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By *ddie1966Man 48 weeks ago
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"I'm going to sit on the fence and say switch.
For those of us in ignorant bliss, can you confirm it means what I think it means pls. Is it like sometimes one sometimes the other?  "
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Let the dynamic play out whichever way its going to go.
It's more fun that way. |
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"Sub for the right person"
I think all of us can have a sub moment for the right person.
Even though we’re a D/s couple we can both switch. It’s all about the characters, personalities and dynamic of the meet |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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I'd consider myself masochist so deffo sub as I expect to receive rather than give and be used rather than use. I did try Domme once, but didn't feel comfortable at all.. |
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By *oey500 OP Man 48 weeks ago
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"Sub for the right person
I think all of us can have a sub moment for the right person.
Even though we’re a D/s couple we can both switch. It’s all about the characters, personalities and dynamic of the meet "
Most defiantly, was only a few nights I had a meet and played complete sub to a new meet, obeying everything asked, wanted to be abused at the time |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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I don't like to dominate it feels less awkward than submitting but it's too much effort.
submitting is just not for me.
And vanilla is quite boring.
There's no hope  |
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"I'd consider myself masochist so deffo sub as I expect to receive rather than give and be used rather than use. I did try Domme once, but didn't feel comfortable at all.."
I used to think I had to be a sub to feed my masochist side.
Turns out to be completely untrue. I don't have to submit to anyone to get what I need  |
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Dom, how dominant depends on the lady.
An ex GF of mine, a very sub lady decided to switch it around one night, she tried the Dom role and myself as sub, it just didn't feel right and lasted no more than 5 mins before i turned on her. She ended up over my knee for a well deserved red roar spanking and gave her a hard night for her cheek.
She mentioned it again many times after that but I knew she had ulterior motives |
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Always Dom/Top. But never call me Master, because I feel that is a title that should never be demanded, only earned and given if deserved. And that comes from working with a Sub for a deliciously long time. |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"Im more sub than dom
But hard to find a dominant woman tbh
I’ve managed it a couple of times and my gosh what a experience!"
Lucky you haha
Its a needle in the haystack in my opinion |
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By *oey500 OP Man 48 weeks ago
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"Im more sub than dom
But hard to find a dominant woman tbh
I’ve managed it a couple of times and my gosh what a experience!
Lucky you haha
Its a needle in the haystack in my opinion"
Yes very true, stay persistent is my advice |
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"Im more sub than dom
But hard to find a dominant woman tbh
I’ve managed it a couple of times and my gosh what a experience!
Lucky you haha
Its a needle in the haystack in my opinion
Yes very true, stay persistent is my advice "
Persistent is not a preferred trait in my experience |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"Im more sub than dom
But hard to find a dominant woman tbh
I’ve managed it a couple of times and my gosh what a experience!
Lucky you haha
Its a needle in the haystack in my opinion
Yes very true, stay persistent is my advice
Persistent is not a preferred trait in my experience "
Well thats the thing some people prefer it somepeople dont
Its trying to read a person just from their bio
But obviously in the same sense trying to be selfish
If that makes sense ? |
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