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"Fuck yes, but then there are also the ladies too. So don't forget those.
Thank you for saying so! "
I know it's true as I am one of them.
I'm not going to justify my actions or explain the coexistence I have with the one I'm legally attached to. That's my business, but it does happen both ways, for whatever reason or no reason at all. |
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"Fuck yes, but then there are also the ladies too. So don't forget those.
Thank you for saying so!
I know it's true as I am one of them.
I'm not going to justify my actions or explain the coexistence I have with the one I'm legally attached to. That's my business, but it does happen both ways, for whatever reason or no reason at all."
I appreciate the honesty. There is no justification correct! |
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"Fuck yes, but then there are also the ladies too. So don't forget those.
Thank you for saying so!
I know it's true as I am one of them.
I'm not going to justify my actions or explain the coexistence I have with the one I'm legally attached to. That's my business, but it does happen both ways, for whatever reason or no reason at all."
That’s a fair quote, I know of a couple and i believe it’s not my business to judge here, everyone’s here for a reason so let’s just enjoy each other |
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"Fuck yes, but then there are also the ladies too. So don't forget those.
Thank you for saying so!
I know it's true as I am one of them.
I'm not going to justify my actions or explain the coexistence I have with the one I'm legally attached to. That's my business, but it does happen both ways, for whatever reason or no reason at all.
That’s a fair quote, I know of a couple and i believe it’s not my business to judge here, everyone’s here for a reason so let’s just enjoy each other "
The issue is potential familial drama. That's the risk that everyone takes though and I guess that is what put a lot of people off let alone the morality issues. |
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It’s a fine line between swinging and cheating. If on partner wants to socialise and swap partners and the other doesn’t then what can you do.plus it’s not just all about sex it’s the social side going to a club and chatting with others |
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"It’s a fine line between swinging and cheating. If on partner wants to socialise and swap partners and the other doesn’t then what can you do.plus it’s not just all about sex it’s the social side going to a club and chatting with others "
It's only a fine line if you want it to be. It does not have to be at all.
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There are 3 choices.
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1. Keep it secret. Cue guilt, shame, risk-taking. Secrets eventually some to light. Then there is fallout.
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2. Repress activity. Cue self-loathing, frustration, anger, resentment. This is self-destructive and harmful.
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3. Speak to your partner. Discuss options for ENM/CNM. Operate openly with full disclosure. Play safely. This is the hardest option of all, but the most honest and if managed appropriately, the most rewarding. It needs constant management and review, but then all arrangements do, covert or otherwise. |
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"How naughty? don't put the toilet seat down
Filth bags !  "
I was going to say, not washing their hands after being to the bathroom lol.
Ps: Just bing nosey, not married, not naughty. Just a bit cheeky   |
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