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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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So... it's the end of the year. Also the end of the week (side note... when the year ends on a Sunday it brings me joy. Feels complete, y'know?).
That's actually irrelevant to this thread but hey ho.
Many of us have the fear of rejection... and as a result don't take the chance that something good might happen, because *what if* something not so great happens? What if that person we think is all kinds of sexy doesn't feel that way about us... surely it's better not to know?
Well... I say no! I say tell those people you feel that way about! But don't do it with strings attached. Just tell them because it is something that is lovely to be told, not because you want them to want to smush genitals with you.
Come on people! Grab that bull by the horns (not a euphemism) and spread a compliment or three. Actually doesn't have to be about whether you think they're sexy, it should be also just because you think they're pretty cool/fun/lovely/whatever and they bring you a smile in some way.
Spread love people. Spread love, and like, and joy!
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"So... it's the end of the year. Also the end of the week (side note... when the year ends on a Sunday it brings me joy. Feels complete, y'know?).
That's actually irrelevant to this thread but hey ho.
Many of us have the fear of rejection... and as a result don't take the chance that something good might happen, because *what if* something not so great happens? What if that person we think is all kinds of sexy doesn't feel that way about us... surely it's better not to know?
Well... I say no! I say tell those people you feel that way about! But don't do it with strings attached. Just tell them because it is something that is lovely to be told, not because you want them to want to smush genitals with you.
Come on people! Grab that bull by the horns (not a euphemism) and spread a compliment or three. Actually doesn't have to be about whether you think they're sexy, it should be also just because you think they're pretty cool/fun/lovely/whatever and they bring you a smile in some way.
Spread love people. Spread love, and like, and joy!
Who's with me? "
I like your optimism  |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"So... it's the end of the year. Also the end of the week (side note... when the year ends on a Sunday it brings me joy. Feels complete, y'know?).
That's actually irrelevant to this thread but hey ho.
Many of us have the fear of rejection... and as a result don't take the chance that something good might happen, because *what if* something not so great happens? What if that person we think is all kinds of sexy doesn't feel that way about us... surely it's better not to know?
Well... I say no! I say tell those people you feel that way about! But don't do it with strings attached. Just tell them because it is something that is lovely to be told, not because you want them to want to smush genitals with you.
Come on people! Grab that bull by the horns (not a euphemism) and spread a compliment or three. Actually doesn't have to be about whether you think they're sexy, it should be also just because you think they're pretty cool/fun/lovely/whatever and they bring you a smile in some way.
Spread love people. Spread love, and like, and joy!
Who's with me?
I like your optimism "
I thought I'd try something new...
Might go back to pessimism in a minute  |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Does it count if I hate you all?
I'm not scared to say it!
Lies. Big hairy smelly lies.
I know at least 3 people you don't hate. Actively, anyway 
Me, myself, and I do not count. "
Bugger |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Posh. This sounds like a lovely idea. It may distract me from the noisy teens in the next room for a bit. 
J"
Duct tape... I keep telling you. It makes them quiet |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Unusually optimistic Posh? I like it! Long may it continue xx
Midnight I'll be a pumpkin again
Just chuck some glitter on it and suddenly you are a disco ball!  "
Glitter is evil. I used it once in 2009 and I'm still sparkly. |
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"Unusually optimistic Posh? I like it! Long may it continue xx
Midnight I'll be a pumpkin again
Just chuck some glitter on it and suddenly you are a disco ball!
Glitter is evil. I used it once in 2009 and I'm still sparkly."
Try the edible stuff then? |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Unusually optimistic Posh? I like it! Long may it continue xx
Midnight I'll be a pumpkin again
Just chuck some glitter on it and suddenly you are a disco ball!
Glitter is evil. I used it once in 2009 and I'm still sparkly.
Try the edible stuff then? "
Glitter is banned at Posh Towers |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I'm another person who is off to listen to Abba but when I'm back?
I'll think about it. Maybe."
You're welcome for the earworm.
Also... multitasking! Tis the way. |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I'd just like to say I have had fun chatting with lot of people on here they have been friendly and welcoming / chatting
Since I joined at beginning of this year
Thanks all and role on 2024 "
Excellent love spreading! Let's see more of this!
Also! Well done... you survived a year |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"A lovely thread Miss Posh Pants ..
I shall peruse during the evening
I'm likely to abandon it soon. So keep an eye for me would you please?
I'll try of course..
Be awake at 11.59 though please "
I haven't ranted about fireworks to you yet, have I... |
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"A lovely thread Miss Posh Pants ..
I shall peruse during the evening
I'm likely to abandon it soon. So keep an eye for me would you please?
