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By (user no longer on site) OP 45 weeks ago
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My favourite question. So I pass it into you. 
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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My webbed feet  |
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Relationships are far to much drama and to much on the head |
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"My favourite question. So I pass it into you.
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How about you woody? |
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I had a better version on a message on a work related platform (think pinked pin)
"How are you so pretty and still have a good job"
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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"My husband died"
I'm so sorry  |
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"My husband died"
Awwww sorry hear that pal |
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"My husband died"
Sorry to hear that x
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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Never been asked that. But since I never meet women in social situations these days, not the least bit surprising. |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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"My husband died"
Big hugs. Real sorry to hear this. |
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I get it asked all the time 
My answer: Why do you assume I am? Haha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 45 weeks ago
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"My husband died"
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"My husband died Sorry to hear that x"
And for me !!! I smoke and I am regarded as to old. |
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Because I haven’t found anyone I want to be in a relationship with. No one hits my standards. |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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My standards are higher than my attractiveness
I’m a 5 that wants to date at least a 6.
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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Where I live, I rarely meet anyone that I would honestly want to date |
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The Choices were I live are limited & Not being big headed but I wasn’t hit by the unglued tree people when they see my face are pleasantly surprised but like to keep my face private on here! |
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2 divorces and a few long term relationships have taught me I’m better relying on myself and enjoying life my way  |
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Life
Shit Happens
People pass away  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 45 weeks ago
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"My standards are higher than my attractiveness
I’m a 5 that wants to date at least a 6.
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Haha. When you realise your not your types type is a killer. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 45 weeks ago
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"Where I live, I rarely meet anyone that I would honestly want to date"
Try Manchester.  … then you’ll see the struggle. |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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"My standards are higher than my attractiveness
I’m a 5 that wants to date at least a 6.
Haha. When you realise your not your types type is a killer. "
When you realise your good enough glf your type to talk to, have sex with, even date, but not something longterm, that hurts
Realising you might need to settle for less, sucks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 45 weeks ago
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"Or am I fab single?
Maybe."
I assume all women are, until they show me they’re not. |
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Is it because who's going to have a nearly 50 year old half broken down sarcastic twat ??
Or is because I want to be ??
Who knows  |
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"I had a better version on a message on a work related platform (think pinked pin)
"How are you so pretty and still have a good job"
MrsAbz "
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"Or am I fab single?
Maybe.
I assume all women are, until they show me they’re not. "
I assume every account is regardless of gender. You know like that joke about opinions are like assholes… ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 45 weeks ago
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"My favourite question. So I pass it into you.
How about you woody? "
Oh wow. Where to start?  |
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Vanillia online dating doesn't work for me, my social networks are mainly straight women (by accident not design), been on Fab 6 months but I mainly meet couples.
I definitely have hopes of meeting a single guy through Fab, we decide to be a serious couple and I now don't want vanilla so we carry on swinging
Or maybe a special lady, but whereas with sex I'm equal between genders in terms of attraction, relationship wise I do lean more towards men. |
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"Vanillia online dating doesn't work for me, my social networks are mainly straight women (by accident not design), been on Fab 6 months but I mainly meet couples.
I definitely have hopes of meeting a single guy through Fab, we decide to be a serious couple and I now don't want vanilla so we carry on swinging
Or maybe a special lady, but whereas with sex I'm equal between genders in terms of attraction, relationship wise I do lean more towards men. "
This is the holy grail |
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Women having high standards... Duh.. |
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By *avexxMan 45 weeks ago
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i have 8 fingers on both hands and webbed feet and play the banjo,, it puts people off |
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I like being single so I'm not looking to be in a relationship. |
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I've only met one woman my cats approve of.
Regardless of their opinion, I'm not her type and she's not looking for a relationship. |
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I'm working on me following a nearly 30 year relationship breakdown. There's a lot to do.  |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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I’m too attractive to be single. |
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"Vanillia online dating doesn't work for me, my social networks are mainly straight women (by accident not design), been on Fab 6 months but I mainly meet couples.
I definitely have hopes of meeting a single guy through Fab, we decide to be a serious couple and I now don't want vanilla so we carry on swinging
Or maybe a special lady, but whereas with sex I'm equal between genders in terms of attraction, relationship wise I do lean more towards men.
This is the holy grail "
I've met with quite a few couples who formed through Fab, I need to work on meeting more single men though to improve my odds!
