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By *ature male Oldham OP   Man  over a year ago

Oldham

I've just realised that it's been almost 6 months since I last had sex... the longest time ever in my adult life...I really don't want to make it to 6 months... please please please help

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My longest spell was when my partner was pregnant and couldn’t have sex

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By *ags73Man  over a year ago

glasgow-ish

Had a two year drought before joining fab.

Six months isn’t that bad.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple  over a year ago

Lincoln

I want to say it was about eighteen months or so

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I've just realised that it's been almost 600 months since I last had sex... the longest time ever in my adult life...I really don't want to make it to 601 months... please please please help "

That's awful

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By *929Man  over a year ago

bedlington

Went a few years when younger it was at a point where a breakup still hurt all my mates had lasses so nobody to hang around/go out with regular and just spent time working, restoring a car and getting shitfaced d*unk every Friday and Saturday

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By *ookie46Woman  over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Now on my longest drought of over 3 months since 2016

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Months, years. Can't say it bothers me really.

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By *eordieJeansCouple  over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

A couple of years I think after a bad breakup. I had no interest in sex and just wanted to work on myself before getting involved with anyone else.

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By *xfordjohnMan  over a year ago

Oxford


"I've just realised that it's been almost 6 months since I last had sex... the longest time ever in my adult life...I really don't want to make it to 6 months... please please please help "

Sorry to read that. Hope 2024 brings you better luck.

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By *ittlebirdWoman  over a year ago

The Big Smoke

About 8 years when I was married…

My hands had never been so busy

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By *affron40Woman  over a year ago

manchester

Must be knocking on for 2 years now.. not bothered really. Sometimes life makes the choice for us. Next year….

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By *ature male Oldham OP   Man  over a year ago

Oldham


"Had a two year drought before joining fab.

Six months isn’t that bad."

It bloody is

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By *ature male Oldham OP   Man  over a year ago

Oldham


"Now on my longest drought of over 3 months since 2016 "

Perhaps we could help each other

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've had a 12 year spell.

You're all amateurs..

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By *affron40Woman  over a year ago

manchester


"I've had a 12 year spell.

You're all amateurs.."

hello you

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By *atisfactorMan  over a year ago

Letterkenny

It's been 2+ years. I almost forgot how actual sex feels like. Trying to change that now. Hope Santa will grant me someone with a similar situation.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I've had a 12 year spell.

You're all amateurs..

hello you "

Hi

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By *ddie1966Man  over a year ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

I can't have sex.

It's in my contract you see.....

Professional Eunach..

Just like my Dad and my Grandad

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's been 2+ years. I almost forgot how actual sex feels like. Trying to change that now. Hope Santa will grant me someone with a similar situation. "

Yeah i know what you mean, it's like your virginity grows back almost.

Probably not the healthiest thing to do what i did, but at the same time it's not the end of the world..there were other things i was focused on.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Oh the anxiety of no sex in months did that include 6 months of no wanks op.

I am like Vermouth.. Dry

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Still not available on a whim or filling that dry spell. Life prevented it covid helped it. Not phased

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire

Three + years and counting. I've given up sex through choice

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By *ature male Oldham OP   Man  over a year ago

Oldham


"Three + years and counting. I've given up sex through choice"

Certainly not my choice

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By *hunky ChefMan  over a year ago

Norwich


"I've just realised that it's been almost 6 months since I last had sex... the longest time ever in my adult life...I really don't want to make it to 6 months... please please please help "

***

It was 4 years in october.

I used to have 6 months max.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Three/four years. Could have had sex two or three times during that period but turned it down. My problem is that women on Fab who are interested in me seem to want a more serious relationship, and so I won't have sex with them. It's a curse

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My longest has been 6 weeks, after childbirth. I honestly don't know how people go so long without having sex. I love it too much.

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By *iftyishMan  over a year ago

South Coast

8 years in May, honestly.

Happy Xmas to all

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By *hunky ChefMan  over a year ago

Norwich


"My longest has been 6 weeks, after childbirth. I honestly don't know how people go so long without having sex. I love it too much."

***

Men don't get it easy.

It's not a choice.

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By *zeroMan  over a year ago

Glasgow

18 montha. Lack of sex in a relationship and then after the split.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

6 months? Amateur

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Couple of years, maybe more now. Not really counted.

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By *ittlelad69Man  over a year ago

clay cross

I’m on 8 months at the minute the wife has gone completely off sex

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By *ucka39Man  over a year ago

Newcastle

5 years my choice plus the pandemic

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By *heYorkshireGuyMan  over a year ago

Hull

Almost 4 years

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By *hunky ChefMan  over a year ago

Norwich


"5 years my choice plus the pandemic "

***

Pandemic and chef shortage took 2 years from me as well.

