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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Gotta love em right? Right??
When deciding if you wanna meet someone, how much do veris matter to you?
Won't meet anyone unverified?
What do they prove to you?
You see guys allllll the time wanting someone to verify them on cam. Guys, does it actually get you more of the sex stuff once you have an elusive veri?
Do you only display the ones from the people you think are hot? Hide the ones from the weird people right? Makes sense.
* ps please can someone cam and verify me please as I just can't get a penis. Ta |
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We only meet verified people but that’s only to prove they’re not fake. Who from or how many they have is irrelevant.
As long as I know I’m speaking to the person in the profile then it’s all good.
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
It changes very little. Other than you may get looked at because of the tick.
It still all comes down to face, body, and then personality (don't get to show much personality until after they decide if they like the rest - the forum itself is a partial exception).
And no I won't verify you because why would I put myself through that horror when so many other men would sell their nan to do it for you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It changes very little. Other than you may get looked at because of the tick.
It still all comes down to face, body, and then personality (don't get to show much personality until after they decide if they like the rest - the forum itself is a partial exception).
And no I won't verify you because why would I put myself through that horror when so many other men would sell their nan to do it for you. "
You're mean to me |
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"They matter to us. It makes the tedious job of ing out the chancers that little bit easier but we don’t meet anymore so just ignore this post. I’ll go back to my coffee now."
Apparently w££ding is a no no word. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've met unverified and I've met verified. I have been let down by both also. It merely means they've met people that's it.
I do read them some I find a little off putting if they are overly graphic. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"They matter to us. It makes the tedious job of ing out the chancers that little bit easier but we don’t meet anymore so just ignore this post. I’ll go back to my coffee now."
Thank you for your pointless contribution Ant.
A pleasure as always.
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I know this is aimed at men but...I tend to only meet verified people but even then, it doesn't mean anything. Met a guy who turned out to be very pushy and has to cut the meet short. He got a few verifications recently saying how non pushy he is.
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"It changes very little. Other than you may get looked at because of the tick.
It still all comes down to face, body, and then personality (don't get to show much personality until after they decide if they like the rest - the forum itself is a partial exception).
And no I won't verify you because why would I put myself through that horror when so many other men would sell their nan to do it for you.
You're mean to me"
Lies! I've been nice. |
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"They matter to us. It makes the tedious job of ing out the chancers that little bit easier but we don’t meet anymore so just ignore this post. I’ll go back to my coffee now.
Thank you for your pointless contribution Ant.
A pleasure as always.
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You’re welcome, pet. Also we’re taking a break from here so I wasn’t planning on renewing the site supporter pass but now I have to pay £5 to get rid of this ridiculous name. |
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Haven't seen one yet that would encourage me to meet someone. I make those decisions based on how I find them and not on someone elses trustpilot review.
I pay more attention to who has written them and if the writer and words are consistent with the rest of their profile.
I don't write or accept play verifications and hide those from people who couldn't maintain a persona beyond the couple of hours we spent over coffee. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Gotta love em right? Right??
When deciding if you wanna meet someone, how much do veris matter to you?
Won't meet anyone unverified?
What do they prove to you?
You see guys allllll the time wanting someone to verify them on cam. Guys, does it actually get you more of the sex stuff once you have an elusive veri?
Do you only display the ones from the people you think are hot? Hide the ones from the weird people right? Makes sense.
* ps please can someone cam and verify me please as I just can't get a penis. Ta"
Part of it (I think) is that for single guys it is difficult to get any sort of traction here without being verified. Some profiles only accept messages from other verified profiles. Even joining in on the forum one of the stipulations is you need to be verified. So in a way it's a foot in the door.
Yes for some it's like FB friends and some sort of status symbol and they collect them. I've met more people than I have veries for, some more established profiles don't give or want veries and are just happy with the one or two they have. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I know this is aimed at men but...I tend to only meet verified people but even then, it doesn't mean anything. Met a guy who turned out to be very pushy and has to cut the meet short. He got a few verifications recently saying how non pushy he is.
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I can be inclusive, all are welcome.
The thing with verifications, some people put a lot of trust in a stranger's opinion. I'd trust my own more.
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"They matter to us. It makes the tedious job of ing out the chancers that little bit easier but we don’t meet anymore so just ignore this post. I’ll go back to my coffee now.
Thank you for your pointless contribution Ant.
A pleasure as always.
You’re welcome, pet. Also we’re taking a break from here so I wasn’t planning on renewing the site supporter pass but now I have to pay £5 to get rid of this ridiculous name."
But you just got back! 
Keep the name, hide profile. Change it when you return  because we all know you will return. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"They matter to us. It makes the tedious job of ing out the chancers that little bit easier but we don’t meet anymore so just ignore this post. I’ll go back to my coffee now.
Thank you for your pointless contribution Ant.
A pleasure as always.
You’re welcome, pet. Also we’re taking a break from here so I wasn’t planning on renewing the site supporter pass but now I have to pay £5 to get rid of this ridiculous name."
What idiot suggested such a name in the first place! |
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By *harziMan
over a year ago
Merseyside |
"Gotta love em right? Right??
When deciding if you wanna meet someone, how much do veris matter to you?
Won't meet anyone unverified?
What do they prove to you?
You see guys allllll the time wanting someone to verify them on cam. Guys, does it actually get you more of the sex stuff once you have an elusive veri?
Do you only display the ones from the people you think are hot? Hide the ones from the weird people right? Makes sense.
* ps please can someone cam and verify me please as I just can't get a penis. Ta"
you have got to give every one a chance  |
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"They matter to us. It makes the tedious job of ing out the chancers that little bit easier but we don’t meet anymore so just ignore this post. I’ll go back to my coffee now.
Thank you for your pointless contribution Ant.
A pleasure as always.
You’re welcome, pet. Also we’re taking a break from here so I wasn’t planning on renewing the site supporter pass but now I have to pay £5 to get rid of this ridiculous name.
But you just got back!
Keep the name, hide profile. Change it when you return because we all know you will return. "
Sorry I meant taking a break from the sex part. I’ll still be on the forums. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"They matter to us. It makes the tedious job of ing out the chancers that little bit easier but we don’t meet anymore so just ignore this post. I’ll go back to my coffee now.
Thank you for your pointless contribution Ant.
A pleasure as always.
You’re welcome, pet. Also we’re taking a break from here so I wasn’t planning on renewing the site supporter pass but now I have to pay £5 to get rid of this ridiculous name.
But you just got back!
Keep the name, hide profile. Change it when you return because we all know you will return.
Sorry I meant taking a break from the sex part. I’ll still be on the forums."
Oh phew! All is good people. Panic over. Go back about your business |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Haven't seen one yet that would encourage me to meet someone. I make those decisions based on how I find them and not on someone elses trustpilot review.
I pay more attention to who has written them and if the writer and words are consistent with the rest of their profile.
I don't write or accept play verifications and hide those from people who couldn't maintain a persona beyond the couple of hours we spent over coffee. "
Couple of hours over coffee? That's a large coffee.
I just find it odd, you've had sex, now hold up and let me write a review for everyone to see. |
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"Gotta love em right? Right??
When deciding if you wanna meet someone, how much do veris matter to you?