Being Bi I just find couples a more exciting way to spend my Fab time
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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"I'm working on me following a nearly 30 year relationship breakdown. There's a lot to do. "
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"I'm working on me following a nearly 30 year relationship breakdown. There's a lot to do. "
*hugs* |
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"Vanillia online dating doesn't work for me, my social networks are mainly straight women (by accident not design), been on Fab 6 months but I mainly meet couples.
I definitely have hopes of meeting a single guy through Fab, we decide to be a serious couple and I now don't want vanilla so we carry on swinging
Or maybe a special lady, but whereas with sex I'm equal between genders in terms of attraction, relationship wise I do lean more towards men.
This is the holy grail
I've met with quite a few couples who formed through Fab, I need to work on meeting more single men though to improve my odds!
Being Bi I just find couples a more exciting way to spend my Fab time
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That was my original plan here, but I met way too many unicorn hunters. I didn’t like the vibe of that. Each to their own. |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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Very easily |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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The patio looks like a skatepark and I’m running out of excuses. |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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Because the decent ones are already attached or married. |
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Ask him about it. He knows.
#they100%knowwhotheyis |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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"My dick was too big for her!" *Cries* |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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Because I'm not in the right space for anything else than other to be single. |
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""My dick was too big for her!" *Cries*"
I bet she cried too. |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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"I'm working on me following a nearly 30 year relationship breakdown. There's a lot to do. "
That's a long time to be with someone.
You will find your way, it gets better. |
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Not long split up from girlfriend about a year i guess  |
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"I'm working on me following a nearly 30 year relationship breakdown. There's a lot to do.
That's a long time to be with someone.
You will find your way, it gets better. "
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I'm single because I'm weird, annoying, and actually pretty ugly.
On the other hand, I know where the clitoris is, and have an unusually large penis.
Might use this as my next CV, actually.
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By (user no longer on site) OP 45 weeks ago
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"I'm working on me following a nearly 30 year relationship breakdown. There's a lot to do. "
I can relate. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 45 weeks ago
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"I've only met one woman my cats approve of.
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Haha. Second opinions always help. |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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"I'm working on me following a nearly 30 year relationship breakdown. There's a lot to do. "
Oh crap.
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By *ornycougaWoman 45 weeks ago
Wherever I lay my hat |
I'm damaged goods, I'm extremely hard work and I also love my independence too much |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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"My favourite question. So I pass it into you.
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Into us?
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"I'm damaged goods, I'm extremely hard work and I also love my independence too much"
You are magnificent, and I’m still waiting for my cage fight.  |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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Spent 38 years being single.
Got married.
Now single.
I love it, no one controlling my life |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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"I'm damaged goods, I'm extremely hard work and I also love my independence too much"
Your profile! |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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I will never get together with controlling men. Who think its a turn on. |
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By *rAitchMan 45 weeks ago
Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe |
My Best Before and Use By dates expired long ago. |
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By *urora1912Woman 45 weeks ago
Norfolk East anglia |
My 20year marriage ended... i finally found a guy I thought I was ready to be with and now hes got terminal cancer and doesn't have much longer left
It's broken me, and I don't think I will ever look for another relationship. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 45 weeks ago
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"My favourite question. So I pass it into you.
Into us?
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Too kinky? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 45 weeks ago
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"My 20year marriage ended... i finally found a guy I thought I was ready to be with and now hes got terminal cancer and doesn't have much longer left
It's broken me, and I don't think I will ever look for another relationship. "
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"I'm damaged goods, I'm extremely hard work and I also love my independence too much"
Don't ever think of yourself as damaged goods.?? |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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It’s a choice ,I’m just not sure if my choice or there’s |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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"It’s a choice ,I’m just not sure if my choice or there’s "
*theirs |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 45 weeks ago
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"It’s a choice ,I’m just not sure if my choice or there’s
*theirs "
Trust me, you’re safe in this thread for errors in text.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 45 weeks ago
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"I'm damaged goods, I'm extremely hard work and I also love my independence too much
Don't ever think of yourself as damaged goods.??"