I'll try of course..
Be awake at 11.59 though please
I haven't ranted about fireworks to you yet, have I..."
Not as yet but it's the same for us all .. Already started here  |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Posh you are sexy and one of the nicest person here.
You have a soothing personality.
I'm guessing you are reasonably dirty as well, before you think I think you are a saint.
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But... I am sweet and innocent!
Also... thank you  I don't think I've been called soothing before
You're fun. I enjoy you. |
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"I'd just like to say I have had fun chatting with lot of people on here they have been friendly and welcoming / chatting
Since I joined at beginning of this year
Thanks all and role on 2024
Excellent love spreading! Let's see more of this!
Also! Well done... you survived a year "
I go to great lengths to share  good times |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I’d bang you all. Even those I don’t care for, it’s a wet dick after all. "
That's kinda the idea... yet not.
You know when they say "shoot for the moon... if you miss you'll land among the stars"?
Kinda like that. |
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"I’m going to listen to that song by ABBA now or maybe I’ll watch mama mia tonight"
Ah Steve, Steve. You’ve proper grown on me  . I think you know I didn’t used to like you much. I was wrong. (I sometimes am ya know!) |
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"Posh you are sexy and one of the nicest person here.
You have a soothing personality.
I'm guessing you are reasonably dirty as well, before you think I think you are a saint.
But... I am sweet and innocent!
Also... thank you I don't think I've been called soothing before
You're fun. I enjoy you."
***
I think you are more fun and I would enjoy you more than I should, if I could.
You are definitely really sweet, but doubting the innocence.
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"So... it's the end of the year. Also the end of the week (side note... when the year ends on a Sunday it brings me joy. Feels complete, y'know?).
That's actually irrelevant to this thread but hey ho.
Many of us have the fear of rejection... and as a result don't take the chance that something good might happen, because *what if* something not so great happens? What if that person we think is all kinds of sexy doesn't feel that way about us... surely it's better not to know?
Well... I say no! I say tell those people you feel that way about! But don't do it with strings attached. Just tell them because it is something that is lovely to be told, not because you want them to want to smush genitals with you.
Come on people! Grab that bull by the horns (not a euphemism) and spread a compliment or three. Actually doesn't have to be about whether you think they're sexy, it should be also just because you think they're pretty cool/fun/lovely/whatever and they bring you a smile in some way.
Spread love people. Spread love, and like, and joy!
Who's with me?
I like your optimism "
You’re great. Top bird. You crack me up x |
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over a year ago
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"Can I just spread some legs instead?
Shush and spread your bum cheeks "
My NY resolution is to let you peg me but you’ve got to wank me off at the same time |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"But yeah I like when we can have positivity and a laugh some people take stuff too hard
But nah not had many issues if at all
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This is fabulous! Positivity! |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Can I just spread some legs instead?
Shush and spread your bum cheeks
My NY resolution is to let you peg me but you’ve got to wank me off at the same time
. I need to watch this "
Ditto |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can I just spread some legs instead?
Shush and spread your bum cheeks
My NY resolution is to let you peg me but you’ve got to wank me off at the same time
. I need to watch this
Ditto "
One can sit on my face whilst the other sucks my bobbies helmet  whilst I’m being pegged obvs |
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"Can I just spread some legs instead?
Shush and spread your bum cheeks
My NY resolution is to let you peg me but you’ve got to wank me off at the same time
. I need to watch this
Ditto
One can sit on my face whilst the other sucks my bobbies helmet whilst I’m being pegged obvs "
I’m so in |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Can I just spread some legs instead?
Shush and spread your bum cheeks
My NY resolution is to let you peg me but you’ve got to wank me off at the same time
. I need to watch this
Ditto
One can sit on my face whilst the other sucks my bobbies helmet whilst I’m being pegged obvs
I’m so in "
And if he dies, he dies |
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"Can I just spread some legs instead?
Shush and spread your bum cheeks
My NY resolution is to let you peg me but you’ve got to wank me off at the same time
. I need to watch this
Ditto
One can sit on my face whilst the other sucks my bobbies helmet whilst I’m being pegged obvs
I’m so in
And if he dies, he dies"
Shall we both sit on his face to make sure? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can I just spread some legs instead?
Shush and spread your bum cheeks
My NY resolution is to let you peg me but you’ve got to wank me off at the same time
. I need to watch this
Ditto
One can sit on my face whilst the other sucks my bobbies helmet whilst I’m being pegged obvs
I’m so in
And if he dies, he dies"
I have pre cum |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can I just spread some legs instead?
