I don't need any one person to fulfil all of my needs.
If I connect with someone, and I think we can have fun, I like to explore what is there.
There isn't a set checklist of things a potential partner must agree to adhere to before I'll give them a chance.
When I fancy someone without the relevant equipment I'm aware that I'm unlikely to get to indulge my throatfucking preference, but that doesn't make me any less interested in the fun that we could have together  |
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I don't think so.
Certain kinks of mine require a huge amount of trust and connection. It's not compromise to leave those out of some encounters, it's common sense. I'll still very much enjoy the sex I have that doesn't include those kinks.
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"Do you think men are more likely to compromise a certain kink of theirs to have sex than women will?
Aka - will you only have sex if your kinks can be utilized? "
I think men are most likely to compromise themselves full stop to get a shag?? |
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"Do you think men are more likely to compromise a certain kink of theirs to have sex than women will?
Aka - will you only have sex if your kinks can be utilized?
I think men are most likely to compromise themselves full stop to get a shag?? "
Are we talking haircuts or cormorants (genus Gulosus), or have I got on the wrong website again? |
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None of my kinks are deal breakers. They are things that I enjoy and would be nice to find someone that also likes them, but if they aren’t into a particular kink that I am into, it’s not a problem. |
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"Do you think men are more likely to compromise a certain kink of theirs to have sex than women will?
Aka - will you only have sex if your kinks can be utilized?
I think men are most likely to compromise themselves full stop to get a shag?? "
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I think many men would compromise anything to get their dick wet to be honest (not all men)
But kinks wise there something I'd only do with people I trusted, some I wouldn't do outside my relationship, so many I wouldn't do with others, if that was a deal breaker for them then so be it.
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By *ruceyy OP Man 46 weeks ago
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"I think many men would compromise anything to get their dick wet to be honest (not all men)
But kinks wise there something I'd only do with people I trusted, some I wouldn't do outside my relationship, so many I wouldn't do with others, if that was a deal breaker for them then so be it.
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"I think men will say and do anything to get a fuck "
In general, this.
It's fairly obvious a large number of men will ignore/brush to the side/compromise/not care/sell their nan so long as they get the sex in any way, shape, or form. Within that number some will be varied degrees of how far they will go but it happens.
Some women will too, but it's certainly not to the extent or extreme of men. |
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"I think men will say and do anything to get a fuck "
Actually no. I am very picky, which is why I have success away from fab, and none on here in @10 years.... |
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If I have a special liking for carrot cake, coffee cake and walnut cake, that doesn't mean I'll only eat cake when those flavours are on offer... nor that I will choose one of those flavours when it's available. |
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"I think many men would compromise anything to get their dick wet to be honest (not all men)
But kinks wise there something I'd only do with people I trusted, some I wouldn't do outside my relationship, so many I wouldn't do with others, if that was a deal breaker for them then so be it.
Mrs
Yeah but you won't even have sex with me! "
Brucey bruce I won't have sex with any man (husband to be excluded) don't take it personally, I'm yet to find one that isn't a prick.
Actually no that's a lie there's a few single blokes on here that aren't pricks and possibly 2/3 out the couples but mfm isn't my thing, center of attention and all that isn't for me, I disappoint one man enough, disappointing two at the same time.... Na!
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"If I have a special liking for carrot cake, coffee cake and walnut cake, that doesn't mean I'll only eat cake when those flavours are on offer... nor that I will choose one of those flavours when it's available."
Cake outperforms any shag anyway |
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"I don't think its compromise.
If every one of my kinks were quelled on every sexual encounter/partner, I'd be fucking knackered pal.
Yeah but you're a saucy bastard so "
Yeah I'm also Just A Man and I sent this message while my dick was in the letterbox, in compliance with the standard Lounge mentality.
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If I think someone is amazing and we’re into each other but she doesn’t want to a particular thing … then that’s not going to put me off. We’ll have tons of fun doing all the other things.
But then, I guess it’s easy for me to say that because I don’t have any particular kinks or fetishes. |
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By *ruceyy OP Man 46 weeks ago
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"I think many men would compromise anything to get their dick wet to be honest (not all men)
But kinks wise there something I'd only do with people I trusted, some I wouldn't do outside my relationship, so many I wouldn't do with others, if that was a deal breaker for them then so be it.