True. |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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"It’s a choice ,I’m just not sure if my choice or there’s
*theirs
Trust me, you’re safe in this thread for errors in text. "
Phew! I was worried the grammar people would come for me |
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By *oofy321Man 45 weeks ago
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Just look at my pictures, there's your answer x |
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I'm old. Nobody wants to know anymore |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 45 weeks ago
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"I'm old. Nobody wants to know anymore "
Do you think this is a fear? It is mine. just becoming too old. |
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By *ookie46Woman 45 weeks ago
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I like my independence, all my relationships I’ve been lied to and cheated on and when you have kids with additional needs it takes someone special to let them into their lives |
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"I'm old. Nobody wants to know anymore
Do you think this is a fear? It is mine. just becoming too old. "
Like most things, you learn to live with it. Your social life declines, although I will makecan effort this year |
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"My 20year marriage ended... i finally found a guy I thought I was ready to be with and now hes got terminal cancer and doesn't have much longer left
It's broken me, and I don't think I will ever look for another relationship. "
I am so sorry. |
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Came out of a vanilla sour relationship and don’t need the hassle, want time on my own but nothing wrong in having a play mate |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 45 weeks ago
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"I'm old. Nobody wants to know anymore
Do you think this is a fear? It is mine. just becoming too old.
Like most things, you learn to live with it. Your social life declines, although I will makecan effort this year "
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By *lowhands7Man 45 weeks ago
South Leicestershire / Burton on Trent |
Divorced and have child - the next chapter hasn't begun as yet. |
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I haven't met the next 'one'... yet |
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By *ornycougaWoman 45 weeks ago
Wherever I lay my hat |
"I'm damaged goods, I'm extremely hard work and I also love my independence too much
You are magnificent, and I’m still waiting for my cage fight. "
Oh that is so happening in 2024 |
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By *ister1Man 45 weeks ago
north west |
"My 20year marriage ended... i finally found a guy I thought I was ready to be with and now hes got terminal cancer and doesn't have much longer left
It's broken me, and I don't think I will ever look for another relationship.
I am so sorry. "
So sorry x |
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By *rispyDuckMan 45 weeks ago
Chinese Takeaway near you |
By choice
Having way too much fun to give up my freedom yet. |
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By *urora1912Woman 45 weeks ago
Norfolk East anglia |
"My 20year marriage ended... i finally found a guy I thought I was ready to be with and now hes got terminal cancer and doesn't have much longer left
It's broken me, and I don't think I will ever look for another relationship.
I am so sorry. "
Thank you |
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We are born single.
The question should be - Why have you tied yourself to one person ? |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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I hate dating apps and I'm far too shy in social situations to just chat to random women without looking like I'm only trying to pull. |
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"I'm old. Nobody wants to know anymore
Do you think this is a fear? It is mine. just becoming too old. "
This is a real fear for me too... but I'm not ready to do anything about it...I really fear by the time I'm ready I will be too old. |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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"We are born single.
The question should be - Why have you tied yourself to one person ?"
It always made me think growing up, you’re alone as a child/teenager/young adult (delete as appropriate) yet expected to couple up with someone when you’re grown  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 45 weeks ago
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"We are born single.
The question should be - Why have you tied yourself to one person ?"
Damn!….
Because I like them?  |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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"We are born single.
The question should be - Why have you tied yourself to one person ?
It always made me think growing up, you’re alone as a child/teenager/young adult (delete as appropriate) yet expected to couple up with someone when you’re grown "
Cuzco the system don't like it man. Too much time to think innit |
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"My 20year marriage ended... i finally found a guy I thought I was ready to be with and now hes got terminal cancer and doesn't have much longer left
It's broken me, and I don't think I will ever look for another relationship. "
So sorry
Hope he has the strength to get through this |
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"My 20year marriage ended... i finally found a guy I thought I was ready to be with and now hes got terminal cancer and doesn't have much longer left
It's broken me, and I don't think I will ever look for another relationship. "
So sorry to hear. Life can be cruel but hope it also gets better for you |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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"We are born single.
The question should be - Why have you tied yourself to one person ?
It always made me think growing up, you’re alone as a child/teenager/young adult (delete as appropriate) yet expected to couple up with someone when you’re grown "
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Single until someone comes along that really makes me want to change that.
6 years single now. 20 year relationship previously and in zero rush. |
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"Single until someone comes along that really makes me want to change that.
6 years single now. 20 year relationship previously and in zero rush."
Oh sheffield hello how are you x. X |
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"We are born single.
The question should be - Why have you tied yourself to one person ?
