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"And you actually would with all of them, is that a bad thing?
I find so many people attractive. Help. I think I’m a slut.  "
You speak of it like it’s a bad thing, it’s who you are and there is nothing wrong with that  |
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I fancy loads. (And many in fab are super sexy,) but would I sleep with them all?? Probably not, but I do go through waves on who I’m seriously attracted to at one time. I suppose that’s the connection I might enjoy.
But I can fancy a few at one time and want something with them.
So hit me up!!   |
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"And you actually would with all of them, is that a bad thing?
I find so many people attractive. Help. I think I’m a slut.
You speak of it like it’s a bad thing, it’s who you are and there is nothing wrong with that "
Sweet Cherry, you’re on my list 
Thanks though that’s very sweet. I feel like I shouldn’t want to have this much sex with different people sometimes. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 47 weeks ago
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"Nothing wrong with it, but I do think it’s something you grow out of once you do it, so it’s better to get it over and done with early in your youth "
I hope I’m a top shagger for the rest of my life man |
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You do you pickles...not literally, that's not want a meant.
I might start a thread on the opposite.
I don't find many people attractive and don't want to have sex with many people. |
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"And you actually would with all of them, is that a bad thing?
I find so many people attractive. Help. I think I’m a slut.
You speak of it like it’s a bad thing, it’s who you are and there is nothing wrong with that
Sweet Cherry, you’re on my list
Thanks though that’s very sweet. I feel like I shouldn’t want to have this much sex with different people sometimes. "
Oh dear, that’s incredibly flattering you sweet pickle if only I ever regain my self confidence and start meeting again for other than socials, I’d let you know |
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"Nothing wrong with it, but I do think it’s something you grow out of once you do it, so it’s better to get it over and done with early in your youth
I hope I’m a top shagger for the rest of my life man "
You will be, you’ll just reach a point where the effort to get in the knickers isn’t worth the squeeze anymore
The things I did at 25 for even the vaguest hint of fanny is atrocious |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 47 weeks ago
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"And you actually would with all of them, is that a bad thing?
I find so many people attractive. Help. I think I’m a slut.
You speak of it like it’s a bad thing, it’s who you are and there is nothing wrong with that
Sweet Cherry, you’re on my list
Thanks though that’s very sweet. I feel like I shouldn’t want to have this much sex with different people sometimes.
Oh dear, that’s incredibly flattering you sweet pickle if only I ever regain my self confidence and start meeting again for other than socials, I’d let you know "
You must come to my next Picnic! (In the London forum) next year. Socials are great fun. There’s some lovely fabbers in London.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 47 weeks ago
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"You do you pickles...not literally, that's not want a meant.
I might start a thread on the opposite.
I don't find many people attractive and don't want to have sex with many people."
We are a song of ice and fire  |
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"Nothing wrong with it, but I do think it’s something you grow out of once you do it, so it’s better to get it over and done with early in your youth
I hope I’m a top shagger for the rest of my life man
You will be, you’ll just reach a point where the effort to get in the knickers isn’t worth the squeeze anymore
The things I did at 25 for even the vaguest hint of fanny is atrocious "
 I’m not that desperate yet. Still not redownloaded tinder. But yeah I’d say 25 and younger I was also doing some mad stuff for a sniff of sex. |
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I go through phases with it.
Sometimes the blatant hedonism and just fucking enjoying all of the people I have an attraction to is wonderful.
Sometimes it's almost too much to deal with the people I actually truly care for and the idea of having to deal with anyone outside of that for anything ever is just hell.
I'm happy to admit to being a slut when I want to be though |
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"And you actually would with all of them, is that a bad thing?
I find so many people attractive. Help. I think I’m a slut.
You speak of it like it’s a bad thing, it’s who you are and there is nothing wrong with that
Sweet Cherry, you’re on my list
Thanks though that’s very sweet. I feel like I shouldn’t want to have this much sex with different people sometimes.
Oh dear, that’s incredibly flattering you sweet pickle if only I ever regain my self confidence and start meeting again for other than socials, I’d let you know
You must come to my next Picnic! (In the London forum) next year. Socials are great fun. There’s some lovely fabbers in London. "
That sounds like a great start…just loads of things to work on myself before I muster the courage though…last person I met from here really did a number on me and I’m still trying to recover from that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 47 weeks ago
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"And you actually would with all of them, is that a bad thing?
