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You're definitely not ugly (and that's a horrid word anyway - everyone's got something).
You're actually pretty I'd say.
Where I'd be put off is your profile.
It's not clear if you wrote it, your husband wrote it, or both of you.
The tone is also difficult to understand - it's a bit "hello boys" and flirty at the same time as being a bit "fuck off don't annoy me arseholes".
So you look fine, but your words would certainly put me off.
Hope that gives you a pointer. |
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By *izzy.Woman 47 weeks ago
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You've been verified by 11 people, so I think you are getting plenty of interactions.
Your profile is a little confusing as it states you enjoy watching your wife being fucked and yet the profile is female. It's possible this might put some people off.
But, I think you are getting plenty of attention and this post is just another way to get more  |
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"You've been verified by 11 people, so I think you are getting plenty of interactions.
Your profile is a little confusing as it states you enjoy watching your wife being fucked and yet the profile is female. It's possible this might put some people off.
But, I think you are getting plenty of attention and this post is just another way to get more "
I agree. |
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You’ve hidden your profile so can’t say. By the sound of the other comments above you’ve got nothing to worry about.
We are a bigger couple and we aren’t everyone’s couple of tea but we definitely out for others. We go clubs mainly on bbw nights and love it. |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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"You've been verified by 11 people, so I think you are getting plenty of interactions.
Your profile is a little confusing as it states you enjoy watching your wife being fucked and yet the profile is female. It's possible this might put some people off. "
Actually one of the veris (before they were hidden) is a verification as a couple.. So it makes me wonder if it is actually a couples profile - or the guy |
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"You've been verified by 11 people, so I think you are getting plenty of interactions.
Your profile is a little confusing as it states you enjoy watching your wife being fucked and yet the profile is female. It's possible this might put some people off.
Actually one of the veris (before they were hidden) is a verification as a couple.. So it makes me wonder if it is actually a couples profile - or the guy "
sure I'm a guy with 11 verifications MOST on CAMS |
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Female profile.
Poor spelling and punctuation, one bit written as first person then as third person.. veri’s hidden.
I think this is possibly a guy posing as a couple/ female..
Not ugly at all.. beauty is in the eye of the beholder so to speak.. |
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"Female profile.
Poor spelling and punctuation, one bit written as first person then as third person.. veri’s hidden.
I think this is possibly a guy posing as a couple/ female..
Not ugly at all.. beauty is in the eye of the beholder so to speak.. "
thanks for pointing out I'm dyslexic |
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"Female profile.
Poor spelling and punctuation, one bit written as first person then as third person.. veri’s hidden.
I think this is possibly a guy posing as a couple/ female..
Not ugly at all.. beauty is in the eye of the beholder so to speak.. thanks for pointing out I'm dyslexic "
Crazy how a word like dyslexic was chosen to describe someone with difficulty in reading/ writing etc. |
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"Female profile.
Poor spelling and punctuation, one bit written as first person then as third person.. veri’s hidden.
I think this is possibly a guy posing as a couple/ female..
Not ugly at all.. beauty is in the eye of the beholder so to speak.. thanks for pointing out I'm dyslexic "
I'm dyslexic and make multiple errors when writing back and forth, so I appreciate how hard it can be. Maybe you can get your partner to double check the profile text? That's what I do with things that are more permanent and a message. |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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"Am I ugly I feel like because I'm big I don't get any interaction  "
I don't know if this is genuine or a cry for attention. Honestly, I'm not trying to be a bitch, but I don't know.
If it's a genuine question, please don't be silly, no one is ugly. Everyone has features that are asthetically pleasing to some more than others, but everyone is different how they look and in turn, what they like. What is one person's heaven is another person's hell. I don't think the analogy fits well, but I hope you know what I mean. So size etc doesn't matter.
If you are wanting the attention, it seems like a popular post so you seem to be doing well here, and you never know it may lead to things in the future, if it doesn't there is always next time.
