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By (user no longer on site) OP 47 weeks ago

Just me that hates that word?

But anyway, would you avoid meeting someone that uses the forums? Do you only meet people that use them? Are you not fussed either way?

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By *ellinever70Woman 47 weeks ago

Ayrshire

I'm way up here and don't gad around the country to meet folks, but I wouldn't meet a prolific poster, no

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By *ruceyyMan 47 weeks ago

London

"Just me that hates that word?

But anyway, would you avoid meeting someone that uses the forums? Do you only meet people that use them? Are you not fussed either way?

I don't care either way. I wanna meet you for starters so definitely no limits there!

I think people are pretty respectful of not publicly mentioning their experiences with others on here anyway!

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By *icecouple561Couple 47 weeks ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

I'm not really fussed but I do think that people who use the fora regularly have preconceived ideas about each other that might not translate to real life

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By *eliWoman 47 weeks ago

I don't really like it. If I'm being a pretentious twonk I'll say fora user.

Erm... I was convinced I wouldn't meet any more forum users at one point. I don't only meet forum users. Anyway, now I'd say yes I would, because I don't want to let a previous experience prevent great orgasms/happiness.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 47 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I enjoyed meeting the fellow forum users at the MLS.

Whether or not I want to bone someone on here has nothing to do with if they're on the forums and more to do with if the interactions we've had lead me to believe were compatible. So I guess not fussed. There are forum users and non forum users on fab I happily fuck, and there's more of both I happily would

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan 47 weeks ago

Den of Iniquity

I predominantly have met forum folk so far , most ( not all ) have been wonderful..

I've never understood this " I don't meet forum folk " idea that some have .

Obviously each to their own of course

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By *oeBeansMan 47 weeks ago

Derby

I feel like a lot of my meet come exclusively from the forums due to group socials I'm made aware of but

I've also had a some good meets as a result of chatting to people as it's easier to do so than randomly messaging locals and hoping one sticks. I do get a bit nervous though as I've seen forumites (sorry!) who have had sex pretty much follow each other in every thread thereafter and I find it a little cringe so it's something I try to avoid.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman 47 weeks ago

all loved up

"Just me that hates that word?

But anyway, would you avoid meeting someone that uses the forums? Do you only meet people that use them? Are you not fussed either way?

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I don't mind the word and I miss the epic forum meet ups that used to happen back in the day....

I don't have a preference but as I go to lot of events advertised on the forums. I guess I meet a lot of forum users

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By *affeine DuskMan 47 weeks ago

Caerphilly

They all look alike at socials. It's very distressing, you should all get matching tattoos or something, I get awfully confused.

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By *ools and the brainCouple 47 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

People meet?

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By *allySlinkyWoman 47 weeks ago

Leeds

The best meet I had was with someone from the Forums

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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago

"The best meet I had was with someone from the Forums"

Thank you, Sally.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS 47 weeks ago

Central

I don't care, if people are decent.

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By (user no longer on site) OP 47 weeks ago

"Just me that hates that word?

But anyway, would you avoid meeting someone that uses the forums? Do you only meet people that use them? Are you not fussed either way?

I don't care either way. I wanna meet you for starters so definitely no limits there!

I think people are pretty respectful of not publicly mentioning their experiences with others on here anyway!"

Are they?

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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago

Forumite - a person who posts comments in a particular internet forum, typically on a regular basis.

Do I like them? I’d meet them wether they post here or not.

Off the forum, there’s less of s chance of them thinking I’m a cockhead.

On the forum, I’ve grown to like someones posts enough to view their profile and try to talk to them.

It’s easier to think I can imagine what someone is like from the forum.

I love you guys!!!

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan 47 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

I prefer meeting people who use the forums. I’ve got a better sense of who they are than I get from just a profile and a gallery.

But there are amazing people out there on Fab who don’t use the forums. I let them come to me.*

*What I mean is that I don’t go searching the site for people, but sometimes they contact me out of the blue and things work out well. Sometimes.

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By *carlet SeductionWoman 47 weeks ago

Maidstone

I'll meet those that don't display dramatic/ indiscreet tendancies. But it wouldn't be my first choice way of meeting people. I would be surprised if anyone saw my posts and thought "now there's someone I'd like to meet"

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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago

I avoid meeting everyone

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman 47 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I used to go to many parties, clubs and events. A few years ago I'd met most of the regulars.

As for sex in all the years I've been here I've found very few forumites sexually attractive. Also now I don't meet anyone forums or not

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan 47 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"Are they?

I’m not.

But I also am.

You lot only know about *some* of the things I get up to.

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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago

Definitely avoid

It’s like all the extremes are on here

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By *eroLondonMan 47 weeks ago

Mayfair

I socialise and 'engage' with most people, irrespective of their forum presence or lack thereof.

I'm not averse to using the word "forumite", perfectly acceptable for me. There are worse words and it's one syllable less than "motherfucker".

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By *carlet SeductionWoman 47 weeks ago

Maidstone

And that word gives me the ick. And so does that phrase, but it's so apt.

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By *ad NannaWoman 47 weeks ago

East London

I'll meet, and have met, forumers.

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By *ealitybitesMan 47 weeks ago

Belfast

I use the forums as an additional filter. I've met people long before I ever looked at the forums never mind contributed.

I haven't sent a first contact message in almost 4 years so the majority of conversations I've had since have started on the back of someone contacting me about a forum post.

I'm not currently meeting so it doesn't really matter if those getting in touch are forum users or not but the forums give me a more rounded view of someone's personality.

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By *illy IdolMan 47 weeks ago

Midlands

Do I hate the word, yes.

Would I meet a forumite, yes.

Do I care, no.

Have others behaviour changed after you have, yes.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan 47 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"However I have encountered some of the most revolting behaviour from a couple of forum users. Which has put me off meeting."