I find so many people attractive. Help. I think I’m a slut.
You speak of it like it’s a bad thing, it’s who you are and there is nothing wrong with that
Sweet Cherry, you’re on my list
Thanks though that’s very sweet. I feel like I shouldn’t want to have this much sex with different people sometimes.
Oh dear, that’s incredibly flattering you sweet pickle if only I ever regain my self confidence and start meeting again for other than socials, I’d let you know
You must come to my next Picnic! (In the London forum) next year. Socials are great fun. There’s some lovely fabbers in London.
That sounds like a great start…just loads of things to work on myself before I muster the courage though…last person I met from here really did a number on me and I’m still trying to recover from that "
I’m sorry lovely.
I hope you get to a better place soon
Here if you need to chat |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 47 weeks ago
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"I go through phases with it.
Sometimes the blatant hedonism and just fucking enjoying all of the people I have an attraction to is wonderful.
Sometimes it's almost too much to deal with the people I actually truly care for and the idea of having to deal with anyone outside of that for anything ever is just hell.
I'm happy to admit to being a slut when I want to be though "
I think I have chases too. A lot like what you describe |
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"And you actually would with all of them, is that a bad thing?
I find so many people attractive. Help. I think I’m a slut.
You speak of it like it’s a bad thing, it’s who you are and there is nothing wrong with that
Sweet Cherry, you’re on my list
Thanks though that’s very sweet. I feel like I shouldn’t want to have this much sex with different people sometimes.
Oh dear, that’s incredibly flattering you sweet pickle if only I ever regain my self confidence and start meeting again for other than socials, I’d let you know
You must come to my next Picnic! (In the London forum) next year. Socials are great fun. There’s some lovely fabbers in London.
That sounds like a great start…just loads of things to work on myself before I muster the courage though…last person I met from here really did a number on me and I’m still trying to recover from that
I’m sorry lovely.
I hope you get to a better place soon
Here if you need to chat "
Thanks sweet pickle you’re such a sweetheart |
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It depends who you're talking to.
I reckon a very large percentage of the population would say it's a bad thing... unless it's them and then the rules are different and the circumstances mean they don't apply to them anyway.
Crack on I say. I'm in no position to say it's bad |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 47 weeks ago
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"It depends who you're talking to.
I reckon a very large percentage of the population would say it's a bad thing... unless it's them and then the rules are different and the circumstances mean they don't apply to them anyway.
Crack on I say. I'm in no position to say it's bad"
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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I’ll even go as far to say it’s a good thing when guys do it
I think a lot of the heart break guts cause women comes from them being so starved sexually they’ll do and say anything to get some
If they weren’t so desperate they wouldn’t be so willing to lie to get in someone knickers
I’m guilty of it |
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"I’ll even go as far to say it’s a good thing when guys do it
I think a lot of the heart break guts cause women comes from them being so starved sexually they’ll do and say anything to get some
If they weren’t so desperate they wouldn’t be so willing to lie to get in someone knickers
I’m guilty of it "
My favourite thing about this post is that you didn’t need to confess to this |
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Sex is fun. (Hopefully)
And sex with lots of people is fun, as long as you are honest with them.
But some people equate sex with love, monogamy etc. best steer clear of people who want different things from sex.
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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"I’ll even go as far to say it’s a good thing when guys do it
I think a lot of the heart break guts cause women comes from them being so starved sexually they’ll do and say anything to get some
If they weren’t so desperate they wouldn’t be so willing to lie to get in someone knickers
I’m guilty of it
My favourite thing about this post is that you didn’t need to confess to this "
Total honesty. Not proud of it but I gotta own it
On an anonymous swinging profile. Very brave of me |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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"It's called having low standards.
Welcome to the men of fab. I disagree... he said he finds them attractive x "
Men on here find 90% of the women attractive. |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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"It's called having low standards.
