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By (user no longer on site) OP 40 weeks ago
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Would you tell them?
Looking back there's always one right, one where you didn't say what you wanted to say.
Didn't tell them how much they actually mean to you, or how much they've actually fucking hurt you.
Or maybe you just wanted to tell them they were a little bit hot. Or not.
If you got the chance, would you tell them? |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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Someone who’d hurt me?
Nah, fuck that. They’re all the way gone from my life if they’ve done that. I don’t see any advantages or positives from telling them that. |
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"Would you tell them?
Looking back there's always one right, one where you didn't say what you wanted to say.
Didn't tell them how much they actually mean to you, or how much they've actually fucking hurt you.
Or maybe you just wanted to tell them they were a little bit hot. Or not.
If you got the chance, would you tell them?"
If I got the chance, I would tell them how I really felt next time instead of making out I was cool with how it ended or didn’t get properly started ( I know what I mean ) lol |
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Wow….you know what Jaga, there’s one who’s the love of my life. She’s been in my head and heart since forever it feels. Sometimes I go back to the places we went and remember so hard that I try and turn back time. We were young and I guess I thought I had forever to bide my time and find the words that never came….maybe I was scared of fucking up the there and then. |
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No reason not to tell them.
Bottling up long term is not good, it comes out one way or another, and not always in the best way.
Saying it let's it out and has it been said, it make change things or nothing changes. But it's out and you no longer have to carry around the baggage of keeping it in. |
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By *edeWoman 40 weeks ago
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Honestly? Probably not, I don't express myself to many people even if they are close to me. Maybe it's a defence mechanism or just the way I'm programmed, I'm not sure. But I know if I didn't say it the first time round, I wasn't ready to share  |
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"No reason not to tell them.
Bottling up long term is not good, it comes out one way or another, and not always in the best way.
Saying it let's it out and has it been said, it make change things or nothing changes. But it's out and you no longer have to carry around the baggage of keeping it in. "
Maybe so but it can lead to burnt fingers so I'm not doing that again |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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"I know Drama Freee wants me. He doesn't need to say it.
But I've made it clear, not until I get my Freddo! Making things clear and on the table is important. As important as a Freddo. "
You dirtbag K! You cannot compare this to a FREDDO |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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"Would you tell them?
If you got the chance, would you tell them?
Yeah. I would. But then, I’m quite chatty."
Haha. That’s a good point… it would give us something else to talk about.  |
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"I know Drama Freee wants me. He doesn't need to say it.
But I've made it clear, not until I get my Freddo! Making things clear and on the table is important. As important as a Freddo.
You dirtbag K! You cannot compare this to a FREDDO"
It needed to be said! |
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By *oofy321Man 40 weeks ago
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I was married at the time and I fell in love with someone, never told her but I knew she felt the same but because I was married we did nothing..unfortunately she passed away and I never got to tell her or find out if she really felt the same..
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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"Would you tell them?
Looking back there's always one right, one where you didn't say what you wanted to say.
Didn't tell them how much they actually mean to you, or how much they've actually fucking hurt you.
Or maybe you just wanted to tell them they were a little bit hot. Or not.
If you got the chance, would you tell them?"
No, there's absolutely no point.
Write it down on a piece of paper, like a letter to them, take it outside, set fire to it and watch it burn and be gone for good.
If they didn't know how much they meant to you then they probably couldn't 'see you' anyway.
If they hurt you they won't care and they won't take away that hurt with anything they say so let it go, don't waste you breath.
And no.
And the day I do the above myself won't be a day too soon. I'm working on it though.
I did get the opportunity to say something to someone that hurt me recently, their response was all the right ones with sorry's included. But that was only because they wanted to get back in my knickers. So it was as insincere as it can get. Am I angry, no. I got to say it, they know. That's enough for me.
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