Mrs
Yeah but you won't even have sex with me!
Brucey bruce I won't have sex with any man (husband to be excluded) don't take it personally, I'm yet to find one that isn't a prick.
Actually no that's a lie there's a few single blokes on here that aren't pricks and possibly 2/3 out the couples but mfm isn't my thing, center of attention and all that isn't for me, I disappoint one man enough, disappointing two at the same time.... Na!
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"If I think someone is amazing and we’re into each other but she doesn’t want to a particular thing … then that’s not going to put me off. We’ll have tons of fun doing all the other things.
But then, I guess it’s easy for me to say that because I don’t have any particular kinks or fetishes."
As somebody with many kinks and fetishes, it still holds true, don't worry |
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By (user no longer on site) 46 weeks ago
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"A high number of men would do most things put to them if they thought it gave them a higher chance of getting their cock wet, let's be honest here! "
Yes, and by that sound logic, women drop their standards of sex and male expectations, because why else would they be on fab? Because deep down they aren't happy. Let's be honest here. We are all compromising. |
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"Do you think men are more likely to compromise a certain kink of theirs to have sex than women will?
Aka - will you only have sex if your kinks can be utilized?
I think men are most likely to compromise themselves full stop to get a shag?? "
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"Do you think men are more likely to compromise a certain kink of theirs to have sex than women will?
Aka - will you only have sex if your kinks can be utilized?
I think men are most likely to compromise themselves full stop to get a shag??
Are we talking haircuts or cormorants (genus Gulosus), or have I got on the wrong website again?"
David Attenborough called… |
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"A high number of men would do most things put to them if they thought it gave them a higher chance of getting their cock wet, let's be honest here!
Yes, and by that sound logic, women drop their standards of sex and male expectations, because why else would they be on fab? Because deep down they aren't happy. Let's be honest here. We are all compromising. "
I wouldn't say everyone is compromising.
But it's clearly evidenced from my inbox that many men will compromise to get laid. The OP isn't wrong.
Not saying that all men do. Not saying that all women don't |
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By *oo..Woman 46 weeks ago
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"A high number of men would do most things put to them if they thought it gave them a higher chance of getting their cock wet, let's be honest here!
Yes, and by that sound logic, women drop their standards of sex and male expectations, because why else would they be on fab? Because deep down they aren't happy. Let's be honest here. We are all compromising. "
A lot of women and men aren't always on here for sex, some enjoy the social side of it and don't need the sex. |
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Men on here that are desperate for sex or men in general?
I think a lot of people do things for their partner, with varying levels of uncomfortableness, It’s a mix of open mindedness and giving, it’s not a compromise
That’s more normal to me than people that have very fixed boundaries
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"I think many men would compromise anything to get their dick wet to be honest (not all men)
But kinks wise there something I'd only do with people I trusted, some I wouldn't do outside my relationship, so many I wouldn't do with others, if that was a deal breaker for them then so be it.
Mrs
Yeah but you won't even have sex with me!
Brucey bruce I won't have sex with any man (husband to be excluded) don't take it personally, I'm yet to find one that isn't a prick.
Actually no that's a lie there's a few single blokes on here that aren't pricks and possibly 2/3 out the couples but mfm isn't my thing, center of attention and all that isn't for me, I disappoint one man enough, disappointing two at the same time.... Na!
Mrs
Look I won't be offended once you ride me like a tiger. Until then I can't control my feelings ok? "
Ok, I guess you'll have to not control your feelings plus I think I'd struggle to ride you like a tiger, have you seen a tiger ride.
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By (user no longer on site) 46 weeks ago
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In my experience here and elsewhere, men are more likely to compromise. I only want kinky sex, but certainly don't expect all the boxes to be ticked.
A "Dom" contacted me last week and his first question was "are you collared". His profile also indicated he wanted to collar his submissive. I have no interest in that kind of dynamic and said so. He then did a 360 "I'd be fine with that". To which I said, no thanks I don't trust men who do what you've just done.  |
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