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How are you still single ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

My favourite question. So I pass it into you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My webbed feet

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By *amierebelMan over a year ago

My own little world

Relationships are far to much drama and to much on the head

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By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

My husband died

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By *amierebelMan over a year ago

My own little world

"My favourite question. So I pass it into you.

How about you woody?

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple over a year ago

Aberdeen

I had a better version on a message on a work related platform (think pinked pin)

"How are you so pretty and still have a good job"

MrsAbz

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My husband died"

I'm so sorry

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By *amierebelMan over a year ago

My own little world

"My husband died"

Awwww sorry hear that pal

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By *uck-RogersMan over a year ago

Oakhill

"My husband died"
Sorry to hear that x

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I'm not

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Never been asked that. But since I never meet women in social situations these days, not the least bit surprising.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My husband died"

Big hugs. Real sorry to hear this.

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By *viatrixWoman over a year ago

Redhill

I get it asked all the time

My answer: Why do you assume I am? Haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"My husband died"

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By *uck-RogersMan over a year ago

Oakhill

"My husband died Sorry to hear that x"
And for me !!! I smoke and I am regarded as to old.

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By *amnaughtybutniceWoman over a year ago

tf1

Because I haven’t found anyone I want to be in a relationship with. No one hits my standards.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My standards are higher than my attractiveness

I’m a 5 that wants to date at least a 6.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because I haven’t found anyone I want to be in a relationship with. No one hits my standards. "

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By *ablo minibar123Woman over a year ago

Where I live, I rarely meet anyone that I would honestly want to date

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman over a year ago

Somewhere else

Or am I fab single?

Maybe.

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By *he Gentleman 84Man over a year ago

North East

The Choices were I live are limited & Not being big headed but I wasn’t hit by the unglued tree people when they see my face are pleasantly surprised but like to keep my face private on here!

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman over a year ago

south coast IOW

2 divorces and a few long term relationships have taught me I’m better relying on myself and enjoying life my way

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By *BWLOVER1965Man over a year ago

Ipswich

Life

Shit Happens

People pass away

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"My standards are higher than my attractiveness

I’m a 5 that wants to date at least a 6.

Haha. When you realise your not your types type is a killer.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Where I live, I rarely meet anyone that I would honestly want to date"

Try Manchester.

… then you’ll see the struggle.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My standards are higher than my attractiveness

I’m a 5 that wants to date at least a 6.

Haha. When you realise your not your types type is a killer. "

When you realise your good enough glf your type to talk to, have sex with, even date, but not something longterm, that hurts

Realising you might need to settle for less, sucks

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Or am I fab single?

Maybe."

I assume all women are, until they show me they’re not.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Is it because who's going to have a nearly 50 year old half broken down sarcastic twat ??

Or is because I want to be ??

Who knows

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"I had a better version on a message on a work related platform (think pinked pin)

"How are you so pretty and still have a good job"

MrsAbz "

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman over a year ago

Somewhere else

"Or am I fab single?

Maybe.

I assume all women are, until they show me they’re not.

I assume every account is regardless of gender. You know like that joke about opinions are like assholes… ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"My favourite question. So I pass it into you.

How about you woody? "

Oh wow. Where to start?

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman over a year ago

Somewhere else

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By *lossomTreeWoman over a year ago

Ipswich

Vanillia online dating doesn't work for me, my social networks are mainly straight women (by accident not design), been on Fab 6 months but I mainly meet couples.

I definitely have hopes of meeting a single guy through Fab, we decide to be a serious couple and I now don't want vanilla so we carry on swinging

Or maybe a special lady, but whereas with sex I'm equal between genders in terms of attraction, relationship wise I do lean more towards men.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman over a year ago

Somewhere else

"Vanillia online dating doesn't work for me, my social networks are mainly straight women (by accident not design), been on Fab 6 months but I mainly meet couples.

I definitely have hopes of meeting a single guy through Fab, we decide to be a serious couple and I now don't want vanilla so we carry on swinging

Or maybe a special lady, but whereas with sex I'm equal between genders in terms of attraction, relationship wise I do lean more towards men. "

This is the holy grail

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By *ostindreamsMan over a year ago

London

Women having high standards... Duh..