Welcome to the men of fab. I disagree... he said he finds them attractive x
Men on here find 90% of the women attractive. "
I think your confusing what they say to get inside a hole vs what they actually think
A hungry man will eat dog food and tell you it’s caviar |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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"It's called having low standards.
Welcome to the men of fab. I disagree... he said he finds them attractive x
Men on here find 90% of the women attractive.
I think your confusing what they say to get inside a hole vs what they actually think
A hungry man will eat dog food and tell you it’s caviar "
That's my point.
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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"I’m a complete man whore…
I do have some standards though.. just not got around to implementing them.. 
My standards are very different pre and post nut
Ah the post orgasmic guilt pang.. sigh.. "
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"I’m a complete man whore…
I do have some standards though.. just not got around to implementing them..
My standards are very different pre and post nut
Ah the post orgasmic guilt pang.. sigh..
Closing 19 browser tabs in shame "
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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Speaking for us, the end goal would be someone for her to fuck very regularly on the side.
Having said that, it's much easier said than done and she has fucked several random men who take her fancy, all promise something regular but it never turns out that way.
I think each to their own and it's dependent on your own aims / goals, but getting enjoyment from life is something very few people manage to get, so don't let the nay-sayers dictate how you should live in their eyes. |
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Quite right - we’re here for a good time not a long time..
I find my tastes vary so wildly from day to day/ week to week..
As long as you’re not hurting anyone else then I see no problem with it at all.. |
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"It's called having low standards.
Welcome to the men of fab. I disagree... he said he finds them attractive x
Men on here find 90% of the women attractive. "
So you’re telling me , I find 9/10 women on here attractive enough to sleep with? 
Sign me up!!!!! Where are these ten women !!!
*shakes his head at more bullshit I read in here. |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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"It's called having low standards.
Welcome to the men of fab. I disagree... he said he finds them attractive x
Men on here find 90% of the women attractive.
So you’re telling me , I find 9/10 women on here attractive enough to sleep with?
Sign me up!!!!! Where are these ten women !!!
*shakes his head at more bullshit I read in here. "
I'm sure someone will fall for this, don't worry. |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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"It's called having low standards.
Welcome to the men of fab. I disagree... he said he finds them attractive x
Men on here find 90% of the women attractive.
So you’re telling me , I find 9/10 women on here attractive enough to sleep with?
Sign me up!!!!! Where are these ten women !!!
*shakes his head at more bullshit I read in here.
I'm sure someone will fall for this, don't worry."
I cross my fingers each day. |
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Is it a bad thing tho? I’ve recently decided it’s like eating. I don’t eat the same meal every day. I don’t shop at the same shop always. Nor do I have food from the same take away each time I order in. If going out to eat I pick from a variety of places to reserve a table. Some places serve dishes similar to other places but some places are very unique in the culinary creations. Sometimes I even read the menu whilst eating my food. Sometimes I have three course. Sometimes one. Sometimes a quick snack, others a banquet. My fave food group is buffet
Variety is good. Looking forward to trying something new is acceptable. Sticking with well known taste and flavours is also acceptable. Eat and enjoy. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 47 weeks ago
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"It's called having low standards.
Welcome to the men of fab. I disagree... he said he finds them attractive x
Men on here find 90% of the women attractive. "
Noah Fence but I don’t find 90% of the women on here attractive and even if I did, that doesn’t mean I have low standards- more that I can likely appreciate beauty in more forms.
Plenty of people on here complain that they don’t like so many different things in people and actually I think they’re the ones with shoddy standards. I like women of different, shapes, shades, sizes etc. and I’m a slut. But it had nothing to do with standards.
This feels like unfair projection. Nothing to do with anything you know about me. |
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"I actually discovered that, through Fabbing, that I don't find that many people attractive enough to want to do the Sex. Only a select few make it through to the final..... "
I'd be happy to make the qualifying rounds  |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS 47 weeks ago
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"Once you are in 4 figures it’s all meaningless op
Hey, they’re never meaningless. Every hookup counts.
I suppose it's all just a question of lust.
It’s just sex "
Yeah, let's talk about sex. Lol |
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"Once you are in 4 figures it’s all meaningless op
Hey, they’re never meaningless. Every hookup counts.
I suppose it's all just a question of lust.