I think I’m lucky to have not encountered any awful behaviour yet. Because I do keep hearing about it second-hand.

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By *ittlebirdWoman 47 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

I don’t hate the word forumite. It just says it as it is.

Does it have an influence on who I meet… sometimes. Sometimes not

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By *ruceyyMan 47 weeks ago

London

"Are they?

I’m not.

But I also am.

You lot only know about *some* of the things I get up to."

He's shagged EVERYONE

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By *issMBWoman 47 weeks ago

North

It wouldn't/hasn't put me off in the slightest, but I also wouldn't be put off meeting someone who had no idea the forums even existed.

I've met one or two semi-regular forum users in the past and it was no different to any other meet.

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By *allySlinkyWoman 47 weeks ago

Leeds

"The best meet I had was with someone from the Forums

Thank you, Sally."

Where's my verification

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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago

Anyway. Sounds hot. I’m in

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By (user no longer on site) OP 47 weeks ago

"They all look alike at socials. It's very distressing, you should all get matching tattoos or something, I get awfully confused.

But WHO do they all look like?

This could be the decider on attending a social or not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP 47 weeks ago

"I used to go to many parties, clubs and events. A few years ago I'd met most of the regulars.

As for sex in all the years I've been here I've found very few forumites sexually attractive. Also now I don't meet anyone forums or not"

This is the thing.

Is it not all a bit.... that word that isn't allowed? I've fucked him , who's fucked her and she's fucked HIM?!?

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By (user no longer on site) OP 47 weeks ago

"Do I hate the word, yes.

Would I meet a forumite, yes.

Do I care, no.

Have others behaviour changed after you have, yes."

Has someone upset you this morning?

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By *imi_RougeWoman 47 weeks ago

Portsmouth

I think it would very much depend on the individual.

Majority are too far away so it wouldn't happen anyway.

I feel like some are just game players and pit people against each other or try and get round as many as possible.

And some I've heard the other side of the story...

Saying that, my most successful fab foray was a result of the forums, be controlled me after seeing some of my comments.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan 47 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"He's shagged EVERYONE "

I’ve never mentioned that night we spent together, Brucey. The very model of discretion, here.

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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago

"The best meet I had was with someone from the Forums

Thank you, Sally.

Where's my verification

Didn't want to leave one, as the little verification goblins would have been on the prowl. You know how it goes

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan 47 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"I’ve never mentioned that night we spent together, Brucey. The very model of discretion, here."

Wait. Shit. Sorry.

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By *lik and PaulCouple 47 weeks ago

Flagrante

Pretty much everyone we've swung with we didn't know they were on fab, let alone the forums when we met them so it makes no difference. Forumites sounds like the "shouldn't be mentioned " clique like this is the only part of Fab they use, which we know isn't the case. We post on the forums but we aren't Forumites.

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By (user no longer on site) OP 47 weeks ago

"He's shagged EVERYONE

I’ve never mentioned that night we spent together, Brucey. The very model of discretion, here."

He sent me the video.

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By *ruceyyMan 47 weeks ago

London

"He's shagged EVERYONE

I’ve never mentioned that night we spent together, Brucey. The very model of discretion, here."

Stop teasing the raven!

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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago

"I used to go to many parties, clubs and events. A few years ago I'd met most of the regulars.

As for sex in all the years I've been here I've found very few forumites sexually attractive. Also now I don't meet anyone forums or not

This is the thing.

Is it not all a bit.... that word that isn't allowed? I've fucked him , who's fucked her and she's fucked HIM?!?"

That’s why we don’t display verifications. … that’s how I see it.

It’s a swinging site, what does anyone expect here, people will have sex with people they like, it’s a natural human thing,….

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By *imi_RougeWoman 47 weeks ago

Portsmouth

Plus... Most of them won't have a shave

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By *ruceyyMan 47 weeks ago

London

"I used to go to many parties, clubs and events. A few years ago I'd met most of the regulars.

As for sex in all the years I've been here I've found very few forumites sexually attractive. Also now I don't meet anyone forums or not

This is the thing.

Is it not all a bit.... that word that isn't allowed? I've fucked him , who's fucked her and she's fucked HIM?!?"

Hot. In.

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By *ruceyyMan 47 weeks ago

London

"Plus... Most of them won't have a shave

All clean and tidy here cupcake!

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By (user no longer on site) OP 47 weeks ago

"I used to go to many parties, clubs and events. A few years ago I'd met most of the regulars.

As for sex in all the years I've been here I've found very few forumites sexually attractive. Also now I don't meet anyone forums or not

This is the thing.

Is it not all a bit.... that word that isn't allowed? I've fucked him , who's fucked her and she's fucked HIM?!?

That’s why we don’t display verifications. … that’s how I see it.

It’s a swinging site, what does anyone expect here, people will have sex with people they like, it’s a natural human thing,….

Yeah but on the forums i just find it a bit of a pissing contest at times. Not literally.

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By (user no longer on site) OP 47 weeks ago

"Plus... Most of them won't have a shave

I insist they don't!

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan 47 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"Is it not all a bit.... that word that isn't allowed? I've fucked him , who's fucked her and she's fucked HIM?!?"

That’s in the eye of the beholder, isn’t it?

Some people give a shit about who’s fucked who. Some don’t. I generally don’t. I just care about what’s between the two of us, at the time. (Or three of us. Or four.

)

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By *ris GrayMan 47 weeks ago

Dorchester

I avoid meeting people who've blocked me

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By *ougarsilkWoman 47 weeks ago

Pleasure heaven

If they sparked my interest to meet, chat or message it wouldn't be a problem. I have my own selection filters

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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago

"I used to go to many parties, clubs and events. A few years ago I'd met most of the regulars.