Won't meet anyone unverified?
What do they prove to you?
You see guys allllll the time wanting someone to verify them on cam. Guys, does it actually get you more of the sex stuff once you have an elusive veri?
Do you only display the ones from the people you think are hot? Hide the ones from the weird people right? Makes sense.
* ps please can someone cam and verify me please as I just can't get a penis. Ta"
Real nightmares when two unverified people cam eh!  |
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"They matter to us. It makes the tedious job of ing out the chancers that little bit easier but we don’t meet anymore so just ignore this post. I’ll go back to my coffee now.
Thank you for your pointless contribution Ant.
A pleasure as always.
You’re welcome, pet. Also we’re taking a break from here so I wasn’t planning on renewing the site supporter pass but now I have to pay £5 to get rid of this ridiculous name.
What idiot suggested such a name in the first place! "
Some knob called CameltoeMisery or something. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"They matter to us. It makes the tedious job of ing out the chancers that little bit easier but we don’t meet anymore so just ignore this post. I’ll go back to my coffee now.
Thank you for your pointless contribution Ant.
A pleasure as always.
You’re welcome, pet. Also we’re taking a break from here so I wasn’t planning on renewing the site supporter pass but now I have to pay £5 to get rid of this ridiculous name.
But you just got back!
Keep the name, hide profile. Change it when you return because we all know you will return.
Sorry I meant taking a break from the sex part. I’ll still be on the forums."
Don't get our hopes up like that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Gotta love em right? Right??
When deciding if you wanna meet someone, how much do veris matter to you?
Won't meet anyone unverified?
What do they prove to you?
You see guys allllll the time wanting someone to verify them on cam. Guys, does it actually get you more of the sex stuff once you have an elusive veri?
Do you only display the ones from the people you think are hot? Hide the ones from the weird people right? Makes sense.
* ps please can someone cam and verify me please as I just can't get a penis. Ta
Real nightmares when two unverified people cam eh! "
This is why you won't have sex with me isn't it? |
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"They matter to us. It makes the tedious job of ing out the chancers that little bit easier but we don’t meet anymore so just ignore this post. I’ll go back to my coffee now.
Thank you for your pointless contribution Ant.
A pleasure as always.
You’re welcome, pet. Also we’re taking a break from here so I wasn’t planning on renewing the site supporter pass but now I have to pay £5 to get rid of this ridiculous name.
But you just got back!
Keep the name, hide profile. Change it when you return because we all know you will return.
Sorry I meant taking a break from the sex part. I’ll still be on the forums.
Oh phew! All is good people. Panic over. Go back about your business "
You were going to miss me, weren’t you? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"They matter to us. It makes the tedious job of ing out the chancers that little bit easier but we don’t meet anymore so just ignore this post. I’ll go back to my coffee now.
Thank you for your pointless contribution Ant.
A pleasure as always.
You’re welcome, pet. Also we’re taking a break from here so I wasn’t planning on renewing the site supporter pass but now I have to pay £5 to get rid of this ridiculous name.
What idiot suggested such a name in the first place!
Some knob called CameltoeMisery or something. "
Great gal |
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"They matter to us. It makes the tedious job of ing out the chancers that little bit easier but we don’t meet anymore so just ignore this post. I’ll go back to my coffee now.
Thank you for your pointless contribution Ant.
A pleasure as always.
You’re welcome, pet. Also we’re taking a break from here so I wasn’t planning on renewing the site supporter pass but now I have to pay £5 to get rid of this ridiculous name.
What idiot suggested such a name in the first place!
Some knob called CameltoeMisery or something. "
I just feel sorry for the Mrs having to be one of ant or dec. Which ones more feminine...? |
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"They matter to us. It makes the tedious job of ing out the chancers that little bit easier but we don’t meet anymore so just ignore this post. I’ll go back to my coffee now.
Thank you for your pointless contribution Ant.
A pleasure as always.
You’re welcome, pet. Also we’re taking a break from here so I wasn’t planning on renewing the site supporter pass but now I have to pay £5 to get rid of this ridiculous name.
But you just got back!
Keep the name, hide profile. Change it when you return because we all know you will return.
Sorry I meant taking a break from the sex part. I’ll still be on the forums.
Don't get our hopes up like that"
You’d already messaged asking for my number to stay in touch. If these people only knew how nice you really are. |
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"They matter to us. It makes the tedious job of ing out the chancers that little bit easier but we don’t meet anymore so just ignore this post. I’ll go back to my coffee now.
Thank you for your pointless contribution Ant.
A pleasure as always.
You’re welcome, pet. Also we’re taking a break from here so I wasn’t planning on renewing the site supporter pass but now I have to pay £5 to get rid of this ridiculous name.
What idiot suggested such a name in the first place!
Some knob called CameltoeMisery or something.
I just feel sorry for the Mrs having to be one of ant or dec. Which ones more feminine...?"
She’s hairier. |
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"Gotta love em right? Right??
When deciding if you wanna meet someone, how much do veris matter to you?
Won't meet anyone unverified?
What do they prove to you?
You see guys allllll the time wanting someone to verify them on cam. Guys, does it actually get you more of the sex stuff once you have an elusive veri?
Do you only display the ones from the people you think are hot? Hide the ones from the weird people right? Makes sense.
* ps please can someone cam and verify me please as I just can't get a penis. Ta
Real nightmares when two unverified people cam eh!
This is why you won't have sex with me isn't it?"
That and my penis not being the distance between London and NORTH |
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"They matter to us. It makes the tedious job of ing out the chancers that little bit easier but we don’t meet anymore so just ignore this post. I’ll go back to my coffee now.
Thank you for your pointless contribution Ant.
A pleasure as always.
You’re welcome, pet. Also we’re taking a break from here so I wasn’t planning on renewing the site supporter pass but now I have to pay £5 to get rid of this ridiculous name.
What idiot suggested such a name in the first place!
Some knob called CameltoeMisery or something.
I just feel sorry for the Mrs having to be one of ant or dec. Which ones more feminine...?
She’s hairier."
New username should be the Growlers. On both parts. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"They matter to us. It makes the tedious job of ing out the chancers that little bit easier but we don’t meet anymore so just ignore this post. I’ll go back to my coffee now.
Thank you for your pointless contribution Ant.
A pleasure as always.
You’re welcome, pet. Also we’re taking a break from here so I wasn’t planning on renewing the site supporter pass but now I have to pay £5 to get rid of this ridiculous name.
But you just got back!
Keep the name, hide profile. Change it when you return because we all know you will return.
Sorry I meant taking a break from the sex part. I’ll still be on the forums.
Don't get our hopes up like that
You’d already messaged asking for my number to stay in touch. If these people only knew how nice you really are."
Only so I can treat you to a festive bake. |
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"I know this is aimed at men but...I tend to only meet verified people but even then, it doesn't mean anything. Met a guy who turned out to be very pushy and has to cut the meet short. He got a few verifications recently saying how non pushy he is.
I can be inclusive, all are welcome.
The thing with verifications, some people put a lot of trust in a stranger's opinion. I'd trust my own more.
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Absolutely. It just helps to know that they turned up and were who they said. Apart from that, I love reading them because I'm nosey!
