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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Bin on hear a wile and still not had a meet with a couple. I send a nice message "hi how are you both" ect bin sent friend requests and nothing. What am I doing wrong? Please help x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Address the couple by their names or initials etc to start, and mention some of the things they have written in their profile, shows you've actually read it! We hate getting 'hi how are you' messages, it's so dull |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Are you what the couple are looking for? We get loads of just boring one liners nothing that piques our interest.
When we get impressed or intrigued you get the results. |
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I can only say stick with it, keep sending messages that show you've read the profile and be open and honest. You look really nice in your pictures, friendly and smiling and a big plus surely is that you must be good at making cake  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"clubs are probably the way forward for single guys .. gives you the opportunity to get your personality across .. best of luck  "
Are they though ?
I don't think my personality would shine at all under those circumstances because I would be unaware of how to act, what to expect and as nervous as hell.
I would have thought a no strings social would been a much less daunting experience for a single guy ? |
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"clubs are probably the way forward for single guys .. gives you the opportunity to get your personality across .. best of luck iz that the best way?
How can a single guy approach a couple"
I would think that would take a lot of courage. we often say how difficult it must be for single men in a lot of situations but with couples it must be even harder. |
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"clubs are probably the way forward for single guys .. gives you the opportunity to get your personality across .. best of luck
Are they though ?
I don't think my personality would shine at all under those circumstances because I would be unaware of how to act, what to expect and as nervous as hell.
I would have thought a no strings social would been a much less daunting experience for a single guy ?"
we always have no strings/no pressure socials with any single guy (or couple) we're thinking of moving forward with, it can be an awful lot of fun lets everyone relax and get to know each other and also shows very clearly if there's any chemistry. |
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db9 what am I ment to say then? 
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