
Agreed - your opening line needs to be the bait that makes you read the rest |
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"We spent a fair while writing ours and I’d say the majority, based on the messages we get would appear not to have read it.
Obvs, the option is there to delete most of it.
My question is has anyone ever had a detailed profile and replaced it? Id be interested to hear if it made any difference. "
I always make an effort to read a profile and tailor my message accordingly, which is frustrating when all they say is something like "Want dick now" |
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"We spent a fair while writing ours and I’d say the majority, based on the messages we get would appear not to have read it.
Obvs, the option is there to delete most of it.
My question is has anyone ever had a detailed profile and replaced it? Id be interested to hear if it made any difference. "
I read all profiles, which usually takes about 5 seconds as they are so short.
When i went to read jiur profile i at first rhoight oh no its a long one (whichbtend to be boring) your profile text isnt boring, it flows and is informative.
I would therefore use the "They didn't read the profile" as a filter. |
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By *andPextra OP Couple
over a year ago
North West |
"We spent a fair while writing ours and I’d say the majority, based on the messages we get would appear not to have read it.
Obvs, the option is there to delete most of it.
My question is has anyone ever had a detailed profile and replaced it? Id be interested to hear if it made any difference.
Thanks- some good advice here, albeit as i’d guessed no concrete answer. i guess we shall play about with it and see how we go
I read all profiles, which usually takes about 5 seconds as they are so short.
When i went to read jiur profile i at first rhoight oh no its a long one (whichbtend to be boring) your profile text isnt boring, it flows and is informative.
I would therefore use the "They didn't read the profile" as a filter."
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By *andPextra OP Couple
over a year ago
North West |
"Instead of asking do people read profiles the better question is why should people read profiles? If the first few lines or paragraph aren’t enough to convey who you and what you’re about complete strangers aren’t going to read the rest. "
An angle we hadn’t considered. Thanks  |
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Some do, some don’t.
Some will, some won’t.
Just do you OPs. It won’t change the standard of response from those who would never read it if you put FREE TITS AND A MILLION QUID HERE on your profile.
You would still get Hey! / Fuck now/ How are you messages |
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By *andPextra OP Couple
over a year ago
North West |
"Some do, some don’t.
Some will, some won’t.
Just do you OPs. It won’t change the standard of response from those who would never read it if you put FREE TITS AND A MILLION QUID HERE on your profile.
You would still get Hey! / Fuck now/ How are you messages "
I think this answer a) wins and b) is sadly true
Thanks all |
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By *etMaxMan
over a year ago
Leighton Buzzard |
I do enjoy this topic. Lime a few single guys have mentioned here I too write my messages with reference to the content of a profile I like and share interest with.
I do all the face pic bit.
I understand the amount of messages single ladies get and don’t expect a reply but recently the attitude is to immediately get blocked.
It’s only happened to me twice but a friend has it happen regularly.
If someone could explain that I would appreciate the advice. |
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By *andPextra OP Couple
over a year ago
North West |
"I do enjoy this topic. Lime a few single guys have mentioned here I too write my messages with reference to the content of a profile I like and share interest with.
I do all the face pic bit.
I understand the amount of messages single ladies get and don’t expect a reply but recently the attitude is to immediately get blocked.
It’s only happened to me twice but a friend has it happen regularly.
If someone could explain that I would appreciate the advice. "
We block those who send a friend request with no message and anything obviously grim in terms of message. We are not stupid, its a sex site.
But “id love to split your arsehole open bitch” (true message) is not a conversation starter. Thats a block.
The other thing that grates is obvious cut and pastes that have been sent to hundreds.
If its very generic, or the “hi, wot u up to” we simply just delete them. Wouldn’t block tho. |
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"I do enjoy this topic. Lime a few single guys have mentioned here I too write my messages with reference to the content of a profile I like and share interest with.
I do all the face pic bit.
I understand the amount of messages single ladies get and don’t expect a reply but recently the attitude is to immediately get blocked.
It’s only happened to me twice but a friend has it happen regularly.
