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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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"CNC, rough play and especially spit would put a lot of women off I think pal.
Not all women!
Most ! "
Says who?
Don't women bang on all the time about how guys should say what they actually want. He is. |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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"CNC, rough play and especially spit would put a lot of women off I think pal.
Not all women!
And you’ve described some guys perfect woman on your bio lol "
Most men just want a female. The rest is insignificant!
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"CNC, rough play and especially spit would put a lot of women off I think pal.
Not all women!
And you’ve described some guys perfect woman on your bio lol
Most men just want a female. The rest is insignificant!
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Very true most do |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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"CNC, rough play and especially spit would put a lot of women off I think pal.
Not all women!
And you’ve described some guys perfect woman on your bio lol
Most men just want a female. The rest is insignificant!
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Damn, she has seen through us chaps. Silence her now, before others catch on.  |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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"CNC, rough play and especially spit would put a lot of women off I think pal.
Not all women!
And you’ve described some guys perfect woman on your bio lol
Most men just want a female. The rest is insignificant!
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A Female ‘human’ … thank you very much |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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"CNC, rough play and especially spit would put a lot of women off I think pal.
Not all women!
And you’ve described some guys perfect woman on your bio lol
Most men just want a female. The rest is insignificant!
Very true most do "
Not all m….. oh you covered that!   |
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By *eliWoman 38 weeks ago
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My biggest tip Op?
Do your profile the way you want to do it. I know, you're asking for advice because you're not getting the attention you'd like. Look at your profile critically - would you be drawn to messaging yourself?
Whatever you do, don't sanitise it and become a boring identikit of a profile - it's so fucking boring. Let people see who you are. The forum views really don't count for more than 20% of the site, if that. |
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By *red333Man 38 weeks ago
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"My biggest tip Op?
Do your profile the way you want to do it. I know, you're asking for advice because you're not getting the attention you'd like. Look at your profile critically - would you be drawn to messaging yourself?
Whatever you do, don't sanitise it and become a boring identikit of a profile - it's so fucking boring. Let people see who you are. The forum views really don't count for more than 20% of the site, if that. "
Exactly this  |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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"My biggest tip Op?
Do your profile the way you want to do it. I know, you're asking for advice because you're not getting the attention you'd like. Look at your profile critically - would you be drawn to messaging yourself?
Whatever you do, don't sanitise it and become a boring identikit of a profile - it's so fucking boring. Let people see who you are. The forum views really don't count for more than 20% of the site, if that. "
What she said. |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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20 percent?? it’s less than that much much less. About five people will give an honest helpful tip maybe, and it’s in their opinion.
The rest of the comments will take the piss. Sorry, op. It’s the way it is.
Do what Meli said, be yourself.
Add pictures. Write some text. |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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"You asked for reasons why... I just pointed out that some and many women would be put off by spit or CNC so you are immediately narrowing down your pool.
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But that’s who he likes, why would he want to meet those who don’t like it? |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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"You asked for reasons why... I just pointed out that some and many women would be put off by spit or CNC so you are immediately narrowing down your pool.
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Said like a true fab guy.
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By *red333Man 38 weeks ago
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The site is much bigger than the forums just be you, the women of the forums have been there done that and their answers are based on their experiences, some things are better not mentioned mind and discussing with your meet some of your desires would be the way forward  |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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"Good evening my Gorgeous Fab friends!
Does anyone have any tips for my people? Show more “risky” pics? More text, less text?
Any help would be lovely"
Looks great as it is. Have what you want on there. Like attracts like.
Good face pics. Good luck. |
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"You asked for reasons why... I just pointed out that some and many women would be put off by spit or CNC so you are immediately narrowing down your pool.
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Isn't that the point tho... He's looking for someone to paddle in HIS pool, dip their toe in HIS ocean... Not casting a net to catch every fish swimming past 
If that's what he likes, let him list it.. And don't kink shame him |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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"You asked for reasons why... I just pointed out that some and many women would be put off by spit or CNC so you are immediately narrowing down your pool.
Isn't that the point tho... He's looking for someone to paddle in HIS pool, dip their toe in HIS ocean... Not casting a net to catch every fish swimming past
If that's what he likes, let him list it.. And don't kink shame him"
Suggesting that you maybe don't list ALL of your kinks for everyone to see is not kink shaming. |
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"You asked for reasons why... I just pointed out that some and many women would be put off by spit or CNC so you are immediately narrowing down your pool.
Isn't that the point tho... He's looking for someone to paddle in HIS pool, dip their toe in HIS ocean... Not casting a net to catch every fish swimming past
If that's what he likes, let him list it.. And don't kink shame him
Suggesting that you maybe don't list ALL of your kinks for everyone to see is not kink shaming. "
I don't think that's all of them.. Just his starting /opening list |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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"You asked for reasons why... I just pointed out that some and many women would be put off by spit or CNC so you are immediately narrowing down your pool.
Isn't that the point tho... He's looking for someone to paddle in HIS pool, dip their toe in HIS ocean... Not casting a net to catch every fish swimming past
If that's what he likes, let him list it.. And don't kink shame him
Suggesting that you maybe don't list ALL of your kinks for everyone to see is not kink shaming. "
Maybe that’s his kink …. making lists. |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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Lose the pic of a woman with your snap code on her face (I don’t understand what you’re trying to achieve with that) and the photo where you are giving the finger. Both make you look immature. |
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"Personally I'd lose the phone number
I assumed it's his nan's number.
I like the old skool wall of CDs.. Is it ironic?
I thought they were books! "
Oh are they! They look too uniform?? Maybe he's a gamer! Would be more fitting with his youff innit! |
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