As for sex in all the years I've been here I've found very few forumites sexually attractive. Also now I don't meet anyone forums or not

This is the thing.

Is it not all a bit.... that word that isn't allowed? I've fucked him , who's fucked her and she's fucked HIM?!?

That’s why we don’t display verifications. … that’s how I see it.

It’s a swinging site, what does anyone expect here, people will have sex with people they like, it’s a natural human thing,….

Yeah but on the forums i just find it a bit of a pissing contest at times. Not literally.

I don’t. I see a lot of flirting, and some very hush hush relationships (or they try) what you think goes on behind the scenes, is probably going on.

Some people think it’s competing, maybe. Or it just looks that way and it isn’t, I dunno.

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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago

Whether they do or do not post on the forums is not a factor for me. What they say on the forums if they use it is.

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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago

"Whether they do or do not post on the forums is not a factor for me. What they say on the forums if they use it is. "

Also. People who post in the forum ‘generally’ have a better profile to read.

I know, that’s just my opinion.

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By *ougarsilkWoman 47 weeks ago

Pleasure heaven

Or like a short novel

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By (user no longer on site) OP 47 weeks ago

"Whether they do or do not post on the forums is not a factor for me. What they say on the forums if they use it is.

Also. People who post in the forum ‘generally’ have a better profile to read.

I know, that’s just my opinion. "

One of the many things we disagree on

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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago

I just use the word because others do and know what group of people I'm referring to. Hadn't really thought about whether I like it or not. It was used when I joined so I just accepted it as the terminology on here without really thinking about it or questioning it.

But let's face it whatever you do or say on here you have that the ones that hate it and those that are fine with it. It's one of those majority rules wars all the time isn't it? I'm bored of that shite to be fair.

If I like someone enough to get closer to them, whether they use the forums or not has no bearing on if I'm attracted to them. I was warned by a very well known forum user when I first joined not to fuck forumites. So the word stuck, shame her advice didn't. I should have listened to her. I hate to say it but the guys that have given me the most shit or problems have been forum users with one exception but he took to the forums and used them to be an arsehole.

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By *educing_EmCouple 47 weeks ago

Tipperary

I don't understand why it would be an issue.

You meet them, it goes great, ye flirt on the forum or whatever.

Why does that bother people? It is a public forum afterall.

If you saw people who had slept together,flirting in person is it gonna bother you?

As for it being a bad experience or the situation turning sour after.

What's gonna happen?

They post arsey replies to you?

They avoid/ignore you?

Are we all not adult enough to ignore that behaviour?

(That's a lot of questions I know

)

Maybe I'm missing something here.

I do get that things could take an extreme turn with stalking and the like but how likely is it to happen.

Em x

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By (user no longer on site) OP 47 weeks ago

"I don't understand why it would be an issue.

You meet them, it goes great, ye flirt on the forum or whatever.

Why does that bother people? It is a public forum afterall.

If you saw people who had slept together,flirting in person is it gonna bother you?

As for it being a bad experience or the situation turning sour after.

What's gonna happen?

They post arsey replies to you?

They avoid/ignore you?

Are we all not adult enough to ignore that behaviour?

(That's a lot of questions I know

)

Maybe I'm missing something here.

I do get that things could take an extreme turn with stalking and the like but how likely is it to happen.

Em x"

That was my question.

No.

Probably.

Yes.

You'd like to think so but it seems not.

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By *he turned me GreyCouple 47 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

Best bit of advice my dear old dear told me was....

Son don't shit where you eat....

As to the term forumite, its just a generic term for the collective...

Mr.

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By *ealitybitesMan 47 weeks ago

Belfast

I've seen lots of lamppost pissing in updates from profiles that I've never seen on the forums and I've been warned off people years before I even knew the forums existed.

I don't understand the thinking behind using something every day but having a negative view of everyone else who does so.

Arseholery isn't exclusively linked to being a forumite.

It can be like being back in the school playground at times but as I've said many times on here, some people struggle to understand the difference between productivity and popularity.

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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago

"I …..

I’m sorry you feel this way, I really am. Because when I read posts I often think, could I be that guy or one of those guys they are talking about if I’ve met the person that posts something like this. But that’s me, overthinking.

And that’s the problem with meeting a forum user, you just hope beyond all hope nothing would change, but sometimes it might.

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By (user no longer on site) OP 47 weeks ago

"Best bit of advice my dear old dear told me was....

Son don't shit where you eat....

As to the term forumite, its just a generic term for the collective...

Mr."

Tame for you.

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By *parkle1974Woman 47 weeks ago

Leeds

In all my time on the site, I've only met 2 people who used the forums on a 1-1 basis, the rest have been non users of this part which honestly I prefer x

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple 47 weeks ago

Leeds

I'm not really fussed although how they are in the forums would be the decision maker, if they came off as a drama loving gossip then absolutely not, if they came across as a genuine decent person then yes.

I have met forum people both socially and otherwise.

Forum politics, drama and gossip just ain't my thing so I'm very selective.

Mrs

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan 47 weeks ago

Den of Iniquity

"Best bit of advice my dear old dear told me was....

Son don't shit where you eat....

As to the term forumite, its just a generic term for the collective...

Mr."

We are the Borg

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By *aitonelMan 47 weeks ago

Liverpool

On some level the forum is always going to be x degrees of separation. In a way fab as a whole is.

But the forum specifically, conversations go on here bonds of some form are going to form - some may be questionable, some not.

If I like somebody, I'll talk to them, I'll reference them, reply to them. I'm not a fan of people as a whole, but I do appreciate the forum population as a whole. I really could not care less if I ignore some more than others, interact with some less, or who knows and picks up on it.

While I don't care who knows the above, nobody on the forum would ever know if I have fucked somebody that uses the forum or not, nor who that person would be - at least not from me.