I would probably not meet men who have lots of meet verifications from different women in a very short period of time as it could suggest that they just meet people once and that's not what I'm after. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I know this is aimed at men but...I tend to only meet verified people but even then, it doesn't mean anything. Met a guy who turned out to be very pushy and has to cut the meet short. He got a few verifications recently saying how non pushy he is.
I can be inclusive, all are welcome.
The thing with verifications, some people put a lot of trust in a stranger's opinion. I'd trust my own more.
Absolutely. It just helps to know that they turned up and were who they said. Apart from that, I love reading them because I'm nosey!
I would probably not meet men who have lots of meet verifications from different women in a very short period of time as it could suggest that they just meet people once and that's not what I'm after. "
It proves they met someone, doesn't mean they'll meet you. By you I don't mean you I mean the collective you.
I've yet to read one that hasn't put me off.
Unverified for me! I like to go where no one has gone before. |
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"They matter to us. It makes the tedious job of ing out the chancers that little bit easier but we don’t meet anymore so just ignore this post. I’ll go back to my coffee now.
Thank you for your pointless contribution Ant.
A pleasure as always.
You’re welcome, pet. Also we’re taking a break from here so I wasn’t planning on renewing the site supporter pass but now I have to pay £5 to get rid of this ridiculous name.
But you just got back!
Keep the name, hide profile. Change it when you return because we all know you will return.
Sorry I meant taking a break from the sex part. I’ll still be on the forums.
Don't get our hopes up like that
You’d already messaged asking for my number to stay in touch. If these people only knew how nice you really are.
Only so I can treat you to a festive bake."
Sounds like an urban dictionary sex act  |
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"They matter to us. It makes the tedious job of ing out the chancers that little bit easier but we don’t meet anymore so just ignore this post. I’ll go back to my coffee now.
Thank you for your pointless contribution Ant.
A pleasure as always.
You’re welcome, pet. Also we’re taking a break from here so I wasn’t planning on renewing the site supporter pass but now I have to pay £5 to get rid of this ridiculous name.
What idiot suggested such a name in the first place!
Some knob called CameltoeMisery or something.
I just feel sorry for the Mrs having to be one of ant or dec. Which ones more feminine...?
She’s hairier.
New username should be the Growlers. On both parts."
I’m actually considering it |
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"They matter to us. It makes the tedious job of ing out the chancers that little bit easier but we don’t meet anymore so just ignore this post. I’ll go back to my coffee now.
Thank you for your pointless contribution Ant.
A pleasure as always.
You’re welcome, pet. Also we’re taking a break from here so I wasn’t planning on renewing the site supporter pass but now I have to pay £5 to get rid of this ridiculous name.
But you just got back!
Keep the name, hide profile. Change it when you return because we all know you will return.
Sorry I meant taking a break from the sex part. I’ll still be on the forums.
Don't get our hopes up like that
You’d already messaged asking for my number to stay in touch. If these people only knew how nice you really are.
Only so I can treat you to a festive bake.
Sounds like an urban dictionary sex act "
It involves a lot of sauce  |
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"They matter to us. It makes the tedious job of ing out the chancers that little bit easier but we don’t meet anymore so just ignore this post. I’ll go back to my coffee now.
Thank you for your pointless contribution Ant.
A pleasure as always.
You’re welcome, pet. Also we’re taking a break from here so I wasn’t planning on renewing the site supporter pass but now I have to pay £5 to get rid of this ridiculous name.
But you just got back!
Keep the name, hide profile. Change it when you return because we all know you will return.
Sorry I meant taking a break from the sex part. I’ll still be on the forums.
Don't get our hopes up like that
You’d already messaged asking for my number to stay in touch. If these people only knew how nice you really are.
Only so I can treat you to a festive bake.
Sounds like an urban dictionary sex act
It involves a lot of sauce "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"They matter to us. It makes the tedious job of ing out the chancers that little bit easier but we don’t meet anymore so just ignore this post. I’ll go back to my coffee now.
Thank you for your pointless contribution Ant.
A pleasure as always.
You’re welcome, pet. Also we’re taking a break from here so I wasn’t planning on renewing the site supporter pass but now I have to pay £5 to get rid of this ridiculous name.
But you just got back!
Keep the name, hide profile. Change it when you return because we all know you will return.
Sorry I meant taking a break from the sex part. I’ll still be on the forums.
Don't get our hopes up like that
You’d already messaged asking for my number to stay in touch. If these people only knew how nice you really are.
Only so I can treat you to a festive bake.
Sounds like an urban dictionary sex act
It involves a lot of sauce
Hot."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They might matter. They might not.
Typical guy, keeping everyone on side  "
It’s not though. I can tell you now, it depends on all sorts of things. If I sat here, and said it doesn’t matter at all, that just means I would fuck anybody, regardless of what history they have.
I also understand a lot of people hide their history, so that’s another factor, it’s not what they show you is what they wont show you that can be the biggest put off. I prefer honesty.
It’s complicated and hard to explain, it’s not a simple answer yes or no.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"They might matter. They might not.
Typical guy, keeping everyone on side
It’s not though. I can tell you now, it depends on all sorts of things. If I sat here, and said it doesn’t matter at all, that just means I would fuck anybody, regardless of what history they have.
I also understand a lot of people hide their history, so that’s another factor, it’s not what they show you is what they wont show you that can be the biggest put off. I prefer honesty.
It’s complicated and hard to explain, it’s not a simple answer yes or no.
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It doesn't mean you'd fuck anyone at all.
It means you have the brains to figure out yourself if you want to meet someone.
Or you're influenced by who they've met before and what others say about them.
It's pretty simple really.
People like to over complicate them.
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"They might matter. They might not.
Typical guy, keeping everyone on side
It’s not though. I can tell you now, it depends on all sorts of things. If I sat here, and said it doesn’t matter at all, that just means I would fuck anybody, regardless of what history they have.
I also understand a lot of people hide their history, so that’s another factor, it’s not what they show you is what they wont show you that can be the biggest put off. I prefer honesty.
It’s complicated and hard to explain, it’s not a simple answer yes or no.
It doesn't mean you'd fuck anyone at all.
It means you have the brains to figure out yourself if you want to meet someone.
Or you're influenced by who they've met before and what others say about them.
It's pretty simple really.
People like to over complicate them.
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For a Quik fuck, that doesn’t mean anything. No, theyre verifications wouldn’t mean anything, and if they had none, I couldn’t care less.
But I’m not here for a quick fuck though, so obviously they do mean something and they would influence me. How? I don’t know yet, I wait for those threads from women, that ask if anyone is available in Manchester  and then I know if I would meet them |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"They might matter. They might not.
Typical guy, keeping everyone on side
It’s not though. I can tell you now, it depends on all sorts of things. If I sat here, and said it doesn’t matter at all, that just means I would fuck anybody, regardless of what history they have.
I also understand a lot of people hide their history, so that’s another factor, it’s not what they show you is what they wont show you that can be the biggest put off. I prefer honesty.
It’s complicated and hard to explain, it’s not a simple answer yes or no.
It doesn't mean you'd fuck anyone at all.
It means you have the brains to figure out yourself if you want to meet someone.
Or you're influenced by who they've met before and what others say about them.
