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By *ltr OP Man
over a year ago
sheffield |
It may have been covered before,but this weekend was out with friends and one of my mates wife was chatting to me privately and said to me your on fab swingers aren't you .Shocked I said no but she then pulled up a picture of me on my profile and said yep you are I started to panic as I wasn't bothered about her finding out I was on fab was that It was bi on my profile , she said don't worry her and hubby had been on for ages no one knew and he was bi and would like to meet up some time I don't know whether to oblige or to decline as we are friends and don't want to make it awkward between us if it goes tits up |
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By *ltr OP Man
over a year ago
sheffield |
"My advice by the way is to leave it alone. Don’t do it. "
I know it's a tricky one as will they take it iam been stand offish or do just chat
To them and decline on the grounds that it could be a mine field and could ruin a friend ship |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My advice by the way is to leave it alone. Don’t do it. "
I concur. At least, not yet until you've all had a good discussion about it....what boundaries and all that.
Good luck.
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By *ltr OP Man
over a year ago
sheffield |
"Are you attracted to them?
If you're worried it will affect the friendship, you can politely decline stating just that. "
Both very attractive but it's my worry it will ruin a friendship that spans 20 years if we do the deed and it goes wrong I think I will just decline and explain my fears thanks all its helped
Been able to chat it's not something you can bring up with vanillas |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It may have been covered before,but this weekend was out with friends and one of my mates wife was chatting to me privately and said to me your on fab swingers aren't you .Shocked I said no but she then pulled up a picture of me on my profile and said yep you are I started to panic as I wasn't bothered about her finding out I was on fab was that It was bi on my profile , she said don't worry her and hubby had been on for ages no one knew and he was bi and would like to meet up some time I don't know whether to oblige or to decline as we are friends and don't want to make it awkward between us if it goes tits up "
I wouldn't fuck them and I'd probably also delete my profile. I'd be concerned they would b mail me about the bi thing and Out me if I did and/ or didn't meet them. |
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