It always made me think growing up, you’re alone as a child/teenager/young adult (delete as appropriate) yet expected to couple up with someone when you’re grown "
Marriage was contractual. Nothing to do with love and all to do with bloodlines, inheritance and ensuring fathers financed their offspring.
If people remembered this , there could be millions more excellent marriages where those who wished to raise a family could do so with a partner they chose for their qualities of parenting and homemaking and other values they'd have about how they treated each other.
Tit size, Whether they give out or he is loaded, his cock size or splashing 30 grand on pink bows and cheap champagne isn't really a great foundation for 'love' .....
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P.S. I always think marriages should dissolve when the youngest child turns 18 AND then if people want to re-marry the same partner GREAT......
If we all knew it wasn't for life ....... what bliss. |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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"We are born single.
The question should be - Why have you tied yourself to one person ?
It always made me think growing up, you’re alone as a child/teenager/young adult (delete as appropriate) yet expected to couple up with someone when you’re grown
Marriage was contractual. Nothing to do with love and all to do with bloodlines, inheritance and ensuring fathers financed their offspring.
If people remembered this , there could be millions more excellent marriages where those who wished to raise a family could do so with a partner they chose for their qualities of parenting and homemaking and other values they'd have about how they treated each other.
Tit size, Whether they give out or he is loaded, his cock size or splashing 30 grand on pink bows and cheap champagne isn't really a great foundation for 'love' .....
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Atm, through choice. I'm happily gonna stay single for the foreseeable.
My other relationships but 1 didn't work out because we realised we weren't right for each other. 1 relationship I fucked up through drink which is why I hardly drink anymore and I haven't drank vodka for 13 years because it makes me cheeky.
Lastly, I'm not a hunk, so I have less of an appeal than some good looking men. I'm a nice guy, but I've found that generally keeps me in the friend zone also.
Still happy though |
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By *urora1912Woman 45 weeks ago
Norfolk East anglia |
"My 20year marriage ended... i finally found a guy I thought I was ready to be with and now hes got terminal cancer and doesn't have much longer left
It's broken me, and I don't think I will ever look for another relationship.
So sorry
Hope he has the strength to get through this "
He doesn't, the end is close |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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"I'm not "
Stop copying me |
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But having said that i like being independent |
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Because I refer to the phrase “let’s get jiggy with it” often…
That may or may not be the only reason |
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Unfortunately yes but it's always been the same for me.
I have friends that go through girlfriends around every 6 months.
Not like that's a good thing but they have the knack of picking them up and starting new relationships quite regularly.
I dont have that.
I'm an undateable lol. POF, Tinder, Hinge. Tried them all but I never match with anyone |
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I like being on my own too much.
I’ve had so many health issues I’ve not been able to make sure I’m the best version of me to consider otherwise.
I’ve not met anyone who id even consider being with. |
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I've had 2 relationship in the past 13 yrs, both not long term and when the last one ended, I was a broken person, so I've spent a few years of building me back up.
I'm very happy with who i am.
The past few months, I've thought I'm ready for dating again. I know what I can offer and looking for someone who matches me. If I don't find him,then I will stay single
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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I get asked this all the time |
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"I get asked this all the time "
I can stop if you take me out on a date |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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Because my daughter and my work fill up the horizons of my life. I don't want anything disturbing that view. |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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Because of my innie for a penis and glue on beard.
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"I've only met one woman my cats approve of.
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Haha. Second opinions always help. "
My two are good judges. Spent all afternoon rolling round on the floor with her.
Having said that, she did bring cat toys. |
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By *abioMan 45 weeks ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
I have that unique combination of apathy and sarcasm that drives the women wild…………. In the other direction!
Besides I think I am better on a timeshare basis than a full time keepsies |
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Hhhm, I think it's because I haven't got the energy or time for another person in my life that consistently requires my time and attention. There's too much I want to do (mainly just chill out with my cat).
Also, I like being in control of where I go, when I go, what I do and also not having to compromise on what to watch on Netflix. |
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I need the entire wardrobe and chest of drawers to myself |
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"2 divorces and a few long term relationships have taught me I’m better relying on myself and enjoying life my way "
Same here!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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I think it's my antipathy towards men with fish. I need to work on that. |
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By *a LunaWoman 45 weeks ago
South Wales |
Many reasons I daresay.