It's pretty simple really.
People like to over complicate them.
For a Quik fuck, that doesn’t mean anything. No, theyre verifications wouldn’t mean anything, and if they had none, I couldn’t care less.
But I’m not here for a quick fuck though, so obviously they do mean something and they would influence me. How? I don’t know yet, I wait for those threads from women, that ask if anyone is available in Manchester and then I know if I would meet them "
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For a Quik fuck, that doesn’t mean anything. No, theyre verifications wouldn’t mean anything, and if they had none, I couldn’t care less.
But I’m not here for a quick fuck though, so obviously they do mean something and they would influence me. How? I don’t know yet, I wait for those threads from women, that ask if anyone is available in Manchester and then I know if I would meet them
So people without any are only good for a quick fuck?
Interesting."
Don’t try and twist my words.
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Honestly?
I don't think too much about it.
You've displayed veris before Op. Shock horror, you've even met forum users. For me personally, I don't think having them/not having them/displaying them/not displaying them makes you a cut above in anyway. That's utter bollocks. You're (a general you) not unique or special or oh so different.
I do think single men have an easier time meeting people if they're verified.
I don't display all my veris because it's no one else's business who I have sex with/have wank chat with. I don't make it obvious in the fora, I don't want it on my profile. It's kind of a sex free profile mainly and that works for me.
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"Honestly?
I don't think too much about it.
You've displayed veris before Op. Shock horror, you've even met forum users. For me personally, I don't think having them/not having them/displaying them/not displaying them makes you a cut above in anyway. That's utter bollocks. You're (a general you) not unique or special or oh so different.
I do think single men have an easier time meeting people if they're verified.
I don't display all my veris because it's no one else's business who I have sex with/have wank chat with. I don't make it obvious in the fora, I don't want it on my profile. It's kind of a sex free profile mainly and that works for me.
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Don't out me this early please, I've not eaten yet.
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"They might matter. They might not.
Typical guy, keeping everyone on side
It’s not though. I can tell you now, it depends on all sorts of things. If I sat here, and said it doesn’t matter at all, that just means I would fuck anybody, regardless of what history they have.
I also understand a lot of people hide their history, so that’s another factor, it’s not what they show you is what they wont show you that can be the biggest put off. I prefer honesty.
It’s complicated and hard to explain, it’s not a simple answer yes or no.
It doesn't mean you'd fuck anyone at all.
It means you have the brains to figure out yourself if you want to meet someone.
Or you're influenced by who they've met before and what others say about them.
It's pretty simple really.
People like to over complicate them.
For a Quik fuck, that doesn’t mean anything. No, theyre verifications wouldn’t mean anything, and if they had none, I couldn’t care less.
But I’m not here for a quick fuck though, so obviously they do mean something and they would influence me. How? I don’t know yet, I wait for those threads from women, that ask if anyone is available in Manchester and then I know if I would meet them
So people without any are only good for a quick fuck?
Interesting."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"They might matter. They might not.
Typical guy, keeping everyone on side
It’s not though. I can tell you now, it depends on all sorts of things. If I sat here, and said it doesn’t matter at all, that just means I would fuck anybody, regardless of what history they have.
I also understand a lot of people hide their history, so that’s another factor, it’s not what they show you is what they wont show you that can be the biggest put off. I prefer honesty.
It’s complicated and hard to explain, it’s not a simple answer yes or no.
It doesn't mean you'd fuck anyone at all.
It means you have the brains to figure out yourself if you want to meet someone.
Or you're influenced by who they've met before and what others say about them.
It's pretty simple really.
People like to over complicate them.
For a Quik fuck, that doesn’t mean anything. No, theyre verifications wouldn’t mean anything, and if they had none, I couldn’t care less.
But I’m not here for a quick fuck though, so obviously they do mean something and they would influence me. How? I don’t know yet, I wait for those threads from women, that ask if anyone is available in Manchester and then I know if I would meet them
So people without any are only good for a quick fuck?
Interesting.
That's not what he said."
I took it to meaning for a quick fuck verifications don't matter.
But if you want more then they do.
I've not eaten so I maybe didn't word it right.
You may burn me at the stake.
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"They might matter. They might not.
Typical guy, keeping everyone on side
It’s not though. I can tell you now, it depends on all sorts of things. If I sat here, and said it doesn’t matter at all, that just means I would fuck anybody, regardless of what history they have.
I also understand a lot of people hide their history, so that’s another factor, it’s not what they show you is what they wont show you that can be the biggest put off. I prefer honesty.
It’s complicated and hard to explain, it’s not a simple answer yes or no.
It doesn't mean you'd fuck anyone at all.
It means you have the brains to figure out yourself if you want to meet someone.
Or you're influenced by who they've met before and what others say about them.
It's pretty simple really.
People like to over complicate them.
For a Quik fuck, that doesn’t mean anything. No, theyre verifications wouldn’t mean anything, and if they had none, I couldn’t care less.
But I’m not here for a quick fuck though, so obviously they do mean something and they would influence me. How? I don’t know yet, I wait for those threads from women, that ask if anyone is available in Manchester and then I know if I would meet them
So people without any are only good for a quick fuck?
Interesting.
That's not what he said.
I took it to meaning for a quick fuck verifications don't matter.
But if you want more then they do.
I've not eaten so I maybe didn't word it right.
You may burn me at the stake.
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Oh well I'd agree with that what you say. Not sure if that was Woody's thoughts.
Of course veris won't matter as much for a quick fuck, it's just a fuck.
If someone wants a virginal or a very sexual swinging partner, 0 or 1,000 veris will of course influence them. |
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over a year ago
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So people without any are only good for a quick fuck?
Interesting.
That's not what he said.
I took it to meaning for a quick fuck verifications don't matter.
But if you want more then they do.
I've not eaten so I maybe didn't word it right.
You may burn me at the stake.
Oh well I'd agree with that what you say. Not sure if that was Woody's thoughts.
Of course veris won't matter as much for a quick fuck, it's just a fuck.
If someone wants a virginal or a very sexual swinging partner, 0 or 1,000 veris will of course influence them. "
No Jag. You said this - “ So people without any are ‘’ONLY” good for a quick fuck?”
And that’s not what I said.
I don’t say that all they’re good for.
I’m trying to tell you, if all I wanted from someone was a fuck, I couldn’t care less about their verifications or if they have any at all. I hope that helps you. Now get something to eat. |
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So people without any are only good for a quick fuck?
Interesting.
That's not what he said.
I took it to meaning for a quick fuck verifications don't matter.
But if you want more then they do.
I've not eaten so I maybe didn't word it right.
You may burn me at the stake.
Oh well I'd agree with that what you say. Not sure if that was Woody's thoughts.
Of course veris won't matter as much for a quick fuck, it's just a fuck.
If someone wants a virginal or a very sexual swinging partner, 0 or 1,000 veris will of course influence them.
No Jag. You said this - “ So people without any are ‘’ONLY” good for a quick fuck?”
And that’s not what I said.
I don’t say that all they’re good for.
I’m trying to tell you, if all I wanted from someone was a fuck, I couldn’t care less about their verifications or if they have any at all. I hope that helps you. Now get something to eat.