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By *avexxMan over a year ago

cheshire

i have 8 fingers on both hands and webbed feet and play the banjo,, it puts people off

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By *olden RatioWoman over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

I like being single so I'm not looking to be in a relationship.

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By *illan-KillashMan over a year ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

I've only met one woman my cats approve of.

Regardless of their opinion, I'm not her type and she's not looking for a relationship.

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By *lossomTreeWoman over a year ago

Ipswich

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By *carlet SeductionWoman over a year ago

Maidstone

I'm working on me following a nearly 30 year relationship breakdown. There's a lot to do.

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By *lossomTreeWoman over a year ago

Ipswich

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m too attractive to be single.

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By *lossomTreeWoman over a year ago

Ipswich

"Vanillia online dating doesn't work for me, my social networks are mainly straight women (by accident not design), been on Fab 6 months but I mainly meet couples.

I definitely have hopes of meeting a single guy through Fab, we decide to be a serious couple and I now don't want vanilla so we carry on swinging

Or maybe a special lady, but whereas with sex I'm equal between genders in terms of attraction, relationship wise I do lean more towards men.

This is the holy grail "

I've met with quite a few couples who formed through Fab, I need to work on meeting more single men though to improve my odds!

Being Bi I just find couples a more exciting way to spend my Fab time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm working on me following a nearly 30 year relationship breakdown. There's a lot to do.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman over a year ago

Somewhere else

"I'm working on me following a nearly 30 year relationship breakdown. There's a lot to do.

*hugs*

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman over a year ago

Somewhere else

"Vanillia online dating doesn't work for me, my social networks are mainly straight women (by accident not design), been on Fab 6 months but I mainly meet couples.

I definitely have hopes of meeting a single guy through Fab, we decide to be a serious couple and I now don't want vanilla so we carry on swinging

Or maybe a special lady, but whereas with sex I'm equal between genders in terms of attraction, relationship wise I do lean more towards men.

This is the holy grail

I've met with quite a few couples who formed through Fab, I need to work on meeting more single men though to improve my odds!

Being Bi I just find couples a more exciting way to spend my Fab time

That was my original plan here, but I met way too many unicorn hunters. I didn’t like the vibe of that. Each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Very easily

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The patio looks like a skatepark and I’m running out of excuses.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because the decent ones are already attached or married.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman over a year ago

Somewhere else

Ask him about it. He knows.

#they100%knowwhotheyis

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My dick was too big for her!" *Cries*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because I'm not in the right space for anything else than other to be single.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman over a year ago

Somewhere else

""My dick was too big for her!" *Cries*"

I bet she cried too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm working on me following a nearly 30 year relationship breakdown. There's a lot to do.

That's a long time to be with someone.

You will find your way, it gets better.

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By *TG3Man over a year ago

Dorchester

Not long split up from girlfriend about a year i guess

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By *irthy89888Man over a year ago

Barnsley

Im not sure you tell me

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman over a year ago

Somewhere else

"I'm working on me following a nearly 30 year relationship breakdown. There's a lot to do.

That's a long time to be with someone.

You will find your way, it gets better. "

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By *stbury DavenportMan over a year ago

Nottingham

I'm single because I'm weird, annoying, and actually pretty ugly.

On the other hand, I know where the clitoris is, and have an unusually large penis.

Might use this as my next CV, actually.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm working on me following a nearly 30 year relationship breakdown. There's a lot to do.

I can relate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I've only met one woman my cats approve of.

….."

Haha. Second opinions always help.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm working on me following a nearly 30 year relationship breakdown. There's a lot to do.

Oh crap.

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By *ornycougaWoman over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

I'm damaged goods, I'm extremely hard work and I also love my independence too much

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My favourite question. So I pass it into you.

Into us?

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman over a year ago

Somewhere else

"I'm damaged goods, I'm extremely hard work and I also love my independence too much"

You are magnificent, and I’m still waiting for my cage fight.

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By *orny-DJMan over a year ago

Leigh-on-Sea

Choice

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Spent 38 years being single.

Got married.

Now single.

I love it, no one controlling my life

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm damaged goods, I'm extremely hard work and I also love my independence too much"

Your profile!