Shush and spread your bum cheeks
My NY resolution is to let you peg me but you’ve got to wank me off at the same time
. I need to watch this
Ditto
One can sit on my face whilst the other sucks my bobbies helmet whilst I’m being pegged obvs
I’m so in
And if he dies, he dies
I have pre cum "
I’m just here to watch this |
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"Can I just spread some legs instead?
Shush and spread your bum cheeks
My NY resolution is to let you peg me but you’ve got to wank me off at the same time
. I need to watch this
Ditto
One can sit on my face whilst the other sucks my bobbies helmet whilst I’m being pegged obvs
I’m so in
And if he dies, he dies
I have pre cum "
Sweet fucking Jesus what just happened???? You killed Rex!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can I just spread some legs instead?
Shush and spread your bum cheeks
My NY resolution is to let you peg me but you’ve got to wank me off at the same time
. I need to watch this
Ditto
One can sit on my face whilst the other sucks my bobbies helmet whilst I’m being pegged obvs
I’m so in
And if he dies, he dies
I have pre cum
Sweet fucking Jesus what just happened???? You killed Rex!!!! "
Quick, get the rice!!! |
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"Can I just spread some legs instead?
Shush and spread your bum cheeks
My NY resolution is to let you peg me but you’ve got to wank me off at the same time
. I need to watch this
Ditto
One can sit on my face whilst the other sucks my bobbies helmet whilst I’m being pegged obvs
I’m so in
And if he dies, he dies
I have pre cum
Sweet fucking Jesus what just happened???? You killed Rex!!!!
Quick, get the rice!!! "
Ffs and I thought I was dark |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can I just spread some legs instead?
Shush and spread your bum cheeks
My NY resolution is to let you peg me but you’ve got to wank me off at the same time
. I need to watch this
Ditto
One can sit on my face whilst the other sucks my bobbies helmet whilst I’m being pegged obvs
I’m so in
And if he dies, he dies
I have pre cum
Sweet fucking Jesus what just happened???? You killed Rex!!!!
Quick, get the rice!!! "
You’re not sticking rice up my arse  |
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"Can I just spread some legs instead?
Shush and spread your bum cheeks
My NY resolution is to let you peg me but you’ve got to wank me off at the same time
. I need to watch this
Ditto
One can sit on my face whilst the other sucks my bobbies helmet whilst I’m being pegged obvs
I’m so in
And if he dies, he dies
I have pre cum "
Ffs don't ever leave Fab please Rex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes you can’t op. You just can’t.
But lovely sentiments and there are many I believe to just not be into me, and I dare not to say anything. I’ll just imagine we would have been cool together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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With you Posh
To everyone I've interacted with over the last 8 months, thank you all for playing your part. You're good people. It’s been a fun 8 months
To those of you I haven't had some back and forth with, there's always next year
I hope 2024 is good to you all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can I just spread some legs instead?
Shush and spread your bum cheeks
My NY resolution is to let you peg me but you’ve got to wank me off at the same time
. I need to watch this
Ditto
One can sit on my face whilst the other sucks my bobbies helmet whilst I’m being pegged obvs
I’m so in
And if he dies, he dies
I have pre cum
Ffs don't ever leave Fab please Rex "
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"I sent a wink to someone off a thread yesterday. Was going to message but thought I’d be subtle and wink first as he is *exactly* the physical type I love and I quite like his profile text…
He looked at my profile. Didn’t wink back or message. 
I don’t like that haha  "
He must be daft you're gorgeous |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
Redhill |
"I sent a wink to someone off a thread yesterday. Was going to message but thought I’d be subtle and wink first as he is *exactly* the physical type I love and I quite like his profile text…
He looked at my profile. Didn’t wink back or message.
I don’t like that haha
He must be daft you're gorgeous "
Aaw, thank you lovely xx but it goes to prove that we can’t all be everyone’s cup of tea…
As we say where I come from, we all aren’t little gold coins to be liked by everyone haha. |
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"I sent a wink to someone off a thread yesterday. Was going to message but thought I’d be subtle and wink first as he is *exactly* the physical type I love and I quite like his profile text…
He looked at my profile. Didn’t wink back or message.
I don’t like that haha
He must be daft you're gorgeous
Aaw, thank you lovely xx but it goes to prove that we can’t all be everyone’s cup of tea…
As we say where I come from, we all aren’t little gold coins to be liked by everyone haha. "
You're welcome x yes that's very true xx |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
Redhill |
"I sent a wink to someone off a thread yesterday. Was going to message but thought I’d be subtle and wink first as he is *exactly* the physical type I love and I quite like his profile text…
He looked at my profile. Didn’t wink back or message.