Don't call me that"
Okay.. ?? Raven?? Mistletoe (this will change tomorrow I’m sure. Which? What will your new name be? I can’t keep track? |
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over a year ago
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So people without any are only good for a quick fuck?
Interesting.
That's not what he said.
I took it to meaning for a quick fuck verifications don't matter.
But if you want more then they do.
I've not eaten so I maybe didn't word it right.
You may burn me at the stake.
Oh well I'd agree with that what you say. Not sure if that was Woody's thoughts.
Of course veris won't matter as much for a quick fuck, it's just a fuck.
If someone wants a virginal or a very sexual swinging partner, 0 or 1,000 veris will of course influence them.
No Jag. You said this - “ So people without any are ‘’ONLY” good for a quick fuck?”
And that’s not what I said.
I don’t say that all they’re good for.
I’m trying to tell you, if all I wanted from someone was a fuck, I couldn’t care less about their verifications or if they have any at all. I hope that helps you. Now get something to eat.
Don't call me that
Okay.. ?? Raven?? Mistletoe (this will change tomorrow I’m sure. Which? What will your new name be? I can’t keep track? "
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over a year ago
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"Has anyone got a nice Nan (grandma not flatbread) for me to buy? I miss mine.
Catch me at lunchtime and I might take the naan bread.
J"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Those verifications that say
Used to know them on old profile annoy me.
Sometimes it is a struggle for us all to meet when veris say nice person but strung me along. Mean nothing to me. |
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over a year ago
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"Gotta love em right? Right??
When deciding if you wanna meet someone, how much do veris matter to you?
Won't meet anyone unverified?
What do they prove to you?
You see guys allllll the time wanting someone to verify them on cam. Guys, does it actually get you more of the sex stuff once you have an elusive veri?
Do you only display the ones from the people you think are hot? Hide the ones from the weird people right? Makes sense.
* ps please can someone cam and verify me please as I just can't get a penis. Ta"
From a noobs perspective, I don't know this site or what people think is important to have.
All I do know is that I contacted a handful of people to ask if they wanted to chat and my messages wernt even read.
So I was under the assumption that having just one veri would prove I was the person I said as I didn't know if I wasn't read because I wasn't veri?
But I'm guessing my pic/profile is not to their liking plus they get 1000 messages a day |
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over a year ago
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Verifications mean nothing. Not having them means nothing. The amount of accounts that are new but are actually returning people for the millionth time. |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
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The verifications that matter the most to me are the ones that verify  that I do look like my photos. Not necessarily that they think I’m hot- just that what they see is what they get, lol. There’s a lot of catfishin’ around.
And no, I don’t meet just verified people. The most significant people to me on FAB I gave them their first veri.
But I *do* look at verifications. If the person in question meets people who are completely different to me, it does make me wonder… and it is rare that I will meet for sex with someone who has lots and lots of verifications. May be double standards, bit it is what it is. |
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over a year ago
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"Gotta love em right? Right??
When deciding if you wanna meet someone, how much do veris matter to you?
Won't meet anyone unverified?
What do they prove to you?
You see guys allllll the time wanting someone to verify them on cam. Guys, does it actually get you more of the sex stuff once you have an elusive veri?
Do you only display the ones from the people you think are hot? Hide the ones from the weird people right? Makes sense.
* ps please can someone cam and verify me please as I just can't get a penis. Ta
From a noobs perspective, I don't know this site or what people think is important to have.
All I do know is that I contacted a handful of people to ask if they wanted to chat and my messages wernt even read.
So I was under the assumption that having just one veri would prove I was the person I said as I didn't know if I wasn't read because I wasn't veri?
But I'm guessing my pic/profile is not to their liking plus they get 1000 messages a day "
Or it might be that you only wanted to cam/meet to get verified that put them off?
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over a year ago
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"The verifications that matter the most to me are the ones that verify that I do look like my photos. Not necessarily that they think I’m hot- just that what they see is what they get, lol. There’s a lot of catfishin’ around.
And no, I don’t meet just verified people. The most significant people to me on FAB I gave them their first veri.
But I *do* look at verifications. If the person in question meets people who are completely different to me, it does make me wonder… and it is rare that I will meet for sex with someone who has lots and lots of verifications. May be double standards, bit it is what it is. "
I use them to see who they've met.
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In truth, meet veris are much more 'useful' for a single guy. A photo veri for a woman or couple proves way more to us, it shows they are actually a woman/couple and in the case of a couple, that both want to be here.
Is there a point to a cam veri? I can't really think of one - am I missing something?
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"Has anyone got a nice Nan (grandma not flatbread) for me to buy? I miss mine.
Catch me at lunchtime and I might take the naan bread.
J
I want what she's had. "
Above Kai said people would sell their Nan to cam veri you. I'm offering to buy.
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over a year ago
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"Has anyone got a nice Nan (grandma not flatbread) for me to buy? I miss mine.
Catch me at lunchtime and I might take the naan bread.
J
I want what she's had.
Above Kai said people would sell their Nan to cam veri you. I'm offering to buy.
J"
Yeah it may prove they are male female etc but anyone can get infront of a can but will they leave the house and meet you |
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over a year ago
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"Has anyone got a nice Nan (grandma not flatbread) for me to buy? I miss mine.
Catch me at lunchtime and I might take the naan bread.
J
I want what she's had.
Above Kai said people would sell their Nan to cam veri you. I'm offering to buy.
J
Yeah it may prove they are male female etc but anyone can get infront of a can but will they leave the house and meet you "
But a meet veri means they meet someone.
Doesn't mean they'll meet you.
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over a year ago
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"In truth, meet veris are much more 'useful' for a single guy. ….
J"
Imagine a single guy wanting to me a couple, and they don’t have a verification. ? How’s safety you think he’s going to feel?
Trust me, verifications are important for anyone and can be just as useful for anyone’s account as a single guys
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over a year ago
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"Has anyone got a nice Nan (grandma not flatbread) for me to buy? I miss mine.
Catch me at lunchtime and I might take the naan bread.
J
I want what she's had.
Above Kai said people would sell their Nan to cam veri you. I'm offering to buy.
J"
I'll have to dig her up first.
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over a year ago
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"In truth, meet veris are much more 'useful' for a single guy. ….
J
Imagine a single guy wanting to me a couple, and they don’t have a verification. ? How’s safety you think he’s going to feel?
Trust me, verifications are important for anyone and can be just as useful for anyone’s account as a single guys
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They're a safety thing?
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"In truth, meet veris are much more 'useful' for a single guy. ….
J
Imagine a single guy wanting to me a couple, and they don’t have a verification. ? How’s safety you think he’s going to feel?
Trust me, verifications are important for anyone and can be just as useful for anyone’s account as a single guys
They're a safety thing?
"
Oh fuck, yes.
New couples account - they look hot. Face verified. No verifications. And they want to meet me……
How long do you think it’s going to take me to build some kind of trust? |
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"In truth, meet veris are much more 'useful' for a single guy. A photo veri for a woman or couple proves way more to us, it shows they are actually a woman/couple and in the case of a couple, that both want to be here.
Is there a point to a cam veri? I can't really think of one - am I missing something?