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By *ylonlover87Man over a year ago

Kent

By choice for me too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I will never get together with controlling men. Who think its a turn on.

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By *rAitchMan over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

My Best Before and Use By dates expired long ago.

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By *urora1912Woman over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

My 20year marriage ended... i finally found a guy I thought I was ready to be with and now hes got terminal cancer and doesn't have much longer left

It's broken me, and I don't think I will ever look for another relationship.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"My favourite question. So I pass it into you.

Into us?

Too kinky?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"My 20year marriage ended... i finally found a guy I thought I was ready to be with and now hes got terminal cancer and doesn't have much longer left

It's broken me, and I don't think I will ever look for another relationship. "

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By *orphia2003Woman over a year ago

Tonypandy.

I choose to be.

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By *ylonlover87Man over a year ago

Kent

"I'm damaged goods, I'm extremely hard work and I also love my independence too much"

Don't ever think of yourself as damaged goods.??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It’s a choice ,I’m just not sure if my choice or there’s

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I’m not

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It’s a choice ,I’m just not sure if my choice or there’s

*theirs

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It’s a choice ,I’m just not sure if my choice or there’s

*theirs

Trust me, you’re safe in this thread for errors in text.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm damaged goods, I'm extremely hard work and I also love my independence too much

Don't ever think of yourself as damaged goods.??"

True.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It’s a choice ,I’m just not sure if my choice or there’s

*theirs

Trust me, you’re safe in this thread for errors in text.

Phew! I was worried the grammar people would come for me

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By *oofy321Man over a year ago

moon base zero

Just look at my pictures, there's your answer x

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By *ife NinjaMan over a year ago

Dunfermline

I'm old. Nobody wants to know anymore

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm old. Nobody wants to know anymore

Do you think this is a fear? It is mine.

just becoming too old.

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By *ookie46Woman over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I like my independence, all my relationships I’ve been lied to and cheated on and when you have kids with additional needs it takes someone special to let them into their lives

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By *ife NinjaMan over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I'm old. Nobody wants to know anymore

Do you think this is a fear? It is mine.

just becoming too old. "

Like most things, you learn to live with it. Your social life declines, although I will makecan effort this year

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman over a year ago

Somewhere else

"My 20year marriage ended... i finally found a guy I thought I was ready to be with and now hes got terminal cancer and doesn't have much longer left

It's broken me, and I don't think I will ever look for another relationship. "

I am so sorry.

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By *moothdickMan over a year ago

stoke

Came out of a vanilla sour relationship and don’t need the hassle, want time on my own but nothing wrong in having a play mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm old. Nobody wants to know anymore

Do you think this is a fear? It is mine.

just becoming too old.

Like most things, you learn to live with it. Your social life declines, although I will makecan effort this year

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By *lowhands7Man over a year ago

South Leicestershire (willing to travel)

Divorced and have child - the next chapter hasn't begun as yet.

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By *weetiepie99Woman over a year ago

cardiff

I haven't met the next 'one'... yet

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By *ornycougaWoman over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

"I'm damaged goods, I'm extremely hard work and I also love my independence too much

You are magnificent, and I’m still waiting for my cage fight.

Oh that is so happening in 2024

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By *ister1Man over a year ago

north west

"My 20year marriage ended... i finally found a guy I thought I was ready to be with and now hes got terminal cancer and doesn't have much longer left

It's broken me, and I don't think I will ever look for another relationship.

I am so sorry. "

So sorry x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm single by choice....I find it difficult to find exactly what I want ....So sometimes being single is best....better than a BTN.... (BTN == Better Than Nothing)

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By *rispyDuckMan over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

By choice

Having way too much fun to give up my freedom yet.

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By *urora1912Woman over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

"My 20year marriage ended... i finally found a guy I thought I was ready to be with and now hes got terminal cancer and doesn't have much longer left

It's broken me, and I don't think I will ever look for another relationship.

I am so sorry. "

Thank you

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

We are born single.

The question should be - Why have you tied yourself to one person ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I hate dating apps and I'm far too shy in social situations to just chat to random women without looking like I'm only trying to pull.