Either way, Merry Christmas and your not ugly, just not some people cup of tea, to others you will be their goddess and that is the same for everyone else. |
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Yes 11 verifications mostly on cam yes I've had meets socials they turn up and say you look better on your profile so I question myself am I ugly I question myself alot growing up being big wasn't easy so seeing positive things being said makes me think is it legitimate or am they just saying it
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"Yes 11 verifications mostly on cam yes I've had meets socials they turn up and say you look better on your profile so I question myself am I ugly I question myself alot growing up being big wasn't easy so seeing positive things being said makes me think is it legitimate or am they just saying it
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If George Clooney turned up to a social with me I'd have to turn him down because I don't fancy him. Doesn't mean he's ugly.
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"Yes 11 verifications mostly on cam yes I've had meets socials they turn up and say you look better on your profile so I question myself am I ugly I question myself alot growing up being big wasn't easy so seeing positive things being said makes me think is it legitimate or am they just saying it
If George Clooney turned up to a social with me I'd have to turn him down because I don't fancy him. Doesn't mean he's ugly.
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Nope your choice. And you have class
Gaves me a CHANCE ?? |
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"Yes 11 verifications mostly on cam yes I've had meets socials they turn up and say you look better on your profile so I question myself am I ugly I question myself alot growing up being big wasn't easy so seeing positive things being said makes me think is it legitimate or am they just saying it
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And this is the issue, what does it matter what others think, it's more about how you see yourself that matters |
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"Yes 11 verifications mostly on cam yes I've had meets socials they turn up and say you look better on your profile so I question myself am I ugly I question myself alot growing up being big wasn't easy so seeing positive things being said makes me think is it legitimate or am they just saying it
And this is the issue, what does it matter what others think, it's more about how you see yourself that matters "
never really thought about seeing it like that thank you that's really opened my eyes |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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"Am I ugly I feel like because I'm big I don't get any interaction "
There are things you can change and others you cannot
My theory
The morre niche you are/ your requirements are the longer your search will be
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"Yes 11 verifications mostly on cam yes I've had meets socials they turn up and say you look better on your profile so I question myself am I ugly I question myself alot growing up being big wasn't easy so seeing positive things being said makes me think is it legitimate or am they just saying it
And this is the issue, what does it matter what others think, it's more about how you see yourself that matters never really thought about seeing it like that thank you that's really opened my eyes"
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By *izzy.Woman 47 weeks ago
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I commented that your profile was confusing and might cause problems and I can see that you have rewritten it and so that issue is eliminated.
I'm sorry to hear some people have said unkind things regarding your looks and dented your confidence. I think we all doubt ourselves from time to time. Maybe head to special curvy nights at clubs where people really appreciate the curvier figure. |
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"Am I ugly I feel like because I'm big I don't get any interaction
you don’t get any interaction but you’ve had 11 verifications?  cam's and bad socials"
so you want more positive face to face interaction? |
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"Am I ugly I feel like because I'm big I don't get any interaction
you don’t get any interaction but you’ve had 11 verifications? cam's and bad socials
so you want more positive face to face interaction?"
would be a great change |
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"I commented that your profile was confusing and might cause problems and I can see that you have rewritten it and so that issue is eliminated.
I'm sorry to hear some people have said unkind things regarding your looks and dented your confidence. I think we all doubt ourselves from time to time. Maybe head to special curvy nights at clubs where people really appreciate the curvier figure. "
A lot of people have said clubs on this thread.
If the travel and costs are not prohibitive, you would generally find a very pleasant and welcoming social environment which can do your confidence the world of good.
I really don't know anything about you, but a lot of the time, if people are concerned about being "pretty, or ugly", it's a confidence thing, not a 'real" thing.
I think you're pretty, and I hope you develop the confidence to believe that over time.
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Awww bless. I feel bad for you that you’re not getting the attention you feel your ego deserves.
Why dont you put a meet now status up I’m sure 100’s of desperate men would happy feed your ego.
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"Awww bless. I feel bad for you that you’re not getting the attention you feel your ego deserves.
Why dont you put a meet now status up I’m sure 100’s of desperate men would happy feed your ego.
The mr "
You already working on your cunt off?