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By *odevilWoman  over a year ago

exeter

W...I...T...H...O...U...T

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By *hagTonightMan  over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

[Removed by poster at 25/12/23 01:03:52]

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By *hagTonightMan  over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

I am on it now, the last time was 7 years ago

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By *hunky ChefMan  over a year ago

Norwich


"I am on it now, the last time was 7 years ago "

***

I'm a fucking pussy whinging about my 4 years then.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS  over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I tell people it's been 5 years, but it's more like 6.5

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By *hunky ChefMan  over a year ago

Norwich


"I tell people it's been 5 years, but it's more like 6.5"

***

Rounding down?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

What's the time?

*checks time*

Two-thirty...

Yeah about 5 hours

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What's the time?

*checks time*

Two-thirty...

Yeah about 5 hours

"

Hol' up scratch that

My Wife has just presented herself to me

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By *ewjordanMan  over a year ago

harrow

Woman or make 3 weeks is long but same people

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By *ealitybitesMan  over a year ago

Belfast

10 years.

The entirety of my 40s.

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By *ianoSpankMan  over a year ago

Stockport

About 3 months. POF date and sounded great on phone but met her and add 5 stone. Still had some fun but age, movement and patience is waining. I even took a karma sutra book up but didn’t get passed page 3

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By *ianoSpankMan  over a year ago

Stockport


"What's the time?

*checks time*

Two-thirty...

Yeah about 5 hours

"

That’s dentist time

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Try ten years, thats where im at. I know its never gonna happen again sadly

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Nine years in spring 2024 for me. I think my sex life is completely over.

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By *ianoSpankMan  over a year ago

Stockport

Awareness my friend was 10 years. Shave them pubes, get another top saying something about you? Like “number 69” on back with TenYearsWithout as a name. I saw one man with a A board standing at around about saying he was single with mobile number on it. He was inundated with offers-try and fail rather than never try at all

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I've just realised that it's been almost 6 months since I last had sex... ."

Amateur numbers.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple  over a year ago

Leeds

Oh no poor you 6 months, best grab my coat for a sympathy shag then, can't have that can we.

Mrs

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By *TG3Man  over a year ago

Dorchester

When i was married i went without for many years now I'm not and have shagged my way to heaven

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By *esafinadOHolyNightMan  over a year ago

Belfast

My longest spell was 5 years. After about a year I stopped trying and it started to bother me less. When I realised that I was getting laid though, at the end of the 5 years, the thought made me so horny I almost came in my pants.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Oh no poor you 6 months, best grab my coat for a sympathy shag then, can't have that can we.

Mrs "

I was 6.5 months. Just saying.

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By *TG3Man  over a year ago

Dorchester


"My longest spell was 5 years. After about a year I stopped trying and it started to bother me less. When I realised that I was getting laid though, at the end of the 5 years, the thought made me so horny I almost came in my pants. "
you were incarcerated?

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By *alleyDaveMan  over a year ago

Sheffield

Three and half years for me .

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By *alleyDaveMan  over a year ago

Sheffield

Three and half years for me right now ,and counting .

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By *esafinadOHolyNightMan  over a year ago

Belfast


"My longest spell was 5 years. After about a year I stopped trying and it started to bother me less. When I realised that I was getting laid though, at the end of the 5 years, the thought made me so horny I almost came in my pants. you were incarcerated? "

Haha no. I broke up with someone which kicked off the 5 year dry spell. I think because we had such a rocky relationship that any attempt to meet anyone after her was half assed and my heart wasn't in it. Eventually I got fed up even looking even and it was 5 years till I met someone else.

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By *OYFBWoman  over a year ago

Jersey (sometimes Notts)


"I've just realised that it's been almost 6 months since I last had sex... the longest time ever in my adult life...I really don't want to make it to 6 months... please please please help "

Been a year for me now.

No decent people to meet near where I live.

Hope y oh break your dry spell soon

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By *ildo_swagginsthe3rdWoman  over a year ago

Wales

Been about 18 months. I'm not really interested in sex unless there's a person I'm interested in...weird.

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By *hunky ChefMan  over a year ago

Norwich


"Oh no poor you 6 months, best grab my coat for a sympathy shag then, can't have that can we.

Mrs "

***

Nice Christmas photo.

Do not enter

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By *hagTonightMan  over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"I am on it now, the last time was 7 years ago

***

I'm a fucking pussy whinging about my 4 years then.

"

Yes lol, it gets easier as the time goes too.

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By *lleyCat1969Man  over a year ago

Folkestone

Sixteen years and three weeks. That's how old I was when I lost my virginity.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman  over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Recently, 2 weeks when I needed to sort my head out.

I think I went a whole month back in February because life was a bitch.

And I once did a full year of zero sexual contact including solo, but that was by choice.

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By *hunky ChefMan  over a year ago

Norwich


"I am on it now, the last time was 7 years ago

***

I'm a fucking pussy whinging about my 4 years then.

Yes lol, it gets easier as the time goes too."

***

Within a year probably I will need a surgery to fix my left shoulder, so I don't think so.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Two weeks currently and I feel it’s been ages.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

2 years and counting

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

6 years when I was younger

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By *Devil77Man  over a year ago

West Midlands

When I was with my ex I went over 13 years!

Do I get a trophy lol?

Met an amazing woman on here since

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