I don’t like that haha
At least you had the balls to wink! It's a good way to start!
The "no response" is the thing that I'm scared of "
Yeeeeeeh and it stings! I think I have messaged once or twice in my 5 years here… and always got responses.
This time I thought I’d be conservative as he looked too good to be true lol and well… but onwards and upwards! or upwards and onwards haha don’t remember the order. |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I sent a wink to someone off a thread yesterday. Was going to message but thought I’d be subtle and wink first as he is *exactly* the physical type I love and I quite like his profile text…
He looked at my profile. Didn’t wink back or message.
I don’t like that haha
At least you had the balls to wink! It's a good way to start!
The "no response" is the thing that I'm scared of
Yeeeeeeh and it stings! I think I have messaged once or twice in my 5 years here… and always got responses.
This time I thought I’d be conservative as he looked too good to be true lol and well… but onwards and upwards! or upwards and onwards haha don’t remember the order. "
Up... On... whichever order is good!
Hopefully he is just trying to formulate the perfect message. If not... next! |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"If you change your mind, I'm the first in line
Honey, I'm still free
Take a chance on me"
You've been on the vimto and serial killers... haven't you! |
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"If you change your mind, I'm the first in line
Honey, I'm still free
Take a chance on me
You've been on the vimto and serial killers... haven't you! "
High as a fucking kite with no meds or booze. |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"If you change your mind, I'm the first in line
Honey, I'm still free
Take a chance on me
You've been on the vimto and serial killers... haven't you!
High as a fucking kite with no meds or booze. "
This is FUCKING EXCELLENT! Now... don't overdo and break yourself. Unless you have Rex bent over in front of you, in which case you should give it your all and to hell with the future! |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Nope lol
Come on Krampus!
Bull!
Horns!
Don't send a FAF... maybe just a "I like your profile picture"
Oh I don't know.... "
See... this is why we need a my mate fancies you thread. |
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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago
West Wales and Cardiff |
I don’t know where to start - I’m home early, I’m looking after an elderly person, and I want a woozy, weary morning coffee with every single one of you lovely people.
Basically, I’m badly in need of a cwtch .
Despite everything, I am kinda positive though, so NSP’s post does resonate with me .
Blwyddyn Newydd Dda/Happy New Year |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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" I don’t know where to start - I’m home early, I’m looking after an elderly person, and I want a woozy, weary morning coffee with every single one of you lovely people.
Basically, I’m badly in need of a cwtch .
Despite everything, I am kinda positive though, so NSP’s post does resonate with me .
Blwyddyn Newydd Dda/Happy New Year "
Just swim over the channel, I'll give you a cwtch |
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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago
West Wales and Cardiff |
" I don’t know where to start - I’m home early, I’m looking after an elderly person, and I want a woozy, weary morning coffee with every single one of you lovely people.
Basically, I’m badly in need of a cwtch .
Despite everything, I am kinda positive though, so NSP’s post does resonate with me .
Blwyddyn Newydd Dda/Happy New Year
Just swim over the channel, I'll give you a cwtch "
Awesome - make it an all-day one .
I can actually see North Devon from here on clear day. Its eems swimmable . |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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" I don’t know where to start - I’m home early, I’m looking after an elderly person, and I want a woozy, weary morning coffee with every single one of you lovely people.
Basically, I’m badly in need of a cwtch .
Despite everything, I am kinda positive though, so NSP’s post does resonate with me .
Blwyddyn Newydd Dda/Happy New Year
Just swim over the channel, I'll give you a cwtch
Awesome - make it an all-day one .
I can actually see North Devon from here on clear day. Its eems swimmable ."
I should just, as a responsible human bean, point out that swimming the Brizzol Channel (particularly unprepared) would be a Very. Bad. Plan.
Drive round... is quicker. |
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over a year ago
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"I took a chance on mead last night. Good lord.
Mrs TMN x
Mead? The wine? Why didn’t I think of that?
Would not recommend! "
I make my mead. It’s delicious. |
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You are right!
I'm done being the awkward person in the corner with all the charisma of a boiled cabbage not believing in myself I really need to branch out more and get out of my shell
Might seem silly but anyone got advice for a shy guy to actually do it?
Do I just bite the bullet and it gets easier over time? |
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"I’m going to listen to that song by ABBA now or maybe I’ll watch mama mia tonight
Ah Steve, Steve. You’ve proper grown on me . I think you know I didn’t used to like you much. I was wrong. (I sometimes am ya know!) "
I like you Nora. I too was wrong about you. Now get to one of my picnics so I can bang you |
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