I wouldn't avoid anyone I like, forum or not. I'm limited enough in people I do like, so discriminating against you lot would disadvantage myself even more.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple 47 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

The word. I dunno, forum users sounds even wankier. I'll stick with forumites until I find a word/phrase I like better.

Sex with forum users/forumites (still deciding on the phrase). It has happened and it has been amazing. Zero regrets.

It has a lot more to do with if there's an in person attraction than anything else. You can have all sorts of ideas about what someone is like but it's when you meet in person that you can realise there's nothing there. It's been more common for us to meet and be surprised by an attraction that we weren't expecting.

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By *rHotNottsMan 47 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Forum survival rules

1/ Don't do it

2/ If you must do it completely ignore them in the forums and at socials because they’re are spies. But they probably have spreadsheets of non-interactions…..so pretend ti flirt sometimes.

3/ when it all goes wrong don’t publicly bang on post after post after post about someone who broke your heart, because it’s boring for everyone else and no one cares

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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago

How about..

Forumian(s) as in musician(s)

Forumee(s) as in employee(s)

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan 47 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"How about..

Forumian(s) as in musician(s)

Forumee(s) as in employee(s)"

‘Forumers’. Short, simple, to the point.

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By *entlemanFoxMan 47 weeks ago

North East / London

"How about..

Forumian(s) as in musician(s)

Forumee(s) as in employee(s)

T. "

I wonder if the latin would be 'Forator'?

Sigh, if only I had paid attention at school.

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By *inkylipsWoman 47 weeks ago

Debauchery

Not really something I’ve even thought about.

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By (user no longer on site) OP 47 weeks ago

"Forum survival rules

1/ Don't do it

2/ If you must do it completely ignore them in the forums and at socials because they’re are spies. But they probably have spreadsheets of non-interactions…..so pretend ti flirt sometimes.

3/ when it all goes wrong don’t publicly bang on post after post after post about someone who broke your heart, because it’s boring for everyone else and no one cares

Eeeek!

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By (user no longer on site) OP 47 weeks ago

"How about..

Forumian(s) as in musician(s)

Forumee(s) as in employee(s)

I wonder if the latin would be 'Forator'?

Sigh, if only I had paid attention at school."

Oh I like Forator. I'm using this from now on.

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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago

"How about..

Forumian(s) as in musician(s)

Forumee(s) as in employee(s)

‘Forumers’. Short, simple, to the point."

The other too sounded bit less "rough" to my ear but yes I did consider this suggestion too.

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By *aitonelMan 47 weeks ago

Liverpool

"How about..

Forumian(s) as in musician(s)

Forumee(s) as in employee(s)

T. "

Neighbourhood watch

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan 47 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"when it all goes wrong don’t publicly bang on post after post after post about someone who broke your heart, because it’s boring for everyone else and no one cares"

Harsh. But true.

And really quite awkward when the other person is still posting here too.

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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago

"How about..

Forumian(s) as in musician(s)

Forumee(s) as in employee(s)

I wonder if the latin would be 'Forator'?

Sigh, if only I had paid attention at school."

It sounds pretty formal but also looks elegant in writing

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By (user no longer on site) OP 47 weeks ago

"when it all goes wrong don’t publicly bang on post after post after post about someone who broke your heart, because it’s boring for everyone else and no one cares

Harsh. But true.

And really quite awkward when the other person is still posting here too."

After I break your heart please don't bang on about it RTG.

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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago

"How about..

Forumian(s) as in musician(s)

Forumee(s) as in employee(s)

I wonder if the latin would be 'Forator'?

Sigh, if only I had paid attention at school.

It sounds pretty formal but also looks elegant in writing

Though now I said it out loud my brain wriggled and added fornicator

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple 47 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

"How about..

Forumian(s) as in musician(s)

Forumee(s) as in employee(s)

I wonder if the latin would be 'Forator'?

Sigh, if only I had paid attention at school.

It sounds pretty formal but also looks elegant in writing

It sounds too much like a supervillain. Or WWE Wrestler

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple 47 weeks ago

Southampton

"Forum survival rules

1/ Don't do it

2/ If you must do it completely ignore them in the forums and at socials because they’re are spies. But they probably have spreadsheets of non-interactions…..so pretend ti flirt sometimes.

3/ when it all goes wrong don’t publicly bang on post after post after post about someone who broke your heart, because it’s boring for everyone else and no one cares

Ouch lol

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan 47 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"After I break your heart please don't bang on about it RTG. "

As if I’m bringing my heart when I meet you.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple 47 weeks ago

Southampton

"After I break your heart please don't bang on about it RTG.

As if I’m bringing my heart when I meet you."

I didnt know you had one

lol

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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago

"Just me that hates that word?

But anyway, would you avoid meeting someone that uses the forums? Do you only meet people that use them? Are you not fussed either way?

I'm not really fussed. I sometimes feel (wrongly or not) that I know someone a little better.

There's a personal red-flag kind-of social awkwardness factor which comes from whether most or all real life interactions or conversations eventually revolve around the forum, the whole forum and nothing but the forum.

Then I'm like "this dude lives and breathes nothing but online stuff."

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By *illy IdolMan 47 weeks ago

Midlands

"Do I hate the word, yes.

Would I meet a forumite, yes.

Do I care, no.

Have others behaviour changed after you have, yes.

Has someone upset you this morning?"

What makes you say that Moo?

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman 47 weeks ago

London

I have never been with a forumite yet (it is my first time hearing that expression) just two socials. I do love the Forum. Even though I'm struggling with English, I love the sense of humour and the beautiful way you all write here. Also, I adore sex texting so I have found some challenging and talented “forumites” to practice with. Finally, I'm going through a difficult moment so being here is an amusing break

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple 47 weeks ago

Back of the bins.