J"
I agree. Veris are useful for a single guy - I know from personal experience people who want to meet do use them as a filter.
I use veris as a filter as well - a lack of veris on a female or couple account instantly sets the spidey sense tingling. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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doesn’t make any difference to me. Who I meet is not based on veri’s or lack of, I prefer not to see any as they might put me off.
At first as a single guy it seemed important to have some, but it really isn’t necessary. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Curious question if someone only meets verified people which is fine but how is someone else meant to get verified if nobody will meet them?
Kinda like trying to get a job but they say you need experience but if nobody wants to give you the experience how are you meant to get it |
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over a year ago
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"In truth, meet veris are much more 'useful' for a single guy. ….
J
Imagine a single guy wanting to me a couple, and they don’t have a verification. ? How’s safety you think he’s going to feel?
Trust me, verifications are important for anyone and can be just as useful for anyone’s account as a single guys
They're a safety thing?
Oh fuck, yes.
New couples account - they look hot. Face verified. No verifications. And they want to meet me……
How long do you think it’s going to take me to build some kind of trust? "
Message them, talk to them.
I wouldn't meet a guy based off a few random women's opinions on them been a decent guy.
I'd make up my own mind.
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over a year ago
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"In truth, meet veris are much more 'useful' for a single guy. A photo veri for a woman or couple proves way more to us, it shows they are actually a woman/couple and in the case of a couple, that both want to be here.
Is there a point to a cam veri? I can't really think of one - am I missing something?
J
I agree. Veris are useful for a single guy - I know from personal experience people who want to meet do use them as a filter.
I use veris as a filter as well - a lack of veris on a female or couple account instantly sets the spidey sense tingling. "
It's only a small penis I swear. You'd hardly notice. |
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over a year ago
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"Gotta love em right? Right??
When deciding if you wanna meet someone, how much do veris matter to you?
Won't meet anyone unverified?
What do they prove to you?
You see guys allllll the time wanting someone to verify them on cam. Guys, does it actually get you more of the sex stuff once you have an elusive veri?
Do you only display the ones from the people you think are hot? Hide the ones from the weird people right? Makes sense.
* ps please can someone cam and verify me please as I just can't get a penis. Ta
From a noobs perspective, I don't know this site or what people think is important to have.
All I do know is that I contacted a handful of people to ask if they wanted to chat and my messages wernt even read.
So I was under the assumption that having just one veri would prove I was the person I said as I didn't know if I wasn't read because I wasn't veri?
But I'm guessing my pic/profile is not to their liking plus they get 1000 messages a day
Or it might be that you only wanted to cam/meet to get verified that put them off?
"
Oh, I hadn't asked any of them to meet or anything, I just asked them if they wanted to chat, I dont think i asked to just meet someone straight of the bat.
The only person I mentioned a cam to was you I believe, because you put up a post (which I'm guessing was a joke) asking who would cam you, so I messaged you privately (because that's the only option I had) saying I would cam you, because it would also be nice to be verified.
So it was inline with your question.
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over a year ago
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"Gotta love em right? Right??
When deciding if you wanna meet someone, how much do veris matter to you?
Won't meet anyone unverified?
What do they prove to you?
You see guys allllll the time wanting someone to verify them on cam. Guys, does it actually get you more of the sex stuff once you have an elusive veri?
Do you only display the ones from the people you think are hot? Hide the ones from the weird people right? Makes sense.
* ps please can someone cam and verify me please as I just can't get a penis. Ta
From a noobs perspective, I don't know this site or what people think is important to have.
All I do know is that I contacted a handful of people to ask if they wanted to chat and my messages wernt even read.
So I was under the assumption that having just one veri would prove I was the person I said as I didn't know if I wasn't read because I wasn't veri?
But I'm guessing my pic/profile is not to their liking plus they get 1000 messages a day
Or it might be that you only wanted to cam/meet to get verified that put them off?
Oh, I hadn't asked any of them to meet or anything, I just asked them if they wanted to chat, I dont think i asked to just meet someone straight of the bat.
The only person I mentioned a cam to was you I believe, because you put up a post (which I'm guessing was a joke) asking who would cam you, so I messaged you privately (because that's the only option I had) saying I would cam you, because it would also be nice to be verified.
So it was inline with your question.
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"In truth, meet veris are much more 'useful' for a single guy. ….
J
Imagine a single guy wanting to me a couple, and they don’t have a verification. ? How’s safety you think he’s going to feel?
Trust me, verifications are important for anyone and can be just as useful for anyone’s account as a single guys
They're a safety thing?
Oh fuck, yes.
New couples account - they look hot. Face verified. No verifications. And they want to meet me……
How long do you think it’s going to take me to build some kind of trust? "
Photo veri like I said. Loads of dodgy couple accounts out there. A photo veri proves the woman wants to be part of it. Pictures on profile - half the time they look like he's snapped a pic of her bum from behind and then added a photo from their Facebook profile.
The chat would then lead to a social in a public place for us. And should for you too for safety reasons. A meet veri means very little for safety - there are people with glowing veris who have set my spidery sense off the charts. Face to face is where it's at. For us anyway.
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"In truth, meet veris are much more 'useful' for a single guy. ….
J
Imagine a single guy wanting to me a couple, and they don’t have a verification. ? How’s safety you think he’s going to feel?
Trust me, verifications are important for anyone and can be just as useful for anyone’s account as a single guys
They're a safety thing?
Oh fuck, yes.
New couples account - they look hot. Face verified. No verifications. And they want to meet me……
How long do you think it’s going to take me to build some kind of trust?
Message them, talk to them.
I wouldn't meet a guy based off a few random women's opinions on them been a decent guy.
I'd make up my own mind.
"
Exactly, so it’s a yes and no. Sometimes it matters sometimes it doesn’t.
I know peoples opinions can be different to mine, someone with glowing verifications might not be my type of person. It takes a while to find that out.
But Where are the bad verifications to go off???
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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago
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I've been on here a few years and never met anyone. Probably because I've not tried. Therefore, I have no veris.
People say "go to an organised social and ask someone to give you a veri". I've had a look, and there's a social in York in March, which is quite handy for me to get to.
Only caveat - must have a veri to get on the guest list!
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
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"I've been on here a few years and never met anyone. Probably because I've not tried. Therefore, I have no veris.
People say "go to an organised social and ask someone to give you a veri". I've had a look, and there's a social in York in March, which is quite handy for me to get to.
Only caveat - must have a veri to get on the guest list!
Ah well, meeting people requires effort "
Effort In - Rewards out
From the “Crap Fab Quotes” book.
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I've only ever had two verifications. I never displayed them, especially as both were quite personal. I don't mind a casual social veri on show. But when I read intimate verifications it does put me off. I don't wanna read about who they've shagged and how great it was. But, I am very odd. |
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over a year ago
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"I won't meet anyone who has less than 10 veris that confirm they suck cock like a pro and how nice, genuine and sexy they are.
Give me half hour.
We meeting halfway?"
Premier Inn? |
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"I won't meet anyone who has less than 10 veris that confirm they suck cock like a pro and how nice, genuine and sexy they are.
Give me half hour.
We meeting halfway?
Premier Inn?"