It’s just sex
Yeah, let's talk about sex. Lol"
Let's talk about sex, baby. |
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"Once you are in 4 figures it’s all meaningless op
Hey, they’re never meaningless. Every hookup counts.
I suppose it's all just a question of lust.
It’s just sex
Yeah, let's talk about sex. Lol
Let's talk about sex, baby."
Let's talk about you and me |
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"Anyway, fellow sluts, I’ll start an orgy thread later
Where was the orgy thread? 
I fell asleep doing bedtime "
I thought that was just we oldies who did that 
Someone needs to come and put me to bed now! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 47 weeks ago
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"Anyway, fellow sluts, I’ll start an orgy thread later
Where was the orgy thread?
I fell asleep doing bedtime
I thought that was just we oldies who did that
Someone needs to come and put me to bed now!"
On my way |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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I can't relate OP because finding someone sexually attractive is frustratingly rare for me. Honestly I'm a bit jealous. Go for it! And do some of the sex for me! Take it for the team! Just stay honest and play nice and safe and it's all good adult fun. |
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"Nothing wrong with it, but I do think it’s something you grow out of once you do it, so it’s better to get it over and done with early in your youth "
I'm 56 and haven't grown out of it yet Thankfully I'm not alone or else swinging parties would be a bit boring. |
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"Nothing wrong with it, but I do think it’s something you grow out of once you do it, so it’s better to get it over and done with early in your youth
I'm 56 and haven't grown out of it yet Thankfully I'm not alone or else swinging parties would be a bit boring. "
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56 and wearing that shirt?
Grow up!
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"Nothing wrong with it, but I do think it’s something you grow out of once you do it, so it’s better to get it over and done with early in your youth
I'm 56 and haven't grown out of it yet Thankfully I'm not alone or else swinging parties would be a bit boring.
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56 and wearing that shirt?
Grow up!
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This shirt seems to have had quite the effect on you. Are you stalking me? |
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"Nothing wrong with it, but I do think it’s something you grow out of once you do it, so it’s better to get it over and done with early in your youth
I'm 56 and haven't grown out of it yet Thankfully I'm not alone or else swinging parties would be a bit boring.
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56 and wearing that shirt?
Grow up!
This shirt seems to have had quite the effect on you. Are you stalking me? "
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Quite noticeable shirt, but definitely not stalking you.
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Do you think it's a bad thing, Stephen?
I think it's a bad thing if it's your sole focus in life. If you're using it to maintain your self-worth.
I view sex with people outside my marriage as an enjoyable hobby. A way to unwind. A sensory feast. A wee mood booster.
Mrs TMN x
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Just bag up!
Sorry to sound like a party pooper but those barebacking it and random breeders… I can feel the itch and burn as I read your profile.
Maybe the fear of STI’s is why I only almost touch. |
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"And you actually would with all of them, is that a bad thing?
I find so many people attractive. Help. I think I’m a slut. "
No. It isn't. As long as everyone is aware of boundaries and any pre existing relationships are aware obvs not specifics, I don't think it's bad. |
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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"Just bag up!
Sorry to sound like a party pooper but those barebacking it and random breeders… I can feel the itch and burn as I read your profile.
Maybe the fear of STI’s is why I only almost touch. "
Gotta pick better girls
I’m either luck or blessed because I think I wore a condom 3 times in my 20s and never caught anything |
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"Just bag up!
Sorry to sound like a party pooper but those barebacking it and random breeders… I can feel the itch and burn as I read your profile.
Maybe the fear of STI’s is why I only almost touch. "
Swinging / promiscuous lifestyle isn’t for those that are scared of everything tbh. Sex comes with risks when fucking multiple people. No such thing as safe sex in reality just some risk reduction practises |
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"Just bag up!
Sorry to sound like a party pooper but those barebacking it and random breeders… I can feel the itch and burn as I read your profile.
Maybe the fear of STI’s is why I only almost touch.
Gotta pick better girls
I’m either luck or blessed because I think I wore a condom 3 times in my 20s and never caught anything "
You must be the luckiest man alive or only shagged the three times in question.
Maybe just have a little test to be sure you don’t give your next meet more than a good time.
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