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By *carlet SeductionWoman over a year ago

Maidstone

"I'm old. Nobody wants to know anymore

Do you think this is a fear? It is mine.

just becoming too old. "

This is a real fear for me too... but I'm not ready to do anything about it...I really fear by the time I'm ready I will be too old.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We are born single.

The question should be - Why have you tied yourself to one person ?"

It always made me think growing up, you’re alone as a child/teenager/young adult (delete as appropriate) yet expected to couple up with someone when you’re grown

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"We are born single.

The question should be - Why have you tied yourself to one person ?"

Damn!….

Because I like them?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My 20year marriage ended... i finally found a guy I thought I was ready to be with and now hes got terminal cancer and doesn't have much longer left

It's broken me, and I don't think I will ever look for another relationship. "

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By *illy IdolMan over a year ago

Midlands

"We are born single.

The question should be - Why have you tied yourself to one person ?

It always made me think growing up, you’re alone as a child/teenager/young adult (delete as appropriate) yet expected to couple up with someone when you’re grown

Cuzco the system don't like it man. Too much time to think innit

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By *ostindreamsMan over a year ago

London

"My 20year marriage ended... i finally found a guy I thought I was ready to be with and now hes got terminal cancer and doesn't have much longer left

It's broken me, and I don't think I will ever look for another relationship. "

So sorry

Hope he has the strength to get through this

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By *obilebottomMan over a year ago

All over

"My 20year marriage ended... i finally found a guy I thought I was ready to be with and now hes got terminal cancer and doesn't have much longer left

It's broken me, and I don't think I will ever look for another relationship. "

So sorry to hear. Life can be cruel but hope it also gets better for you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We are born single.

The question should be - Why have you tied yourself to one person ?

It always made me think growing up, you’re alone as a child/teenager/young adult (delete as appropriate) yet expected to couple up with someone when you’re grown

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By *toC Thats MeWoman over a year ago

Sheffield

Single until someone comes along that really makes me want to change that.

6 years single now. 20 year relationship previously and in zero rush.

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By *udding RoseWoman over a year ago

Somewhere out there

I hate being asked that question!! I love being single but some people think there's something wrong with that, I must be lonely etc, it drives me mad!!

I love being single and I'm not lonely!

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By *irthy89888Man over a year ago

Barnsley

"Single until someone comes along that really makes me want to change that.

6 years single now. 20 year relationship previously and in zero rush."

Oh sheffield hello how are you x. X

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"We are born single.

The question should be - Why have you tied yourself to one person ?

It always made me think growing up, you’re alone as a child/teenager/young adult (delete as appropriate) yet expected to couple up with someone when you’re grown

Marriage was contractual. Nothing to do with love and all to do with bloodlines, inheritance and ensuring fathers financed their offspring.

If people remembered this , there could be millions more excellent marriages where those who wished to raise a family could do so with a partner they chose for their qualities of parenting and homemaking and other values they'd have about how they treated each other.

Tit size, Whether they give out or he is loaded, his cock size or splashing 30 grand on pink bows and cheap champagne isn't really a great foundation for 'love' .....

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

P.S. I always think marriages should dissolve when the youngest child turns 18 AND then if people want to re-marry the same partner GREAT......

If we all knew it wasn't for life ....... what bliss.

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By *all me missWoman over a year ago

South Wales

I prefer it…. Less hassle

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We are born single.

The question should be - Why have you tied yourself to one person ?

It always made me think growing up, you’re alone as a child/teenager/young adult (delete as appropriate) yet expected to couple up with someone when you’re grown

Marriage was contractual. Nothing to do with love and all to do with bloodlines, inheritance and ensuring fathers financed their offspring.

Tit size, Whether they give out or he is loaded, his cock size or splashing 30 grand on pink bows and cheap champagne isn't really a great foundation for 'love' .....

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By *esafinadOHolyNightMan over a year ago

Belfast

Atm, through choice. I'm happily gonna stay single for the foreseeable.

My other relationships but 1 didn't work out because we realised we weren't right for each other. 1 relationship I fucked up through drink which is why I hardly drink anymore and I haven't drank vodka for 13 years because it makes me cheeky.

Lastly, I'm not a hunk, so I have less of an appeal than some good looking men. I'm a nice guy, but I've found that generally keeps me in the friend zone also.

