He wasn't lieing about he's married.
Many married women cheating here as well.
Nobody knows why his wife doesn't want to have sex, so why be evil about it.
Not defending him, just don't pull the trigger that fast.
Let him have his say.
Fair enough?
Hit me now!
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"Not intend in sex anymore .. that's why am on hear .. anyone in the same boat ? "
I'm married too but have my own reasons why I'm on here.
All my partner/s knew/know this was/is the case. I hate the position I'm in being in an unhappy marriage yet finding fun elsewhere, but i need to get a grip and sort it. However, because of this I have tried to show any partners I may have/had honesty and respect by telling them what was going on in my relationships.
In the meantime I needed sex, fun, human contact and laughs so to get that I came on here and another site.
So as everyone says you won't be the only one, what I would say is be honest with any potential fwb/partners about it as secrets undermine trust and they can take a bit of time to overcome, if they ever do. Also be honest with your wife as well, tricky especially if there are mortgages, family, health issues, disabilities or whatever in the way. That's the next thing for me to deal with. |
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"Not intend in sex anymore .. that's why am on hear .. anyone in the same boat ?
I'm married too but have my own reasons why I'm on here.
All my partner/s knew/know this was/is the case. I hate the position I'm in being in an unhappy marriage yet finding fun elsewhere, but i need to get a grip and sort it. However, because of this I have tried to show any partners I may have/had honesty and respect by telling them what was going on in my relationships.
In the meantime I needed sex, fun, human contact and laughs so to get that I came on here and another site.
So as everyone says you won't be the only one, what I would say is be honest with any potential fwb/partners about it as secrets undermine trust and they can take a bit of time to overcome, if they ever do. Also be honest with your wife as well, tricky especially if there are mortgages, family, health issues, disabilities or whatever in the way. That's the next thing for me to deal with."
One shouldn't have to apologise for what they do and/or like... Unfortunately married sexual life isn't always a never ending arrangement and for one reason or another grow apart and become nonexistent.
There are many married men and women on here and also looking elsewhere. Some with consent from their spouse and some without and many don't reveal being attached so that they avoid immediate rejection by some. Each to their own!
Your reasons for deciding to do what you do are yours and yours alone as after all you are the one having to manage your guilt and/or consequences.
It is YOUR life! And you should only follow whatever it is that makes you happy with yourself.
You only have one life to go through, keep your smile on and go proud on your path to happiness whatever that mau be  |
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Having unexpectedly had an angry wife and mother in law show up screaming on my doorstep recently, I can at least appreciate you being up front about the situation so I can choose not to be put in that position again. That was a really shitty way for me to find out someone I thought wasn't a complete asshole had been less than honest with me.
I only want to be involved with actually single people or those with their spouse's informed and enthusiastic consent. I can't wish you good luck while you choose to withhold relevant information from your wife, but I hope you can find a way for everyone to have their needs met in informed and enthusiastic circumstances  |
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