Bit skint after Christmas, days inn okay?x |
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over a year ago
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It does mean alot, although many verifications can come from just social meets through either single socials or clubs, so a high verification count doesn't necessarily mean they've slept through the whole site.
Although I prefer to meet with lower count and someone who doesn't frequent clubs weekly, High verification counts means less to me than say someone who has 10 verifications and a majority of those verifications are hidden obscured.
I prefer transparency over anything verification count. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I won't meet anyone who has less than 10 veris that confirm they suck cock like a pro and how nice, genuine and sexy they are.
Give me half hour.
We meeting halfway?
Premier Inn?
Bit skint after Christmas, days inn okay?x"
You charmer |
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over a year ago
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"Gotta love em right?
I like veris. They’re fun. Talking to people tells you a lot more than they do, but they’re still fun.
A+++ Would fuck again."
Is that my veri?
Thanks hun.
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Honestly?
I don't think too much about it.
You've displayed veris before Op. Shock horror, you've even met forum users. For me personally, I don't think having them/not having them/displaying them/not displaying them makes you a cut above in anyway. That's utter bollocks. You're (a general you) not unique or special or oh so different.
I do think single men have an easier time meeting people if they're verified.
I don't display all my veris because it's no one else's business who I have sex with/have wank chat with. I don't make it obvious in the fora, I don't want it on my profile. It's kind of a sex free profile mainly and that works for me.
Don't out me this early please, I've not eaten yet.
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I'd clearly not eaten either, feeling more human and less harpy now. |
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"I've only ever had two verifications. I never displayed them, especially as both were quite personal. I don't mind a casual social veri on show. But when I read intimate verifications it does put me off. I don't wanna read about who they've shagged and how great it was. But, I am very odd. "
It's not odd, it's normal.
People in normal life don't hand out A4 sheets with lists of who they fucked / had coffee with and their review about what happened. |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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People in normal life don't hand out A4 sheets with lists of who they fucked / had coffee with and their review about what happened. "
I so wish they did! I'd be totally down with reading those |
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We look at veris to determine what type of person they are and the people they meet. If it’s full of vulgarity and graphic displays of the action then they aren’t going to be for us.
People who say they don’t read them - really? When considering meeting someone you don’t look at pics and their whole profile?! It’s another tool to determine compatibility.
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By *hloe_TTV/TS
over a year ago
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Yes - veris are a must! Its really hard to know if someone you're talking to is genuine. Veris say to me that the person wants to meet. Best way to filter out cat fish. Not sure how much attention i pay to the content. I read them, but think they tend to be over complimentary. I don't want them to be overly graphic. Especially if its someone leaving one for me lol. But a little bit explicit can be cute x
Id love another thread on what to actually put in a veri.... I never know what to say. X |
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You'd be surprised how many verifications aren't true for instance one guy I met was verified by many women & glorified....
A very super gym fit profile photo with an 8-pack....8-pack is non existent & he's at least 20yrs older than age on profile....
When I met him I said who are you trying to kid with your very dated profile pic & fake age?
He's a serious Cat-Fish with many veris |
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over a year ago
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I've hidden those mentioning wild sex I can't remember about, we met at Starbucks and similar
And those mentioning personal details that shouldn't be mentioned on here, totally inconsiderate of privacy and safety
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over a year ago
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"You'd be surprised how many verifications aren't true for instance one guy I met was verified by many women & glorified....
A very super gym fit profile photo with an 8-pack....8-pack is non existent & he's at least 20yrs older than age on profile....
When I met him I said who are you trying to kid with your very dated profile pic & fake age?
He's a serious Cat-Fish with many veris "
I can't believe you've outed DF.
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"You'd be surprised how many verifications aren't true for instance one guy I met was verified by many women & glorified....
A very super gym fit profile photo with an 8-pack....8-pack is non existent & he's at least 20yrs older than age on profile....
When I met him I said who are you trying to kid with your very dated profile pic & fake age?
He's a serious Cat-Fish with many veris
I can't believe you've outed DF.
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Not really out ting when it's known, is it? |
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"You'd be surprised how many verifications aren't true for instance one guy I met was verified by many women & glorified....
A very super gym fit profile photo with an 8-pack....8-pack is non existent & he's at least 20yrs older than age on profile....
When I met him I said who are you trying to kid with your very dated profile pic & fake age?
He's a serious Cat-Fish with many veris
I can't believe you've outed DF.
Not really out ting when it's known, is it? "
Clearly been eating all the Freddos |
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over a year ago
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"Peeps more willing to chat after I got verified.
Peeps?
We mix in different circles.
Homies
Alright bro... 
Urgh "
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over a year ago
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"Peeps more willing to chat after I got verified.
Peeps?
We mix in different circles.
Homies
Alright bro...
Urgh
I figured I should write my reply in public! "
Shouldn't ffs |
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over a year ago
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"* ps please can someone cam and verify me please as I just can't get a penis. Ta
Did you get verified yet OP. It really helps with the penis "
No, but I have a hot video date tonight with a guy, apparently he needs all day to make himself presentable.
Then bring on the penis! |
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"* ps please can someone cam and verify me please as I just can't get a penis. Ta
Did you get verified yet OP. It really helps with the penis
No, but I have a hot video date tonight with a guy, apparently he needs all day to make himself presentable.
Then bring on the penis! "
Perfect. Enjoy the penis  |
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"* ps please can someone cam and verify me please as I just can't get a penis. Ta
Did you get verified yet OP. It really helps with the penis
No, but I have a hot video date tonight with a guy, apparently he needs all day to make himself presentable.
Then bring on the penis! "
Amateur, I did it in 5! |
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"Gotta love em right? Right??
When deciding if you wanna meet someone, how much do veris matter to you?
Won't meet anyone unverified?
What do they prove to you?
You see guys allllll the time wanting someone to verify them on cam. Guys, does it actually get you more of the sex stuff once you have an elusive veri?
Do you only display the ones from the people you think are hot? Hide the ones from the weird people right? Makes sense.
* ps please can someone cam and verify me please as I just can't get a penis. Ta"
As everyone knows, I’m the welcome wagon for fab and will meet / bang anyone. No verifications necessary. Nobody lies on fab. Or the internet. I don’t see the need for due diligence - Mr Goodbar will find me.
(Anyone here answer to Goodbar?) |
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"Gotta love em right? Right??
When deciding if you wanna meet someone, how much do veris matter to you?
Won't meet anyone unverified?
What do they prove to you?
You see guys allllll the time wanting someone to verify them on cam. Guys, does it actually get you more of the sex stuff once you have an elusive veri?
Do you only display the ones from the people you think are hot? Hide the ones from the weird people right? Makes sense.
* ps please can someone cam and verify me please as I just can't get a penis. Ta"
I think guys want the camera verification cause then it means they can then get passed the message filters- the verifying one - mostly.
I'll only display or give social verifications only.
I tend to ignore unverified and they've been on a year they'll more than likely usually just want to chat exchange photos etc.
I can cam verify you if you do the ymca on cam.
Honest I'm not a wierd. |
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"I believe some Irish woman is verifying men she has never spoken to or met....She apparently just saw them from a distant at socials & apparently went into great detail of a meet & how lovely the men were when she hadn't even met or spoke to them
They in turn verified her back....wrong wrong wrong !!!!"