Still happy though

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By *urora1912Woman over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

"My 20year marriage ended... i finally found a guy I thought I was ready to be with and now hes got terminal cancer and doesn't have much longer left

It's broken me, and I don't think I will ever look for another relationship.

So sorry

Hope he has the strength to get through this "

He doesn't, the end is close

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not

Stop copying me

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By *TG3Man over a year ago

Dorchester

But having said that i like being independent

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By *ittlebirdWoman over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Because I refer to the phrase “let’s get jiggy with it” often…

That may or may not be the only reason

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By *enuine MikeMan over a year ago

Guildford

Unfortunately yes but it's always been the same for me.

I have friends that go through girlfriends around every 6 months.

Not like that's a good thing but they have the knack of picking them up and starting new relationships quite regularly.

I dont have that.

I'm an undateable lol. POF, Tinder, Hinge. Tried them all but I never match with anyone

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By *affron40Woman over a year ago

manchester

I like being on my own too much.

I’ve had so many health issues I’ve not been able to make sure I’m the best version of me to consider otherwise.

I’ve not met anyone who id even consider being with.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman over a year ago

Next Door

I've had 2 relationship in the past 13 yrs, both not long term and when the last one ended, I was a broken person, so I've spent a few years of building me back up.

I'm very happy with who i am.

The past few months, I've thought I'm ready for dating again. I know what I can offer and looking for someone who matches me. If I don't find him,then I will stay single

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I get asked this all the time

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By *egDaySkipperMan over a year ago

Liverpool

"I get asked this all the time

I can stop if you take me out on a date

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because my daughter and my work fill up the horizons of my life. I don't want anything disturbing that view.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because of my innie for a penis and glue on beard.

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By *illan-KillashMan over a year ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

"I've only met one woman my cats approve of.

…..

Haha. Second opinions always help.

My two are good judges. Spent all afternoon rolling round on the floor with her.

Having said that, she did bring cat toys.

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I have that unique combination of apathy and sarcasm that drives the women wild…………. In the other direction!

Besides I think I am better on a timeshare basis than a full time keepsies

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By *ildo_swagginsthe3rdWoman over a year ago

Wales

Hhhm, I think it's because I haven't got the energy or time for another person in my life that consistently requires my time and attention. There's too much I want to do (mainly just chill out with my cat).

Also, I like being in control of where I go, when I go, what I do and also not having to compromise on what to watch on Netflix.

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By *uri00620Woman over a year ago

Croydon

I need the entire wardrobe and chest of drawers to myself

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By *d4fun73Man over a year ago

Shipley

"2 divorces and a few long term relationships have taught me I’m better relying on myself and enjoying life my way

Same here!!!

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

Seriously.. look at me... that's a question you really don't need to ask..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think it's my antipathy towards men with fish. I need to work on that.

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By *a LunaWoman over a year ago

South Wales

Many reasons I daresay.

But I am practically a hermit. We live with my mum (as a carer) I live with my children, both under 16, I have three dogs. I work part time.

I’m extravagantly tall and a chubster. Niche qualities.

Add in being shy and quiet and yeah. It’s no mystery

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By *esthetic21Man over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

Cause women are liars

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By *dinburghWomanWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

My age is considered okay for casual sex but too old for a relationship

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am good at avoiding commitment

No one I have met lives up to my standards

I like my own space

Being around someone too much would make me want to kill them (my housemates survival is testament to my incredible self control though)

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By *ablo minibar123Woman over a year ago

"Where I live, I rarely meet anyone that I would honestly want to date

Try Manchester.

… then you’ll see the struggle. "

Tbh I could guarantee there would be more men that I find attractive in Manchester than there is in Cornwall. Cornwall really isn't known for it's racial diversity

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman over a year ago

south coast IOW

"Vanillia online dating doesn't work for me, my social networks are mainly straight women (by accident not design), been on Fab 6 months but I mainly meet couples.

I definitely have hopes of meeting a single guy through Fab, we decide to be a serious couple and I now don't want vanilla so we carry on swinging

Or maybe a special lady, but whereas with sex I'm equal between genders in terms of attraction, relationship wise I do lean more towards men.