If someone could explain that I would appreciate the advice. "
Some guys lose their shit when told no or when a message isn't responded to. Blocking prevents abuse. It's not personal. |
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"I do enjoy this topic. Lime a few single guys have mentioned here I too write my messages with reference to the content of a profile I like and share interest with.
I do all the face pic bit.
I understand the amount of messages single ladies get and don’t expect a reply but recently the attitude is to immediately get blocked.
It’s only happened to me twice but a friend has it happen regularly.
If someone could explain that I would appreciate the advice. "
I generally don’t block like that but will delete most messages unread. It’s just another filter and you and your friend should take it as a no thanks  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do read profiles.
With my own it’s trying to simplify as it was too much and too long "
I made mine intentionally longer. *true story.
If they pop into read it, I want to waste their time before they think of trying to waste mine. |
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By *etMaxMan
over a year ago
Leighton Buzzard |
I absolutely agree with you and understand that if your approach is rude and often continues with no response you should be blocked but for a person to do it after 1 messages with content and interest. I didn’t get it.
Apologies for the typo in my original post. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do enjoy this topic. Lime a few single guys have mentioned here I too write my messages with reference to the content of a profile I like and share interest with.
I do all the face pic bit.
I understand the amount of messages single ladies get and don’t expect a reply but recently the attitude is to immediately get blocked.
It’s only happened to me twice but a friend has it happen regularly.
If someone could explain that I would appreciate the advice. "
Ive taken to blocking anyone that messages and doesn't fit what I'm looking for. Because I used to reply back saying 'you don't fit' but they wait a few weeks and come back again..and I can't be doing with repeating myself. So I block to save the hassle in both sides.
And replying back wasn't being respected or taken notice of, so why bother. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just looked at the pictures  sorry OP.
I did read a bit but at a certain point I stopped."
I looked at and fabbed the photos, but only after fully reading the profile - which I thought was good and clear. Obvious I don't fit your requirements but wish you good look on fabs  |
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By *etMaxMan
over a year ago
Leighton Buzzard |
I understand and again I agree with you too. We have a right to our choices and if a person persists and is a pain in the arse they should get blocked.
Ladies and couples get hundreds of messages so also see the bulk deleting. I have been on here as a couple your many years before.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I absolutely agree with you and understand that if your approach is rude and often continues with no response you should be blocked but for a person to do it after 1 messages with content and interest. I didn’t get it.
Apologies for the typo in my original post. "
I think it us covered in the FAQs - no response is 'a no thank you'.. Blocking just means that when women are searching they are filtering out anyone whose profile doesn't appeal to them.
Personally i would never send face pics in an intro message as you don't know what the receiver might do with them, but obviously that is your choice (and I'm probably happily in the minority) |
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We just changed our for the new year however on the last profile we put who we did not want and finished with the same list of what we did not want.
No one under30 yrs
No one in the Postcode area
The amount of people who messaged outside of those 2 parameters was amazing.
We have now set age preference & that's reduced the delete button a fair bit |
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"We spent a fair while writing ours and I’d say the majority, based on the messages we get would appear not to have read it.
Obvs, the option is there to delete most of it.
My question is has anyone ever had a detailed profile and replaced it? Id be interested to hear if it made any difference. "
I have literally just deleted mine and replaced with the basics after realising no one reads it and I delete most messages after reading |
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"I absolutely agree with you and understand that if your approach is rude and often continues with no response you should be blocked but for a person to do it after 1 messages with content and interest. I didn’t get it.
Apologies for the typo in my original post. "
Some people are ever so polite and respectful... until you say no.
Try not to take it personally, it's probably just that the person on the other side has seen some shit - which has nothing to do with you, but they don't want to take their chances. They have no idea who'll flip out. |
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Most of the time I know that whoever has messaged me hasn't read my profile. Will I change it? Probably not, lays out what I'd like. Also, if it's obvious that they haven't read my profile then block comes easier |
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By *andPextra OP Couple
over a year ago
North West |
"Your either gonna be someone's type or your not , I dunno why guys struggle with it , someone replied to me once saying no thanks and I replied no worries and moved on"
TBF when we have said “no” we havent had what others have alluded to in terms of a snotty or rude one back. At the end of the day people have a choice who they engage with, so if someone says no to us we just SUMO (shut up, move on) |
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Also I don't put alot in my profile because I hope if someone wants to get to know me they'll message and get to know me , if you write to much on your profile I feel like it can kill a conversation very quickly |
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I'll definitely read a profile. The longer the profile, the better. After all, what is a profile if not a C.V., where the other party can detail what they are looking for ? That then saves all parties time too. It also helps others who self-filter.