"Just me that hates that word?

But anyway, would you avoid meeting someone that uses the forums? Do you only meet people that use them? Are you not fussed either way?

Don’t mind the name, the ones we’ve met we’ve really got on well with!

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By *ad NannaWoman 47 weeks ago

East London

"Best bit of advice my dear old dear told me was....

Son don't shit where you eat....

As to the term forumite, its just a generic term for the collective...

Mr."

I tend to not shit or eat while I'm having sex

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By *r PantyMan 47 weeks ago

Morpeth

I despise the word 'forumites' to be honest but I'd meet someone based on themselves and not whether or not they use the forums

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By *rancois Du BoisMan 47 weeks ago

Down the back of the sofa.

"Forum survival rules

1/ Don't do it

2/ If you must do it completely ignore them in the forums and at socials because they’re are spies. But they probably have spreadsheets of non-interactions…..so pretend ti flirt sometimes.

3/ when it all goes wrong don’t publicly bang on post after post after post about someone who broke your heart, because it’s boring for everyone else and no one cares

I’d imagine this is basically all your fault anyway, going on previous experiences of you.

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By *ruceyyMan 47 weeks ago

London

"Not really something I’ve even thought about. "

Please start

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By (user no longer on site) OP 47 weeks ago

"Do I hate the word, yes.

Would I meet a forumite, yes.

Do I care, no.

Have others behaviour changed after you have, yes.

Has someone upset you this morning?

What makes you say that Moo?"

I don't know, you don't seem full of cheer.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan 47 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"I have never been with a forumite yet (it is my first time hearing that expression) just two socials."

I like that you said ‘yet’.

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman 47 weeks ago

London

"I have never been with a forumite yet (it is my first time hearing that expression) just two socials.

I like that you said ‘yet’.

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By *illy IdolMan 47 weeks ago

Midlands

"Do I hate the word, yes.

Would I meet a forumite, yes.

Do I care, no.

Have others behaviour changed after you have, yes.

Has someone upset you this morning?

What makes you say that Moo?

I don't know, you don't seem full of cheer. "

Don't read between the lines Mistle Moo

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By *eyond PurityCouple 47 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

We’ve only met one forum user as a couple although when we were both singles we both met a couple and we’ve been to a number of socials.

We love chatting to some forum users and would happily meet them but we probably wouldn’t play with many.

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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago

"Forum survival rules

1/ Don't do it

2/ If you must do it completely ignore them in the forums and at socials because they’re are spies. But they probably have spreadsheets of non-interactions…..so pretend ti flirt sometimes.

3/ when it all goes wrong don’t publicly bang on post after post after post about someone who broke your heart, because it’s boring for everyone else and no one cares

I’d imagine this is basically all your fault anyway, going on previous experiences of you. "

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By *innamon!Woman 47 weeks ago

no matter

"Just me that hates that word?

But anyway, would you avoid meeting someone that uses the forums? Do you only meet people that use them? Are you not fussed either way?

I don't mind the word and I miss the epic forum meet ups that used to happen back in the day....

I don't have a preference but as I go to lot of events advertised on the forums. I guess I meet a lot of forum users "

Yes ! Cali , Did nt you go to-the Masquade ball run by sex on the beach at Jay dees? those forum meets were fun

Lickities birthday and the outing to Eurekas . Was so much fun and people were so kind and friendly to Solo me . I was included and that meant alot.

Dont see many of those oldies anymore on forums i miss the interaction with people i actually met .

As a side note does Seawitch! (One of the many alias ) still post here ?? I wonder how she is doing these days

Trouble is one never knows if those from 2010 onwards are even still alive . So many nice ladies stopped posting.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan 47 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"As a side note does Seawitch! (One of the many alias ) still post here ?? I wonder how she is doing these days …"

I have heard so many stories about Seawitch …

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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago

Though now I said it out loud my brain wriggled and added fornicator

Forumnator: one who posts disruptive comments or threads in a forum.

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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago

Though now I said it out loud my brain wriggled and added fornicator

Forumnator: one who posts disruptive comments or threads in a forum.

Foroll: forum troll.

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By *entlemanFoxMan 47 weeks ago

North East / London

"How about..

Forumian(s) as in musician(s)

Forumee(s) as in employee(s)

I wonder if the latin would be 'Forator'?

Sigh, if only I had paid attention at school.

Oh I like Forator. I'm using this from now on."

My aim is to please!

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By *innamon!Woman 47 weeks ago

no matter

"As a side note does Seawitch! (One of the many alias ) still post here ?? I wonder how she is doing these days …

I have heard so many stories about Seawitch …

There are Many to tell

gosh that girl was hilarious. The early threads were really worth a read . Trouble is with name changes i no longer know who the devil people are and if i have me them .

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By *aitonelMan 47 weeks ago

Liverpool

Though now I said it out loud my brain wriggled and added fornicator

Forumnator: one who posts disruptive comments or threads in a forum.

Foroll: forum troll.

I resemble that remark!

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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago

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By *r_PinkMan 47 weeks ago

london stratford

I have been told I am a forum twat!

and I do not care

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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago

Forumnator: one who posts disruptive comments or threads in a forum.

Foroll: forum troll.

Foru-mole: one who spies and gossips about the goings on here.

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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago

Would I avoid you absolutely not and you seem to post regularly lol

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By *ustBoWoman 47 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I don't mind the term. I can't really think of another term that would suit bar forum user.

Yes I have met people from the forums before,because I liked how they came across on here and liked their profile.I may not have seen them if they hadn't been posting on here and in one case it has worked out brilliant for me

The forums have been good to see who to avoid as well,and who has completely different public and private personas on here.

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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago

Forumnator: one who posts disruptive comments or threads in a forum.

Foroll: forum troll.