This is the holy grail

I've met with quite a few couples who formed through Fab, I need to work on meeting more single men though to improve my odds!

Being Bi I just find couples a more exciting way to spend my Fab time

Don’t give up I met my last long term partner on fab. We were together 5 years and swung as a couple for another year after that. And are still on speaking terms though not together . Xx

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple over a year ago

Southampton

"Cause women are liars

What all.of us ? Lol...

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple over a year ago

Southampton

"My husband died"

I'm so sorry for your loss xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because I'm a sad wanker

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My age is considered okay for casual sex but too old for a relationship "

You're nowhere near too old!

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS over a year ago

Bristol

Because I'm awkward around people, hardly go out, never worked up the courage to make a move on someone I liked and consistently let life/opportunities/people/joy slip through my fingers.

I'm not bitter at all

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By *upcake and wandmasterCouple over a year ago

long eaton

"My husband died"

So sorry to read this..

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Cause women are liars

What all.of us ? Lol... "

#notallliars

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple over a year ago

Southampton

"Cause women are liars

What all.of us ? Lol...

#notallliars

Exactly

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By *atnip make me purrWoman over a year ago

Reading

Being single is too much fun.

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By *os_GoddessofdawnWoman over a year ago

In the clouds

Because nobody I like, likes me

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

My partner died and I don't want to ever be intermate with another man. I love men just don't want to be intermate with one

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By *illy IdolMan over a year ago

Midlands

"My favourite question. So I pass it into you.

It just wouldn't be fair on all those other sexy ladies

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By *weetCherryWoman over a year ago

London

"Because nobody I like, likes me"

Very much this.

Also being neurodivergent and suffering with RSD does not help. I rather stay single than potentially going through heartbreak again. 7 months ago someone led me on and I am still recovering from this, so not again.

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By *ife NinjaMan over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Because nobody I like, likes me"

I like you. You're cute

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because I cba to make time for a man

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Because nobody I like, likes me"

I said this. I’m not my types type.

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By *inger_SnapWoman over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I've never found anyone that meets all my needs.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I take active steps to put people off.

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By *arley QuimWoman over a year ago

Somewhere

Because I genuinely enjoy being on my own a lot of the time

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By *hagTonightMan over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

Because I like my own company. I can do what I want, when I want it

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman over a year ago

Basingstoke

Because I put myself first, and I haven't yet met anyone worthy of me being relegated to second place.

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By *hawn ScottMan over a year ago

london Brixton

because if a girl says to me after comming back from the hairdressers

"you didn't notice I got my hair done"

My reply was

"I did notice but I just don't care"

Drama!

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple over a year ago

Southampton

I'm not but if I were it would be because I'm a bit of a mental wreck lol

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By *ervent_fervourMan over a year ago

Halifax

Faffing about.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Because I put myself first, and I haven't yet met anyone worthy of me being relegated to second place."

I don’t even know what game they are playing?

*good to see you back in here.

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Because I put myself first, and I haven't yet met anyone worthy of me being relegated to second place.

I don’t even know what game they are playing?

*good to see you back in here.

Neither to I!!!

Good to be back again

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By *hrek101Man over a year ago

Herts

Have been asked this so many times...no idea what the answer is..I made the wrong choice with the right ones, I know that in hindsight. Not on FAB but on dating sites woman want sex but never more...

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

I find it hard to trust people...always proven right x

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By *riar BelisseWoman over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

By choice, I don't like my freedom to roam being restricted by anyone.

Fwb relationships have always suited me

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By *aitonelMan over a year ago

Liverpool

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By *aitonelMan over a year ago

Liverpool

I have a knack for screwing up I guess.

Oh and I'm very selective in people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I find it hard to trust people...always proven right x"

This is always sad.

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By *tevieCDMan over a year ago

fareham

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By *os19Man over a year ago

Edmonton

I guess I am one of life’s losers a total reject.

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By *TG3Man over a year ago

Dorchester

I really don't know

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I really don't know

This is what I think. It’s a crime!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because I want to be.

Also I don't think A man would want a slut as a partner.

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By *igtittybbwWoman over a year ago

Portishead

quiet agree

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