It's also a good indicator of their level of education and also intellect, which might be important to some (e.g., sapiosexuals).
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"I actually prefer a full, well written profile to ones with loads of hot pictures but no hint about the personality of whoever is behind those pictures."
Me too. That’s why I have mine like it is. I’m an open book |
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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago
My own little world |
"Nah who's got time for that
Id hope people who’d actually want to meet us  "
I'm sure most actually would tbf,
Was just being slightly jokey as most ladies/couples who have messaged me it's been clear they've not read it first and think I'm still here to play blind date |
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It's a tough one. I read every profile that takes my interest to make sure I am not wasting their time. But some profiles are long to the point of it being difficult to find exactly what they are looking for.
Although if a profile is written in block caps I'm gone immediately |
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By *ddie1966Man
over a year ago
Paper Town Central, Essex. |
Always.
If someone's taken the time and patience to write a profile, I owe it to them to read it.
Generally, I ignore the really, really short ones.
If they can't be arsed, then neither can I. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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I think there is actually a possibility that more people read profiles than we think do, it's just that the people who read a profile and dont message because they see they're not compatible are outweighed by the number of people that either read it and "shoot their shot" anyway or just dont read it.
We will never know. |
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"I actually prefer a full, well written profile to ones with loads of hot pictures but no hint about the personality of whoever is behind those pictures.
You may be in the minority  "
Or maybe most people who read profiles actually realise "hey I'm not what this human/humans is looking for" and just move on without getting in touch...leaving only the "hei wana fuk now" crowd to send messages |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think there is actually a possibility that more people read profiles than we think do, it's just that the people who read a profile and dont message because they see they're not compatible are outweighed by the number of people that either read it and "shoot their shot" anyway or just dont read it.
We will never know. "
Interesting point. Though it still feels like a large majority of those who do message haven't read it. The point is to deter the incompatible ones so who knows how much that is actually working. |
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By *erby DomCouple
over a year ago
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"I think there is actually a possibility that more people read profiles than we think do, it's just that the people who read a profile and dont message because they see they're not compatible are outweighed by the number of people that either read it and "shoot their shot" anyway or just dont read it.
We will never know. "
I think you have made a very intuitive and valid point, I think you are spot on there. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I think there is actually a possibility that more people read profiles than we think do, it's just that the people who read a profile and dont message because they see they're not compatible are outweighed by the number of people that either read it and "shoot their shot" anyway or just dont read it.
We will never know.
Interesting point. Though it still feels like a large majority of those who do message haven't read it. The point is to deter the incompatible ones so who knows how much that is actually working."
Oh absolutely. A large majority of those who message probably haven't read it... I was just pondering on those who didn't message really. |
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By *ags73Man
over a year ago
glasgow-ish |
"I think there is actually a possibility that more people read profiles than we think do, it's just that the people who read a profile and dont message because they see they're not compatible are outweighed by the number of people that either read it and "shoot their shot" anyway or just dont read it.
We will never know. "
I’ve read a profile sometimes a few times and a single word or phrase puts me off messaging. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I think there is actually a possibility that more people read profiles than we think do, it's just that the people who read a profile and dont message because they see they're not compatible are outweighed by the number of people that either read it and "shoot their shot" anyway or just dont read it.
We will never know. I think you have made a very intuitive and valid point, I think you are spot on there."
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Oh absolutely. A large majority of those who message probably haven't read it... I was just pondering on those who didn't message really."
You could message everyone who looked at your profile and did not get in touch and ask |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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Oh absolutely. A large majority of those who message probably haven't read it... I was just pondering on those who didn't message really.