Foru-mole: one who spies and gossips about the goings on here.

Foralite - forum elite. Although it sounds a bit like dioralyte, the diarrhoea medication.

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By (user no longer on site) OP 47 weeks ago

Forumnator: one who posts disruptive comments or threads in a forum.

Foroll: forum troll.

Foru-mole: one who spies and gossips about the goings on here.

Foralite - forum elite. Although it sounds a bit like dioralyte, the diarrhoea medication.

It works.

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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago

"Forum survival rules

1/ Don't do it

2/ If you must do it completely ignore them in the forums and at socials because they’re are spies. But they probably have spreadsheets of non-interactions…..so pretend ti flirt sometimes.

3/ when it all goes wrong don’t publicly bang on post after post after post about someone who broke your heart, because it’s boring for everyone else and no one cares

Wow.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman 47 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

"As a side note does Seawitch! (One of the many alias ) still post here ?? I wonder how she is doing these days …

I have heard so many stories about Seawitch …

Annie Wilkes in her last guise.

Well ....same stuff different name.

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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago

Forumnator: one who posts disruptive comments or threads in a forum.

Foroll: forum troll.

Foru-mole: one who spies and gossips about the goings on here.

Foradulent - appears genuine but isn't, and is deceitful.

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By *innamon!Woman 47 weeks ago

no matter

"As a side note does Seawitch! (One of the many alias ) still post here ?? I wonder how she is doing these days …

I have heard so many stories about Seawitch …

Annie Wilkes in her last guise.

Well ....same stuff different name."

Thank you yes of course , great memory you have .. do you keep a black book ? Mrs overall was another prolific name changer . Just checked my veries and so many have gone

Shame

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman 47 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

God yeah ..... you should see what i've written next to your name

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By *illy IdolMan 47 weeks ago

Midlands

Forumnator: one who posts disruptive comments or threads in a forum.

Foroll: forum troll.

Foru-mole: one who spies and gossips about the goings on here.

Foradulent - appears genuine but isn't, and is deceitful."

Foravoid - someone who is hot but not worth the agro

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By *mf123Man 47 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

Its only the green version thats toxic altho the red one will make you act bizzare so be warned when using forumite

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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago

Forumnator: one who posts disruptive comments or threads in a forum.

Foroll: forum troll.

Foru-mole: one who spies and gossips about the goings on here.

Foradulent - appears genuine but isn't, and is deceitful.

Foravoid - someone who is hot but not worth the agro"

Or someone you'd want to disappear in a void ?

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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago

Forumnator: one who posts disruptive comments or threads in a forum.

Foroll: forum troll.

Foru-mole: one who spies and gossips about the goings on here.

Foradulent - appears genuine but isn't, and is deceitful.

Foravoid - someone who is hot but not worth the agro"

Foradore - someone you adore

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan 47 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

Foramore. Someone you are smitten with.

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By *adCherriesCouple 47 weeks ago

Cheshire/Northwest

I think most fabsters rarely use the forums because they are to busy fucking. Out of our circle we are the only ones who occasionally post on the forums.

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By *innamon!Woman 47 weeks ago

no matter

"God yeah ..... you should see what i've written next to your name

.. dont you dish any dirt !!!

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By *imi_RougeWoman 47 weeks ago

Portsmouth

"I think it would very much depend on the individual.

Majority are too far away so it wouldn't happen anyway.

I feel like some are just game players and pit people against each other or try and get round as many as possible.

And some I've heard the other side of the story...

Saying that, my most successful fab foray was a result of the forums, be controlled me after seeing some of my comments. "

Ugh, dickhead just pointed out my autocorrect fail.

He CONTACTED. not a snowballs chance in hell of controlling me. I think I'm going back to bed.

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By *imi_RougeWoman 47 weeks ago

Portsmouth

"I …..

And that’s the problem with meeting a forum user, you just hope beyond all hope nothing would change, but sometimes it might.

Surely it wouldn't even cross your mind, if you haven't behaved that way?

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By *eordieJeansCouple 47 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Forumites sounds a lot better than saying people with far too much time on their hands.

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By *imi_RougeWoman 47 weeks ago

Portsmouth

"when it all goes wrong don’t publicly bang on post after post after post about someone who broke your heart, because it’s boring for everyone else and no one cares

Harsh. But true.

And really quite awkward when the other person is still posting here too."

Makes you wonder what would happen if some of the obvious couples split up... would it be like real life, people taking sides, it getting ugly and then sabotaging any new friendships formed...

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By *rHotNottsMan 47 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Forum survival rules

1/ Don't do it

2/ If you must do it completely ignore them in the forums and at socials because they’re are spies. But they probably have spreadsheets of non-interactions…..so pretend ti flirt sometimes.

3/ when it all goes wrong don’t publicly bang on post after post after post about someone who broke your heart, because it’s boring for everyone else and no one cares

I’d imagine this is basically all your fault anyway, going on previous experiences of you. "

Wanna expand on that ? Or is just a generic simp?

I don't recall ever meeting you. But if I did I sought I’d remember you

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By *imi_RougeWoman 47 weeks ago

Portsmouth

"Forum survival rules

1/ Don't do it

2/ If you must do it completely ignore them in the forums and at socials because they’re are spies. But they probably have spreadsheets of non-interactions…..so pretend ti flirt sometimes.

3/ when it all goes wrong don’t publicly bang on post after post after post about someone who broke your heart, because it’s boring for everyone else and no one cares

I’d imagine this is basically all your fault anyway, going on previous experiences of you.

Wanna expand on that ? Or is just a generic simp?

I don't recall ever meeting you. But if I did I sought I’d remember you "

Pretty sure he's not your type lol

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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago

I'm not too fussed. But I am definitely put off people from seeing them around the forums, and seeing that actions don't match words etc. I like the forums in that way because you get such a good idea about the person which can kind of make your mind up on them.

