"Uh. Be a friend instead?
But how do i dodge the sex aspect without hurting his feelings? "
Don't dodge.
Be kind. Tell them that the sexual compatibility isn't there for you but you still enjoy their company.
No point lying about it. Don't make yourself feel shit by having sex you don't want for the sake of someone else's feelings. |
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"Uh. Be a friend instead?
But how do i dodge the sex aspect without hurting his feelings? "
Sometimes hurting someone's feelings is unavoidable. You can only do it as nicely and unambiguously as possible leaving no room for misunderstanding |
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Communicate with them, on all levels.
Explain that the sex isn’t doing what it could for you and have a chat about why that is and if it could be remedied.
Who knows, maybe they are in the same boat. |
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