You could message everyone who looked at your profile and did not get in touch and ask "
Oh god no. Several reasons why not...
1) My profile says I won't read a message anyway so if they were going to message and didn't they're just time saving.
2) I've no idea who has looked at me.
3) I'm not actually that fussed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love reading profiles, far more interesting and informative than pics usually. Mine is lengthy but actually only takes a minute or two to read. If you want to meet me surely a couple of minutes isn't wasted and if you don't then you won't have wasted time messaging me. Win, win!
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By *agondaMan
over a year ago
Witterings |
"I love reading profiles, far more interesting and informative than pics usually. Mine is lengthy but actually only takes a minute or two to read. If you want to meet me surely a couple of minutes isn't wasted and if you don't then you won't have wasted time messaging me. Win, win!
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Yours is fascinating … I need to add to mine |
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"We spent a fair while writing ours and I’d say the majority, based on the messages we get would appear not to have read it.
Obvs, the option is there to delete most of it.
My question is has anyone ever had a detailed profile and replaced it? Id be interested to hear if it made any difference. "
Like you I’d guesss most don’t bother to read and just message.
But it makes it easier to give a polite reply of….i don’t think you read our profile did you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think profiles are rarely read. However, guys who stand out clearly demonstrate they’ve taken note. The rest can be deleted so they do work to some extent ( I think) |
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"I get lots of messages referencing certain phrases i had in mine - I've actually just tidied it up a bit, but cornflakes, Alice and shit show were frequently mentioned
So on reflection its probably 50 : 50 between the wuu22nbb and those who read it /reference something. "
Perhaps it’s skewed for you?
Exquisite creature commands attention in more ways than one! |
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We currently have single men on message block, I'd say that has eliminated around 95% of messages from people who aren't strong readers.
Considering the messages we used to get, I do feel sorry for people who are looking for single men. I'm sure there are a handful who are lovely. The others... Bleh. |
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"We are no where near 50% reading it. If its 5%i’d be amazed. Im wondering if the photos need toning down or reducing to see if that makes a difference? "
My comments would be that pics of H would be welcome, and also front-and-centre that you're only interested in FF play, instead of 2/3 into the text.
Neither of those will limit people not reading your profile, it's just my thoughts. |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"We spent a fair while writing ours and I’d say the majority, based on the messages we get would appear not to have read it.
Obvs, the option is there to delete most of it.
My question is has anyone ever had a detailed profile and replaced it? Id be interested to hear if it made any difference. "
nope most don't read them, i do and i read into what you've written |
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If a profile catches my attention and I want to get in contact then I'm going to read the profile.
Short profiles with no info or just generic statements don't get my attention.
I'm not fond of overly fond of long bio's but that's my attention span and not the writer's issue so I will read it if I'm motivated.
Mine started fairly long and I found that once I removed all the bits that weren't for my target audience and all the bits that were obvious or redundant then I was happy with it.
It's been the same for a while now and sometimes I feel like I should write a new one but then I read it and I feel like nope, that's me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think there is actually a possibility that more people read profiles than we think do, it's just that the people who read a profile and dont message because they see they're not compatible are outweighed by the number of people that either read it and "shoot their shot" anyway or just dont read it.
We will never know. "
Why will we never ever see this post promoted more ? Thank you!!!!!
Because that there is me. (Im sure I’m not unique) I’ve only sent to anyone I can see I match with. |
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Short or long the same people who don't read profiles still won't read the profile.
For me it depends on how much I'm into the profile to read it, if it starts demanding and entitled I won't read further, status updates will also affect wether I read it or not, those 1st few lines can make or break it for me.
Saying that I don't look to meet off here currently so looking at profiles at the moment isn't some I do much of.
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People will read your status update and think they’ll get a reply regardless so I think that will be a big reason why people message too.
Great pics - gorgeous figure - only woman in pics - guys are going to message thinking you are a Hotwife or couples may think you play alone.
Some people will always think they are the exception - so regardless of you changing it, some, with your profile being so long, will just think ‘CBA, they’ll read my profile and fall in love with me/us’
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I wouldn’t just read one randomly. 