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By *mf123Man 47 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

Forumite tips ignored until i see chimps drinking tea again

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By *rHotNottsMan 47 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Forum survival rules

1/ Don't do it

2/ If you must do it completely ignore them in the forums and at socials because they’re are spies. But they probably have spreadsheets of non-interactions…..so pretend ti flirt sometimes.

3/ when it all goes wrong don’t publicly bang on post after post after post about someone who broke your heart, because it’s boring for everyone else and no one cares

I’d imagine this is basically all your fault anyway, going on previous experiences of you.

Wanna expand on that ? Or is just a generic simp?

I don't recall ever meeting you. But if I did I sought I’d remember you

Pretty sure he's not your type lol"

You never know. I’ve a new naughty step I’m desperate to try out.

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By *illy IdolMan 47 weeks ago

Midlands

"when it all goes wrong don’t publicly bang on post after post after post about someone who broke your heart, because it’s boring for everyone else and no one cares

Harsh. But true.

And really quite awkward when the other person is still posting here too.

Makes you wonder what would happen if some of the obvious couples split up... would it be like real life, people taking sides, it getting ugly and then sabotaging any new friendships formed..."

For a very select few, yes.

For the majority of people who use the forums it's just a bit of fun. They couldn't care about the politics of others.

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By *aitonelMan 47 weeks ago

Liverpool

"when it all goes wrong don’t publicly bang on post after post after post about someone who broke your heart, because it’s boring for everyone else and no one cares

Harsh. But true.

And really quite awkward when the other person is still posting here too.

Makes you wonder what would happen if some of the obvious couples split up... would it be like real life, people taking sides, it getting ugly and then sabotaging any new friendships formed...

For a very select few, yes.

For the majority of people who use the forums it's just a bit of fun. They couldn't care about the politics of others."

What he said! As with real life friends, unless I know specifically one of them was a twat to cause the split and me not to want to be friends with them for an action, I'm impartial. They have the issues with each other, I don't.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan 47 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"What he said! As with real life friends, unless I know specifically one of them was a twat to cause the split and me not to want to be friends with them for an action, I'm impartial. They have the issues with each other, I don't."

Well said Kai.

*high-five!

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By *illy IdolMan 47 weeks ago

Midlands

Well said Kai.

*high-five!"

He's basically just reworded what I said. Talk about favouritism

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By (user no longer on site) OP 47 weeks ago

"when it all goes wrong don’t publicly bang on post after post after post about someone who broke your heart, because it’s boring for everyone else and no one cares

Harsh. But true.

And really quite awkward when the other person is still posting here too.

Makes you wonder what would happen if some of the obvious couples split up... would it be like real life, people taking sides, it getting ugly and then sabotaging any new friendships formed...

For a very select few, yes.

For the majority of people who use the forums it's just a bit of fun. They couldn't care about the politics of others."

Sometimes the politics is fun

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan 47 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"He's basically just reworded what I said. Talk about favouritism "

He said it last. I’m too lazy to scroll back up.

you too, Willy.

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By *mf123Man 47 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

"when it all goes wrong don’t publicly bang on post after post after post about someone who broke your heart, because it’s boring for everyone else and no one cares

Harsh. But true.

And really quite awkward when the other person is still posting here too.

Makes you wonder what would happen if some of the obvious couples split up... would it be like real life, people taking sides, it getting ugly and then sabotaging any new friendships formed...

For a very select few, yes.

For the majority of people who use the forums it's just a bit of fun. They couldn't care about the politics of others.

Sometimes the politics is fun

"
you vote farage didnt ya

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By *illy IdolMan 47 weeks ago

Midlands

"He's basically just reworded what I said. Talk about favouritism

He said it last. I’m too lazy to scroll back up.

you too, Willy."

* hi five!

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By *rancois Du BoisMan 47 weeks ago

Down the back of the sofa.

"Forum survival rules

1/ Don't do it

2/ If you must do it completely ignore them in the forums and at socials because they’re are spies. But they probably have spreadsheets of non-interactions…..so pretend ti flirt sometimes.

3/ when it all goes wrong don’t publicly bang on post after post after post about someone who broke your heart, because it’s boring for everyone else and no one cares

I’d imagine this is basically all your fault anyway, going on previous experiences of you.

Wanna expand on that ? Or is just a generic simp?

I don't recall ever meeting you. But if I did I sought I’d remember you "

Oh you’ve met me, and I did not like the way you conducted yourself that day or the second time I met you. I expect the reason you don’t remember me is because I’m not your target audience.

Which I’m glad of.

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By (user no longer on site) OP 47 weeks ago

I love Sunday afternoons

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By *ittlebirdWoman 47 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Standard Sunday then

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By *eordieJeansCouple 47 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Cba to read. What happened?

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By *ora the explorerWoman 47 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"I love Sunday afternoons

. Funny thread to read that was

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By *aitonelMan 47 weeks ago

Liverpool

Well said Kai.

*high-five!

He's basically just reworded what I said. Talk about favouritism "

Thats how the forum works! One person says something and then the prettier one further down says it exactly, then they get credit for saying it.

Usually it's one with boobs, I do not have boobs so am quite surprised by this outcome.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan 47 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

. Funny thread to read that was

I’m gonna read it all over again.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple 47 weeks ago

Southampton

Well said Kai.

*high-five!

He's basically just reworded what I said. Talk about favouritism

Thats how the forum works! One person says something and then the prettier one further down says it exactly, then they get credit for saying it.

Usually it's one with boobs, I do not have boobs so am quite surprised by this outcome. "

No but you are pretty

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By *ad NannaWoman 47 weeks ago

East London

The loveliest anal sex I had was with someone from these forums.

