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I’m always the one asking
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Last thread because I need to go and eat.
Who asks to see who first? Is it always you asking? Are you always getting asked? Do you hate asking and never ask? |
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At the moment, we rarely ask just because logistics mean it's likely we're not going to be able to meet up easily. I might be able to meet on my own in certain circumstances, but access is the big issue and so again, it's very rare. Also my stupid health  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"2:1 ratio. I’m only gonna ask for every 2 times she asks. Helps set the tone of the situation "
Does this not require quite the roster? What if you are free but you’ve asked recently? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"2:1 ratio. I’m only gonna ask for every 2 times she asks. Helps set the tone of the situation
Does this not require quite the roster? What if you are free but you’ve asked recently? "
Come on dude, you know you gotta play the game. Sometimes that means taking one for the greater good
Or keep a decent roster going |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"2:1 ratio. I’m only gonna ask for every 2 times she asks. Helps set the tone of the situation
Does this not require quite the roster? What if you are free but you’ve asked recently?
Come on dude, you know you gotta play the game. Sometimes that means taking one for the greater good
Or keep a decent roster going "
I’m currently squad building. But also I usually am the one that asks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m usually the asker but that’s because I chase what I want. But sometimes it’s nice to be asked. Makes me feel…. desired."
It’s true. That feeling desired thing is underrated |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"2:1 ratio. I’m only gonna ask for every 2 times she asks. Helps set the tone of the situation
Does this not require quite the roster? What if you are free but you’ve asked recently?
Come on dude, you know you gotta play the game. Sometimes that means taking one for the greater good
Or keep a decent roster going
I’m currently squad building. But also I usually am the one that asks"
Being too available is a mood killer
Play the game and the squad builds itself.
Stay toxic |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"2:1 ratio. I’m only gonna ask for every 2 times she asks. Helps set the tone of the situation
Does this not require quite the roster? What if you are free but you’ve asked recently?
Come on dude, you know you gotta play the game. Sometimes that means taking one for the greater good
Or keep a decent roster going
I’m currently squad building. But also I usually am the one that asks
Being too available is a mood killer
Play the game and the squad builds itself.
Stay toxic "
You’re like the devil on my shoulder  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I miss someone I usually make sure they know. If I want to arrange something I'll ask. I am asked more often by people who need to plan further ahead. It’s nice to go both ways."
I feel this. It’s rare people don’t ask to see me. There’s only like 2 people that never ask. But I don’t read into it.
But it’s nice you tell them. That’s so good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"2:1 ratio. I’m only gonna ask for every 2 times she asks. Helps set the tone of the situation
Does this not require quite the roster? What if you are free but you’ve asked recently?
Come on dude, you know you gotta play the game. Sometimes that means taking one for the greater good
Or keep a decent roster going
I’m currently squad building. But also I usually am the one that asks
Being too available is a mood killer
Play the game and the squad builds itself.
Stay toxic You’re like the devil on my shoulder "
If you ever ask and they aren’t free, give it 5 and text them “hey I actually am free tonight now, come over” then delete it from WhatsApp
I don’t make the rules |
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"If I miss someone I usually make sure they know. If I want to arrange something I'll ask. I am asked more often by people who need to plan further ahead. It’s nice to go both ways.
I feel this. It’s rare people don’t ask to see me. There’s only like 2 people that never ask. But I don’t read into it.
But it’s nice you tell them. That’s so good"
I try to make sure I express the nice things sometimes. I know I can come across as cold, but the people I care about deserve to know that I care  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"2:1 ratio. I’m only gonna ask for every 2 times she asks. Helps set the tone of the situation
Does this not require quite the roster? What if you are free but you’ve asked recently?
Come on dude, you know you gotta play the game. Sometimes that means taking one for the greater good
Or keep a decent roster going
I’m currently squad building. But also I usually am the one that asks
Being too available is a mood killer
Play the game and the squad builds itself.
Stay toxic You’re like the devil on my shoulder
If you ever ask and they aren’t free, give it 5 and text them “hey I actually am free tonight now, come over” then delete it from WhatsApp
I don’t make the rules "
LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL
nah this is elite game.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"2:1 ratio. I’m only gonna ask for every 2 times she asks. Helps set the tone of the situation
Does this not require quite the roster? What if you are free but you’ve asked recently?
Come on dude, you know you gotta play the game. Sometimes that means taking one for the greater good
Or keep a decent roster going
I’m currently squad building. But also I usually am the one that asks
Being too available is a mood killer
Play the game and the squad builds itself.
Stay toxic You’re like the devil on my shoulder
If you ever ask and they aren’t free, give it 5 and text them “hey I actually am free tonight now, come over” then delete it from WhatsApp
I don’t make the rules
LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL
nah this is elite game. "
Fairs man. Respect |
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"If I miss someone I usually make sure they know. If I want to arrange something I'll ask. I am asked more often by people who need to plan further ahead. It’s nice to go both ways.
I feel this. It’s rare people don’t ask to see me. There’s only like 2 people that never ask. But I don’t read into it.
But it’s nice you tell them. That’s so good
I try to make sure I express the nice things sometimes. I know I can come across as cold, but the people I care about deserve to know that I care "
That is so perfect |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I miss someone I usually make sure they know. If I want to arrange something I'll ask. I am asked more often by people who need to plan further ahead. It’s nice to go both ways.
I feel this. It’s rare people don’t ask to see me. There’s only like 2 people that never ask. But I don’t read into it.
But it’s nice you tell them. That’s so good
I try to make sure I express the nice things sometimes. I know I can come across as cold, but the people I care about deserve to know that I care "
You don’t come across as cold at all. You come across as very very loving actually. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"If I miss someone I usually make sure they know. If I want to arrange something I'll ask. I am asked more often by people who need to plan further ahead. It’s nice to go both ways.
I feel this. It’s rare people don’t ask to see me. There’s only like 2 people that never ask. But I don’t read into it.
But it’s nice you tell them. That’s so good
I try to make sure I express the nice things sometimes. I know I can come across as cold, but the people I care about deserve to know that I care "
You don't come across as cold, lovely. And you have such a big heart |
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