Report her. |
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"They matter to us. It makes the tedious job of ing out the chancers that little bit easier but we don’t meet anymore so just ignore this post. I’ll go back to my coffee now."
With respect, how are people supposed to get meet verified ,if no one will meet unverified people .?
That's the vicious circle many of us one here are faced with . |
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"They matter to us. It makes the tedious job of ing out the chancers that little bit easier but we don’t meet anymore so just ignore this post. I’ll go back to my coffee now.
With respect, how are people supposed to get meet verified ,if no one will meet unverified people .?
That's the vicious circle many of us one here are faced with ."
Loads of people do meet unverified. However there's loads of unverified and we can't meet them all.
If you weren't so far away I'd meet you for a coffee.
I've met loads of unverified people over the years. |
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"They matter to us. It makes the tedious job of ing out the chancers that little bit easier but we don’t meet anymore so just ignore this post. I’ll go back to my coffee now.
With respect, how are people supposed to get meet verified ,if no one will meet unverified people .?
That's the vicious circle many of us one here are faced with ."
The suggestions are to go to a club or cam. I'm sure you will have a problem with those. |
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We feel veri’s are helpful when making a decision to social. Although at the start of the year Mrs planned two socials with single guys one had good veris and one had none. neither turned up on the day nor made contact afterwards.
So now we take time to get to know people somewhat and see if stars align that way xx |
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"In truth, meet veris are much more 'useful' for a single guy. A photo veri for a woman or couple proves way more to us, it shows they are actually a woman/couple and in the case of a couple, that both want to be here.
Is there a point to a cam veri? I can't really think of one - am I missing something?
J
I agree. Veris are useful for a single guy - I know from personal experience people who want to meet do use them as a filter.
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Which is easy to say when you have loads of meet verifications ,with respect.
But ,when you have none ,and people will only meet "meet verified " single guys ,then that's when you are on the endless vicious circle of -not meet verified - no one will give you the time of day . If no one gives you the time of day -you can't get " meet verified ".
That is the issue facing all single blokes on here ,regardless of how long you have been a member (and I have been on here a long time ,and still have no meet verifications)
I always think , everyone started on here (,be that couples, single women or single blokes ), with no meet verifications.
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"In truth, meet veris are much more 'useful' for a single guy. A photo veri for a woman or couple proves way more to us, it shows they are actually a woman/couple and in the case of a couple, that both want to be here.
Is there a point to a cam veri? I can't really think of one - am I missing something?
J
I agree. Veris are useful for a single guy - I know from personal experience people who want to meet do use them as a filter.
Which is easy to say when you have loads of meet verifications ,with respect.
But ,when you have none ,and people will only meet "meet verified " single guys ,then that's when you are on the endless vicious circle of -not meet verified - no one will give you the time of day . If no one gives you the time of day -you can't get " meet verified ".
That is the issue facing all single blokes on here ,regardless of how long you have been a member (and I have been on here a long time ,and still have no meet verifications)
I always think , everyone started on here (,be that couples, single women or single blokes ), with no meet verifications.
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"They matter to us. It makes the tedious job of ing out the chancers that little bit easier but we don’t meet anymore so just ignore this post. I’ll go back to my coffee now.
With respect, how are people supposed to get meet verified ,if no one will meet unverified people .?
That's the vicious circle many of us one here are faced with ."
I like veris, and I've used them as a filtering process.
But I also take into account someone's profile too.
You haven't asked for advice about your profile, but after reading it, I don't think it does you any favours as its very negative to read! |
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"They matter to us. It makes the tedious job of ing out the chancers that little bit . we don’t meet anymore so just ignore this post. I’ll go back to my coffee now.
With respect, how are people supposed to get meet verified ,if no one will meet unverified people .?
That's the vicious circle many of us one here are faced with .
I like veris, and I've used them as a filtering process.
But I also take into account someone's profile too.
You haven't asked for advice about your profile, but after reading it, I don't think it does you any favours as its very negative to read! "
I have reworked my profile many, many times , in my latest attempt ,I've just tried to be honest ,and inject a bit of humour,sounds like I've got it wrong again.
I've asked for advice on my profile many times ,and I've just tried to be a little different in my latest attempt. Maybe I will never get it right . |
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"They matter to us. It makes the tedious job of ing out the chancers that little bit . we don’t meet anymore so just ignore this post. I’ll go back to my coffee now.
With respect, how are people supposed to get meet verified ,if no one will meet unverified people .?
That's the vicious circle many of us one here are faced with .
I like veris, and I've used them as a filtering process.
But I also take into account someone's profile too.
You haven't asked for advice about your profile, but after reading it, I don't think it does you any favours as its very negative to read!
I have reworked my profile many, many times , in my latest attempt ,I've just tried to be honest ,and inject a bit of humour,sounds like I've got it wrong again.
I've asked for advice on my profile many times ,and I've just tried to be a little different in my latest attempt. Maybe I will never get it right . "
Dave, that is wayyyyy too much effort!! |
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"They matter to us. It makes the tedious job of ing out the chancers that little bit easier but we don’t meet anymore so just ignore this post. I’ll go back to my coffee now.
Apparently w££ding is a no no word."
Yes, the site owners are big into natural plant-life and wildflower gardens. |
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"They matter to us. It makes the tedious job of ing out the chancers that little bit . we don’t meet anymore so just ignore this post. I’ll go back to my coffee now.
With respect, how are people supposed to get meet verified ,if no one will meet unverified people .?
That's the vicious circle many of us one here are faced with .
I like veris, and I've used them as a filtering process.
But I also take into account someone's profile too.
You haven't asked for advice about your profile, but after reading it, I don't think it does you any favours as its very negative to read!
I have reworked my profile many, many times , in my latest attempt ,I've just tried to be honest ,and inject a bit of humour,sounds like I've got it wrong again.
I've asked for advice on my profile many times ,and I've just tried to be a little different in my latest attempt. Maybe I will never get it right . "
For what it's worth your profile is decent, some nice pics...if I was nearer I'd certainly meet for a coffee x |
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I never ever check before a meet but recently I did following a conversation and found out someone I was interested in was seemingly pretty into someone that I’m fairly certain didn’t like me at all. Made me feel a bit cautious about that particular person. What I would tell them about me etc. But didn’t make me less attracted to them or want to meet them any less. |
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"They matter to us. It makes the tedious job of ing out the chancers that little bit . we don’t meet anymore so just ignore this post. I’ll go back to my coffee now.
With respect, how are people supposed to get meet verified ,if no one will meet unverified people .?
That's the vicious circle many of us one here are faced with .
I like veris, and I've used them as a filtering process.
But I also take into account someone's profile too.
You haven't asked for advice about your profile, but after reading it, I don't think it does you any favours as its very negative to read!
I have reworked my profile many, many times , in my latest attempt ,I've just tried to be honest ,and inject a bit of humour,sounds like I've got it wrong again.
I've asked for advice on my profile many times ,and I've just tried to be a little different in my latest attempt. Maybe I will never get it right .
For what it's worth your profile is decent, some nice pics...if I was nearer I'd certainly meet for a coffee x"
Thank you for your kind words .
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