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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago

"The loveliest anal sex I had was with someone from these forums."

You're welcome

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By *aitonelMan 47 weeks ago

Liverpool

"The loveliest anal sex I had was with someone from these forums.

You're welcome

Was she gentle with you? Hope she didn't leave you with too much of a gape

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By *illy IdolMan 47 weeks ago

Midlands

Well said Kai.

*high-five!

He's basically just reworded what I said. Talk about favouritism

Thats how the forum works! One person says something and then the prettier one further down says it exactly, then they get credit for saying it.

Usually it's one with boobs, I do not have boobs so am quite surprised by this outcome. "

You're deluded if you think you're prettier than me.

Maybe it's your penis

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By *ad NannaWoman 47 weeks ago

East London

"The loveliest anal sex I had was with someone from these forums.

You're welcome

Was she gentle with you? Hope she didn't leave you with too much of a gape"

He rode me like a rodeo bull

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By *aitonelMan 47 weeks ago

Liverpool

Well said Kai.

*high-five!

He's basically just reworded what I said. Talk about favouritism

Thats how the forum works! One person says something and then the prettier one further down says it exactly, then they get credit for saying it.

Usually it's one with boobs, I do not have boobs so am quite surprised by this outcome.

You're deluded if you think you're prettier than me.

Maybe it's your penis"

Well my penis too! The results don't lie, hence the quote

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By *inky ChefMan 47 weeks ago

Norwich

I would, but won't travel 100 miles for a coffee.

Nobody is around from my area ever.

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By *affron40Woman 47 weeks ago

manchester

I’ve loved meeting many forumites at socials. But for sex?? Nah. Way too much bother.

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman 47 weeks ago

London

Forumnator: one who posts disruptive comments or threads in a forum.

Foroll: forum troll.

Foru-mole: one who spies and gossips about the goings on here.

Foradulent - appears genuine but isn't, and is deceitful.

Foravoid - someone who is hot but not worth the agro

Foradore - someone you adore

Btw

Forapart: they met but now they ignore each other

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple 47 weeks ago

Southampton

Hahaha

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan 47 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"Forapart: they met but now they ignore each other "

Oh, I like that one.

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By *ife NinjaMan 47 weeks ago

Dunfermline

I love my forum friends and have met a few

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple 47 weeks ago

Southampton

"Forapart: they met but now they ignore each other

Oh, I like that one."

Great minds think alike lol

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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago

I use my profile for what I specifically seek and the forums to pick people brains, play the long game and find the swingers from the "show and tellers".

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By *imi_RougeWoman 47 weeks ago

Portsmouth

"Forum survival rules

1/ Don't do it

2/ If you must do it completely ignore them in the forums and at socials because they’re are spies. But they probably have spreadsheets of non-interactions…..so pretend ti flirt sometimes.

3/ when it all goes wrong don’t publicly bang on post after post after post about someone who broke your heart, because it’s boring for everyone else and no one cares

I’d imagine this is basically all your fault anyway, going on previous experiences of you.

Wanna expand on that ? Or is just a generic simp?

I don't recall ever meeting you. But if I did I sought I’d remember you

Pretty sure he's not your type lol

You never know. I’ve a new naughty step I’m desperate to try out. "

In... Let me just grab my cane!

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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago

Forumnator: one who posts disruptive comments or threads in a forum.

Foroll: forum troll.

Foru-mole: one who spies and gossips about the goings on here.

Foradulent - appears genuine but isn't, and is deceitful.

Foravoid - someone who is hot but not worth the agro

Foradore - someone you adore

Btw

Forapart: they met but now they ignore each other "

^ more like Forgot

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By *atnip make me purrWoman 47 weeks ago

Reading

Ive meet a couple but mostly meet non forum users.

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By *imi_RougeWoman 47 weeks ago

Portsmouth

"Forum survival rules

1/ Don't do it

2/ If you must do it completely ignore them in the forums and at socials because they’re are spies. But they probably have spreadsheets of non-interactions…..so pretend ti flirt sometimes.

3/ when it all goes wrong don’t publicly bang on post after post after post about someone who broke your heart, because it’s boring for everyone else and no one cares

I’d imagine this is basically all your fault anyway, going on previous experiences of you.

Wanna expand on that ? Or is just a generic simp?

I don't recall ever meeting you. But if I did I sought I’d remember you

Oh you’ve met me, and I did not like the way you conducted yourself that day or the second time I met you. I expect the reason you don’t remember me is because I’m not your target audience.

Which I’m glad of. "

Ooh...

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple 47 weeks ago

Southampton

Forumnator: one who posts disruptive comments or threads in a forum.

Foroll: forum troll.

Foru-mole: one who spies and gossips about the goings on here.

Foradulent - appears genuine but isn't, and is deceitful.

Foravoid - someone who is hot but not worth the agro

Foradore - someone you adore

Btw

Forapart: they met but now they ignore each other

^ more like Forgot"

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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago

…..

Btw

Forapart: they met but now they ignore each other

^ more like Forgot

Forgot : they met but now they ignore each other

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple 47 weeks ago

Southampton

…..

Btw

Forapart: they met but now they ignore each other

^ more like Forgot

Forgot : they met but now they ignore each other

I'm entirely forgettable lol

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By *midnight-Woman 47 weeks ago

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I've met a few

Not met a bad one yet

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By *aitonelMan 47 weeks ago

Liverpool

"I've met a few

Not met a bad one yet "

Challenge accepted!

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By *illy IdolMan 47 weeks ago

Midlands

Interesting thread OP.

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By *illy IdolMan 47 weeks ago

Midlands

"Just me that hates that word?

But anyway, would you avoid meeting someone that uses the forums? Do you only meet people that use them? Are you not fussed either way?

We never asked your thoughts on this matter. What about you?

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