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over a year ago
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"Keep blocking and reporting I think is as much as you can do 
Urgh I’ve done it so many times "
In theory the site should be able to block someone’s ip address but I don’t know if they ever do |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"Delete the first post OP. It's against site rules to name and shame.
But not against the rules to repeatedly harass someone? "
It actually is. But two wrongs and all that. |
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I've had similar issues with people, I'm not sure why they do it. The answer isn't going to change!
Just keep reporting and blocking. I also now don't allow new members to contact me, so I can usually block first if I see the same pics pop up on my feed! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Keep blocking and reporting I think is as much as you can do
Urgh I’ve done it so many times
In theory the site should be able to block someone’s ip address but I don’t know if they ever do "
they never do |
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Don't name and shame them for a start.
Take a break from the site for a few weeks. He / she will most likely get bored and move on. If you're worried worried and he is doing anything illegal. Get plod involved. |
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"I’m at my wits end with a guy who keeps messaging me. I’ve told him no, I’ve reported him several times, I’ve blocked him several times. He must be setting up new accounts under the same or similar user name.
Currently under MrBradfordMan01, any suggestions as to how to get rid? "
I tried to answer privately but my age stopped that ... Well you have certainly tried to get rid.. my only solution is start a new profile under a totally new name, and start again and save what you can otherwise I can,t help you but fingers crossed.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why’s he targeted you?
That’s quite a lot of effort to put in, even for the most deranged pest types."
You’d be surprised! Theres one used to pop up in my inbox every week with a new profile until I blocked newbies  |
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"Why’s he targeted you?
That’s quite a lot of effort to put in, even for the most deranged pest types.
He’ll be harassing several women I suspect, I’m nothing special  "
Possibly yes….a real crow magnum type bastard it sounds. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Delete the first post OP. It's against site rules to name and shame.
But not against the rules to repeatedly harass someone? "
I didn't want you to get a ban.
Screenshot his profile and face pics and contact your local police. Also contact Admin to let them know you've spoken to the police. |
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"Why’s he targeted you?
That’s quite a lot of effort to put in, even for the most deranged pest types.
You’d be surprised! Theres one used to pop up in my inbox every week with a new profile until I blocked newbies "
Weird people out there.
Special the ones who send you tests and riddles to solve. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why’s he targeted you?
That’s quite a lot of effort to put in, even for the most deranged pest types.
You’d be surprised! Theres one used to pop up in my inbox every week with a new profile until I blocked newbies
Weird people out there.
Special the ones who send you tests and riddles to solve."
At least they’re interesting  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Could you possibly just ignore him OP....pests usually tire after awhile if there's no response....like leaving his dms unread & not blocking.....
I rarely block tbh....cos they just come back with new profiles.... totally ignoring & boycotting usually works.... sometimes any kinda response is encouraging & that includes blocking....even if it's negative attention some pests still thrive on it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Could you possibly just ignore him OP....pests usually tire after awhile if there's no response....like leaving his dms unread & not blocking.....
I rarely block tbh....cos they just come back with new profiles.... totally ignoring & boycotting usually works.... sometimes any kinda response is encouraging & that includes blocking....even if it's negative attention some pests still thrive on it"
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"Why’s he targeted you?
That’s quite a lot of effort to put in, even for the most deranged pest types.
You’d be surprised! Theres one used to pop up in my inbox every week with a new profile until I blocked newbies "
My bad! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't name and shame them for a start.
Take a break from the site for a few weeks. He / she will most likely get bored and move on. If you're worried worried and he is doing anything illegal. Get plod involved. "
why not name and shame pity we can't put pics up as well.it's about time site took more responsibility about this we probably can all name a profile that keeps coming on trying it. |
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By *ilybeth OP Woman
over a year ago
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Well he’s blocked me after I messaged and said I’m sick of blocking and reporting him. So hopefully he’s got the message! So annoying they can continue to behave like that. I’ve blocked many people, it’s just frustrating that he kept appearing again. |
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"I’m at my wits end with a guy who keeps messaging me. I’ve told him no, I’ve reported him several times, I’ve blocked him several times. He must be setting up new accounts under the same or similar user name.
Currently under MrBradfordMan01, any suggestions as to how to get rid? I tried to answer privately but my age stopped that ... Well you have certainly tried to get rid.. my only solution is start a new profile under a totally new name, and start again and save what you can otherwise I can,t help you but fingers crossed.. "
and yes good advice take a break from here.. that could work sounds like the best Idea. |
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"Don't name and shame them for a start.
Take a break from the site for a few weeks. He / she will most likely get bored and move on. If you're worried worried and he is doing anything illegal. Get plod involved. why not name and shame pity we can't put pics up as well.it's about time site took more responsibility about this we probably can all name a profile that keeps coming on trying it."
Because it's against site forum rules as explained above and results in a ban. |
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Sadly some people will just not take no for an answer, we have had to block quite a few lucky they don't seem to come back on a new account.
Just remember that the site still has lots of genuine people who are totally ligit. |
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"Well he’s blocked me after I messaged and said I’m sick of blocking and reporting him. So hopefully he’s got the message! So annoying they can continue to behave like that. I’ve blocked many people, it’s just frustrating that he kept appearing again. "
Yes trolls come in different shades of brown and some smell stronger than others I hope he,s the last one you get for a while, happy new year to you... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Keep blocking and reporting I think is as much as you can do
Urgh I’ve done it so many times
In theory the site should be able to block someone’s ip address but I don’t know if they ever do "
Almost pointless these days. Takes 5 seconds to get past that
Sadly I think you gotta block newbies messaging anc just keep at it
What a loser |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why’s he targeted you?
That’s quite a lot of effort to put in, even for the most deranged pest types."
Opening a few different profiles and sending various messages from said profiles doesn't seem like a lot of effort for the weird stalkery odd ball type, in fact, it seems precisely par for the course. He hasn't crossed the county to go and live in her hedge in a ghilly suit and some nvg's yet, that would be a lot of effort. |
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