But I am practically a hermit. We live with my mum (as a carer) I live with my children, both under 16, I have three dogs. I work part time.
I’m extravagantly tall and a chubster. Niche qualities.
Add in being shy and quiet and yeah. It’s no mystery |
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My age is considered okay for casual sex but too old for a relationship |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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I am good at avoiding commitment
No one I have met lives up to my standards
I like my own space
Being around someone too much would make me want to kill them (my housemates survival is testament to my incredible self control though)
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"Where I live, I rarely meet anyone that I would honestly want to date
Try Manchester. … then you’ll see the struggle. "
Tbh I could guarantee there would be more men that I find attractive in Manchester than there is in Cornwall. Cornwall really isn't known for it's racial diversity |
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"Vanillia online dating doesn't work for me, my social networks are mainly straight women (by accident not design), been on Fab 6 months but I mainly meet couples.
I definitely have hopes of meeting a single guy through Fab, we decide to be a serious couple and I now don't want vanilla so we carry on swinging
Or maybe a special lady, but whereas with sex I'm equal between genders in terms of attraction, relationship wise I do lean more towards men.
This is the holy grail
I've met with quite a few couples who formed through Fab, I need to work on meeting more single men though to improve my odds!
Being Bi I just find couples a more exciting way to spend my Fab time
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Don’t give up I met my last long term partner on fab. We were together 5 years and swung as a couple for another year after that. And are still on speaking terms though not together . Xx |
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"Cause women are liars "
What all.of us ? Lol... |
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"My husband died"
I'm so sorry for your loss xx |
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Because I'm a sad wanker |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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"My age is considered okay for casual sex but too old for a relationship "
You're nowhere near too old! |
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Because I'm awkward around people, hardly go out, never worked up the courage to make a move on someone I liked and consistently let life/opportunities/people/joy slip through my fingers.
I'm not bitter at all |
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"My husband died"
So sorry to read this.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 45 weeks ago
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"Cause women are liars
What all.of us ? Lol... "
#notallliars |
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"Cause women are liars
What all.of us ? Lol...
#notallliars "
Exactly |
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Because nobody I like, likes me |
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My partner died and I don't want to ever be intermate with another man. I love men just don't want to be intermate with one |
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"My favourite question. So I pass it into you.
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It just wouldn't be fair on all those other sexy ladies  |
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"Because nobody I like, likes me"
Very much this.
Also being neurodivergent and suffering with RSD does not help. I rather stay single than potentially going through heartbreak again. 7 months ago someone led me on and I am still recovering from this, so not again. |
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"Because nobody I like, likes me"
I like you. You're cute |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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Because I cba to make time for a man |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 45 weeks ago
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"Because nobody I like, likes me"
I said this. I’m not my types type. |
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I've never found anyone that meets all my needs. |
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I take active steps to put people off. |
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Because I genuinely enjoy being on my own a lot of the time |
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By *hagTonightMan 45 weeks ago
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Because I like my own company. I can do what I want, when I want it |
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Because I put myself first, and I haven't yet met anyone worthy of me being relegated to second place. |
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because if a girl says to me after comming back from the hairdressers
"you didn't notice I got my hair done"
My reply was
"I did notice but I just don't care"
Drama!
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I'm not but if I were it would be because I'm a bit of a mental wreck lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 45 weeks ago
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"Because I put myself first, and I haven't yet met anyone worthy of me being relegated to second place."
I don’t even know what game they are playing?
*good to see you back in here. |
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"Because I put myself first, and I haven't yet met anyone worthy of me being relegated to second place.
I don’t even know what game they are playing?
*good to see you back in here. "
Neither to I!!!
Good to be back again |
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Have been asked this so many times...no idea what the answer is..I made the wrong choice with the right ones, I know that in hindsight. Not on FAB but on dating sites woman want sex but never more... |
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I find it hard to trust people...always proven right x |
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By choice, I don't like my freedom to roam being restricted by anyone.
Fwb relationships have always suited me |
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I have a knack for screwing up I guess.
Oh and I'm very selective in people. |
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"I find it hard to trust people...always proven right x"
This is always sad. |
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By *os19Man 45 weeks ago
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I guess I am one of life’s losers a total reject. |
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"I really don't know "
This is what I think. It’s a crime!!!! |
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Because I want to be.
Also I don't think A man would want a slut as a partner. |
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