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"Awww bless. I feel bad for you that you’re not getting the attention you feel your ego deserves.
Why dont you put a meet now status up I’m sure 100’s of desperate men would happy feed your ego.
The mr
You already working on your cunt off?
MrsAbz "
No it just comes naturally.
The mr |
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"Awww bless. I feel bad for you that you’re not getting the attention you feel your ego deserves.
Why dont you put a meet now status up I’m sure 100’s of desperate men would happy feed your ego.
The mr
You already working on your cunt off?
MrsAbz
No it just comes naturally.
The mr "
Thats talent
MrsAbz |
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"Jesus  "
Hang on - he's supposed to pop up the day after Santa, not before?
Fucking narcissist that guy, jeez.
"Oh yeah - it's all about me. You're all sinful, but I'll die and save you blah blah".
What a fucking egotistical knob.
Takes after his Dad . |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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"You've been verified by 11 people, so I think you are getting plenty of interactions.
Your profile is a little confusing as it states you enjoy watching your wife being fucked and yet the profile is female. It's possible this might put some people off.
But, I think you are getting plenty of attention and this post is just another way to get more "
Agree |
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"Am I ugly I feel like because I'm big I don't get any interaction "
Only going by your public pics but what's not to like? All your curves are in all the right places anyway?
Beauty is a personal thing though, i (wølf) am a sucker for a pretty face, or pretty eyes but at the end of the day attraction comes down to personality and the brain determines how sexy i find someone.
Different strokes for different folks and all that. |
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"Am I ugly I feel like because I'm big I don't get any interaction
Only going by your public pics but what's not to like? All your curves are in all the right places anyway?
Beauty is a personal thing though, i (wølf) am a sucker for a pretty face, or pretty eyes but at the end of the day attraction comes down to personality and the brain determines how sexy i find someone.
Different strokes for different folks and all that."
thank you also sent you a message |
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Does anyone ever answer "Yes" to these types of threads?
(OP, not a dig at you, just a general observation.)
There will be people on Fab who will fuck you because they find you attractive, fuck you because any hole is a goal and avoid you because they find you unattractive. It's not a good place to go looking for validation or a sense of self worth. |
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"Does anyone ever answer "Yes" to these types of threads?
(OP, not a dig at you, just a general observation.)
There will be people on Fab who will fuck you because they find you attractive, fuck you because any hole is a goal and avoid you because they find you unattractive. It's not a good place to go looking for validation or a sense of self worth."
Unless you are an absolute stunner, like me.  |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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"Am I ugly I feel like because I'm big I don't get any interaction "
Hope you’re feeling more confident about yourself 13weeks on from the original post (love it when posts get resurrected lol) . Quite obviously you’re not ugly, far from it in fact, but I can totally understand how you start doubting yourself if not much is happening on the meet front. |
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This was a different time I was getting messages from people calling me fat and ugly so I question myself but now I'm getting meets left right and centre and I have alot more confidence now as I call myself Sexy_Hotwife now |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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"This was a different time I was getting messages from people calling me fat and ugly so I question myself but now I'm getting meets left right and centre and I have alot more confidence now as I call myself Sexy_Hotwife now"
I’m sorry that people were so mean. That’s not right. I’m proud of you for overcoming that you gotta have body positivity in yourself. Congratulations |
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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Alot of nice comments but reality is for women it's easy to get laid weather ur ugly or not fat or skinny. Men on the other hand if he was fat or ugly ain't getting no action. Reality is u getting more action then a guy way out ur league so I wouldn't worry about it. |
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"This was a different time I was getting messages from people calling me fat and ugly so I question myself but now I'm getting meets left right and centre and I have alot more confidence now as I call myself Sexy_Hotwife now"
Please don't judge self-confidence self-esteem/worth, through the amount of meets or attention that you recieve from off Fab....
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By (user no longer on site) 34 weeks ago
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"Am I ugly I feel like because I'm big I don't get any interaction "
Your requirements restrict you to a narrow part of this site's population. Your age range for instance.
So it's not a surprise. |
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